[In] my sentence, I commented that children have an amazing capacity to love their parents, even when they commit crimes against them. However, in my opinion, the importance of general deterrence in such cases must override the forgiveness of the victim. In R v Rowe,[11] the [New South Wales Court of Criminal Appeal] said:
"This Court has said more than once that the attitude of the complainant cannot govern the approach to be taken in sentencing. ... [W]hilst forgiveness by the victim may be relevant in some cases, exceptional caution is required in allowing such evidence to be given in relation to domestic violence type offences. The present offence fell within the same category, where the nature of the relationship between the offender and the victim is such that the victim will frequently, and clearly contrary to their own interests and welfare, forgive their attacker. The importance of general deterrence in such cases overrides any minor relevance that evidence of forgiveness might have."[12]
I considered that the offences in this case fell into the same category as in Rowe. The relationship between a child and a father is such that the child victim frequently, and contrary to his own interests and welfare, forgives [the] attacker. This case not only involved mutual masturbation and oral sex, but also an incident where the accused penetrated the complainant's anus with his penis.
Apparently, the accused's partner is still supportive of him and I imagine that this would put considerable pressure on the victim to forgive his father. It is also possible that his church group has influenced him. However, given the nature of the offence and the relationship between the parties, I considered that it was not appropriate to take his attitude towards the accused into account when sentencing the accused. I consider that the importance of general deterrence in such a case overrode any relevance that this forgiveness might have.