Have you tried means by which you can achieve a harder erection? I've tried everything under the sun. I have,... I started off with, you know, the tablets, so I've tried Viagra and Cialis, we tried that, and they had - all that I would get out of that was a semi erection for 24 to 48 hours, it was just no point to it at all. And then I went along and had - after that, ... trying every dose of that from the smallest to the highest, we went along to see a guy ... at the Royal who's a nurse there who deals with those areas, and he has the injections, or Caverject, and I'm not sure what the other - the other type one that only - so Caverject was no good and I tried from the lowest dose to the highest dose. I had a long partner, this was back early to my accident, I had a long term partner who was very forgiving with me and ... I tried every injection from the lowest to the highest and it didn't do it, so the guy even said - put me on this other drug which he said they don't even use in paraplegics anymore because it had the problem of giving people erections for too long so they were having to come into hospital to get rid of them and I had that one and there was still - from the lowest to highest and there was still no effect so then I moved onto what's called the penis pump. So I've used that one with very limited success in that, you know, you get - you get an erection out of it but you get a big - it takes about - it took about forty five minutes to get an erection that way and that time of just pumping the thing and in that time all romance has definitely gone and - and at the end of it you end up with an erection that is blue and red and looks like it's bruised and it's not - not very attractive at all, and then - and then whilst we were having intercourse, ... that was all well and good, but within about - it was only about two minutes, if even that, that the ring that was holding all the blood around the penis, because of the motions and the movement it just - it moved and the blood flowed and the erection had gone down to a level that it was no longer sufficient, but it wasn't - it didn't go down far enough that it was - that we were able to get the ring off, so we then spent another thirty minutes trying to get the ring off. So we had like an hour and a half, or an hour and fifteen or whatever it is, and for two minutes of intercourse and so that didn't get tried very often because it was that frustrating and my - my penis looked extremely - looked bruised for the next two, three days and it was just - it didn't look good when I was in the shower at all.