[2025] FedCFamC2F 825
General information, not legal advice.
Federal Circuit and Family Court (Div 2)
2025-07-24
Original judgment source is linked above.
FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (DIVISION 2)
(a) Education;
(b) Health;
(c) Religious and cultural upbringing; and
(d) Any change to their living arrangements that would make it more difficult for the children to spend time with, or communicate with, their Father.
(a) The Mother is to email or text message the Father setting out the decision she wishes to make not less than fourteen (14) days prior to making a decision;
(b) The Father is to respond to the Mother's email or text message with his views about the decision to be made within seven (7) days; and
(c) The Mother will consider the Father's views and will then make the final decision.
(a) During the school term, each alternate weekend from 3pm Friday to 3pm Sunday, or such other time as the contact centre is able to accommodate changeover on a Sunday; and
(b) Via Facetime each Tuesday and Thursday nights between 6.00pm and 6.30pm (the time zone being the State in which the children are living) with the Father to initiate and terminate the call.
(a) With the Mother for the first half of the April, June/July and September/October New South Wales gazetted school holidays in even-numbered years, and for the second half in odd-numbered years; and
(b) With the Father for the first half of the April, June/July and September/October New South Wales gazetted school holidays in odd-numbered years, and for the second half in even-numbered years; and
(c) During the December/January New South Wales gazetted school holidays, with the Mother for weeks 1, 3 and 5 in even-numbered years and weeks 2, 4 and 6 in odd-numbered years; and
(d) During the December/January New South Wales gazetted school holidays, with the Father for weeks 2, 4 and 6 in even-numbered years and weeks 1, 3 and 5 in odd-numbered years.
(a) The school holidays occurring in April, June/July and September/October shall be deemed to commence at 10am on the day immediately following the last day of the previous school term and shall be deemed to end on the Sunday immediately preceding the commencement of the new school term; and
(b) For the December/January school holidays, the time with each parent is deemed to commence at 10am on the first Saturday of the school holiday period and shall be deemed to conclude at 10am the following Saturday, so that the children spend this school holiday period with their parents on a week-about basis.
(a) With the Mother on Mother's Day from 3.00pm the day before Mother's Day until 3.00pm on Mother's Day;
(b) With the Father on Father's Day from 3.00pm the day before Father's Day until 3.00pm on Father's Day;
(c) Communication via Facetime between 6.00pm and 6.30pm on each of the children's birthdays with the parent who is not living with the children at that time to initiate and terminate the call (the time zone being the State in which the children are living);
(d) Communication via Facetime between 6.00pm and 6.30pm on each of the parent's birthdays, with the birthday parent to initiate and terminate the call.
(a) In odd-numbered years, with the Mother from 3.00pm 24 December until 3.00pm 25 December and with the Father from 3.00pm 25 December until 3.00pm 26 December; and
(b) In even-numbered years, with the Father from 3.00pm 24 December until 3.00pm 25 December and with the Mother from 3.00pm 25 December until 3.00pm 26 December.
(a) On a school day at the children's school; and
(b) On a Saturday at B Contact Centre, City C New South Wales; and
(c) On a Sunday at the D Contact Centre at Suburb E in the State of Queensland.
(a) Their current residential address, mobile number and email address and will notify the other parent of any change within forty eight (48) hours of the change; and
(b) The names and contact details of any treating medical or other health practitioners who treat either of the children and will notify the other parent of any change within forty eight (48) hours of the change.
Engagement With Police Or State Child Welfare Authorities
(a) That parent, or either child, or any person living in that parent's household, has any engagement with any police service or any State child welfare agency;
(b) If that parent, or either child, is a victim of family violence, or is exposed to family violence;
(c) If that parent is named as an aggrieved, or the children are named as an aggrieved, on any family violence or protection order; and
(d) If that parent is named as a respondent in any family violence or protection order.
(a) Any Protection order application;
(b) Any Protection order;
(c) Any Police witness statement given by that parent; and
(d) Any other document provided to that parent by any police service or State child welfare agency about that parent, either child, or that parent's partner.
(a) smoking or consuming cannabis while the children are in his care; and
(b) driving a motor vehicle with the children while they are in his care within 12 hours of smoking or consuming cannabis.
(a) Attending the other parent's residence or place of work;
(b) Approaching the other parent at any place, including at changeover;
(c) Communicating with the other parent unless expressly in accordance with these Orders; and
(d) Physically disciplining the children or allowing any other person to physically discipline the children.
(a) Speak of the other parent respectfully;
(b) Not insult or speak badly about the other parent, that parent's partner, or that parent's family directed to either child, or in the presence or hearing of either child; and
(c) Ensure that no other person insults or speaks badly of the other parent to either child, or in the presence or hearing of either child, and shall take prompt action to remove the children from the presence of the person who is doing so.
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under a pseudonym has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
(1) That she have sole decision making authority for the children's major long term issues;
(2) That the two children move into her primary care; and
(3) The children spend time with their Father on each alternate weekend and half the school holidays.
(1) That if the parents remain living where they currently live, which is three hours apart, then the children will spend time with the Mother every second weekend and half the holidays; and
(2) If the parents move to live within forty-five minutes' drive of each other's residence, then the time the children spend with their Mother can increase to five nights a fortnight during the school term in addition to half the school holidays.
(1) Whether the children ought to remain in the Father's primary care;
(2) Whether they should move to live in the Mother's primary care; and
(3) The allocation of decision making authority.
(1) Case Outline filed 3 October 2024;
(2) Her Amended Initiating Application filed 22 May 2023;
(3) Her Mother's Trial Affidavit filed 10 September 2024;
(4) Her Affidavit in Reply filed 17 September 2024;
(5) Her Financial Statement filed 8 April 2024; and
(6) Affidavit of Ms J filed 10 September 2024.
(1) Case Outline filed 3 October 2024;
(2) His Amended Response to Initiating Application filed 25 March 2023;
(3) His Affidavit filed 25 March 2024;
(4) His Affidavit filed 19 April 2024;
(5) His Affidavit (Updating) filed 10 September 2024;
(6) His Affidavit (Response) filed 19 September 2024;
(7) His Financial Statement filed 25 March 2024;
(8) Affidavit of Mr K filed 25 March 2024; and
(9) Affidavit of Ms L filed 25 March 2024.
(1) Case Outline filed 7 October 2024;
(2) Family Report prepared by Ms M dated 7 February 2023 (Exhibit 2);
(3) Affidavit of Ms M filed 15 December 2023;
(4) Affidavit of Ms M filed 29 August 2024; and
(5) Affidavit of Dr N filed 7 March 2023.
"The focus of the fact finding process is on the behaviour and the impact of the behaviour. It is the behaviour that coerces or controls. It requires action and reaction. A single act is unlikely to be coercive or controlling but it may be. Behaviour that coerces or controls may be innocuous, subtle, capable of different interpretations, complex, undermining, etc. Such behaviour may create impossible expectations for the other family member. It may be transactional and involve punishments for perceived failures. The impact of the behaviour can be insidious. A confident and happy family member may lose their confidence, their self-esteem, question their sanity, shun their family and friends, become depressed, irritable, inefficient, and unhappy. There may be times when they strike out either verbally or physically.
(1) Identify the behaviour about which complaint was made;
(2) Identify the full context of the behaviour including any explanation that may be given by the alleged perpetrator;
(3) Identify the impact of the behaviour on the alleged victim (mere assertion by the alleged victim that they feel coerced or controlled is insufficient);
(4) Make all relevant factual findings; and
(5) Explain why the behaviour is or is not family violence that coerces or controls the family member and if the alleged behaviour does not entail a course or pattern of conduct, explain how the behaviour nevertheless can be characterised as behaviour that coerces or controls, if so found.
(1) The Father was either denying or minimising the family violence he perpetrated against the Mother and to which the children had been exposed;
(2) The Father withheld the children while Y was still being breastfed which I accept would have been traumatic for the Mother and destabilising for the children;
(3) The Father claimed the Mother was emotionally unstable, even though she was suffering trauma from the violence that he had perpetrated in addition to the fact that he withheld the children from her;
(4) The Father knew the Mother was at times living at his parents' place with the children and he knew that she complained to his parents about letting him stay there too;
(5) The Father was smoking cannabis in January 2022, and indeed he has never stopped. Yet, he pointed to the Mother's use of cannabis as the pretext for withholding the children;
(6) The Father's actions either caused or significantly contributed to the Mother's emotional dysregulation which the Father then used to his advantage;
(7) By having the care of the children, he was able to move to live with his parents permanently, ousting the Mother, this then caused the Mother to be homeless; and
(8) The Father then pointed to the Mother's homelessness as a reason why she could not regain the primary care of the children.
"It's absolutely abhorrent that you would hang up on your daughters because [X]'s hair was cut. Do you not have it in you to show them love? I feel so sorry for them."
Police callout to Father's home in February 2024
(1) The Father is not a reliable witness;
(2) A person the Father chose to be in a relationship with allegedly had mental health problems;
(3) This person he chose to be in a relationship with turned up at 2:00am in the morning and banged on the door and behaved so erratically that Queensland Police attended; and
(4) The children were in the Father's care at this time inside the house.
(1) Him keeping the children from her, even though Y was still being breastfed;
(2) The Mother's mental and emotional state going into freefall;
(3) The Mother's payments from Centrelink being reduced significantly;
(4) The Mother being unable to afford stable accommodation; and
(5) The Father pointing to the Mother's mental state, lack of stable accommodation and drug use (even though he was still using drugs) to justify keeping the children in his primary care.
(1) I do not know what the underlying medical reason the Father has for taking medicinal cannabis;
(2) I do not know what affect the underlying medical reason has on his parenting capacity; and
(3) I do not know what impact the medicinal cannabis has on his parenting capacity.
(1) It likely impairs his thinking;
(2) It likely negatively impacts his behaviour as it did in 2014 and 2020;
(3) It likely impairs his parenting capacity; and
(4) It is likely the children are exposed to the Father's cannabis smoke.
"... there is no magic in a [Single expert report] a Judge is not bound to accept it and there should never be any suggestion that the [expert] is usurping the role of the Court or that the Judge is abdicating his responsibilities."
"...expert witnesses are not witnesses of fact except as to matters that they directly saw or heard, including for example, that which occurs during interviews they conduct. They express opinions by applying their qualifications and experience to certain factual assumptions. Their opinions can only ever be as reliable as the facts upon which they are premised. If at trial, the facts assumed by the expert to be true are either not proven or are proven to be incorrect, then the opinion evidence will necessarily be compromised. Moreover, expert witnesses usually breach their remit if they are drawn into and express an opinion about the underlying factual conflict."
(1) I am not satisfied that Ms M properly considered the impact of the Father's significant family violence on the Mother;
(2) I am not satisfied that Ms M properly considered the impact on the children, who are young and vulnerable, of having been exposed to the Father's family violence;
(3) Ms M relied on the fact that the Father said he had engaged in a men's behaviour change program, and other domestic violence courses, and that he was seeing a psychologist. I have no cogent evidence about any of these things;
(4) I am not satisfied that Ms M properly considered that the emotional dysregulation she observed in the Mother was either caused by, or substantially contributed to, by the Father's family violence;
(5) I am not satisfied that Ms M properly considered the impact on the Mother of having the children withheld from her in January 2022 when she was still breastfeeding Y;
(6) I find that Ms M seemed to minimise the Father's earlier acts of family violence on P's mother and how that pattern of violence continued in his relationship with this Mother;
(7) Ms M has, in my view, overly focused on the Mother's vulnerabilities, such as her drug use and her mental health and showed no curiosity for these same risk factors in the Father; and
(8) In cross-examination, Ms M conceded that she did not ask the Father why he was prescribed medicinal cannabis and she should have. In my view, she should have ascertained from the Father what the underlying reason was for his medicinal cannabis prescription so that she could properly assess the impact that condition, plus the medicinal cannabis would have on the Father's parenting capacity of these two young children.
IMPACT ON THE CHILDREN OF A CHANGE OF RESIDENCE
(1) The Father's mental health;
(2) The Father's underlying medical condition for which he is using medicinal cannabis;
(3) The Father's long-standing use of cannabis and the impact on his mental health; and
(4) The Father's violent offending and whether there is a connection between that violence and the Father's mental health and ongoing cannabis use.
(1) The Father being restrained by injunction from smoking cannabis whenever the children are in his care;
(2) The Father being restrained by injunction from driving anywhere with the children if he has taken cannabis in the 12 hours prior to the driving;
(3) The Father being restrained by injunction from physically disciplining the children. He will have to find another way to discipline them;
(4) The children spending only weekends during the school term with their Father. This means the Father will not have the stress of getting two young children off to school every day and tending to all their needs over extended periods of time; and
(5) Spending time with the Father over the school holidays without the pressure of school and will therefore be less stressful.
I certify that the preceding four hundred and forty-six (446) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of Judge Bertone.
[1] Baghti & Baghti and Ors [2015] FamCAFC 71; Whisprun Pty Ltd & Dixon [2003] HCA 48.
[3] Trudeau & Andrewson [2025] FedCFamC1A 26.
[4] Trudeau supra, [30]; Isles & Nelissen [2022]FedCFamC1A 97.
[5] Pickford & Pickford [2024] FedCFamC1A 249.
[7] Abramsson & Abramsson (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1A 86 [34].
[8] Father's Affidavit filed 25 March 2024.
[10] Ibid cited with approval in Abramsson supra.
[11] Bircher and Bircher [2018] FamCA 364
[15] Hall & Hall [1979] FamCA 73; (1979) FLC 90-713.
[16] Albert & Plowman [2020] FamCAFC 23.
[17] Trudeau & Andrewson [2025] FedCFamC1A 26.