austlii:cth/FedCFamC1A/2025/224
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FedCFamC1A
2025-12-11
Campton J
Original judgment source is linked above.
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under the pseudonym Meidner has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
(a) any application for leave to initiate proceedings by [MR MEIDNER]; or > > (b) in the event the application is dismissed, that the application has been dismissed.
2. Time extenstion [sic] to lodge the appeal reasons given in Afferdavit [sic].
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- The mother and the children live in Town G, a town located within the city of City B. The father resides in Town H and has a farm located in [...], a town in the Northern Victoria district approximately 28 kilometres from [...].
(a) The father purchased X a new phone and a new number on 17 January 2025 (at [32]).
(b) The father was aware that X was communicating with Ms J during the January absconding, and that he secreted this from the Australian Federal Police and the mother, while presenting as attempting to assist authorities to locate X (at [32]).
(c) Ms J knew that she was facilitating a failure to comply with the orders and that she was involved in "subverting the recovery order and the work of the Federal police" (at [126]).
(d) The father went to extreme lengths to remove any trace of his involvement in the abscondments (at [95], [99] and [105]).
"7.d. With their father, I am persuaded that there has been coaching, pressure and manipulation. The children, especially the boys, appear mindful of not upsetting him. There is concern that they might betray him. The fact that [X] was keen for his father not to hear about his views, or that [Y] was wholly negative about his mother and said he wanted to live with his father, represents the level of pressure that has been placed on the children."
As mentioned throughout these reasons, it is very difficult for the court to place weight on the views or opinions expressed by [X], particularly as to the allegations of physical violence, when it is apparent that there has been an adoption of a narrative to achieve a result. As noted by Dr [D] in his viva voce evidence when asked about this alignment, it was stated:
"...when I use the term 'alignment', it's not about feeling connected. It's not about the strength of a relationship. It's about being almost beholden to one of their parents, that they feel that they're in the trenches. There's a tribal dimension to their relationship. And that's when it starts to become concerning, because that relationship is prioritised over all other relationships. And as we can see in this instance, that - that alignment with his father is occurring potentially at the expense of other really important relationships in his - in his life."
- The reported behaviour, both historical and current, has been investigated or assessed by Victoria Police, the DFFH, the Magistrates' Court of Victoria and the Children's Court of Victoria. All reports of physical violence against the children, particularly [X], have not been substantiated. Unfortunately, [X] and the father use the same unsubstantiated allegations to present to authorities to circumvent the orders of this Court, regardless of the historical nature of the claims and the previous findings of no abuse occurring.
- Of concern, it was apparent that the same index of allegations used during [X]'s January absconding were adopted and perpetuated by Ms [J] in her blind faith of the father (or perhaps her hatred of the mother).
- [X], with the confirmed assistance and encouragement of Ms [J], attempted to obtain an IVO against the mother and maternal grandparents and in doing so, undermined the recovery order of this Court in place for [X]'s safe return to his mother's home. These applications having been withdrawn.
- Based on the evidence before the Court and the several interventions by authorities with no substantiation of physical, psychological or emotional harm by the mother, I find that the children are not at risk of harm in the mother's care or the maternal household.
The developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs of the children
- The children are reliant upon their care providers for all social, emotional and developmental needs and example. Any change to their living arrangements, social networks, schooling and sense of stability needs to be done carefully in circumstances where the Court cannot be satisfied that the parents are able to work together to address any potential needs.
- Given their ages, the children are impressionable and look to the adults within their social structure for guidance and support. This is perhaps more so the situation for [X]. There is no dispute that [X] has sought out contact with his father in defiance of any order of the Court or wishes of his mother. He is not to be criticised for this, as he has an identified desire to connect with the man he admires. However, it is unfortunate that [X]'s dependence and unabated trust of his father is the basis for the ease in which the father has been able to exploit and manipulate him.
- The evidence demonstrated that the father, for a very long period, has covertly engaged with [X]. This communication of itself may not be harmful, however, the father's teachings to [X] of deception, lying and blaming others are alarming given [X]'s developmental stage. Unfortunately, Ms [J], as either an agent for the father or acting independently, adopted a like approach by encouraging [X] to delete messages, evade authority and undermine the paternal grandmother's authority by sneaking out and meeting up with her, in the full knowledge that to do so was to encourage lying and deceptive conduct.
- In his viva voce evidence, the father justified his instructions to [X] to delete messages as follows:
"...I'm teaching [X] to not put things in writing he shouldn't because people can have access to it.
...Not to put things in writing if he doesn't want to be found out."
The concern of the mother is that [X] is now going into his teenage years and any negative influences, particularly if dangerous or deceptive, are going to severally and deleteriously impact his future wellbeing.
The concern of the mother was shared by Dr [D]. Having regard to the developmental stage of the children, particularly [X], Dr [D] stated in his viva voce evidence:
"And increasingly, Mr [Meidner], in my view, has revealed himself to be entirely unconcerned with what the court orders and various other requirements, including, you know, the weaponisation of police and Child Protective Services and these sort of other statutory bodies, and what that creates is, I guess, a really unnerving kind of culture within the children, a culture where if you don't want to do something, you can employ whatever means you deem suitable to get the outcome that you want. And we don't know how that's going to manifest for [X]. It may manifest as school refusal at one point. It may manifest as, you know, drug taking behaviour. It may manifest in a variety of different ways. And so this idea that you can usurp, you know, the - the proper channels to get the outcomes that you want, all of this being imprinted on a very malleable brain at the moment."
- The balance for the Court, is between the acceptance of the importance of a parental relationship to their psychological wellbeing and the potential deleterious impact such a relationship has on them.
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- It is Dr [D]'[s] ultimate position at paragraph 55 of his second report that "Mr [Meidner] has proven himself to be unable to spend time with the children without enacting pressure and duress" and that "meaningful intervention is required with Mr [Meidner] if he is going to amend his concerning approach to the situation with the children".
- When asked about the father's ability to comply with Court orders, in light of the secret messages and fake accounts established to enable undetectable communication, Dr [D] stated that in his view the father was treating the orders of the Court as a gentle recommendation as opposed to a legally binding requirement.
- Ultimately, regarding the father's capacity to provide for the children, Dr [D] stated:
"...Mr [Meidner], you know, loves his children. He adores [X], and he - he wants to play a really active role in their lives. And he can't be chided for that, but his execution of things has created high-risk scenarios.
...increasingly, Mr [Meidner], in my view, has revealed himself to be entirely unconcerned with what the court orders and various other requirements, including, you know, the weaponisation of police and Child Protective Services and these sort of statutory bodies and what that creates is, I guess, a really unnerving kind of culture within the children, a culture where if you don't want to do something you can employ whatever means you deem suitable to get the outcome you want."
- The capacity of the father to influence the actions and decisions of [X] became more apparent throughout these proceedings. The concern for the court is the father's incapacity to stop until he's successful in getting [X] to Melbourne. While lip service is given to condoning [X]'s risky and deceptive behaviour, the father's continual influence on [X] to subvert the orders and authorities demonstrates a significant absence in positive parental capacity.
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- Having regard to all the evidence I am of the view that the father does not have the requisite insight to reflect on his conduct and the impact that this may have on the children, particularly [X]. I am of the view that he does not have the capacity to cease his behaviour of manipulation, deception and denigration which ultimately has been held to be a risk to the children's ongoing wellbeing and health.
"vexatious proceedings" includes:
(a) proceedings that are an abuse of the process of a court or tribunal; and
(b) proceedings instituted in a court or tribunal to harass or annoy, to cause delay or detriment, or for another wrongful purpose; and
(c) proceedings instituted or pursued in a court or tribunal without reasonable ground; and
(d) proceedings conducted in a court or tribunal in a way so as to harass or annoy, cause delay or detriment, or achieve another wrongful purpose.
(Emphasis in original)
- Sub-paragraph (c) of the definition makes clear it is enough for the proposed proceeding to be characterised as vexatious if it is "without reasonable ground".
- For clarity then, the task now at hand is quite different from the tasks undertaken by the primary judge. When making [parenting orders, the primary judge] had to be satisfied they were made in the children's best interests (s 60CA and s 65AA of the Act). When making [a harmful proceeding order, the primary judge] had to be satisfied there were reasonable grounds to believe the parties and/or the children would likely suffer harm if fresh proceedings were brought in the future (s 102QAC). However, it only now needs to be determined whether the applicant's intended appeal from those orders is "without reasonable ground". If so, leave to appeal must be refused.
1. Apprehended Bias and Procedural Unfairness
1.1. The trial judge's conduct gives rise to a reasonable apprehension of bias, contrary to the principle in Ebner v Official Trustee in Bankruptcy [2000] HCA 63; (2000) 205 CLR 337.
1.2. The judge failed to disclose early-on a personal frequent working relationship with the mother's counsel, contrary to Livesey v New South Wales Bar Association [1983] HCA 17; (1983) 151 CLR 288.
1.3. The father's affidavits ([...], Ms [J]) were rejected as "too late" while affidavits filed later (e.g. [...]) were accepted.
1.4. The Court permitted a fishing expedition into the father's bank and phone records without relevance or legal basis, breaching fairness principles.
1.5. The judge repeatedly adopted the procedural requests of the mother's counsel without scrutiny, including suppressing therapeutic evidence against expert recommendations. The mother's council [sic] has chosen the ICL.
2. Failure to Apply the Best Interests Principle Individually ([Z])
2.1. The Court failed to assess the child [Z]'s best interests separately under s 60CC(2)-(3) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
2.2. There was no evidence of risk or harm associated with [Z] spending time with her father, yet her time was wholly suspended.
2.3. The order failed to consider emotional harm from severing [Z]'s paternal relationship and was disproportionate and punitive.
2.4. This failure constitutes legal error under Bondelmonte v Bondelmonte [2017] HCA 8; (2017) 259 CLR 662.
3. Misapplication of Law - Child's Wishes and Maturity ([X])
3.1. The judge failed to give adequate weight to [X]'s consistent and clearly expressed views, including those made to police and his school.
3.2. The Court relied on Isles & Nelissen [2022] FedCFamC1A 97; (2022) FLC 94-092, where the children in the quoted case were way younger, whereas [X] is nearly 15.
3.3. The Court failed to apply the High Court's direction in Bondelmonte that views of a mature child must be meaningfully engaged with.
3.4. [X]'s repeated absconding and distress were insufficiently considered as independent indicators of his wishes and mental state.
4. Improper Weight Given to Dr [D]'[s] Expert Report
4.1. The trial judge mischaracterised or ignored favourable conclusions from Dr [D] that supported the father's care of [X]. Dr [D] noted the risk of psychological distress if [X] were returned to his mother's care and the importance of his autonomy.
4.2. The Court selectively quoted Dr [D] to support the mother's case and failed to apply his warnings consistently.
5. Exclusion of Religious and Cultural Identity
5.1. The judge made parenting orders that ignored the children's [religious] upbringing, including their [religious practice] and planned [religious practice].
Orders only reflected the mother's [religious] traditions (e.g. [...]), breaching the principle in s 60CC(3)(g).
This constitutes a failure to treat both parents' cultural identities equally, suggesting religious bias.
6. Failure to Consider [Y]'s Contradictory Views
6.1. The Court failed to address or explain [Y]'s inconsistent positions as to where he wished to live. On 23 April 2024, [Y] told observer, [...], that he wanted to stay with his father. In contrast, later statements to Dr [D] and DFFH reversed this position without any intervening cause. The Court failed to consider whether the child's views were shaped by maternal coaching, as warned by experts.
7. Rejection of Relevant and Probative Affidavit Evidence
7.1. The Court's refusal to accept Ms [J]'s affidavit - which offered independent, neutral observations of [X]'s distress - was procedurally unfair.
Ms [J] has experienced abuse herself and observed [X] after absconding, it must be noted that Ms [J] is in her final stages of her [science] degree.
Her affidavit was arbitrarily excluded despite relevance.
8. Factual Oversights and Errors of Inference
The judge found "no evidence" that the mother failed in decision-making, ignoring breaches of consent orders 2022, such as unilateral school changes [mother's religion] education. Also in breach of orders when the mother did not make [Z] available during the father's weekend in 5th April 2024.
The Court accepted the mother's statements as fact without cross-examination, while doubting the father's evidence supported by records.
The judge failed to engage with the documented suicide note [X] wrote while in the mother's care, dismissing it as non-evidentiary.
9. Denial of Time with [Y] and [Z] Without Proper Basis
The Court suspended the father's time with all children based on concerns about [X], without individualised findings of risk for [Y] or [Z].
This global suspension of contact was disproportionate and contrary to Bondelmonte v Bondelmonte.
10. Predetermination and Complaint Lodged Pre-Judgment
10.1. The father lodged a formal complaint with the Chief Justice during trial, citing perceived bias, procedural issues, and the judge's admitted personal frequent working relationship with opposing counsel.
10.2. The final judgment reflected the very concerns raised, including disproportionate scrutiny of the father and acceptance of only adverse material.
- The father attempted to move the hearing to Division 1 during the hearing on 20th August 2024, but [the primary judge] insisted on being the sitting judge. The father already knew he will not get a fair trial.
Failure to Apply the Paramount Consideration:
The Learned Primary Judge erred by failing to adequately consider and assess the Mother's mental health history, including past depression and suicidal ideation, and the potential unacceptable risk of psychological harm to the children pursuant to s 60CC(2)(b) of the Family Law Act 1975, thus failing to take into account a material consideration (applying the principles of Isles & Nelissen) ..
The Learned Primary Judge erred in the exercise of discretion by failing to impose conditions or make restraining orders sufficient to prevent the Mother from relocating the children to a remote rural area. This failure resulted in orders that materially prejudice the children's best interests, specifically by:
- Failing to adequately consider the severe disruption and detriment to the children's established social, community, and educational support networks.
- Failing to adequately apply the relevant principles under s60CC of the Family Law Act 1975 regarding the childrens' [sic] needs to maintain a relationship with their current social circle and community. Consequently, the orders were outside the reasonable ambit of the Court's discretion and plainly unjust.
As of May 2024 when the father's time with the children had been stopped the Judge failed to draw appropriate inferences from evidence that the Mother was and is pitting the children against each other, leading to a significant and documented deterioration in the sibling relationship, thereby failing to prioritise the children's protection from psychological harm and conflict (s60CC(2)(ca)).
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(a) Making an error in approach or principle;
(b) Failing to consider a relevant circumstance and/or considering an irrelevant circumstance;
(c) Making an error in the findings of fact such that the finding is unsupported by the evidence; or
(d) Making orders that fall so outside a reasonable exercise of discretion that the orders were "unreasonable or plainly unjust".
(a) As to Ground 2, the complaint as to a failure to assess Z's best interests "separately" is misconceived. The consideration and evaluation of her interests are at [145]-[150] and [236]-[240].
(b) As to Ground 3 and Ground 6, the father's complaints that the primary judge "failed to apply the High Court's direction in Bondelmonte v Bondelmonte [2017] HCA 8; (2017) 259 CLR 662 that the views of a mature child must be meaningfully engaged with", implicitly developed by the father as failing to engage with a relevant consideration as to a child's views (s 60CC(2)(b)), are forlorn. X's views are closely considered and weighed by the primary judge (at [210]-[220]), including accepting that the evidence demonstrated a clear desire of X to live in Melbourne. The primary judge appropriately adopted caution in assessing the weight to be afforded to X's views having regard to the complex dynamics and relationships within the familial environment. Y's views are considered and weighed (at [211]-[214] and [219]). The primary judge found that "[t]o accept [each of] the children's stated views on face value diminishes or minimises a pattern of behaviour that the father has engaged in, and continues to engage in, to control the decisions of the children and their lives". The complaints by way of Ground 3 and Ground 6 hence devolve to a failure to give sufficient weight to the children's wishes. That complaint has no merit for the reasons identified in Grounds 4, 6, 12 and 13.
(c) As to Ground 5, the cultural identity of the children, being part of the considerations as to parental capacity (s 60CC(2)(d)), is broadly weighed by the primary judge (at [180] -[186]). The consideration of these factors is subservient to the priority to not expose the children to an unacceptable risk of harm to their safety. No error is identified by Ground 5.
(d) As to Ground 9, the risk posed to Y and Z is evaluated and determined (at [242]-[257]). The ground fails.
I certify that the preceding sixty (60) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of the Honourable Justice Campton.
Bondelmonte v Bondelmonte (2017) 259 CLR 662; [2017] HCA 8
CDJ v VAJ (1998) 197 CLR 172; [1998] HCA 67
Charisteas v Charisteas (2021) 273 CLR 289; [2021] HCA 29
DL v The Queen (2018) 356 ALR 197; [2018] HCA 26
Ebner v Official Trustee in Bankruptcy (2000) 205 CLR 337; [2000] HCA 63
Edwards v Noble (1971) 125 CLR 296; [1971] HCA 54
House v The King (1936) 55 CLR 499; [1936] HCA 40
Kioa v West (1985) 159 CLR 550; [1985] HCA 81
SZBEL v Minister for Immigration and Multicultural and Indigenous Affairs (2006) 228 CLR 152; [2006] HCA 63
Vakauta v Kelly (1989) 167 CLR 568; [1989] HCA 44
Whisprun Pty Ltd v Dixon (2003) 200 ALR 447; [2003] HCA 48
(2003) 200 ALR 447
(1983) 151 CLR 288
(2017) 259 CLR 662
(1998) 197 CLR 172
(2021) 273 CLR 289
(2018) 356 ALR 197
(2000) 205 CLR 337
(1971) 125 CLR 296
(1936) 55 CLR 499
(1985) 159 CLR 550
(2006) 228 CLR 152
(1989) 167 CLR 568