[2025] QDC 117
General information, not legal advice.
District Court of Queensland
2025-08-22
Original judgment source is linked above.
DOMESTIC AND FAMILY VIOLENCE LAW - APPEAL - PROTECTION ORDER - where the learned Magistrate refused to make a protection order in favour of the appellant - whether the learned Magistrate erred in finding that there was no relationship - whether there should be an order as to costs in the exercise of the discretion
Uniform Civil Procedure Rules 1999 (Qld) rr 765, 783, 785
ACP v McAuliffe [2017] QDC 294, approved
Allesch v Maunz [2000] HCA 40; (2000) 203 CLR 172, applied
Builders Licensing Board v Sperway Constructions (Syd) Pty Ltd [1976] HCA 62; (1976) 135 CLR 616, applied
Coal and Allied Operations Pty Limited v Australian Industrial Relations Commission & Ors [2000] HCA 47; (2000) 203 CLR 194, applied
DU v Jackson (DCJ) [2024] QCA 122, considered
Fox v Percy [2003] HCA 22; (2003) 214 CLR 118, applied
GKE v EUT [2014] QDC 248, approved
HBY v WBI & Anor [2020] QDC 81, approved
House v The King [1936] HCA 40; (1936) 55 CLR 499, applied
Norbis v Norbis [1986] HCA 17; (1986) 161 CLR 513, applied
OMD v Queensland Police Service & Anor [2021] QDC 282, approved
What evidence did the parties rely on at the hearing before the learned Magistrate?
(a) Notice of Filing of Media Exhibit filed by RJL and the associated media exhibit that contains:
(i) video files in a folder titled "Additional videos film when feeling scared or forced", and which files are named IMG-0237, IMG-0383 and IMG-0388;
(ii) other video files, including those named IMG-0097-1 and IMG-0888-1;
(iii) images in a folder titled "Dvo breeches", which include images that are named IMG-2981, IMG-2982, IMG-2986, IMG-2987, IMG-2988, IMG-2989, IMG-2992, IMG-2994, IMG-3003(1), IMG-3003, Screenshot 3! Passport, Screenshot3 comfrimation (sic) withholding passport; signal-2024-10-14-011825;
(iv) various other images of text messages, facebook messages and pdf copies of emails;
(v) copies of correspondence from MCP, on the letterhead of the law firm at which MCP is a solicitor, dated 1 July 2024 and 18 July 2024;
(b) an affidavit of RJL sworn 23 November 2024 with attached media exhibits including:
(i) various facebook images;
(ii) an unreported decision of Magistrate Sinclair delivered 22 November 2024 in relation to M7718/24 dismissing an application for summary judgment and/or striking out of a defence;
(c) a statement of RJL taken by police on 27 November 2024;
(d) a statutory declaration of RJL taken on 13 December 2024 attaching medical records;
(e) an affidavit of RJL sworn 3 July 2024; and
(f) an affidavit of RJL sworn 25 August 2024.
(a) an affidavit of MCP sworn 7 November 2024 and media exhibits CM-1 to CM-25 that are referenced in the affidavit;
(b) an affidavit of a person who I will refer to as NM sworn 30 September 2024 and witnessed by MCP as solicitor and media exhibit NMM-1 that are referenced in the affidavit;
(c) an affidavit of a person who I will refer to as EN as sworn 31 October 2024 and witnessed by MCP as solicitor;
(d) an affidavit of a person who I will refer to as RS sworn 1 October 2024 and witnessed by MCP as solicitor; and
(e) an affidavit of AH sworn 30 October 2024 and witnessed by MCP as solicitor.
(a) an affidavit of a person who I will refer to as DM sworn 30 September 2024 and witnessed by MCP as solicitor; and
(b) an affidavit of a person who I will refer to as JS sworn 30 September 2024 and witnessed by MCP as solicitor.
What case was advanced by the respective parties?
(a) RJL's testimony contained multiple inconsistencies and, as such, was not credible or reliable;
(b) the images, videos and other documents relied on by RJL were insufficient to demonstrate the existence of a relevant relationship; and
(c) although the undisputed evidence demonstrated that MCP was RJL's solicitor and that MCP allowed RJL to stay at his home, that did not of itself demonstrate that there is a relevant relationship under the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012.
(a) there was behaviour that demonstrated the existence of a relationship, such as evidence that RJL was living with MCP off and on between August 2023 and July 2024; and
(b) the evidence demonstrated that:
(i) contrary to the assertion of MCP in his oral testimony, the relationship between RJL and MCP was not only a solicitor and client relationship; and
(ii) on one occasion there was a "sex act" between RJL and MCP that involved RJL inserting a vibrator in MCP's anus.
What was the reasons of the learned Magistrate?
"I'll give my decision ex tempore. This is an application for a domestic violence protection order brought by [RJL] against [MCP]. The application was filed in the Holland Park Magistrates Court on the 20th of September 2024. A temporary protection order was made ex parte on the 23rd of September 2024. The conditions included the mandatory condition, further conditions not to attend the residence of the aggrieved and not to approach within 50 metres and have no contact with the aggrieved. In her application, the aggrieved states that the respondent is her former de facto partner and states the relationship was from August 2023 to July 2024.
Moreover, the aggrieved states that the respondent abused her, assaulted her, forced her to have non-consensual sex, controlled her finances, threatened to harm her family if she left him and isolated her by changing her passwords on social media accounts. The aggrieved made allegations about the aggrieved's (sic) sexual deviance. Moreover, the aggrieved made allegations of serious physical and sexual assault allegations against the respondent and provides photographs of physical injuries to support some of the claims. Both parties accept that the aggrieved has mental health issues, which seem to arise out of a work-related post-traumatic stress disorder.
The respondent denies there was a relevant relationship between them. Moreover, he denies the allegations and merely states he was trying to give the aggrieved assistance, both professionally as her lawyer and, beyond that, as a friend. The alcohol problems - sorry, the respondent stated that the aggrieved had mental health and alcohol problems, and he would assist her on many occasions, particularly by providing her with accommodation when she had nowhere else to stay. In this case, the first consideration is whether there is a relevant relationship in accordance with the legislation. The aggrieved, in her application, stated the respondent was her former de facto.
The respondent denies the allegation of a relevant - that he was in a relevant relationship in accordance with the legislation in paragraph 18. In her application, the aggrieved states the respondent is her former de facto partner and states the relationship was from August 23rd to July 2024. In her statement to police dated the 25th of August 1924, the aggrieved states the respondent was engaged as her lawyer in August 2023, and they began an intimate relationship some three weeks later. That is inconsistent with the allegation that he raped her on that day. She stated that they had dated on an off for about eight months. This is also somewhat at odds with her application when it's said they were in a de facto relationship for some 11 months.
[NM] attested, in an affidavit affirmed on the 30th of September 2024, that the applicant had a close connection to the respondent; however, when he asked her if she was a relationship in about May 2024, the response was, "Oh no. I'm training as his PA. He's just really a great guy who tries to help everyone." That's paragraph 9. She also said that she really like the respondent's son and would couch surf at the respondent's place when she had nowhere to go. [NM] said that, in August 2024, the respondent changed her position and made a number of allegations against the respondent and stated they were in a domestic relationship.
[NM] goes on to state that he has found the respondent to be an honest man who is always willing to help and, in fact, did help him. [EN], in an affidavit affirmed on the 31st of October 2024, attested the applicant, in May 2024, said she was sleeping in her car and had - as she had nowhere else to go. That was in paragraph 10. [EN] also attested that the applicant stated that she had been abused by the respondent, who she described as a creepy lawyer, and she had tried to report it to the police.
The aggrieved stated that she broke off the relationship in late December 2023. Again, this is at odds with - she stated previously in her application; however, the aggrieved said that she moved back in with the aggrieved in January 2024. The respondent denies any intimate relationship at any time and believed they were just good friends. In paragraph 18 of his affidavit, affirmed on the 7th of November 2024, the respondent attests that he thought the applicant thought of him as a mentor, giving not only legal advice and representation but also general advice. He accepts that he allowed her to stay at the residence on a number of occasions, particularly when she had nowhere else to go.
[JS], in an affidavit affirmed on the 30th of September 2024, attests that she was at the respondent's office for legal advice in November 2020. You weren't relying on that, were you?
HIS HONOUR: Okay. [RS], in an affidavit affirmed on the 1st of October 2024, attested he is a neighbour and friend of the respondent and has coffee and cigarettes with him every day around 10 am and 3 pm. He attests that, on occasion, he would see the applicant at the respondent's place when she was couch surfing. He said she was usually drunk. On one occasion, he said the applicant touched his - that's [RS]'s - leg inappropriately. He asked the respondent why he put up with the applicant, to which he responded, "She's got nowhere else to go, and she's got no friends."
[RS] also stated that the respondent had succeeded on many occasions to get the applicant into a shelter or in a motel or house, was instrumental in getting her re-admitted to the psychiatric unit at Belmont Hospital. That's in paragraph 9. [RS] also said that he never saw any form of intimacy between the applicant and the respondent.
[DM], in an affidavit affirmed on the 30th of September 2024 ‑ ‑ ‑
HIS HONOUR: You weren't relying on that either, sorry. Yes. [AH], in an affidavit affirmed on the 30th of October 2024, attested he is a good friend of the respondent, and the respondent told him about the difficulties he was having dealing with the applicant. He said that she would just turn up and - when she had nowhere else to go and was brought to his place by police when they had nowhere else to take her. He also attests that, since he met the applicant in October 2023, he never saw any indication of the applicant and the respondent being anything but friends. There's also, in the exhibit CM125, CM10, reference to the aggrieved couch surfing and also, in CM14, staying at the respondent's granny flat, which would indicate some form of independent accommodation.
On - one of the issues that's been resisted is the issue of the sex act - and I'll just refer it as that - on the tape. In relation to that, I accept the aggrieved's version of events in relation to the matter. There are two competing version of events that are not necessarily mutually exclusive; however, having said that, that one incident does not result in a relevant relationship of itself being made. There - people can have sex on a number of occasions without being in a relevant relationship. There has to be a number of other factors. The applicant has given varying versions of the relationship. It's denied by the applicant. The preponderance of the witnesses is such that it favours the respondent, but there was no evidence, such as going out together, having joint bank accounts, talking about their future, becoming engaged or having any future plans specifically.
On all of the evidence before me, I'm not satisfied there was a relevant relationship in accordance with the legislation. Perhaps, due to her mental health and alcohol issues, the aggrieved mistook the respondent's willingness to assist her and provide her with accommodation when she had nowhere to go and also with the incident on the - that's been recorded and viewed that as a form of relationship, which, clearly, it would've been a relationship of some description but not a relationship in accordance with the Act.
Let me finally say, after perusing the whole of the material and hearing the evidence of the actions of the respondent towards the aggrieved, particularly when he was representing her on legal matters, while they may have been based on genuine compassion and caring, were totally imprudent and lacked good judgment. Notwithstanding that, as I've found there is no relevant relationship, I do not to consider the other matters, and the application is dismissed."
What is the relevant legislative context governing a decision to grant a protection order?
(1) A court may make a protection order against a person (the respondent) for the benefit of another person (the aggrieved) if the court is satisfied that -
(a) a relevant relationship exists between the aggrieved and the respondent; and
(b) the respondent has committed domestic violence against the aggrieved; and
See the examples of the type of behaviour that constitutes domestic violence in sections 8, 11 and 12, which define the terms domestic violence, emotional or psychological abuse and economic abuse.
(c) the protection order is necessary or desirable to protect the aggrieved from domestic violence.
(2) In deciding whether a protection order is necessary or desirable to protect the aggrieved from domestic violence -
(a) the court must consider -
(i) the principles mentioned in section 4; and
(1) A couple relationship exists between 2 persons if the persons have or had a relationship as a couple.
(2) In deciding whether a couple relationship exists, a court may have regard to the following -
(a) the circumstances of the relationship between the persons, including, for example -
(i) the degree of trust between the persons; and
(ii) the level of each person's dependence on, and commitment to, the other person;
(b) the length of time for which the relationship has existed or did exist;
(c) the frequency of contact between the persons;
(d) the degree of intimacy between the persons.
(3) Without limiting subsection (2), the court may consider the following factors in deciding whether a couple relationship exists -
(a) whether the trust, dependence or commitment is or was of the same level;
(b) whether 1 of the persons is or was financially dependent on the other;
(c) whether the persons jointly own or owned any property;
(d) whether the persons have or had joint bank accounts;
(e) whether the relationship involves or involved a relationship of a sexual nature;
(f) whether the relationship is or was exclusive.
(4) A couple relationship may exist even if the court makes a negative finding in relation to any or all of the factors mentioned in subsection (3).
(5) A couple relationship may exist between 2 persons whether the persons are of the same or a different gender.
(6) A couple relationship does not exist merely because 2 persons date or dated each other on a number of occasions."
(a) the Court is required to reconsider the conclusions of fact reached by the learned Magistrate: DU v Jackson (DCJ) [2024] QCA 122, [45];
(b) the onus is on RJL to show there is some error in the decision under appeal: Allesch v Maunz [2000] HCA 40; (2000) 203 CLR 172, [23]; Coal and Allied Operations Pty Limited v Australian Industrial Relations Commission & Ors [2000] HCA 47; (2000) 203 CLR 194, 202-4 [11]-[17]; DU v Jackson (DCJ) [2024] QCA 122, [45].
(c) there has been no change to the law that is of relevance to the determination of this appeal: see Builders Licensing Board v Sperway Constructions (Syd) Pty Ltd [1976] HCA 62; (1976) 135 CLR 616, 619-20; DU v Jackson (DCJ) [2024] QCA 122, [45].
"If the judge acts upon a wrong principle, if he allows extraneous or irrelevant matters to guide or affect him, if he mistakes the facts, if he does not take into account some material consideration, then this determination should be reviewed and the appellate court may exercise its own discretion in substitution for his if it has the materials for doing so."
(a) whether MCP has committed domestic violence against RJL; and
(b) whether a protection order is necessary or desirable to protect RJL from domestic violence.
(a) the preliminary issues were raised by MCP in his Outline of Argument;
(b) despite some issues having been addressed by me at mentions, the issues were maintained, and the subject of additional submissions made by MCP, in his Amended Outline of Submissions;
(c) the procedural issues are addressed by RJL in her reply to MCP's Outline of Argument and Amended Outline of Argument, in which RJL raises concerns about fairness with respect to the procedural history and the potential for the procedural issues to infect a fair hearing; and
(d) the issues are relevant to the exercise of my discretion with respect to an award of costs.
(a) the Police Commissioner has not been served with a copy of the Notice of Appeal as required under s 165 of the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012;
(b) RJL has not sufficiently particularised the grounds of appeal; and
(c) there are relevant procedural deficits with the appeal.
(a) at a mention of the appeal, I indicated that I considered the grounds of appeal to be sufficiently particularised; and
(b) MCP was aware of correspondence from the Police Commissioner demonstrating that the Police Commissioner was aware of the appeal and did not wish to appear or be heard.
What occurred in the lead up to the determination of the appeal?
"Please see the attached statement for full details of the grounds of appeal."
"the full record of the case, to allow the presiding judge to review all relevant materials for a fair and comprehensive assessment of the appeal."
(a) physical documents submitted by herself, MCP and any witnesses;
(b) USB drives or other electronic storage devices containing video files, audio recordings, or other materials presented during the trial; and
(c) exhibits, including any physical or digital evidence relevant to the case.
"We refer to the appeal currently listed before the Kingaroy District Court and enclose a copy of the Practice Directions. We would be pleased if you would comply with the practice directions and ensure all paperwork is completed and filed prior to the next District Court sittings to allow for this matter to be listed during the sittings. This matter will be mentioned at the callover for the sittings."
"a) the Appellant is not a legal practitioner and is self-represented;
b) the Appellant suffers serious mental health issues, as she conceded in the court of first instance;
c) the Appellant appears to have very limited understanding of the law;
d) the Appellant appears to have very limited understanding of Appeal processes and the principles governing how a de novo Appeal is determined;
e) the Appellant appears to base her arguments on non-existent evidence and/or purported new evidence and/or new legal arguments not presented in the court at first instance;
f) the Appellant's purported 'Grounds of Appeal - Outline of Argument' document was deficient and/or non-compliant in that:
- it did not comply with the requirements provided pursuant to the District Court of Queensland Practice Direction 7 of 2020;
- did not provide a concise, logical statement of any factual conclusions upon which the Appellant contended that the District Court Judge should proceed upon which are different from or additional to the findings made in the decision under Appeal;
- did not provide reasons why the District Court Judge should form a factual conclusion sought;
- did not provide precise references to the evidence relied upon in connection with each disputed factual conclusion;
- did not provide a concise logical summary of submissions;
- did not provide references to all statutory provisions, citation of authorities and passages and previous decisions or other material relied upon;
- did not provide a list of all documents including exhibits which the Appellant wished to rely upon;
- that due to the lack of sufficient particularisation, it was impossible to provide a substantive response;
- that the Appellant is using a legitimate legal process for an illegitimate purpose; and,
- that the Appeal would be struck out."
"In light of your correspondence of 30 MAY 2025, and Pursuant to Direction 4 of Practice Direction Number 7 of 2020, I respectfully request that the Registrar make Directions that:
Should this require the Registrar constituting the Court for the purposes of the hearing and determining an Application for such directions pursuant to rule 452(2) of the Uniform Civil Procedure Rules ("UCPR") please make arrangements and provide notice as a matter of urgency."
(a) confirmed my impression that the five-page document that is titled "Notice of Appeal" is intended to be her Outline of Argument; and
(b) indicated that she had only just received a copy of MCP's Outline of Argument.
(a) MCP file and serve a document noting all references to evidence relied on in support of facts referred to in his outline of argument and all cases and publications referred to by 4 pm on Friday 25 July; and
(b) RJL file a reply to the MCP's Outline of Argument by 10 am on Wednesday 30 July 2025.
"[MCP] failed to file a formal and (sic) Response within the required time frame and is now appearing to bypass the rules by sending unsigned, unfiled emails directly to the courthouse and the Judge's Associate. These improper backchannel communications have no legal standing, and their very submission highlights the Respondent's disregard for the Court's rules and authority. In a domestic violence matter - where fairness, integrity, and strict adherence to process are paramount - such conduct must not be overlooked.
I feel my Notice of Appeal is clear and concise. [MCP], a legal practitioner, claims he "cannot respond" or that it is "an impossible task", yet he has effectively done so by sending backchannel emails directly to the Judge's Associate - filled with baseless assertions that I am now required to address. If he truly could not respond legally, what is the purpose of this material? This is not only a perceived tactic to avoid accountability and delay proceedings, but also conduct that disrespects both the process and this Court - behaviour wholly unacceptable in a matter as serious as this domestic violence case.
I respectfully submit that this so-called "Outline of Argument" has no legal standing or evidentiary weight and was not filed in accordance with the rules. Its improper submission and the Respondent's ongoing failure to follow procedure should be taken into account as part of the Respondent's ongoing disregard for the proper administration of justice. I find it upsetting that I am placed in the position of responding to unofficial, unfiled, and unsigned material - particularly after MCP had a proper opportunity to file a Response and failed to do so."
Is RJL's failure to serve the Police Commissioner fatal?
"2.6 Rather than respond to the repeated and properly made requests for directions, and having regard to the correspondence from the Associate received 24 July 2025, Registrar Nash appears to have independently and unilaterally sent a copy of the Appeal to QPS on behalf of the Appellant the next day 25 June 2025. The Respondent's request was never answered.
2.7 The Respondent will consider referring the Registrar to the Attorney General for investigation of the circumstances surrounding these events."
(a) RJL made every reasonable attempt to affect service;
(b) the Police Commissioner is aware of the appeal;
(c) the Police Commissioner does not wish to be heard in the appeal; and
(d) to the extent that the service must be undertaken by RJL, the irregularity has no substantive effect and results in no prejudice.
Has RJL sufficiently particularised the grounds of appeal?
"3. The Appellant has filed several different documents that provide, inter alia, 'Grounds of Appeal' that are deficient and/or non-compliant pursuant to the District Court of Queensland Practice Direction 7 of 2020 in that:
"2.6 Rather than respond to the repeated and properly made requests for directions, and having regard to the correspondence from the Associate received 24 July 2025, Registrar Nash appears to have independently and unilaterally sent a copy of the Appeal to QPS on behalf of the Appellant the next day 25 June 2025. The Respondent's request was never answered.
2.7 The Respondent will consider referring the Registrar to the Attorney General for investigation of the circumstances surrounding these events."
(a) MCP's correspondence was sent to a general email address at the Courthouse on Sunday 1 June 2025;
(b) it is clear from the correspondence that MCP was aware of the Uniform Civil Procedure Rules 1999 and, as such, it was reasonable for the Registrar to anticipate that, in due course when the Kingaroy registry was open, if MCP wished to pursue the application for directions, MCP would file an application of the type alluded to in his correspondence or would otherwise raise the matter with the Court at the upcoming callover on 5 June 2025;
(c) MCP did not file any application and, as such, there was no application before the Court for the Registrar to hear and decide under r 452 of the Uniform Civil Procedure Rules 1999;
(d) MCP is a practising solicitor and, as such, even when appearing as a self-represented litigant, he could reasonably be assumed to know that rule 22.5 of the Australian Solicitors' Conduct Rules 2023 states:
"A solicitor must not, outside an ex parte application or a hearing of which an opponent has had proper notice, communicate in the opponent's absence with the court concerning any matter of substance in connection with current proceedings unless:
22.5.1. the court has first communicated with the solicitor in such a way as to require the solicitor to respond to the court; or
22.5.2. the opponent has consented beforehand to the solicitor communicating with the court in a specific manner notified to the opponent by the solicitor."
(e) although the email was also copied to RJL and to my associate, it made no reference to whether MCP obtained the consent of RJL to correspond with the Court about matters of substance. (It has since become apparent that no such consent was obtained. This is a matter that, justifiably, has caused RJL a sense of grievance.)
(a) concise, logical statements of the factual conclusions upon which RJL contends the Court should proceed that are different from and additional to the findings made in the decision of the learned Magistrate;
(b) submissions that explain the basis for the different and additional findings sought by RJL;
(c) the evidence on which RJL relies; and
(d) the relevant statutory provisions and case law on which RJL relies.
(a) due to the lack of sufficient particularisation, it was impossible to provide a substantive response;
(b) RJL is using a legitimate legal process for an illegitimate purpose; and
(c) the Appeal should have been summarily struck out.
Are there procedural deficits with the appeal that are determinative?
"6. The Appellant does not appear to have Filed an Appeals Book and the Respondent is not aware of any Certificate of Readiness having been Filed by the Appellant."
(a) as is recorded in Practice Direction Number 7 of 2020:
(i) the purpose of the Practice Direction is to assist the District Court, the profession and unrepresented litigants in the efficient determination of Appeals;
(ii) the Practice Direction operates subject to any direction given in a particular proceedings by a Judge;
(b) when one considers all the documents that RJL served on MCP prior to 1 June 2025 collectively, one can readily identify the evidence that RJL requested be included in the Appeal Record Book;
(c) the Appeal Record Book was available for inspection on the District Court file and it contains all the documents requested by RJL, including printed and audio transcripts of the hearing before the learned Magistrate on 24 January 2025; and
(d) even though no Certificate of Readiness had been filed, both parties agreed that it was convenient for the matter to proceed to a hearing on the papers, and, as such, I made an order that the appeal be heard in that manner.
Is there a material error in the finding that there is no relevant relationship?
(a) the learned Magistrate failed to consider whether the relationship was an "intimate personal relationship", not limited to a de facto relationship, under s 13 of the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012 and, as such, erred in finding that no relevant relationship existed;
(b) the learned Magistrate erred in finding that RJL lived in a granny flat as there is no evidence that such a structure existed at MCP's residence;
(c) the learned Magistrate erred in relying on inadmissible evidence;
(d) evidence of a relevant relationship is established by:
(i) a video recording:
- (A) that reveals RJL entering MCP's bedroom, without objection, at a time when MCP was naked; and
- (B) on which one can hear a discussion about RJL's side of the bed and MCP requesting RJL to perform sexual acts;
(ii) witness testimonies and police reports confirming cohabitation;
(iii) emails in which MCP begs RJL to come home and demonstrating a personal relationship beyond a professional context; and
(iv) the decision of Magistrate Sinclair.
Did the learned Magistrate fail to consider whether the relationship was an "intimate personal relationship", not limited to a de facto relationship?
(a) detail the evidence he accepted in relation to the circumstances of the relationship;
(b) include findings that relate to relevant factors that may be considered when determining whether there is a couple relationship under s 18 of the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012; and
(c) include a finding that the learned Magistrate was not satisfied that there was a relevant relationship in accordance with the legislation.
"MR KINGSTON: Thank you, your Honour. Your Honour, if I can deal firstly with the application. The application filed the 20th of September 2024 addresses a number of alleged concerns. Most importantly, however, at page 4 of the relationship, it asserts that the relationship between [MCP] and [RJL] was a former de facto relationship. Your Honour, of course, is obligated under the Act to ascertain if there is a relevant relationship. The submission from this side of the bar table is that you will be not - you will not be satisfied that there is a relevant relationship other - sorry, that's sufficient to ground an application for a domestic violence order, and much less make an order for a domestic violence order.
HIS HONOUR: Well, there's a prerequisite, as you're aware, and if I don't find there's a relevant relationship, then I can't make the order.
MR KINGSTON: Your Honour, the only potential relationship that could be found is in section 18, which is a couple relationship.
Did the learned Magistrate err in finding that RJL lived in a granny flat?
"The Judge's ruling incorrectly stated that I lived in a "granny flat", a claim never raised in court or any submitted materials.
Council records and online property listings prove that no such structure exists on the property, making this a clear factual error."
1.2 The Appellant submits incorrectly that claim of a 'granny flat' were 'never raised in court or in any submitted materials'. The evidence was presented by way of the Appellant's own statements to third parties (victim impact statement to QPS) as Exhibit CM-14 to the Affidavit of [MCP]; and the Appellant also made statements regarding: couch surfing; temporary accommodation; motels; and, homelessness, to third parties as exhibits: ..."
"89. On 11 February 2024 [RJL]'s Victim Impact statement was sent to prosecutor Sgt Barry Stevens.
"... As on the 14th of January, you recorded, with [MCP], some audio versions of a victim impact statement in relation to the assault by [SH], didn't you?‑‑‑I believe so.
And as a consequence of that, statements were prepared and given to the Queensland Police Service?‑‑‑That's correct.
You've seen those statements in the witness - in the evidence of Mr ‑ ‑ ‑?‑‑‑Yes. [MCP] collated the statements, and I did read it before I signed it. That's correct.
‑ ‑ ‑ is correct. Okay. Now, you asked [MCP] to assist you to get a domestic violence order against [SH], didn't you?‑‑‑Uh, it sounds like I probably should have done. So yes."
"82. On 14 January 2024 [RJL] records two (2) short 3-4 minute audio versions of her Victim Impact Statement in relation to the [SH] attack at the mall.
"My name is [RJL]. I am a 37 year old female born on [disclosed date]. The incident that I am referring to in this Victim Impact Statement only provides the impaction from the incident dating the 8th January 2024.
On the day of the attack, I was out shopping with [MCP] of [law firm]. I was staying temporarily in [MCP's family's] granny flat located in [address] on the day the attack took place."
(a) the living arrangements described in CM-14 do not accord with the audio statement of RJL at CM-10;
(b) when RJL was asked whether she had read MCP's affidavit, she said, "Not properly, no.";
(c) although RJL confirmed that she had read a victim impact statement collated by MCP and signed it:
(i) exhibit CM-14 is not signed by RJL;
(ii) RJL was not shown exhibit CM-14, let alone asked to confirm it to be a true copy of the statement that she signed;
(iii) MCP does not give evidence, in his affidavit or elsewhere, that the copy of RJL's victim impact statement that is exhibit CM-14 is the same as the one that she signed;
(d) at various times during her cross-examination, RJL made statements rejecting the veracity of documents exhibited to MCP's statement and actions purportedly taken by him as her solicitor. For example, RJL rejected suggestions that the document at CP-3 was initialled by her and explained that she signed the last page but was given many documents to sign without reading. RJL also gave evidence that she was not aware of various actions apparently taken by MCP. She explained, "We were in a relationship. He just did things".
(a) this is not a case where there was no evidence with respect to a granny flat; and
(b) a court hearing an application for a protection order is not bound by the rules of evidence: s 145 of the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012.
Did the learned Magistrate err in relying on inadmissible evidence?
Does the evidence relied on by RJL demonstrate an error in the learned Magistrate's finding that there was no relevant relationship?
(a) a video recording showing MCP and RJL engaging in sexual activity and discussion over sharing a bed;
(b) witness testimonies and police reports confirming cohabitation;
(c) emails in which MCP begs RJL to come home and demonstrating a personal relationship beyond a professional context; and
(d) the decision of Magistrate Sinclair.
"We never had an intimate relationship, at any stage. Over time, I believed that we had become good friends; that she thought of me as a mentor (sic) Giving not only legal advice and representation but also general advice."
"AGGRIEVED: So earlier today, you were saying that there was absolutely no sexual relationship between us, no intimate relationship, no relationship other than lawyer/client. Is that correct?‑‑‑That is correct. We had no sexual, romantic or anything other relationship whatsoever.
You were just saying in that same sentence that I then crawled to one side of the bed. Why was I in your bedroom as a client?‑‑‑You were staying at my house - - -
Why?‑‑‑ - - - unwanted. I'd already been asking you to not come back. I had the police bringing you back in the early hours of the morning and saying, "well, we don't want her." And I'd already told you that you couldn't stay. You turned up drunk driving. There was no way I was letting you go back into the car and go and kill some innocent person and you drank and drank and drank and you had a series of falls, and you hurt yourself. You attacked - it's all in the affidavit [RJL]. You know exactly what happened.
Yeah, I do know exactly what happened. But again, you know, you're saying there was no sexual relationship. What was - when we saw that video, the 00237, how do you explain that?‑‑‑Well, firstly, you don't have the first hour of that where I'm explaining to you how adverse I am to people touching me, having been on my own for 15 years. You go on about being a nurse and a paramedic and you got your magic bag with the vitamin D cream and that it'll all be okay. And I've just come back from [Dr] about my frozen shoulder and the burning down my side and I need to have magnesium supplement. And you say, "go and have a hot shower, it's okay, I've got my magic magnesium cream." Little did I know that while you were supposed to be facing out the door, you had your phone in your hand recording it and before you came and grab - rubbed the magnesium cream in, you put the phone down and secretly recorded it all. But that's what it was, there was no sex act. Even you say in the video, "oh, jeez it's not sexy ‑ ‑ ‑
[MCP], there's ‑ ‑ ‑?‑‑‑ ‑ ‑ ‑ you geriatric old prick," or whatever it was that you said in the video.
‑ ‑ ‑ there's a vibrator in your anus?‑‑‑What - sorry, what's that got to do with ‑ ‑ ‑
MR KINGSTON: Your Honour, that hasn't been put to the witness at all.
HIS HONOUR: You can put it to him now. You can ask him.
AGGRIEVED: Yeah, I put it to you now, and if you'd like to rewatch it, uh, the video of our sex act was you with a vibrator in your anus.
HIS HONOUR: Do you agree or disagree?‑‑‑I disagree. There was ‑ ‑ ‑
AGGRIEVED: Would you like to ‑ ‑ ‑?‑‑‑There was nothing invisible like that in the video. It was [RJL] putting ‑ ‑ ‑
It's visible?‑‑‑ ‑ ‑ ‑ putting vitamin E, D and magnesium cream or something out of her paramedics bag.
MR KINGSTON: Your Honour - pause at this stage. This at no stage appears in the material. It's an inference that's being asked to be drawn.
MR KINGSTON: Yes. But what I'm saying is that the ‑ ‑ ‑
MR KINGSTON: Can we just pause it, please, your Honour.
MR KINGSTON: Your Honour, I'm dealing with this - at no stage does the affidavit talk about there being a sex act with the insertion of a vibrator into [MCP's] anus. This is, again, just new stuff. We've heard the evidence earlier, there was no suggestion of - I certainly couldn't hear it, unless your Honour heard something different about putting a vibrator into his anus.
HIS HONOUR: Well, we'll watch it all, but I didn't and that's why I was happy to play it again.
HIS HONOUR: You can't see it. You'll have - yes. We're going to turn on that screen as well. If you want, you can go back to Mr Kingston.
AGGRIEVED: [MCP], would you agree that after re-watching it, that it was, in fact, a vibrator in your anus and not me rubbing some magic voodoo cream into you?‑‑‑Absolutely not. It was exactly as I described, your magnesium cream and you rubbing it down. Me lying on my left-hand side and you rubbing a special cream from my frozen shoulder right down the right-hand side of my body and tickling me as you went across my chest and the side of my belly.
AGGRIEVED: You could hear the vibrator, though, right?‑‑‑No, I could not. I
No?‑‑‑ ‑ ‑ ‑ hear the fan going in the bathroom where I'd just come out of.
What about me saying do I angle it towards your belly button or your back. What's that got to do with voodoo cream?‑‑‑I'm not sure what you mean by that.
Yes. I'm just trying to get some clarity on ‑ ‑ ‑?‑‑‑On the way that you were rubbing the cream?
Okey dokey. Next. Is it true that you never met my children when we were in a relationship?‑‑‑We were never in a relationship."
(a) RJL asking about stuff that was on her side of the bed and MCP saying "you're not coming in, you said" to which RJL responded along the lines "you asked me to so of course I would";
(b) RJL asking, twice, if MCP wanted lube;
(c) a reference to difficulty finding the button, followed by a quiet, electrical humming noise;
(d) MCP saying that there is supposed to be two engines - one at the top and one at the bottom;
(e) RJL asking MCP if he just wants the head in or more;
(f) RJL commenting that she feels like she was aiming the wrong way and asking MCP if she needs to get more near his belly button or his back and MCP responding;
(g) reference to whether something will just stay and whether MCP will have to just push it out with assurance by MCP that it is fine; and
(h) RJL making a noise consistent with giving MCP a kiss followed by a statement that she loves MCP and that she was going back out to watch a programme on television.
(a) RJL enters MCP's bedroom, without objection, at a time when MCP was naked; and
(b) MCP requests RJL to perform acts of a sexual nature.
"[87] The second half of the application seeks for the defence to be struck out on various grounds set out in the Plaintiffs r.444 letter.
[88] As to the 'loans' the defence is perfectly adequate. The pleading is that the sums were gifts from the Director and not loans from the Plaintiff. That is a complete denial of the asserted express agreement to repay.
[89] Rule 177 is referred to in the Plaintiff's r.444 letter. That provides:
_(1) This rule applies if a pleading or part of a pleading - _
(a) discloses no reasonable cause of action or defence; or
(b) has a tendency to prejudice or delay the fair trial of the proceeding; or
[90] I consider that certainly for the gifts it discloses a defence. Whether the sums were paid is not an issue. Who paid them and on what basis is. The trial on those issue should be simple enough.
[91] There is nothing scandalous about asserting that personal loans were a gift.
[92] The complaint is made that paragraph 3 of the defence does not plead a material fact. It reads:
3.**Nature of Relationship** Our relationship was intimate, and many items exchanged between us were gifts, not formal agreements. This includes personal items and a phone that [the Director] gifted me for my birthday.
[93] I find that paragraph 3 does plead a material fact when read with paragraphs 2, 4 & 5.
2.**Background** I was in a personal relationship with [the Director] from August 2023 until our breakup in July 2024 During this time we shared a bed at both [my address] and [his address].
4.**Claims Against Me** The claims against me regarding money allegedly owed arise from our personal relationship, nor from any formal agreements.
5.**Circumstances** These claims were initiated only after our breakup when [the Director] sought to collect payment for things that were given as gifts during our time together."
(a) MCP had met RJL's children;
(b) MCP and RJL had interactions that were social in nature, including interactions that were of a personal (and sexual) nature;
(c) MCP assisted RJL in respects other than just as her lawyer, including by:
(i) permitting RJL to live in his house with him from time to time during the period in question; and
(ii) providing RJL with general advice in a manner that extends beyond a professional solicitor and client context.
What is the relevant legal framework governing a decision to order costs?
(a) r 680 provides that a party to a proceeding cannot recover any costs of the proceeding from another party other than under the Uniform Civil Procedure Rules 1999 or an order of the court;
(b) r 681 relevantly provides that costs of a proceeding, including an application in a proceeding, are in the discretion of the court but follow the event, unless the court orders otherwise; and
(c) r 687 empowers the court to fix an amount for costs.
Should I exercise my discretion to make an order other than that the costs follow the event?
"16. The Respondent submits that His Honour Magistrate Guttridge is a very experienced Judicial Officer and well regarded by His peers, practitioners and the general public. The learned Magistrate was prepared to determine the matter on the papers; however, the Appellant chose to proceed to Hearing.
17. The Respondent submits that the learned Magistrate was extremely generous in the assistance provided to the Appellant throughout the duration of the Hearing of 24 January 2025 and particularly in not making adverse finding against the Appellant regarding her reliability as a witness and the credibility of the evidence she presented which may have resulted in a successful costs application against her pursuant to section 157(2) of the Act."
"19. The Appellant was offered the opportunity to abandon the appeal during the Mention on Monday 21 July 2025 and the Respondent gave an undertaking that no costs application would be pressed.
20. The Court gave the Appellant 48 hours to contemplate their (sic) position; however, the Appellant informed the court during the mention on 23 July 2025 that they (sic) chose to continue the proceedings.
21. The Respondent, who is a solicitor and involved in other curial matters, was forced to engage representation to review the available materials and outline of argument. This did not include all the materials presented to the court at first instance with many exhibits having been filed by the Appellant in the original proceedings as a 'media exhibit' that may only be viewed at the courthouse with a court officer present. For these reasons, the Respondent's representative was required to conduct after-hours consultations with the Respondent.
23.(sic) The Court also made Orders on 23 July 2025 regarding filing of materials by the Respondent, which required printing hundreds of pages of documents for the Court, and the Appellant, and for those documents to be served on the Appellant within 48 hours of the mention, i.e., 4:00 PM on 25 July 2025.
24. [The lawyer]'s Client Retainer with the Respondent estimated his total costs, including disbursements, as being in the range of $6,325.00 to $8,646.00"
(a) I do not accept that MCP was "forced" to engage representation to review the available materials and outline of argument as:
(i) MCP had more than adequate opportunity to undertake the review before preparing his first Outline of Argument;
(ii) MCP voiced no opposition to the orders that I proposed to facilitate a hearing on the papers; and
(b) the additional materials requested by me were copies of papers and cases referenced in MCP's Outline of Argument, some of which are not readily available to the public.
(a) there is no evidence of a legitimate client retainer with the lawyer, let alone one for the amounts asserted; and, in any event,
(b) having regard to the contents of the Amended Outline of Argument, I am not persuaded an indemnity costs order is appropriate given:
(i) the Amended Outline of Argument raises new arguments, without leave, including arguments that are:
- (A) unnecessarily inflammatory;
- (B) irrelevant to the issues in the appeal; and
- (C) inappropriate, such as the threats to refer the Registrar to the Attorney General; and
(ii) otherwise, the Amended Outline of Argument added nothing of substance that should not already have been identified in the original outline, such as the evidence relied on to support various submissions.
RJL
MCP [2025] QDC 117
(2000) 203 CLR 172
(1976) 135 CLR 616
(2000) 203 CLR 194
(2003) 214 CLR 118
(1936) 55 CLR 499
(1986) 161 CLR 513
(1992) 174 CLR 178