[2025] FedCFamC2F 608
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Federal Circuit and Family Court (Div 2)
2025-05-13
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FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (DIVISION 2)
(a) A fully completed financial statement; and
(b) Written submissions in relation to the questions of penalty and costs.
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under a pseudonym has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
THE COURT ORDERS THAT:
1. All extant parenting orders are discharged.
2. [Ms Lambert] ('the Mother') have sole parental responsibility for the child [X] born [in] 2019 ('the child').
3. In exercising sole parental responsibility in accordance with Order 2, the Mother shall:
(a) inform [Mr Carrick] ('the Father') of any of any long term decision regarding any major long term issues relating to the child that require a decision and invite the Father to provide her with any views he has in relation to such decision for the child within seven (7) days of receiving a written request from the Mother to do so; and
(b) consider the Father's views; and then
(c) inform the Father of any decision made by her within seven (7) days of such a decision being made.
4. The child live with the Mother.
5. Commencing 2 August 2024 (unless an alternative starting date is agreed in writing) the child spend time with the Father as follows:
(a) On a semi supervised basis on four (4) occasions each alternate Friday from 2:45 pm until 4:15 pm, with the first and last 15 minutes of each period to take place at the [B] Children's Contact Service;
(b) thereafter for four (4) occasions each alternate Saturday from 10:00 am until 4:30 pm;
(c) thereafter for four (4) occasions each alternate weekend from 10:00 am Saturday until 4:30 pm Sunday;
(d) thereafter, until the child commences full-time school, each alternate weekend from 4:30 pm Friday until 4:30 pm Sunday.
(e) From when the child commences full-time school, each alternate weekend from 4:30 pm Friday until the commencement of the school day on the following Monday, (extended to begin on Thursday at 4.30 pm or conclude on Tuesday at 9:00 am if the Friday or Monday is a public holiday or non-school day);
(f) upon the child commencing time pursuant to order 5(d), during each gazetted school holiday period, the Father's time as set out in order 5(d) is extended to conclude at 4:30 pm the following Wednesday; and
(g) upon the child commencing full-time school, for each of the child's gazetted school holidays as follows:
(i) for one week in the first, second and third term gazetted school holidays, with the time to commence on the Friday at 4:30 pm of the week the Father would otherwise spend with the child pursuant to Order 5(e), and conclude on the following Friday at 4:30 pm;
(ii) for one half of the gazetted summer school holidays, on a week on/week off basis (Friday 4:30 pm until the following Friday 4:30 pm), commencing on the Friday of the week the Father would otherwise spend with the child pursuant to Order 5(e).
6. Notwithstanding any other Order, the Mother and Father shall spend time with the child on special occasions as follows:
Christmas
(a) with the Mother from 3:00 pm on Christmas Eve until 3:00 pm on Christmas Day and with the Father from 3:00 pm Christmas Day until 3:00 pm Boxing Day, in each even calendar year; and
(b) with the Father from 3:00 pm on Christmas Eve until 3:00 pm on Christmas Day and with the Mother from 3:00 pm on Christmas Day until 3:00 pm on Boxing Day in each odd calendar year;
(c) with the Mother from 3:00 pm Easter Thursday until 3:00 pm Easter Sunday and with the Father from 3:00 pm Easter Sunday until 3:00 pm Easter Tuesday in each even calendar year and
(d) with the Father from 3:00 pm Easter Thursday until 3:00 pm Easter Sunday and with the Mother from 3:00 pm Easter Sunday until 3:00 pm Easter Tuesday in each odd calendar year;
(e) for Father's Day with the Father from 4:30 pm on the day preceding Father's Day to 4:30 pm on Father's day;
(f) for Mother's Day with the Mother from 4:30 pm on the day preceding Mother's Day to 4:30 pm on Mother's day;
(g) on the child's birthday the parent with whom she is not living with at the time shall spend time with her:
(i) from 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm, if on a school day; or
(ii) from 2:00 pm to 6:00 pm if on non-school day.
7. The Father's time be suspended on [C] and [D]'s birthdays from 10:00 am until 2:00 pm if such birthdays fall on a weekend that the child is in the Father's care.
8. All changeovers be conducted at the [B] Children's Contact Service (unless otherwise agreed in writing between the parents).
9. Each of the parents enrol in and complete the [E Program] or similar program within six (6) months of the date of these Orders.
10. The Father complete the Circle of Security program or similar within 6 months of the date of these Orders.
11.Within 28 days of the date of this Order, unless another form of written communication is agreed between the parties, both parties must do all things to sign up to the Our Family Wizard App and, pay one half the cost of the annual subscription each, as and when it falls due.
12. The Mother and Father exchange all communication relating to the child via the 'Our Family Wizard App' or such other parenting communication method as may be agreed between the parties in writing, save for in the circumstances of an emergency.
13. For the purpose of communicating information between the parties, the parties shall communicate with each other in a respectful and courteous manner.
14. Each party refrain from:
(a) making critical and derogatory remarks in relation to the other party in the presence of/or hearing of the child and that each party shall do all things necessary to ensure that no third party makes any such critical or derogatory remarks about the other parties in the presence of/or hearing of the child; and
(b) Discussing the proceedings, or any issues arising out of these proceedings, with the child or permitting any third party to do so.
(a) Exposing the child to violence including physical or verbal threats or intimidation, whether such threats or intimidation or violence be directed at the child, the Mother, the Father or any other member of either party's household; and
(b) Physically disciplining the child.
16. All extant applications are dismissed.[1]
(Emphasis added)
(1) A person contravenes a child - related order only if:
(a) the person is a person (other than a child) to whom the order applies and:
(i) the person intentionally fails to comply with the order; or
(ii) the person makes no reasonable attempt to comply with the order; or
(b) the person is not a person to whom the order applies, and the person is not a child, but:
(i) the person intentionally prevents compliance with the order by a person to whom the order applies; or
(ii) the person aids or abets a contravention of the order by a person to whom the order applies.
Whether the steps taken are a 'reasonable attempt to comply' with a children's contact Order will ultimately depend upon the facts and circumstances of each case. However, it is accepted that the residence parent has a duty to ensure that the child not only attends, but does so in a positive manner. The way that the obligation has been expressed in different cases throws further light on the extent of the obligation:
(a) The residence parent must actively encourage the child to attend contact as ordered;
(b) 'The courts have been careful to consider whether in reality, not just on the face of things, the person has taken reasonable steps to deliver the child: O'Brien & O'Brien [1992] FamCA 52; (1993) FLC 92-396 at [13];
(c) It is not open to the custodial parent to do no more than bring the child to the front entrance and invite it to walk of its own accord to the access parent at the garden gate, and to argue that if the child refuses, all her obligations are satisfied by merely standing, as I put it, with folded arms behind the child, doing nothing either to encourage the child to walk to the father or to discourage the child from remaining on the doorstep ... Stevenson v Hughes [1993] FamCA 14; (1993) FLC 92-363;
(d) Similarly, a mere request that the child telephone, or come to the telephone, is insufficient; Once an Order for contact has been made, it is 'no longer a case of saying to the child: you go if you want to, if you wish to go you go, or you make up your own mind': see O'Brien & O'Brien (supra);
(f) A residence parent ought to make 'a child understand that it was the [residence] attitude that the child had to go [on contact]': see O'Brien & O'Brien (supra);
(g) The residence parent is expected to bring to bear all the authority that they have over a child, just as they would to ensure the child attends school: See P & P [2002] FMCAfam 315 (Unrep) at [14].
(h) It must be noted that 'an invitation can be designed to persuade the child that this is something which the mother encourages or approves of, or it can be stated in a tone or a manner which of its own suggests that this is your obligation under the Order but mummy really does not mind if you say no.' Such an invitation is insufficient: see Stevenson v Hughes (supra);
(i) It is not sufficient to make a token effort that compliance by the utterance of a few phrases which, in the main, are designed to impart to the child not positive encouragement to go on access, but to convey the burden on both the child and the custodian of compliance with the obligation': see Stevenson v Hughes (supra) at [6];
(j) 'It is not sufficient discharge of a custodian's obligations, express or implied, to point to words and actions and to say, in effect: 'You see, I tried. But the child does not want to go.' And thereafter to figuratively fold their arms as if that were an end of the matter': Stevenson v Hughes (supra) at [6]; and
(k) The residence parent is 'not entitled to treat the other party as an enemy who are to be thwarted wherever possible either by active steps or positive resistance': Stevenson v Hughes (supra) at [8].
(a) the person contravened the order because the person reasonably believed that the person's actions constituting the contravention were necessary to protect the health or safety of the person, a child or any other person; and
(b) the period of the contravention was not longer than necessary to protect the health or safety of the person, child or other person.
This section does not limit the circumstances in which a person may have a reasonable excuse for contravening a child - related order.
Accordingly, it is not a question of whether the respondent was of the view that the carrying out of the order was not in the child's best interests. Rather, the Court must be satisfied that the respondent believed it was necessary to protect the health or safety of someone, and that belief must be reasonable. Otherwise, the Mother must establish some other basis upon which she ought to be excused.
There will, of course, be cases where a child is so distressed that it would not be unreasonable for time to not occur. As observed by Riethmuller J in Stamp at [24] the distress of a child, "May give rise to a claim of reasonable excuse, if it results in risk of harm to the child's emotional wellbeing." I agree with his Honour's observations in that case and in TVT & TLM [2006] FMCAfam 20 at [40], that the circumstances in which a child's distress might amount to a reasonable excuse are likely to be rare unless there has been something untoward that has occurred between the making of the orders for time and the non-compliance with those orders. If otherwise, per Stamp at [24] non-compliance;
...would simply be a flagrant challenge to the findings of the Court when making the contact orders as the original orders must have been found by the Court to be appropriate parenting orders at the time they were made;[3]
(Emphasis added)
Date, time, and location of the allege act or omission
The Respondent, without reasonable excuse, prevented the child X from spending time with the Applicant
Order 5(a) made by Judge Turnbull in LNC57 of 2021 made 30 July 2024
13 September 2024 at 2.45pm; Region GG Children's Contact Service, S Service, HH Street, City JJ, TAS
8.[X] saw [Mr Carrick] on 30 August 2024. After the visit I noticed that [X] was again angry and aggressive, and she was later clingy to me and to my husband**. After the visit I asked how the time was, and [X]** said, "it's a secret". We were driving back from the contact centre at the time with my husband. I was worried about this comment, but I thought I would wait and see if [X] told me more later that day. I did not want to put her under pressure.
9. That night there were storms, and [X] came and got into bed with me because she was frightened. My husband was at work on night shift. [X] seemed stressed and I asked what was going on. She said it was a secret. I said, "secrets are not safe". She said she didn't know what to tell me because she didn't want to get [Mr Carrick] in trouble. She said, "[Mr Carrick] told me it is a secret and that if I kept the secret next time, he would buy me any lolly or toy I wanted".
10. We do not keep secrets in our family, and I have always said to my kids that "safe adults do not ask kids to keep secrets". I have further enrolled the children in workshops ran by [O Centre] facilitated through their school in order to educate them around help seeking behaviour and safety. Additionally, I contacted [KK Centre] to make them aware of the situation, and the three children, namely, [C], [D] and [X] are on the waiting list to be seen by [O Centre].
11 . [X] was due to spend time again with [Mr Carrick] on 13 September 2024. [X] was sick and I took her to the doctor, and I communicated this to the Contact Centre, and they communicated it to [Mr Carrick].
...
13. I understand that [Mr Carrick] is saying that he did tell [X] to keep a secret but that the secret was that they were going to McDonalds. I do not accept that. I do not understand why [Mr Carrick] would keep McDonald's a secret. [X] eats McDonalds, including with [Mr Carrick]. When he was seeing her at the Contact Centre he was taking her McDonalds. It is not something that he would need to be secretive about nor have I ever expressed any concerns about her having fast food.
14. Priming a child to keep secrets from another parent has disastrous longitudinal outcomes to a child's mental, emotional and developmental wellbeing. It constitutes coercive control and family and domestic violence. It further constitutes parental alienation and inhibits a child's ability to seek help. It can additionally create feelings of isolation, anxiety, and forces a child to betray one parent over another which can result in feeling of guilt. I am concerned that this behaviour has caused damage to [X]'s relationship with her father and caused her to feel scared to be in his care.
15. My daughter, [C], has progressively declined since contact resumed. Her night terrors have escalated, and she is unable to sleep in her own bed. She has been diagnosed with Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder by [Ms LL] from [MM Clinic] as a result of the child abuse [Mr Carrick] inflicted against her. She has also since been attending the Paediatric clinic through the hospital and has further expressed suicidal ideation. This is concerning to me as a parent, and I fear that contact being reinstated will further contribute to her decline.[9]
(Emphasis added)
Date, time, and location of the allege act or omission
The Respondent, without reasonable excuse, prevented the child X from spending time with the Applicant
Order 5(a) made by Judge Turnbull in LNC57 of 2021 made 30 July 2024
27 September 2024 at 2.45pm; Region GG Children's Contact Service, S Service, HH Street, City JJ, TAS
12. [X] was next due to spend time with [Mr Carrick] on 27 September 2024, but she refused to go. She told me that her dad would be angry and that she would be in trouble**. I tried my best to encourage and support her. I said she would have fun and that her dad wouldn't be mad. I was liaising with staff at the contact centre at the time. I told them what had been happening and that [X] was refusing to go. They suggested encouraging her and telling her that it was safe, and she would have a good time. I adopted those recommendations, and I worked hard to encourage her to go. It did not work.[11]**
(Emphasis added)
Date, time, and location of the allege act or omission
The Respondent, without reasonable excuse, prevented the child X from spending time with the Applicant
Order 5(a) made by Judge Turnbull in LNC57 of 2021 made 30 July 2024
11 October 2024 at 2.45pm; Region GG Children's Contact Service, S Service, HH Street, City JJ, TAS
14. Priming a child to keep secrets from another parent has disastrous longitudinal outcomes to a child's mental, emotional and developmental wellbeing. It constitutes coercive control and family and domestic violence. It further constitutes parental alienation and inhibits a child's ability to seek help. It can additionally create feelings of isolation, anxiety, and forces a child to betray one parent over another which can result in feeling of guilt. I am concerned that this behaviour has caused damage to [X]'s relationship with her father and caused her to feel scared to be in his care.[12]
Date, time, and location of the allege act or omission
The Respondent, without reasonable excuse, prevented the child X from spending time with the Applicant
Order 5(a) made by Judge Turnbull in LNC57 of 2021 made 30 July 2024
25 October 2024 at 2.45pm; Region GG Children's Contact Service, S Service, HH Street, City JJ, TAS
In contempt proceedings, it is usual for the question of penalty to be separately addressed after the findings of contempt are made (Mead v Mead [2007] HCA 25; (2007) 235 ALR 197 at 198). The same procedure should apply in respect of contravention proceedings. That is because the evidence which is pertinent to the imposition of penalty is usually different from that which is relevant to the anterior question of fault.
I certify that the preceding thirty-seven (37) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of Judge Turnbull.
[1] Order of Judge Turnbull in Carrick & Lambert (Federal Circuit and family Court of Australia (Division 2), LNC576/2021, 31 July 2024).
[2] TVT & TLM [2005] FMCAfam20 at [33].
[3] Fermikis & Fermikis [2024] FedCFamC1F 879, [39]-[40].
[4] Caballes & Tallant [2014] FamCAFC 112; (2014) FLC 93-596; Jackson & Fordham (1995) FLC 92-561; Dobbs & Dobbs (2021) FLC 91-021; Jets & Maker [2010] FamCAFC 55.
[5] Sahari & Sahari [1976] FamCA 59; (1976) FLC 90-086; Attreed & Attreed [1980] FamCA 81; (1980) FLC 90-907; Stevenson & Hughes [1993] FamCA 14; (1993) FLC 92-363.
[6] Sahari & Sahari [1976] FamCA 59; (1976) FLC 90-086; Nieuwstraten & Nieuwstraten [1987] FamCA 11; (1987) FLC 91-826; Stevenson & Hughes [1993] FamCA 14; (1993) FLC 92-363.
[7] Caballes & Tallant [2014] FamCAFC 112; (2014) FLC 93-596.
[8] Exhibit F1: Subpoena Notes from B Children's Contact Service, 3-6.
[9] Affidavit of Ms Lambert 5 March 2025 ('Mother's Affidavit') [8]-[11], [13]-[15].
[10] Jones v Dunkel [1959] HCA 8; (1959) 101 CLR 298.
[13] Makita (Australia) Pty Ltd v Sprowles [2001] NSWCA 305.
[14] Galvis & Galvis [2024] FedCFamC1A 123.
Jones
Dunkel
(1959) 101 CLR 298
(2007) 235 ALR 197