4 Greg and Lesley appear to have had a happy marriage up until the events now in issue. The evidence given by Lesley, Cassandra, Luke and friends of the family depicts Greg as a happy, stable man in a responsible position in employment, a supportive and caring husband, a devoted, affectionate father who participated enthusiastically in his children's activities, and a respected and loyal friend to many people.
5 Greg and Lesley first lived in a house at Kings Langley which they improved and extended considerably over the years, mainly by their joint personal efforts. Greg enjoyed doing building work and Lesley assisted him when she could. Together they provided a comfortable home for the family.
6 In 1993, the family realised a long-held dream of living near the beach. Greg and Lesley bought, as joint tenants, a run-down little house in Lagoon Street, Narrabeen, only a short distance from the sea. They both set about doing considerable renovations and improvements, working themselves mostly on weekends and often with the assistance of their children. The purchase and renovations of the houses at Kings Langley and then at Narrabeen, were paid for both by Greg and Lesley. Lesley took on part-time work to supplement Greg's income, working on Saturdays and three or four nights a week and her income was used to meet mortgage repayments and the cost of building materials for the renovations.
7 After four years of work, done mostly by Greg with the assistance of the family, the house at Narrabeen was transformed into a spacious and very comfortable home. The whole family was very proud of this achievement.
8 In March 2001, Greg and Lesley went on a cruise of the Pacific Islands to celebrate Greg's fiftieth birthday. After they returned, Lesley noticed that Greg was spending a great deal of time at the computer, apparently playing cards with a person identified as "Blue Sapphire 13". When Lesley inquired who "Blue Sapphire 13" was, Greg told her that she was a lady of sixty-five years of age living in Texas.
9 "Blue Sapphire 13" was in fact, Mrs Zaleski, who was indeed at that time sixty-five years of age and living in Austin, Texas. Mrs Zaleski was married and living with her husband Constance. They had been married for forty-four years and had four grown up children and a number of grandchildren.
10 The relationship between Greg and Mrs Zaleski quickly developed from Internet communication to almost daily telephone calls. In May 2001, Greg asked Mrs Zaleski to come to Australia and she agreed. She arrived in early July 2001 and a sexual relationship commenced immediately. They travelled together to the Gold Coast for a week. Greg told Lesley that he had to go away for a conference. The following week, Greg spent the day with Mrs Zaleski and returned home each night. Mrs Zaleski returned to Texas on 25 July 2001. Greg paid for Mrs Zaleski's expenses while she was in Australia.
11 According to Mrs Zaleski, in August 2001 Greg asked her in several telephone calls to leave her husband and come to Australia to live with him. In a telephone conversation with Greg on 16 August 2001, Mrs Zaleski agreed, apparently without regret according to her own evidence. She immediately told her husband that she was leaving him. The following day, that is 17 August, Greg told Lesley that he was leaving her for Mrs Zaleski and that he was going to Texas to help her pack up and move to Australia to live with him. Lesley had had no inkling of the relationship between Greg and Mrs Zaleski up until that point.
12 On 22 August 2001, Mrs Zaleski filed a petition for divorce in the District Court of Texas. On 5 September 2001, Greg went to Texas to help Mrs Zaleski to arrange her affairs and to move to Australia. Mrs Zaleski left her employment and reached agreement with Mr Zaleski as to the division of the matrimonial property. She attempted to sell the matrimonial home in Nasco Drive, Austin, but decided to wait until market conditions improved.
13 A property agreement between Mr and Mrs Zaleski was executed on 22 October 2001. Very soon afterwards, Mrs Zaleski left for Australia and arrived on 27 October 2001. Greg had returned to Sydney a few days earlier and had rented a unit in Narrabeen. He and Mrs Zaleski lived there together from late October 2001.