These offences were committed against your daughter (S). You had lived with her mother in a de facto relationship for about 17 years and had three children together. (S) is the eldest, [born in 1993]. The two younger children are boys.
These matters came to light after an incident on 31 October 2008 which was reported to police that night and following which (S) made a statement to police as to other events.
Charge 1 of incest represents an occasion of penile vaginal incest in 1999. The incident was described by (S) as occurring at [the family home]. She described it as an occasion when her mother had gone to the fish shop and you had taken her inside, she said on a pretext, having said you needed her help. She says you picked her up and carried her inside the house, lifted her up and asked her to reach for something off a shelf, then told her to lay down on the floor in her brothers' room and, she said, you put your penis inside her.
This description was given by her in a tape recorded statement to police on 1 November 2008. Her memory and description of this incident was limited. She was asked if she was about seven at the time and said yes. You denied there being any such incident when interviewed by police, and have not admitted any recall of it since, but in May last year you indicated a plea of guilty to this charge.
Argument arose during the hearing before me as to whether I should make a finding that it was more likely than not that this event occurred in 2000 rather than 1999, when (S) was aged seven and not six, her birthday being in late January. ... In the context of this case, it matters little whether she was six or seven years old at the time of this incident, but if I had to decide I would be inclined to find that she was seven. At either age, six or seven, the offence would be a gross violation of a young girl and an even greater betrayal of one for whose welfare you were responsible as her father.
Charge 2 is a representative charge reflecting three occasions of penile vaginal incest occurring at the family's home ... between 1 January and 31 October 2008.
The primary incident under this charge is the last occasion of offending, being the incident on the night of 31 October 2008, which was reported to police shortly afterwards. You and (S)'s mother had gone out, and (S) was home by herself, her brothers being elsewhere. You returned home alone not long afterwards. She heard your car pull up and she left the house by the back door and went to the neighbours. You saw her go and followed and told her to come home with you, saying that you needed her because you didn't have your keys. She says that you yanked on her to turn her around, and also grabbed her by the hair. Once back inside your house, you made her go to her room, told her to hurry up and take off her pants, and forced her to have sexual intercourse with you on the floor in front of the wardrobe. She was crying and screaming and telling you how low it was of you to do this to your daughter, and that this time she would definitely tell her mother. During the course of this you hit her with the back of your hand on the left side of her face, which is the basis of Charge 3 of common assault.
In telling of this event, she said she knew what was going to happen when she heard you arrive home because of what had occurred before.
Charge 2 is brought as representative of two other incidents of similar offending. One was on an occasion when a number of her friends had come over in your absence to the family house, but you returned and were angry at their presence, and they left. She says you ordered her to her room and had sexual intercourse with her. Secondly, this charge represents an incident occurring when her friend had come over and then left and which is again described in her interview with police as leading to you having sexual intercourse with her once done with her.
Charge 4 is another charge of incest reflecting one occasion of digital vaginal penetration occurring at the family's home, again alleged to be between 1 January and 31 October 2008, but in fact on the same night as the second incident of penile vaginal penetration represented by Charge 2. This was the night when she had had friends over who all left on your unexpected return. She says you demanded to know who was in the house or who ran out the back, that you then said to get to her bedroom, and what she describes occurring was, in her words, that you 'fingered her' first before penile penetration, by inserting your finger into her vagina. She says you did this because you were angry because she was home with friends and you asked whether she was sleeping with these boys.
At the time of all of the events of Charges 2, 3 and 4, she was aged 15. You were 31 by the last occasion; possibly 30 on count 4 and the earlier occasions that are part of the representative count.
All of these matters came to light following the incident of 31 October 2008 because as you were forcing her to return home with you from the neighbours house she had managed to call her aunt on her mobile phone, and her aunt heard (S) screaming before the call was hung up. Her aunt, her mother's sister, drove to your house shortly afterwards and saw your car driving away. She went inside to see (S), found the door locked and (S) crying hysterically, and eventually elicited that you had hit her and had been having sex with her. She rang (S)'s mother and then drove (S) to her own home, despite (S)'s mother saying that she didn't believe the accusation. (S)'s aunt reported the matter to police.
You were arrested and interviewed the next day. You at first said that there had been something that had happened only once on the bed in (S)'s bedroom, but there had been no penetration of her. Later in the interview, you admitted two incidents, one the previous night and one about a month earlier, in which you said that you were lying with her and had rubbed your penis up against her with her jeans and undies off, and you pulled your pants down to do that, and you said that you had ejaculated on the carpet but again denied that there had been penetration.
In relation to the events of the previous night, that is 31 October 2008, you said in your interview with police that, having driven your partner to the pokies venue, you suggested you return home to swap over cars to prepare for a trip the following day, but when you got home you realised that you did not have your keys, walked around to the side of the house and saw (S) going over the fence to the next door neighbours'. You said you followed her there to get her to come home to unlock the door. You admitted that you grabbed her by the hair because she went to run off and you needed her to unlock the door. You denied that you had sexual activity with her which included penetration. You agreed that she had screamed and told you, 'How could you do this to your own daughter?' and you admitted that you 'back-handed' her on the left cheek.
You were asked about her allegations as to previous times. You admitted coming home for your wallet on one occasion and finding (S) there with friends who were in the back yard and that, you say you 'virtually hit the roof' and sent them all on their way because you had not expected to find the house full of blokes. You denied the allegation of finger or penile penetration on that night. You denied an incident when her girlfriend stayed overnight. You denied an occasion when her mother had gone to the fish and chip shop.
As to the two occasions that you admitted, you said that you 'cannot fix' that, using words acknowledging that you knew you had done wrong. You denied that it was due to a sexual urge that comes over you. You said you had 'virtually' done it in spite because there was an issue with her of her not doing things or going out with the family. You said that you knew you had hurt her, 'probably even traumatised her for the rest of her life.' You volunteered that in your own words. This I take to be remorse as far as you could express it for what you had done.