The Complainant's Evidence in Summary
15During 1971, the complainant moved with her family to a house on the outskirts of Sydney, where she lived until 1983. When she was aged 8 or 9 and the respondent was aged 15, he would pinch her nipple through her clothes while they were swimming in the family swimming pool. When the complainant was aged 10 or 11 in 1973 or 1974, the respondent, who was then aged 17 or 18, would drive her to dance classes at which time he began putting his hand on her crotch, which later progressed to digital penetration of her vagina. On occasions the respondent would stop the car and rub his penis on the complainant's vagina. The complainant cried and asked him to stop. She said that that occurred five or six times and on those occasions the respondent would ejaculate into a tissue.
16The respondent also penetrated the complainant's vagina with his penis in the car for one to three minutes and the respondent would ejaculate into a tissue. The complainant told the respondent to stop. One of those occasions was the subject of the charge under s 71 to which the respondent pleaded guilty.
17In March 1975, the older brother of the complainant and the respondent was killed in a car accident. The complainant commenced high school at the beginning of 1975. On occasions when the respondent would drive her to school, he would pull over and attempt to have intercourse with her. The complainant took to wearing jeans under her school uniform and would tell the respondent that she had her period to deter him from assaulting her. On those occasions, the respondent would try to make the complainant masturbate him or touch him by grabbing her by the wrist and moving her hand towards his crotch.
18Towards the middle of 1975, the complainant told the respondent that she was going to tell their parents what he had been doing to her. He persuaded her not to because it would mean that their parents would lose another son. The complainant said that she loved her parents deeply and did not want them to suffer, so she did not tell them about the respondent's conduct towards her.
19In 1976, after she had turned 14, the complainant began a relationship and convinced her parents to let her boyfriend move in with the family. She said that she did so as an "effective way" of keeping the respondent away from her. The sexual and indecent assaults ceased for a time.
20Also in 1976, the respondent moved out of the family home to live with his girlfriend. However, they moved back to the family home in 1977, where they lived until 1978, when they separated. At about that time the complainant's then boyfriend also moved out, with the result that the complainant and the respondent again shared the family home with their parents.
21In about 1979, the respondent began driving the complainant to her TAFE course, which she attended two evenings a week. The respondent took her on his motorcycle and would put his hand on her knee while they drove. The complainant would then "smack or punch his hand hard". The respondent would also drive the complainant to the city on weekends. On those occasions, he would also try to sexually touch the complainant but she resisted.
22At some time in 1979, the respondent moved away from the family home with a woman with whom he had a child the following year. (It was to this woman that the respondent later admitted "incest" with the complainant.) Also in 1979, the complainant started a relationship with another man who moved into the family home. In December 1980, the complainant gave birth to her first child. In mid-1981, that relationship broke up and the father of the child moved out. At about that time, the respondent and his partner built a house on a vacant block of land adjacent to the family home, in which they resided.
23At that time, the respondent was working as a carpenter. Between September and December 1981, he would regularly come into the complainant's bedroom at about 5.00 am before he started work. The complainant would often wake to find the respondent in bed with her. She objected and told him to get out. However, she did not scream or shout, because she did not want to upset her parents and did not want them to separate. The complainant says that penile vaginal intercourse occurred four or five times and on these occasions the respondent would ejaculate into a tissue.
24The complainant said that she began locking the doors and windows of the house to prevent the respondent coming in, but her mother left the laundry door unlocked at night so that the respondent could come in to have his breakfast without waking his partner and his children. The complainant then put a lock on her bedroom door to prevent the respondent from getting into her bedroom.
25In 1981, the complainant's parents left the family home and moved to northern New South Wales, leaving the complainant in the family home with her child. At night she would lock the windows and doors and have her child sleep with her to deter the respondent. When the respondent would knock on her window, she would shout at him to go away. There was no other episode of sexual offending alleged after that time.