4 It was in this context that, on Saturday, 3 April 2004, he came to the complainant's home in the middle of the day, unannounced. Two of the complainant's friends were there and, when the applicant told the complainant that he wanted to talk to her, they enquired whether she wanted them to stay. The complainant effectively told them that there was no need for them to remain because she was not apprehensive about the applicant. In her evidence she said that she accepted that his purpose in being there was just to talk. Because the applicant and the complainant gave different versions of what occurred thereafter, and given that this difference is relevant to a principal issue before us, it will be necessary to summarise the respective accounts of those events. The complainant said that after the friends left the applicant started questioning her about sexual matters. As he had done on other occasions, she said, he asked whom she had been seeing and whether she had any new relationships and, in particular, whether she had sex with anybody. The complainant explained in her evidence that she thought that if she simply said "yes" the applicant would go away, so she said: "Yes, I have and now go away". She said that the applicant became very upset about this response and made a rush at her. She said that he more or less propelled her backwards from the lounge room across the hallway into the bedroom. He was saying that he wanted to have sex and, as he was pushing her, she said "Look, anything that happens in this room is against my will, Tony. I don't want anything to do with you anymore. If you do anything at all it will be rape." The complainant said that he was saying things like "come on, just one more time"; he looked distraught and eventually pushed the complainant towards the end of the bed and tried to remove her clothing and began to fondle and suck her breasts. The complainant said that he then "undid his trousers and I think he pulled down the underpants he was wearing and he had an erection and he grabbed me by the head and forced my face towards it and onto his penis. He was saying 'just suck me, suck me', or something like that. He moved [it] in my mouth several times". She that after a relatively short period of time the applicant ejaculated in her mouth. Not long thereafter, the applicant left.