[2025] FedCFamC2F 1085
General information, not legal advice.
Federal Circuit and Family Court (Div 2)
2025-07-17
Turnbull J
Original judgment source is linked above.
FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (DIVISION 2)
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under a pseudonym has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
NOTE: The respondent is not allowed to know about these recovery orders sought - as it will endanger my child even more than what she already is with him now.
ORDERS SOUGHT
1. Recovery Order - That a recovery order be issued directing the Australian Federal
Police and any other necessary and relevant national/international parties to locate and
recover my child:
Full name of child: [X] ([Country T] nationality)
Date of birth: [...] 2021
Recovered from: [Mr Bandy], Father (Belgian nationality, Address [C Street] Belgium)
Recovery to: [Ms Whiting] ([Country T] nationality and Australian permanent resident), Address [U Street, Town V, State M]
2. Execution of Warrant - That a warrant be issued authorising officers of the Australian Federal Police and/or [State M] Police and/or any other relevant
national/international party to:
Enter and search any premises, by force, if necessary, where there is reasonable cause to suspect [X] may be found;
Take possession of [X] and return [X] to the applicant who is lawfully entitled to custody and care of my child in accordance with the Family Court parenting orders dated 15 July 2024: to myself, her mother, [Ms Whiting]
3. Use of Reasonable Force and Assistance - That such warrant authorises the use of reasonable force and permit police officers to obtain any necessary assistance, including locksmiths, to gain entry to premises where my child may be located.
4. Prohibition Order (if applicable) - That the respondent be restrained from removing or attempting to remove my child from his address where she is being held captive now (Either [Mr Bandy] his address [C Street, Town W] or his parent's address [Ms J] [Y Street, Town Z] Belgium pending further order of the court.
5. Other orders as the Court deems just - That such further or other orders be made as the Court deems just in the circumstances in relation to protection of my child and in immediately safeguarding her return to me her lawful guardian and only trusted person since birth.[1]
4. The matter is listed to determine whether or not there has been a significant change of circumstances, such that the Court should entertain the mother's application in relation to parenting orders, noting that as recently as [...] May 2025, the juvenile court in Belgium made Orders in relation to [X] and further noting that [X] lives in Belgium and is subject to orders of the Belgium court.
5. The mother appealed the original decision of the juvenile court, and although the appeals court did allow her appeal in part, that was only in relation to a relaxation of supervision orders but ultimately [X] remains in the care of the grandparents, and orders have now been made for [X] to be returned to the father's care.
6. On the face of it, Australia is clearly an inappropriate forum to hear this matter, particularly if there are proceedings still ongoing in Belgium, which is unclear, but at the very minimum there have been no significant change in circumstances since the Family Court of Australia last dealt with this matter in Australia, and certainly, on the face of it, no change in circumstances since the Belgium court last dealt with this in May 2025.
7. There may also be the question of issue estoppel.
8. The mother wants to argue that there has been a level of corruption between Australia and Belgium and that the Belgium court has acted fraudulently and this Court is providing her with this last opportunity to put cogent evidence before the Court that might establish what she is saying, but more importantly, establish that there has been a significant change in circumstances and that Australia is the appropriate forum to deal with this matter.[2]
On 28 May 2025 contact was received from a community member in relation to concerns that [X] was removed from the care of [Ms Whiting] and relocated to the care of [Mr Bandy] in Belgium, and that she has reportedly regressed in her development since this time. It was allegedly -
it says -
that [X] is at risk of physical, sexual and psychological harm in the care of [Mr Bandy]. The outcome was [AA Organisation] will close the current matter following submission of this response to the FCFCOA -
which is this Court -
given [X] is not currently residing in [State M].
Contact was received from a mandated reporter in relation to [Ms Whiting] disclosing having experienced family violence and that she had made allegations to [State M] Police that [Mr Bandy] had sexually assaulted [X].
A report was received from [State M] Police in relation to [Ms Whiting] alleging that [Mr Bandy] perpetuated family violence in their relationship, that [Mr Bandy] had allegedly sexually assaulted [X]. The report provided information regarding the relationship between the parents, [Ms Whiting] and [X] moving to Australia, and [Mr Bandy] being successful in his application to have [X] returned to Belgium. It was also outlined that [Ms Whiting] had been provided advice by police to apply for a family violence order through a private application, that police had attempted to seek information from Belgian authorities as to any ongoing investigations relating to the parties. [Ms Whiting] was reported to have discussed [X] having displayed sexualised behaviours with police such as touching her vagina and inappropriate play with dolls. [Ms Whiting] reported she believed that [X] had experienced sexual harm due to her observations of [X]'s behaviour, having found blood in her nappy and she was [an infant], and [X] being clingy and experiencing behavioural changes when she would spend time with [Mr Bandy].
Contact was received from a community member. Who stated CSS had removed [X] from the care of [Ms Whiting] [in] February 2025 and placed her in the care of [Mr Bandy], and that CSS needed to go to Court immediately for a recovery order. The caller was concerned that [X] was at an imminent risk of abuse.
[AA Organisation] consulted with CSS and advised that CSS were requested to assist [State M] Police in executing a warrant to return [X] to the care of [Mr Bandy]as per a Court order. A Child Safety officer was present for the purpose of attempting to assist with making the transition as smooth as possible for [X] given she had not seen [Mr Bandy] for around two years. CSS advised the police attempted to interview [X] when they executed the warrant; however, given her age and dialect, no further details were provided. CSS advised that based on the available information there was no clear evidence to suggest that [Mr Bandy] had harmed [X].
Police advised that they did not view footage of [X] interacting with dolls as evidence of abuse and [Ms Whiting] was unable to provide additional information regarding her experiences of family violence. CSS advised that [X] was transported to the care of [Mr Bandy]. CSS advised that [Ms Whiting] was provided advice that she could discuss her concerns for [X]'s safety with [AA Organisation] and that she would seek legal advice around care arrangements for [X]. [AA Organisation] made multiple attempts to contact [Ms Whiting] unsuccessfully. Contact was received from a mandated reporter, who was advised by a community member that [X] had been abducted by her father and returned to another country against the wishes of [Ms Whiting] and existing orders.
(Emphasis added)
...the warrant referred to in paragraphs 16 to 18 of the orders made 8 January 2025 be activated.
On 6 March 2024 the applicant, that is, the father, filed an application seeking the return to Belgium of [X] -
that is X -
- pursuant to the relevant provisions of the regulations (Hague return application). The requesting father is the father of the child. The respondent opposed the return application. The Hague return application was heard on 8 July 2024, when both parties were represented by experienced counsel. At the hearing of the application, the only issue for determination was the state of the child's habitual residence. The respondent conceded the remaining jurisdictional facts and did not raise any regulatory exceptions to return. Most significantly, the respondent did not assert that the return of [X] to Belgium would place [X] at a grave risk of harm or intolerable situation.
Subsequent to the hearing, judgment was reserved. On 19 July 2024, orders were made and reasons delivered which required the respondent to return [X] to Belgium within 14 days subject to the requesting father paying for flights for the respondent and the child, and the sum of €7500 to the respondent to enable her to obtain accommodation in Belgium. The background to this dispute between the parties is referred to at paragraphs 20 to 32 of my reasons of 19 July 2024.
(Emphasis added)
In her affidavit of 4 September 2024 in support of the application in an appeal, the respondent foreshadowed her intention to seek leave to adduce further evidence about events which she asserted had occurred since the hearing. These events pertained to her assertions of family violence perpetuated by the requesting father. Despite the contents of the affidavit, the respondent, who was represented during the appeal proceedings by two different firms of lawyers, failed to file any application in the appeal proceedings to adduce further evidence pertaining to alleged family violence.
On 5 September 2024, the respondent filed an application in a proceeding seeking a stay of the orders of 19 July 2024 pending the determination of the appeal (stay application). In support of the stay application, the respondent swore an affidavit, filed 5 September 2024, wherein she again deposed to her intention to seek leave to adduce further evidence in the appeal about significant events pertaining to family violence she alleged had been perpetuated by the requesting father. Solicitors representing the respondent prepared the affidavit on her behalf.
(Emphasis added)
The enforcement application was heard and determined on 8 January 2025, when orders were made by me in accordance with the minute prepared by the applicant. The respondent acted on her own behalf at the enforcement hearing. At that hearing, I was satisfied the respondent was aware and understood the obligations to return the child, of which she had been aware since July 2024, and her options to do so. I was also satisfied she had been properly provided with a copy of the orders being sought by the applicant and the applicant's affidavit in support of the enforcement orders sought.
Her former solicitor appeared at the hearing to seek leave of the Court to cease representing the respondent, and prior to leave being granted, he confirmed the respondent had been provided with all the relevant documents. At the hearing on 8 January 2025, the respondent again foreshadowed an application to the Court pertaining to family violence she asserted she, and possibly the child, had been subject to by the requesting father. To date, no such application has been made.
(Emphasis added)
Subsequent to the decision of Carter J, the appellant and the respondent engaged in extensive email correspondence about whether or not the respondent would return [X] to Belgium, which were exhibited to his application. The emails demonstrate at various times the respondent seemed to agree to return [X] to Belgium, and in one email to Country Q, that she ostensibly required further time to do so and failed to unequivocally commit to return with the child. Arrangements were made for the respondent to hand over the child, to return to Belgium in the presence of the court child expert at City E Registry of this Court on 4 February 2025, and the respondent was notified of the arrangements to do so.
On 4 February 2025, the Mother attended City [E] Registry of the court with a support person, however, did not produce [X] as she was required pursuant to the enforcement orders. On 5 February 2025, the applicant filed an affidavit seeking the activation of the warrant pursuant to paragraphs 16 to 18 of the orders made on 8 January 2025. The affidavit was served on the Mother via email at her usual email address.
The respondent made similar submissions to those made by her on previous occasions, including the hearing on 8 January 2025. She reiterated her allegations of family violence against the requesting father, the danger [X] would be exposed to if returned to the father's care, her intention to provide evidence of her allegations, her intention to pursue her allegations in the Australian legal system; her difficulties with past lawyers, none of whom followed her instructions; difficulty in securing future legal representation, which is her right; and her dissatisfaction with the court and the legal system. She perceives herself as a victim of the legal system and believes she has been consistently denied an opportunity to present her "case" to the Court.
I accept the submissions of counsel for the applicant and agree the warrant should be activated to ensure the return of [X] to Belgium. In reaching my conclusion, I have had regard to the following factors which collectively persuade me the warrant should be activated:
(a) The respondent did not pursue any grave risk of harm regulatory exception in the initial return proceedings ...
(i) file any application in the appeal to adduce further evidence of asserted grave risk of harm, nor filed any application in the High Court for special leave, despite foreshadowing her intention to do so.
(b) She has been granted numerous indulgences by the courts, including leave to file a notice of appeal out of time and a stay of the return orders of 19 July 2024.
(c) The respondent's allegations against the requesting father have come more florid and egregious with the passing of time.
(d) Her representations about the proceedings and orders in Belgium are incorrect per the affidavit of [Ms BB], filed 18 December 2024, at paragraph 8.
(e) The respondent was well aware [X] would be returned to Belgium following her unsuccessful appeal.
(f) Every conceivable step has been taken to ensure the respondent was able to return the child, including payment of air fares and payment of €7500 to enable her to establish herself in Belgium.
(g) Her conduct was deliberately equivocal about whether she would return or not, as demonstrated by the documents exhibited at hearing.
(h) Appropriate arrangements had been made for the handover of [X] to their child court expert.
(i) The respondent was well aware of the consequences of her refusal to accompany [X] to Belgium.
(j) The respondent had failed to obtain legal representation despite her advising the court as from January 2025 that she intended to do so.
(k) There were no submissions about the likelihood of obtaining legal advice in the immediate future and indeed, the respondent alluded to the financially prohibitive cost of being able to do so.
(l) The respondent has received legal advice during the proceedings from at least four sets of solicitors and many competent counsel, and she has consistently expressed her dissatisfaction with their advice.
(m) Lack of legal knowledge is a misfortune, not a privilege -
(Emphasis added)
and citing Gallow & Dawson, at 34: her Honour says this:
It is most unfortunate the respondent did not unequivocally agree to accompany [X] to return to Belgium. She was told on numerous occasions during the various court proceedings that returning [X] to Belgium with her accompanying [X] would be the least distressing option in circumstances where the respondent unilaterally removed [X] from Belgium to Australia without the consent or knowledge of the father almost two years ago.
She is also aware there are extant parenting proceedings in Belgium, where she is able to raise her purported grievances against the requesting father. The respondent is well aware of the consequences and impact of [X] being removed from a parent pursuant to a warrant and she alone has the power to avoid that distressing experience for her child. The return of [X] to Belgium in this instance is consistent with the fundamental obligations to return, as provided in the Regulations (Family Law (Child Abduction Convention) Regulations 1986 Commonwealth).
(Emphasis added)
3. The return of [X] was ordered by an Australian Court after an entire procedure, including an appeal process, had been correctly completed.
4. I refer to an email from the public prosecutor in Belgium (exhibit A) stating that as her father, I was indeed entitled to collect [X] from Australia, which I did after receiving authorisation from the Australian Court.
5. The Australian Court no longer has jurisdiction to make further settlements regarding [X] based on international private law. This is the responsibility of the state in which [X] resides and is administratively registered.
Next:
6. [X] has never legally resided in Australia. This was solely due to her Mother's abduction.
7. [X] is registered in Belgium (exhibit B) and resides in Belgium.
8. By order of the Belgian Juvenile Court, which makes decisions in [X]'s best interests, it was determined that I, as her father, have sole parental authority over [X] (exhibit C).
9. [Ms Whiting] was heard in the proceedings before the Juvenile Court judge. She lodged an appeal but her appeal to have [X] entrusted to her care was rejected (exhibit D). If [Ms Whiting] wants to be involved in [X]'s life and wants to have contact with her, she must turn to the Belgian Juvenile Court.
I read in that affidavit.
The Mother's claim that [X] would be placed in foster care upon returning to Belgium is currently unfounded. To date, no judgment has been issued by a Belgian Court apart from the [City S] Court of Appeals ruling [...] July 2024. This ruling upheld the [City S] Family Court's judgment, [...] June 2024, which determined that both parents share parental authority over [X]. The child's domicile is to be registered at the father's address in Belgium. [X]'s principal residence is to remain with her Mother in [Country T]/Belgium. The Mother is explicitly prohibited from travelling abroad with [X] except for trips to Belgium and [Country T].
(Emphasis added)
It goes on:
The Court of Appeal further ruled, contrary to the Family Court, that the general welfare centre, [City SS Contact Centre] should initially oversee "restarting, unblocking and restoring physical contact between [X] and the father in the child's best interests, and at the child's pace". This decision aligned with the recommendations from a prior social survey. Importantly, the Court of Appeal did not involve their welfare centre due to any security concerns. Additionally, the Court of Appeal noted that both parties had expressed a willingness to involve supporting services to facilitate the initial renewal of contact between [X] and the father; however, in a letter dated 24 August 2024, the [City S] social welfare centre informed that they could not commence the contact restoration process, citing the following reasons:
- [Ms Whiting], referred to them by the Justice Department, refuses to sign an agreement to initiate the guidance.
- [Ms Whiting] is unable to visit the centre during operating hours.
- There is insufficient communication between [Ms Whiting] and the social worker.
These circumstances suggest that the Mother does not intend to comply with the Court of Appeal's judgment. If the Australian Supreme Court upholds the recent decision issued by the Australian Family Court on 19 July 2024 and the Mother continues to refuse to return to Belgium with the child, there would be no legal barrier preventing the father, as a holder of parental authority, from arranging the child's transfer to Belgium himself. In such a case, the public prosecutor's office may instruct the Juvenile Court judge to issue provisions, if necessary, to ensure the child's protection and return.
My office cannot predict the protective measures that the Juvenile Court judge may decide to implement; however, the child's best interests will remain central to the judge's considerations in according with the principle of subsidiarity under child protection law. Only the least intrusive measures will be applied. At present, my office has identified no objective concerns or harmful elements that would prevent [X] from residing with the father, potentially under the supervision of youth protection services.
(Emphasis added)
Having regard to the order of The Court of [...], [City S] division, Juvenile Court division of [...] April 2025 concerning:
[X] -
I will just read quickly through it:
The following measure was imposed: the function residents, more specifically, residents in a foster family (perspective seeking), with the family of [Mr DD] and [Ms J] -
whom I presume are the Father's parents; they give their address -
subject to compliance with the following condition: establishes an unrestricted contact between [X] and her father. This would effect from 24 April 2025 provisionally and, at the most, until 17 August 2025, under the supervision of the Social Service Juvenile Court in application of article 48.1-9 decrees of the decree of 12 July 2013 on integral youth assistance.
The Juvenile Court may always replace the measures taken. At the request of the minor, her [sic] legal representative, the Social Service Juvenile Court referred to in article 56 of the decree of an integral juvenile aid of 12 July 2013 or the public prosecutor, with another measure provided for in article 48.1 of the decree of integral juvenile aid of 12 July 2019.
Given the information obtained.
The minor was not heard, given her age. She was represented by [Mr EE] lawyer of -
(Emphasis added)
it gives the address:
Considering the elements related to the personality and the environment of the minor and the disturbing educational situation at the time of the previous orders, and the current psychosocial conditions concerning the minor, as reflected in the report, and requested of the Social Juvenile Court dated [...] May 2025.
[In] May 2025 a cabinet meeting was called in function of organising a contact arrangement between [X] and her Mother in accordance with the judgment of the [...] [City S] Court of Appeal dated [...] April 2025.
At this cabinet meeting, [X] was represented by her juvenile attorney, and further present were the social services counsellor, the guidance counsellor and the foster care service, [X]'s father assisted by his attorney.
[X]'s Mother was not present nor was she represented by her lawyer, notwithstanding that she had been properly notified of this cabinet meeting. More than that, she herself was requesting the meeting.
At the start of the cabinet meeting, when it was determined that the Mother was not present, the Juvenile Court was informed that the Mother had left for Australia the day before.
Under these circumstances, a visitation arrangement cannot be established between [X] and her Mother. The Mother's unpredictable attitude does not serve [X]'s best interests. From a developmental perspective, every child needs valuable contact with both parents, even if the parents no longer live together.
On the occasion of the Cabinet decision, the father requests the grant of exclusive parental authority over [X]. The Juvenile Court may rule on all measures of parental authority referred to in Book 1, Title IX of the Civil Code, insofar as they are related to [X] Protection Measures Audit. In view of the fact that the Mother resides in Australia until further notice, the Court can assume that it is not possible for the parents to make joint decisions on behalf of [X]. It therefore appears appropriate to determine that the father will exercise exclusive parental authority over [X] for the time being.
The current pedagogical interest of the minor requires that the judicial measure defined below be imposed...
(Emphasis added)
The Court went on to say:
The Juvenile Court imposes with respect to [X] the following measure: the function residence, more specifically residence in a foster family, perspective-seeking, with the family of [Mr DD] and [Ms J] living -
and it gives their address -
Provides that exclusive parental authority over [X] is granted to the father, being [Mr Bandy],
Measures under the supervision of the Social Services Juvenile Court, and this from [...] May 2025 to 17 August 2025.
(Emphasis added)
Proceedings may be instituted under this Act in relation to a child only if [X] is present in Australia or [X] is an Australian citizen or a parent of [X] is an Australian citizen or is present in Australia on the relevant day.
SHOULD THIS COURT RECONSIDER THE 11 FEBRUARY 2025 ORDERS
(1) If a final parenting order is in force in relation to a child, a Court must not reconsider the final parenting order unless:
(a) The Court has considered whether there has been a significant change of circumstances since the final parenting order was made.
(b) The Court is satisfied that in all the circumstances and taking into account whether there has been a significant change of circumstances since the final parenting order was made, it is in the best interests of [X] for the final parenting order to be reconsidered.
(2) For the purpose of determining whether the Court is satisfied as mentioned, and without limiting section 60CC, which is the section that sets out the principles that must be considered or the factors that must be considered when considering the best interests of a child, the Court may have regard to any matters that the Court considers relevant, including the following:
(a) the reasons for the final parenting order and the material upon which it was based;
(b) whether there was any material available that was not available to the Court that made the final parenting order;
(c) the likelihood that if the final parenting order is recognised, the Court will make a new parenting order that affects the operation of the final parenting order in a significant way, (whether by varying, discharging or suspending the final parenting order in whole or in part or in some way);
(d) the potential benefit or detriment to [X] that might result from reconsidering the final parenting order.
(a) an order made under this part, including an order until further order dealing with the matter mentioned in subsection (2) -
Or an order made under this part discharging or varying the order. However, declaration or order under subdivision E of division 12 is not a parenting order.
13. On notification from the Belgian Central Authority via the Australian Centre Authority that the Respondent and child have departed Australia and arrived in Belgium, the father pay the Respondent such sum as may be required to reimburse the Respondent in full for the invoiced costs of the flights for the Respondent and child to return to Belgium with such amount to be paid into the Respondent's nominated bank account.
14. The Respondent and father be permitted to provide and rely upon a copy of these order in any competence court in Belgium or [Country Q].
15. In the event that the Mother does not comply with paragraph 3 of these orders:
(a) the father be at liberty to come to Australia and collect [X] for the purposes of returning [X] to Belgium and the obligations on the father to pay the financial amount pursuant to paragraphs 5 and 13 of these Orders are discharged.
b) the Respondent do all acts and things necessary to and cooperate with the State Central Authority to facilitate the return of [X] including but not limited to preparing the child's belongings for departure to Belgium including the packing of all clothes, belongings, toys, toiletries and medication, if any that might be required by [X] for the duration of travel and providing those provisions to the father, at handover as prescribed in 15(c) herein; and
c) the Respondent cause [X] to attend at the [City E] Registry of the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia at [City E] ("the handover address"), Child Minding Centre on a date to be advised ("the handover date") and cause [X] to be delivered to the Father, and immediately upon handover, the Respondent leave the Court complex and thereafter be restrained from interfering with [X] leaving the handover address with the Father.
d) the Respondent be, and is hereby restrained by herself, her servants or agents from being at or within 5 kilometres of the airport from which the child's return flight is to depart on the date of departure; and
e) the Registry of the Court release to the father upon his attendance at the [City E] Registry any and all passports held in the name of [X] for the purposes of returning X to Belgium.
(emphasis added)
At the moment, there is uncertainty about the permanent place for [X] as Mother did not agree with the decision of the Juvenile Court and has filed an appeal.
From a foster care perspective, we are partly aware of [X]'s history, but we focus on [X]'s current stay and development with foster carers.
We know that Daddy has a right to unlimited contact and that there is a contact ban for Mom.
In consultation with the consultant, we have not had any contact with the Mother yet. We are awaiting further instructions from the consultants.
We would like to inform you that the report could not be prepared earlier because we wanted to include information from the experience survey (conducted on 25/03/2025 - feedback meeting on Friday 11/04/2025) in our reporting.
2. RECENT EVOLUTION IN FOSTER FAMILY
Apart from the personal processes of foster carers and father, we mainly want to portray [X]'s from a foster care perspective.
[X]'s arrival in the foster family grandparents happened quite drastically after a stay of one and a half years abroad. Despite the joy of grandparents and Dad to be able to hold [X] in their arms again, it meant a sudden turnaround in [X]'s life, ending up in a family where she no longer knew the people well, a different environment, different sounds and smells, a different bed. So it was a new situation for everyone: grandparents who start taking care of their grandchild day and night, [X], who ends up in a different family and context.
According to Mommy (grandmother), the first few weeks went well. But it was noticeable it brought a complete upheaval in daily life for everyone. It was a search for how to deal with [X] and what her needs were. In the meantime, almost two months have passed, and we hear that [X] is starting to get used to daily activities, to the daily rhythm. We hear that the nights are going better because in the beginning, [X] woke up regularly at night and was restless. We also hear that Mommy is getting better at 'reading' [X] and is trying to guide and correct her as best she can. Mummy herself worked as [an educator] for many years, which means that she has the necessary tools to guide [X] based on her education and experience. During one of our conversations with foster carers, we hear that Mummy is concerned about certain behaviour and [X] displays ([X] asks for food all day long and [X] fears to hurt Mommy out of nowhere; [X] displays unhealthy physical behaviour in her puppet show). Out of that concern, Mommy asked to think about asking how to deal with these situations.
Given the history, foster carers are very, very concerned about [X]'s physical activity, which is why [X] is never left alone.
(Emphasis added)
Indicate that if they cannot be with [X], there are family members who will help to take care of [X].
We know that Daddy is allowed unlimited contact with [X], but to date, it is unclear to what extent Daddy is allowed to do something alone with [X] (e.g. visiting friends). Given this uncertainty, Daddy has decided to only see [X] during the day in consultation with grandparents. Daddy does come to the foster family for dinner and puts [X] in bed. Grandparents also go to Daddy's farm where [X] has plenty of space to play outside.
(Emphasis added)
[X] has now been in the foster home full-time for almost two months, which has allowed her to take small steps in developing a new attachment relationship with Mommy and Daddy.
She can also continue to build her relationship with her father at this time. From one of the conversations, we know that [X] still has a vague memory of 'father's house'.
During an individual moment with [X], we could hear 'Mom' being mentioned, but it was unclear how [X] experiences Mom's absence.
We know that foster carers and Dad find it important that [X] can have contact with her Mother in the same way, but in a safe way. [X] can and may talk openly about Mother/[State M] (which she is now starting to do).
Currently, [X] is under constant supervision of the foster parents, resulting in limited to no interaction with peers. This can be detrimental to her development. Furthermore, [X]'s chances of integrating and growing in a social environment are currently being hampered due to the uncertainty surrounding her residence, which unconsciously creates unrest and uncertainty.
Given [X]'s history, we felt it was important at the start of the foster care situation to register [X] for an experience survey in order to gain insight of her wellbeing, her living and experiential world and her functioning
On March 25, 2025, an experience study was conducted on [X]. On Friday, April 11, 2025, we had a feedback meeting with a therapist from foster care together with the paternal grandmother and Dad. The study revealed that [X] has a serious attachment disorder.
(Emphasis added)
I certify that the preceding one hundred and three (103) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of Judge Turnbull.
[1] Mother's Application for Final Orders 26 May 2025.
[2] Order of Judge Turnbull in Whiting & Bandy (Federal Circuit and Family court of Australia (Division 2) LNC387/2025, 20 June 2025).
[3] Port of Melbourne Authority v Anshun Pty Ltd [1981] HCA 45; 147 CLR 589.
Port of Melbourne Authority
Anshun Pty Ltd