4 The complainant's evidence was, broadly, to the following effect. She and the appellant had once been in a relationship. During the course of that relationship, the appellant became violent towards her. They separated, and after October 2002 the relationship between them had, so far as she was concerned, ceased. However, as they had had a child together, born shortly before the separation, the appellant would come and visit his daughter. Just before the events in question, the appellant, the complainant and others had been to the Speedway. The appellant had been drinking. She was angry about the manner of his driving when he was driving her and some of the children home. Once they had arrived at her house, she expressed her anger to him. He left the house, but returned about 15 minutes later. He then spoke abusively to her, accusing her of flirting and promiscuity. She said that, although she was angry, she tried to calm the appellant down and to apologise so that he would not become violent towards her.