The facts
8A detailed statement of agreed facts was put before the sentencing judge, as was a schedule of the Facebook messages which were, largely, the subject of the offending behaviour.
9The victim was, at the time of the offending, a 14-year old girl who lived across the road from the 31-year old respondent. The victim invited the respondent to be her Facebook friend in late August 2011. There were also communications between them by phone and text message.
10Early in the communications, on 31 August 2011, the respondent and the victim asked each other's age and each responded truthfully. The respondent used his real name. The Facebook photograph he used was apparently contemporary. After the revelation about their respective ages, the respondent sent the following messages (to each of which the victim responded):
"yes u look older but u look good lol...u r beautiful as well ... if ur not comfortable chatting with me bcos of my age I do understand u .. I jst want u to b comfortable that's all .. friends sounds good ... till u grow up another 5 years lol".
11On the same day 31 August 2011, the respondent impressed upon the victim the need for secrecy in the following messages (to each of which the victim responded):
"does [your parents] know u talking to me? ... kool we talk here on chat or by inbox k ... ur parents not to know is that k with u we r friends on facebook no big deal."
12The content of the messages began as social chat but soon developed a sexual element. The respondent referred to kissing, kissing involving tongues, French kissing and the victim being sexy and hot. He asked the victim whether she wanted to kiss him in the morning, whether she wanted help showering, whether there might be "sexual things" between them, whether the victim has seen a penis "in life" and if so whether she touched it and where this took place. He also expressed a desire to kiss and hug her, see her and touch her "arse".
13The respondent continued to encourage the victim to keep their communications secret. Examples include:
"make sure but u dnt tell anyone bout us- that we r talking."
"Make sure that no one know that we talk together dnt trust no one."
"cos I dnt want u to b in troublr [sic]
u look great and so beautiful"
14There are a few instances when a meeting is referred to. On one occasion when the victim expressed a wish to meet the respondent he responded:
"it will work but not now
maybe in 4 to 5 years"
15On another occasion he responded to such a suggestion in the following terms:
"I do like u
We will talk face to face but no now
In the right time"
16The high point of a suggested meeting appears in the following message from the respondent:
"I AM ALONE AT HOME COME SO I CAN KISS U
LOL
HEHEHEHE"
17There are exchanges about what time the victim plans to leave for school and when the respondent plans to leave for work on particular days and what they will do if they see each other. The plan is to wave at each other, unless there are others around in which case they will not.
18During the online communications of Thursday 1 September 2011 the respondent and victim conversed about having an arm wrestle with the respondent stating (pp 14-15):
"if u win kiss me and if I win I kiss u ... but not on the cheek ... I am sure u wont mind to kis me ... of course I am sure cost u wont let me stop ... mmmmmm I would be able to taste ur lips and ur tongue."
19In that communication the respondent further stated:
"- will u like to kiss me;
- u cute yes I wana kiss u and hug u;
- ur r hot and so sexy;
- ur r so hot ... I am serious, ill kiss u anytime, I like ur type u r so hot and sexy I am serious
- u r so hot no lie, do u like to kiss me? b honest; and
- ...I like u ... or I wouldn't look at u and keep showing u that I am looking at u."
20In continuing this conversation the respondent said (p 19), "its not embarrassing, what time u leave home". The victim asked: "why do you wanna now?" to which the respondent replied, "cos I want to know ... to see u and see me". The respondent then reminded the victim, "make sure but u dnt tell anyone bout us that we r talking ... and if we r outside and lots of people out dnt have to say hi if there is people outside we pretend we dnt know each other?
21Further the respondent asked the victim whether she was in bed (to which he stated "mmm nice") and what she wears to bed. The victim replied that she wears a bra and undies to which the respondent said:
"wow it's a turn on ... sexy ... is so hot ur body u have a sexy bum ... u r all sexy and hot" (p 21).
22The victim asked the respondent:
"do you feel weird that your like 16 years older than me? or have you done this before?" and he replies: "no it's the 1st time, I dnt feel weird dnt know why cos I dnt think bout the age between u and me, I have young heart, do u feel weird?".
23The respondent then brought the conversation back to the topic of the victim's undergarments stating:
"do u wear normal undies ... mmm so hot, ur undies, r u wearing a bra ... well you have a sexy breast by the way ... hot tits and when I see u cos u always wear sexy tops, thy showed ... what size urs lol" (pp 24-25)
24The victim appears to be offended by these questions, stating: "omg, did you really just ask that?"
25Mobile telephone numbers were exchanged during this communication on 1 September 2011 and the respondent then offered to purchase credit for the victim's phone. Subsequent to the exchange of numbers, they also communicated by text message and telephone conversations.
26During online communications on Friday 2 September 2011, the respondent continued to converse with the victim in a sexual context stating, "...r u slow when u kiss as well; p ur tongue is long by the way mmmmmm ;p ... I want ur tongue ;p ...Do u want my tongue; p?"
27The respondent re-engaged in further communications with the victim inquiring about her intentions and stated ( p31): "I wana kiss u 1st if u dnt mind ... do u wna kiss me, french kiss ... do you wana try it, up to u, its k if u don't want :O". He later told the victim that there was no rush. On 3 September 2011 he asked her if she might fall in love with him.
28During online communications on Sunday 4 September 2011, the respondent engaged the victim in conversation about her and her friends' sexual behaviour in the following terms:
"relationship ... serious of for fun ... for fun as sexual relation ... like how sexual ... jst asking, so ur not into that stuff like ur friends ... u will only do that in a serious relation?"
29The victim responded by saying:
"umm I'm only 14 so not at the moment".
30They also engaged in conversation about the victim cleaning her bedroom:
"...if I am helping u we might end up in bed lol ... of course I will keep u warm".
31Further into the conversation the respondent stated:
"what r u wearing ... do u need help [showering] ... [I'm] naked ... have you seen a guy thing ... have u see a guy thing in life? ... a dick?"
32This conversation continued for some time with the respondent asking the victim specific details such as whether she touched the penis that she saw, whether the individual asked the victim to touch it and where this took place.
33The conversation then again returned to the respondent inquiring about what underwear the victim is wearing and what colour. The respondent then reminded the victim to keep their communications secret:
"make sure that no one know that we talk together/dnt trust no one ... cos I dnt want u to b in troublr".
34On Monday 5 September 2011 communications continued with the respondent again making sexually inappropriate comments, such as:
- Ur voice is so sexy;
- kiss me, on my mouth; and
- how was the sexual class today.
35Between 30 August and 5 September 2011 there were 1,712 online communications between the respondent and the victim and an indeterminate number of instant chat messages. The sentencing judge found that there was no evidence of any suggestive or pornographic material passing from the respondent to the victim during telephone conversations
36The police became aware of the communications and applied for a search warrant which was executed at about 6.45 am on 9 September 2011. The respondent's laptop and mobile phone were seized. He was arrested and charged and released on bail. He complied with bail conditions up until the sentence. From the date of sentence he has complied with his conditions of parole.