austlii:cth/FedCFamC1F/2025/752
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FedCFamC1F
2025-10-28
Gill J
Original judgment source is linked above.
FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (DIVISION 1)
(a) The mother is to provide to the father (via his lawyers) details to facilitate such call (such as a Teams or Zoom link) no less than 72 hours prior to the scheduled call.
(b) The mother is to positively encourage the child to speak with his father.
(c) The mother is to provide the child with privacy during such calls, including:
(i) not to be within 10 meters of the child for the duration of the time;
(ii) not to be within the same room as the child for the duration of the time;
(iii) not allowing anyone else to be within 10 meters of the child or in the same room as the child for the duration of the time;
(iv) not recording such calls or allowing anyone else to do so.
(a) On 5, 6 and 7 December 2025 each day from 12 noon to 5:00pm, and on 9 and 10 December 2025 from 3.30pm until 6.30pm, provided:
(i) The first two visits are supervised by a professional supervision agency in accordance with Order 5(a)(ii) below; and
(ii) For the balance of the visits both of the paternal grandparents remain with the child at all times.
(a) The supervisor will be one of the following:
(i) provided they remain with the child at all times, either, or both, of the paternal grandparents; or if the grandparents are both unavailable;
(ii) a representative from D Family Services or another service as agreed by the parents and the ICL.
(b) That prior to supervising any visit each of the grandparents give and file an undertaking in the terms identified at Notation A of these orders.
(a) At the commencement of the father's time with the child and at the conclusion of the father's time with the child, changeover will occur with the mother delivering and collecting the child to and from the supervisor at the entrance of Venue U in Canberra or D Family Services (if applicable), or at such other public location as agreed between the parties in writing; and
(b) During the father's time with the child, he is at liberty to spend time with the child at any public location within Region Q provided such can be facilitated by the supervisor.
Leave to provide mother's September affidavit to third parties
(a) Lawyers advising him in relation to the child, including but not limited to lawyers in Country C, Country E and Country L; and
(b) Courts, police and other investigative bodies in other jurisdictions, including but not limited to those located in Country C, Country E and Country L, where such proceedings or investigations relate to the child, and/or to allegations made against the father by the mother.
(a) the immigration and visa status of the mother and the child, including:
(i) the pathway available to the mother to immediately reinstate her and X's bridging visas and the likely timeframe for that process;
(ii) the prospects of any review application lodged by the mother, and the likely timeframe for that process;
(iii) if the mother is unsuccessful, the timeframe within which the mother and the child must leave Australia;
(b) the impact on the father and any visa he needs to enter Australia, of a Family Violence Order.
(a) determined on the papers, with each party to file and serve any affidavit material (limited to 10 pages and five annexes) and submissions (limited to six pages) they wish to rely on by 3 November 2025.
(1) I agree to supervise the time between Mr Kristoffersen ("the father") and X.
(2) I am aware that it is alleged that the father has behaved in a psychologically and / or sexually abusive manner towards X.
(3) I have read and understand the 'Should I Supervise Contact' factsheet prepared by the South Australian Legal Services Commission.
(4) I will be present at all times while X is with the father during the periods when I have agreed to supervise, except when I go to the bathroom.
(5) I understand that the purpose of supervision is to keep X safe and to protect X from harm.
(6) I will intervene and/or end X's time with the father and make arrangements for X to be returned to the mother if at any time the father's behaviour or communication with X is unsafe or inappropriate.
(7) I agree to notify the mother's lawyers of any incidents in accordance with my obligations contained in this undertaking.
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under a pseudonym has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
(2) For the purposes of paragraph (1)(a), the court must consider the following matters:
(a) what arrangements would promote the safety (including safety from being subjected to, or exposed to, family violence, abuse, neglect, or other harm) of:
(i) the child; and
(ii) each person who has care of the child (whether or not a person has parental responsibility for the child);
(b) any views expressed by the child;
(c) the developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs of the child;
(d) the capacity of each person who has or is proposed to have parental responsibility for the child to provide for the child's developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs;
(e) the benefit to the child of being able to have a relationship with the child's parents, and other people who are significant to the child, where it is safe to do so;
(f) anything else that is relevant to the particular circumstances of the child.
...issues of fact or matters relating to the merits of the substantive case where findings are not possible. The Court also looks to the less contentious matters, such as the agreed facts and issues not in dispute...
...weigh the probabilities of competing claims and the likely impact on children in the event that a controversial assertion is acted upon or rejected. It is not always feasible when dealing with the immediate welfare of children simply to ignore an assertion because its accuracy has been put in issue.
...a predictive exercise and while it is, naturally enough, liable to be influenced by factual findings about past events, the contemplation of risk entails the foresight of possible harm...
(Emphasis in original)
It cannot be correct that the unacceptable risk of a child's sufferance of harm through future sexual abuse can only ever be established if it is proven a fact, on the balance of probabilities, that the child (or another) has already been sexually abused in the past. Depending upon the strength of the evidence placed before the court, the possibility of past sexual abuse may of itself be sufficient to establish the chance of future sexual abuse. That has long been accepted as true (Nikolakis v Nikolakis [2010] FamCAFC 52 at [41], [44], [49]-[53], [96]; Partington (aka Bande) v Cade (No 2) (2009) 42 Fam LR 401; (2009) FLC 93-422; [2009] FamCAFC 230 at [56]-[61]; Johnson v Page [2007] FamCA 1235; (2007) FLC 93-344 at 81,888-9; [2007] FamCA 1235 at [68], [71], [76], [77]).
(Emphasis in original)
[X] participated in what was described as a "free narrative account" with an officer of the agency, describing the father as having engaged in "weird stuff" constituted by watching [X] shower, putting his hands down the front of [X's] underpants in his genital region, and expressing that the father had caused him significant distress and fear.
There is reasonable evidence pointing to, as asserted by the father, a warm, important and appropriate relationship between the father and [X], exemplified during the period of retention in Europe.
There is evidence suggestive that the father otherwise poses a risk to the mother and her family, evidenced by purported threats.
(p)urposefully damaging [X's] perception of his father and instilling an extreme level of fear in [X] would have far-reaching consequences for [X's] psychological wellbeing, trust in others, and his self-identity. These behaviours appear entirely incongruent with safe and supportive parenting practices.
I certify that the preceding seventy-two (72) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of the Honourable Justice Gill.
[1] Phillips & Hansford (No 2) (2019) FLC 93-917 at [43]; Jollie & Dysart [2014] FamCAFC 149 at [45].
[2] Explanatory Memorandum, Family Law Amendment Bill 2023 (Cth).
[3] Salah at [37] citing Goode at [68].
[4] Isles & Nelissen at [50] citing Fitzwater at [140].
[5] Kristoffersen & Sticamas (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 203 at [55].
[6] Kristoffersen & Sticamas (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 203 at [72].
[7] Kristoffersen & Sticamas (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 203 at [74].
[8] Family Report dated 11 June 2025, paragraph 11.
[9] Family Report dated 11 June 2025, paragraph 53.
[10] Family Report dated 11 June 2025, paragraph 75.
[11] Family Report dated 11 June 2025, paragraph 66.
[12] Family Report dated 11 June 2025, paragraph 66.
Fitzwater
Fitzwater
(2019) 60 Fam LR 212
(2008) 235 CLR 125
(2009) 42 Fam LR 401