austlii:cth/FedCFamC1A/2025/209
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FedCFamC1A
2025-11-14
Original judgment source is linked above.
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under a pseudonym has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
· The mother and father immigrated from Country A to Brisbane in 2008 and commenced cohabitation in 2000.
· The parties were married in 2011 and separated on a final basis in March 2018.
· Since 2018, the father has been partnered with Ms F (married in 2023).
· Since 2019, the mother has been partnered with Mr M.
· Both parents have health and psychological challenges. The mother suffers from chronic pain and depression and is in receipt of a disability pension. She lives in rented accommodation and has not worked since 2020 due to health issues.
· The father receives psychological counselling and does not work full-time due to mental health challenges. He has assumed a stay-at-home parenting role and is actively involved in the youngest child's education and psychological care.
It is of paramount importance that moving forward the children's caregivers prioritise the children's needs for safety, stability and security and being protected from any further conflict. Both parents and their partners need to support each other to understand the children's unique needs and to manage what may become further challenges.
The dynamic between the parents is highly likely to be having a negative impact on the children, it is creating stress for the children and at the very least is perpetuating their difficulties with learning and attention at school due to the stress of their home life.
When orders were made for the father to make the necessary arrangements for [the younger child] and the mother to make the necessary arrangements for [X], it appears there was less conflict.
The father gave evidence that he is prepared to continue to fund fully the ongoing tutoring for [Y]. It makes sense in my view that all of the arrangements should fall to him.
...for as long as is recommended by the school and/or any further Queensland assessment undertaken, the father will be solely responsible for making ongoing arrangements for the tutoring as required by [the younger child], including the payment of the tutoring. Additionally, for as long as psychological treatment is required for [Y], the father will be solely responsible for making those arrangements, including payment.
26. That the mother have sole parental responsibility and sole decision making for major long-term issues for the children, to the exclusion of the father save as provided for in these Orders, and in the exercise of this parental responsibility, the mother will (unless in an emergency):
- Communicate by email with the father about a decision to be made, and the options (if any);
- Consider any feedback provided to the mother by email from the father, should this feedback be given within a reasonable time; and
- Inform the father by email of the decision made within seven (7) days of the decision being made.
Ground 1:
The Court failed to consider the Respondent's repeated non-compliance with past orders, including orders requiring psychiatric treatment and parenting programs, and her last-minute disruption of trial proceedings.
Ground 2:
The Court disregarded expert medical evidence ([Dr D], 2022 Medico-Legal Report), which identified significant psychiatric concerns, substance use, and parenting dysfunction.
Ground 3:
The Court failed to adequately assess risk to the children posed by the mother's conduct and psychological state.
Ground 4:
The Court failed to properly assess the history and impact of parental conflict and its cause.
Ground 5:
The Court gave excessive weight to [X's] expressed wishes, without properly assessing the influence of the mother's manipulation.
Ground 6:
The Court failed to properly consider the risk posed by the mother's partner, who is the subject of a Domestic Violence Order (DVO).
Ground 7:
The Court's decision is inconsistent with subsequent orders made by Judge Goodchild which gave the applicant significant responsibility for the children, including full responsibility for [Y's] medical, psychological and education for a period of 13 months without the Respondent's involvement.
Ground 8:
The Court erred in concluding that the Respondent would exercise superior parental judgement, despite extensive evidence of her repeated failure to meet the children's essential medical, educational, and psychological needs - including refusal to follow professional advice, obstruction of ordered support services, and excessive school absenteeism while the children were in her care. This concern was significant enough that the Court itself made orders compelling school attendance, yet still found the Respondent fit to hold sole parental responsibility - a finding inconsistent with the protective rationale of those orders.
Ground 9:
The Court's judgement is inconsistent with historical interim and final orders made over the past three years that consistently ruled in favour of the Appellant following opposition by the Respondent.
Ground 10:
The Court gave undue weight to an implicit presumption that the mother was the more capable parent, without adequately considering the Appellant's proven primary parenting role over a sustained period, undertaken due to the Respondent's psychiatric instability and prolonged disengagement.
Ground 11:
The Court failed to give adequate consideration to the Respondent's past conduct, including the strategic use of a false rape allegation later dismissed by police as unreliable, made the day after a DVO was issued against her.
Ground 12:
The Court erred in giving determinative weight to the views of the Independent Children's Lawyer (ICL) and the family report writer, who both demonstrated a clear and unreasonable preference for the Respondent - even in circumstances where doing so directly compromised the best interests of the children.
Ground 13
The Court's allocation of sole parental responsibility to the Respondent is internally inconsistent with its specific finding that the Appellant should retain responsibility for [Y's] psychological and educational needs, despite those being the most complex parenting responsibilities in the matter.
Ground 1: The Court failed to consider the Respondent's repeated non-compliance with past orders, including orders requiring psychiatric treatment and parenting programs, and her last-minute disruption of trial proceedings.
Ground 2: The Court disregarded expert medical evidence (Dr D, 2022 Medico-Legal Report), which identified significant psychiatric concerns, substance use, and parenting dysfunction.
Ground 3: The Court failed to adequately assess risk to the children posed by the mother's conduct and psychological state.
Ground 4: The Court failed to properly assess the history and impact of parental conflict and its cause.
The children's presentation is significantly predisposed by the complex family dynamics, very hostile relationship between the parents, and inconsistent rules and messages between houses. The children are aware of ongoing disagreements and differing opinion between the parents. The dynamic between the parents is highly likely to be having a negative impact on the children, it is creating stress for the children and at the very least is perpetuating their difficulties with learning and attention at school due to the stress of their home life.
In my opinion the children have suffered emotional harm due to the acrimonious nature of the parties' separation, the children's exposure to the conflict and the parties unwillingness to prioritise the children's needs above their own. The parties have now lost sight about what [are] the children's best interests. The level of contempt the parties displayed toward one another is toward the more extreme end of the spectrum and this will inhibit the children with being able to have the foundation they need to feel safe and create an environment characterised by stability, predictability and consistency. The animosity between the parents has resulted in the children being caught up in the dispute and feel torn as their loyalties are divided. The parties contempt for one another has inhibited the parents from being able to resolve disputes quickly in relation to [X's] high school enrolment, prevented The younger child from receiving his medication, The younger child receiving a timely cognitive assessment by the school guidance officer, and from the children being assessed from an Educational and Developmental Psychologist as recommended in the initial report. Even relatively simple issues, such as communication about elective subject selection, uniforms and medication scripts, are highly contentious. In my opinion, the children's well-being is not prioritised by either parent.
There are also now very clear indicators that the children are experiencing emotional distress from being subjected to the intense ongoing parental dysfunction in conflict. The children have been exposed to the conflict and their parent's animosity towards one another. This is highly likely to have impacted upon their sense of emotional security, and the animosity explains the children's difficulties with educational achievement, attention, learning and disruptive behaviour for [Y]. With his recent suicidal ideation expressed at school and his withdrawal and isolation, he is in distress and has started to have a worrying impact on his mood and on mental health at the tender age of just 10 years old. ... The ongoing, intractable conflict will have almost certain impacts on [X] and [Y's] brain development, and this in turn will impact on their ability to emotionally regulate. The legacy of such exposure to conflict on a regular basis can impact on their ability to safely enjoy a relationship with both parents. The emotional harm the children have suffered from the parent's acrimonious separation could reverberate in the children for years to come.
The father's behaviour is more of an undermining of the clinicians. He seeks to undermine the mother, he seeks to want to know exactly what she said, and to correct whatever statements she said about him. He's very much in the camp of wanting to impress clinicians, and to impress the service, to make it look like he is the better parent, and he is the parent who's child focused, and he's calm, and he's regulated, in order to create a point of difference between himself and the mother. But I think the father's kind of pathology is much more in the sense of undermining the clinicians, triangulating them, and trying to present himself as the parent who's most responsible, and more able to care for the children than the mother.
Ground 5: The Court gave excessive weight to X's expressed wishes, without properly assessing the influence of the mother's manipulation.
spontaneously stated that her father told her about the family report interviews and he advised her "a couple of weeks ago" to say that she wants to spend more time with him and live with him as she and her brother would be able to receive a "proper education".
Ground 6: The Court failed to properly consider the risk posed by the mother's partner, who is the subject of a Domestic Violence Order (DVO).
There is currently a Protection Order in place between the mother and her partner. Both were cross-examined about the incident that led to the order being obtained. The children were not present at the time. The ICL submits that there is no evidence of an ongoing pattern of family violence in the mother's home and there has been no further police involvement. I accept that submission.
Ground 7: The Court's decision is inconsistent with subsequent orders made by Judge Goodchild which gave the applicant significant responsibility for the children, including full responsibility for Y's medical, psychological and education for a period of 13 months without the Respondent's involvement.
Ground 8: The Court erred in concluding that the Respondent would exercise superior parental judgement, despite extensive evidence of her repeated failure to meet the children's essential medical, educational, and psychological needs - including refusal to follow professional advice, obstruction of ordered support services, and excessive school absenteeism while the children were in her care. This concern was significant enough that the Court itself made orders compelling school attendance, yet still found the Respondent fit to hold sole parental responsibility -a finding inconsistent with the protective rationale of those orders.
Ground 9: The Court's judgement is inconsistent with historical interim and final orders made over the past three years that consistently ruled in favour of the Appellant following opposition by the Respondent.
Ground 10: The Court gave undue weight to an implicit presumption that the mother was the more capable parent, without adequately considering the Appellant's proven primary parenting role over a sustained period, undertaken due to the Respondent's psychiatric instability and prolonged disengagement.
Ground 11: The Court failed to give adequate consideration to the Respondent's past conduct, including the strategic use of a false rape allegation later dismissed by police as unreliable, made the day after a DVO was issued against her.
The mother alleges family violence in her relationship with the father. The father denies the allegations. She alleges sexual assault upon her by the father. The father denies the allegation. The Court is not requested by the mother to make any finding with request to those allegations. Indeed, the mother, in her affidavit evidence states that she will not be "retelling" that aspect of their history. I am satisfied that the fact of the dissolution of the relationship ameliorates any risk to the children of family violence between the mother and the father.
Ground 12: The Court erred in giving determinative weight to the views of the Independent Children's Lawyer (ICL) and the family report writer, who both demonstrated a clear and unreasonable preference for the Respondent - even in circumstances where doing so directly compromised the best interests of the children.
Ground 13: The Court's allocation of sole parental responsibility to the Respondent is internally inconsistent with its specific finding that the Appellant should retain responsibility for Y's psychological and educational needs, despite those being the most complex parenting responsibilities in the matter.
I certify that the preceding ninety (90) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of the Honourable Deputy Chief Justice McClelland..
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