[2025] FWC 1938
General information, not legal advice.
Fair Work Commission
2025-07-07
Original judgment source is linked above.
[2025] FWC 1938 [Note: An appeal pursuant to s.604 (C2025/7086) was lodged against this decision.]
s.394 - Unfair dismissal
Unfair dismissal application - dismissal for misconduct that occurred 7 years earlier - unblemished record since that time - dismissal harsh - order for reinstatement
'By acting in one or more of the ways particularised below in relation to a former PhD Student, [AB] while employed by the University of Melbourne, you breached the University of Melbourne Appropriate Workplace Behaviour Policy (MPF1328.1, effective 30 November 2016), which required you to:
a. maintain the highest international standards of ethics and quality in research, teaching and administration (paragraph 4.2(a));
b. sustain a diverse, inclusive and harmonious scholarly community committed to supporting employees and students to realise their full potential (paragraph 4.2(f));
c. maintain a respectful, safe, rewarding and environmentally sustainable learning and working environment (paragraph 4.2(g));
d. take all reasonable steps to demonstrate respect for others (paragraph 4.3);
e. maintain a standard of conduct and work performance required by the University and demonstrate professionalism and courtesy in dealing with other employees, students, contractors, visitors and members of the public (paragraph 5.1(c)); and
f. protect the interests of students (paragraph 5.2), including to take all reasonable steps to avoid and resolve conflicts of interest (paragraph 5.2(a)), respect the trust involved in the employee-student relationship and accept the constraints and obligations inherent in that relationship (paragraph 5.2(b)) and ensure that relationships with students are professional, trusting and respectful (paragraph 5.2(c)) including - not initiating or encouraging relationships with students that do not accord with the constraints and obligations referred to at section 5.2(b) (paragraph 5.2(c)(i))'.
On 8 May 2017, you communicated with [AB] from your personal email in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner, including by stating "and I am so glad that this is out of the way now so that we can start focussing on the things we wanted to do together using this opportunity to meet. I have moved to my private email - also addressing you on yours because this is more appropriate for the conversations we are having. Nothing to be seen by UoM internet security people. It is our very own private conversation...and yes, we have the pleasure of getting a glimpse of this together and it is really beautiful reawakening. We share this on a deep intuitive level...".
The Investigator accepts Stephan's evidence that his reference to "... so that we can start focussing on the things we wanted to do together using this opportunity to meet" is related to work he was doing with a colleague and not [AB].
However, it is substantiated that the balance of Stephan's communications in this email, including Stephan moving his conversations with [AB] to his personal email address and stating "...Nothing to be seen by UoM internet security people..." was of an unprofessional, inappropriate and overly personal and intimate in nature.
On 9 May 2017, you communicated with [AB] from your personal email in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner, including by stating "Oh [AB] - we both have been missing so much in our life. We are like the dry soil soaking up the autumn rain after a long hot summer. It is very beautiful and caresses our souls, but it should not give you pain. You know that I am barely coping with the separation from [omitted]. There are feelings of guilt of having mistreated her and anger for having been so blind to let the situation escalate to what it became. So I am a construction site and can't project myself into any new relationship at the moment. I need to heal...same for you...it is great to share my feelings with you, to cherish the beauty of life together and to feel our attraction where there has been a void in our lives, but I do not want to create any expectations apart from the great company we can give to each other. The Now! And that I feel we should embark on without any pressure or expectations about the future. I see that you write from your iPhone. What is your number? Perhaps we can have some FaceTime later this evening to speak about all this interactively. It will have to be after dinner so around 9pm, what do you think?".
Stephan's evidence is that at this time he realised that [AB] might have been interested in him romantically. Whilst in his email of 9 May 2017, Stephan said that he can't project himself into a new relationship, and he doesn't want to create any expectations, the Investigator's view is that Stephan has communicated with [AB] in an unprofessional and inappropriate manner and in an overly personal an intimate manner, in circumstances where he should have ensured to maintain appropriate professional boundaries.
On 10 May 2017, you communicated with [AB] from your personal email in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner, including by stating "...yet there were also pleasant feelings arising from what we share: Feelings that give me confidence in the future. Last night, I read the Petit Prince chapter again, about taking the Fox - and you are right the taming creates expectations and the fox is suffering when the prince goes away... To engage with you, but still sending myself and my independence, just like you stressed yesterday how important being grounded in yourself is for you ... rather, lets inhabit fully what we do, enjoy, live the dynamics of the now and let this propel us to the next stage albeit watching carefully not to engage in unwholesome actions. Can you handle these emotional dynamics? - can I? - can one learn this growing up..... At the moment this is an expedition into unchartered territory, it is very exciting however, more than gambling is. Our FaceTime yesterday was a moment of bliss - Stephan".
[AB]'s forthright and intimate emails of 9 and 10 May 2017 (set out in the table on page 22) ought have rung alarm bells for Stephan and should have been clear signals to him that [AB]'s interest in him was romantic, and problematic, and this ought have been the impetus for Stephan to cease engaging with [AB] in a personal and intimate manner, and to seek support on managing this situation e.g. from the Head of Department, given the potential impacts for [AB], her PhD (and her associated student visa) if her relationship with Stephan did not remain professional or soured.
Whilst Stephan says that he aimed to steer their conversation to other subjects, this is not evident in the communications, which in the Investigator's assessment are poetic, personal and romantic, and reasonably open to misinterpretation by [AB], particularly as English is her second language.
On 11 May 2017, you communicated with [AB] from your personal email in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner, including by stating "Dear [AB] - yes, I would like to share with you on FaceTime again tonight. I like to explore these differences between love and like with you then. I did not sleep so well last night, but still feel much better today than yesterday. Let's get some good work done and cherish this precious time together tonight. Also you are right: gratitude of what we have is so important and I felt that very intensely when lying awake last night".
Whilst Stephan's explanation is that he wanted to share his thoughts with [AB], and wanted her to understand that he liked her, but did not feel any romantic love or sexual feelings, the Investigator's view is that in light of the expressions of love [AB] had expressed to Stephan, it was inappropriate and unprofessional for Stephan to continue to engage with [AB] in a manner that was personal, intimate and romantic, particularly in light of [AB] speaking English as a second language, which increased the risk of her misunderstanding or misinterpreting Stephan's communications.
On 14 May 2017, you communicated with [AB] from your personal email in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner, including by writing to her about the "5 love languages".
The Investigator's view is that it was unprofessional and inappropriate for Stephan to write to [AB] about the 5 love languages in light of the relevant circumstances.
In the period May 2017 to June 2017, you repeatedly communicated with [AB] in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner, including:
Substantiated that in the period May 2017 to June 2017, Stephan repeatedly communicated with [AB] in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner. Noting the particulars that are substantiated to be unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate are:
- 6(i) - text message stating "And I come from the German 69 culture - anything goes, naked in the swimming pool. My mum gave me contraceptives when I was 12..."
- 6(iv) - Stephan messaged [AB] on her personal phone at around 1am in the morning, stating "I am burning".
- 6(v) - Stephan regularly complimented [AB] including in relation to her physical appearance and dress.
The text message evidence supports that Stephan messaged [AB] "And I come from the German 69 culture - anything goes, naked in the swimming pool. My mum gave me contraceptives when I was 12..."
Substantiated (noting this particular/ conduct is not determined to be inappropriate or unprofessional).
On or around May 2017 to June 2017, you messaged [AB] on her personal phone at around 1am in the morning, stating "I am burning".
That Stephan sent [AB] another message stating that [AB] should keep her mobile phone on silent because you wanted to be able to message her at any time
On or around May 2017 to June 2017, Stephan repeatedly called [AB] on her personal phone, to chat about personal, non-PhD related topics, for example, on one occasion, he called [AB] whilst cooking dinner, and told her that he had called her as he wanted someone to chat with.
That in response to [AB] saying that Stephan couldn't just call her any time he liked, Stephan said words to the effect of "I want to use all of my time effectively".
Noting this particular/ conduct is not determined to be inappropriate or unprofessional.
Noting that the text message evidence supports that it was [AB] who mentioned that Stephan could meet someone at a conference.
Noting that whilst text message evidence supports that Stephan sent photos of [former girlfriend] to [AB], these were not photos of Stephan and [former girlfriend] in a bedroom or hotel.
Substantiated (on the basis of Stephan's admission) that he regularly complimented [AB].
Not substantiated that Stephan said words to the effect of "you do not look 39, you look younger".
Substantiated that Stephan asked [AB] to sit next to him in order to view the monitor in his office.
Not substantiated that Stephan said words to the effect of "let's change the topic, why do you always want to speak about your project?".
In around October to November 2017, you communicated with [AB] in an unprofessional, inappropriate and/or personal and intimate manner. You asked [AB] to hold a supervisory meeting in a coffee shop on the University grounds, and during the meeting, instead of answering [AB]'s questions, you gazed at [AB] and looked at her body and smiled, and did not respond to the questions she asked about her PhD.
Dr Matthai's reaction to AB's romantic interest in him
Whether the valid reason remained valid after 7 years
Section 387(h) - dismissal for historical conduct
S. Cheligoy of counsel for the University of Melbourne
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Stephan Matthai
The University of Melbourne [2025] FWC 1938