"Q. Let's not blow the whole lot.
A. ...(indistinct)...
Q. Absolutely, absolutely. So let's get this sorted, Alex. We're not your enemy, mate. All right? People - - look, people in the general public - - could - - you've got your arms folded and you're - - you know, you're on the defensive.
A. That's the way I normally sit, sorry.
Q. Well, you know.
A. ...(indistinct)...
Q. Okay.
A. Yeah, okay.
Q. All the time things go wrong. Okay?
A. Yeah.
Q. Look, when you're doing this work - - I mean, you know what you've been through. When you're doing this work for 15 years, we come across people all the time that - - they set out to do one thing and another thing happens. Now, I don't agree with what happened, Alex, but it happened, all right, and you can't get over that and you have done for all these years but now the world's come crashing down a - - about you with it but that's not the end of it there. All right? It's not over yet. Let's work through this together and we will help you. I give you my word about that but don't just sit there and say, 'I don't know.' You know we're past that, otherwise we wouldn't have arrested you on the way and it would have been just an interview. Now, what went wrong - - Alex?
A. I don't remember. I'm serious.
Q. Alex - -
A. Yeah?
Q. - - in all my time in dealing with these situations - and remember what I told you, we know what - - we know you did it, okay, it's just a matter of what happened. Now, in all my time in dealing with this, I have never ever - - and I've been all over the world doing bits and pieces with this, right, not just in Australia. Okay?
A. Yeah.
Q. Learning and understanding and training and working in relation to things that go wrong like this - -
A. Yeah.
Q. - - and in all of that time we've never found anyone anywhere who's got a complete memory blank. I can understand why you're trying to block it out and I can understand why you want to think you can walk away from this but you can't walk away from this. All right? Now, I'm not suggesting that you can remember every darned thing that happened but don't sit there and give me disrespect. At least show us the respect - -
A. I'm not saying - -
Q. - - that we've been to you.
A. I'm not trying to say that I disrespect you. I don't remember it. I'm serious.
Q. Yeah. You may not remember a lot of things, Alex, but you remember some things. It just doesn't happen that way that you can forget everything, Alex. It's just - - you know, don't put yourself in a position - - don't put yourself in a position, Alex, that I think you're going to put yourself into, that you are at the moment. Okay?
A. What's that?
Q. If you - - in basically letting the jury decide your intention here. Okay? If things went well, you need to tell us that. We understand. Do we agree with what happened? No, we don't, Alex, but what are you going to do? Are you going to - - you've got some things going on in your life now. How long have you been with Carol for?"
A. 3, 4 ... (indistinct) ...
Q. And how's that going?
A. Fantastic.
Q. All right. Where do you think that's going to go after this?"