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FedCFamC1F
2025-12-24
Hartnett J
Original judgment source is linked above.
FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (DIVISION 1)
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under the pseudonym Dufour & Ono has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
Parental Responsibility
That the parents have equal shared parental responsibility for the care, welfare and development of [X] born [in 2022] ("the child").
That the parties have sole responsibility for making decisions about the day-to-day care, welfare and development of the child during the periods when the child is living with them except as otherwise provided in these Orders.
Time with the Child
3. That the child live with the Mother.
- That the child spend time with the Father as agreed, and failing agreement as follows:
a) From the age of 1 year, 6 months to 2 years;
Each Tuesday and Thursday from 3:00pm to 5:00pm; and
Each Saturday from 8:00am to 4:00pm.
(b) From the age of 2 years to 2 years, 6 months:
In week 1, and each alternate week thereafter, Tuesday and Thursday from 2:00pm until 6:00pm; and
In week 2, and each alternate week thereafter, Tuesday 2:00pm until 6:00pm and Saturday 8:00am until 6:00pm.
(c) From the age of 2 years, 6 months to 3 years;
In week 1, and each alternate week thereafter, Tuesday and Thursday from 2:00pm until 6:00pm; and;
In week 2, and each alternate week thereafter, Saturday 5:00pm until Sunday 5:00pm.
(d) From the age of 3 years to 5 years;
In week 1, and each alternate week thereafter, Tuesday and Thursday from 2:00pm until 6:00pm; and
In week 2, and each alternate week thereafter, Friday 5:00pm until Sunday 5:00pm.
(e) That upon the child turning 5 years, the Mother and Father shall participate in family dispute resolution counselling with a family relationship centre or a person authorised under section 10G of the Family Law Act 1975 to review the arrangements for the child.
Should either parent be unable to personally care for the child for in excess of 24 hours, they shall offer the other party the first right to care for the child, and in the event the non-resident parent is unable to assist, the resident parent shall make suitable care arrangements for the child.
That notwithstanding any previous clauses, the child shall spend time with the parents on special occasions as agreed between the parents, and failing agreement as follows:
(a) In odd years with the Father from 9:00am Christmas Eve until 12:00pm Christmas Day, and with the Mother from 12:00pm Christmas Day until 5:00pm Boxing Day;
(b) In even years with the Mother from 9:00am Christmas Eve until 12:00pm Christmas Day, and with the Father from 12:00pm Christmas Day until 5:00pm Boxing Day;
(c) On Father's Day where the child would otherwise be in the care of the Mother, with the Father from 5:00pm the day before Father's Day until 5:00pm on Father's Day;
(d) On Mother's Day where the child would otherwise be in the care of the Father, with the Mother from 6:00pm the day before Mother's Day until 6:00pm on Mother's Day;
(e) On the child's birthday:
On weekends from 1:00pm to 5:00pm with the parent who does not have the child in their care;
On weekdays from after school or 3:00pm to 6:00pm with the parent who does not have the child in their care.
(f) On the Father's birthday:
On weekends from 1:00pm to 5:00pm if the child is not otherwise in the Father's care;
On weekdays from after school or 3:00pm to 6:00pm if the child is not otherwise in the Father's care.
(g) On the Mother's birthday:
On weekends from 1:00pm to 5:00pm if the child is not otherwise in the Mother's care;
On weekdays from after school or 3:00pm to 6:00pm if the child is not otherwise in the Mother's care.
That changeover take place at the child's school, or daycare where possible or if a changeover is to occur on a day when the child is not at daycare or school then changeover is to occur at the McDonalds [Suburb F] car park.
Communication
That unless otherwise agreed between the parties, the Father shall communicate with the child by video call between 5:00pm and 5:30pm every Monday and Wednesday with the Mother to initiate the call.
All communication between the Mother and Father is to be respectful in nature and to occur via email, unless in the case of an emergency at which time can occur by telephone, with each parent to respond as promptly as practicable to the other parent's contact.
10. The Father and Mother shall:
(a) Keep the other parent informed at all times of their residential address and telephone number, and advise the other parent of any change thereto within 48 hours of each change;
(b) Keep the other parent informed of the names and addresses of any treating medical or other allied health practitioners who treat the children and authorise those practitioners to provide the other parent with information that they are lawfully able to provide about the children; and
(c) Immediately inform the other parent of any medical condition, significant health issue or significant illness suffered by the children and authorise any treating medical practitioner to release the children's medical information to the other parent.
Miscellaneous
This order is to act as an authority for any educational or medical provider to provide to each party such information as concerning the child as is requested by either party.
Each party is to ensure that the other party is listed as next of kin at the child's day care centre/school/hospital or other medical provider where the child is seen.
That the party with care of the children will notify the other parent when the children will not be attending day care or school, for example when they are sick.
The parents shall authorise the educational facility attended by the child to give each parent information about the child's educational progress and other related activities and supply them with copies of reports, photographs, certificates and awards obtained by the child (at that parent's cost).
Both parents shall be permitted to attend all functions held by the educational facility that the child attends, but not limited to parent teacher interviews, sporting events, fetes, exhibitions, school plays or concerts, religious events, and any other extracurricular activities.
Should either parent seek to enrol the child in an extracurricular activity that will impact on the time the other parent is to spend with the child, they shall first obtain the written consent of the other parent before enrolling the child into that extracurricular activity.
17. During the time the child is with either parent, that parent shall:
a) Respect the privacy of the other parent and not question the child about the personal life of the other parent;
b) Speak of the other parent respectfully; and
- Not denigrate or insult the other parent in the presence or hearing of the child and use their best endeavours to ensure that others do not denigrate or insult the other parent in the hearing or presence of the child, and further neither party defame the other via any form of social media.
Travel
- Should either party seek to take the child overseas, they must follow the following protocol:
a) the parties are to ensure the child maintains a current passport;
b) the parent seeking to travel shall give the other parent written notice of such travel and seek the consent of the other parent to the proposed travel;
c) such written notice shall be given at least thirty (30) days prior to the intended date of travel; and
d) the parent seeking to take the child overseas shall ensure that the other parent has a full itinerary of the travel arrangements showing the date and time of departure and arrival back in Australia and telephone contact details at which the child can be reached at any time during the overseas travel;
e) the travelling parent shall ensure that the child contacts the non‑travelling parent by way of telephone and / or skype and / or facetime on every second day that the child is overseas; and
f) that neither parent unreasonably refuse proposed travel. If the parties are unable to reach agreement, the parties are to attend upon a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner, and follow the protocol as set out herein.
Dispute Resolution
That in the event of a dispute arises about the terms or operation of these Orders, or a disagreement relating to the care arrangements for the child, the following process to be used for resolving any such dispute:
a) the parties shall consult with the Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner to assist with resolving any dispute or reaching agreement about changes to be made;
b) in the event the parties cannot agree on the appointment of the Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner, the party raising the dispute shall nominate three (3) practitioners and advise the other party in writing details of their fees, experience and availability;
c) the party receiving the list shall choose one of the listed practitioners within seven (7) days of receipt of the list;
d) if that party fails to choose then the other party may choose; and e) the parties shall share equally in the costs associated with the mediation, unless otherwise agreed.
Pursuant to s.65DA(2) and s.62B, the particulars of the obligations these orders create and the particulars of the consequences that may follow if a person contravenes these orders and details of who can assist the parties adjust to and comply with an order are set out in the Fact Sheet attached hereto and these particulars are included in these orders.
(1) the mother's affidavit filed 4 November 2025;
(2) the mother's Amended Response filed 3 November 2025;
(3) Family Report prepared by Ms G dated 22 September 2025.
(4) Information sharing documents produced by Victoria and Queensland Police and Department of Families, Fairness and Housing, pursuant to ss 67ZBD and 67ZBE of the Act.
(1) Outline of Case filed 7 November 2025.
(2) Information sharing documents produced by Queensland Children, Youth Justice & Multicultural Affairs, Victoria and Queensland Police and Department of Families, Fairness and Housing, pursuant to ss 67ZBD, 67ZBE and 69ZW of the Act; and
(3) Family Report prepared by Ms G dated 22 September 2025.
I tried to leave the relationship on numerous occasions however, once again, [the father] became abusive and threatening towards me and I ended up feeling so intimidated by his behaviours that it was easier to stay with him, as I knew what to expect from him.
Consultation between parents on major long - term issues
If it is safe to do so, and subject to any court orders, the parents of a child who is not yet 18 are encouraged:
(a) to consult each other about major long - term issues in relation to the child; and
(b) in doing so, to have regard to the best interests of the child as the paramount consideration.
(Emphasis in original)
Parenting orders and parental responsibility
(1) A parenting order confers parental responsibility for a child on a person, but only to the extent to which the order confers on the person duties, powers, responsibilities or authority in relation to the child.
(2) A parenting order in relation to a child does not take away or diminish any aspect of the parental responsibility of any person for the child except to the extent (if any):
(a) expressly provided for in the order; or
(b) necessary to give effect to the order.
(3) A parenting order that deals with the allocation of responsibility for making decisions about major long - term issues in relation to the child (see subsection 64B(3)) may provide for joint or sole decision - making in relation to all or specified major long - term issues.
In deciding whether to make a particular parenting order in relation to a child, a court must regard the best interests of the child as the paramount consideration.
How a court determines what is in a child's best interests
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(1) ...in determining what is in the child's best interests, the court must:
(a) consider the matters set out in subsection (2);
(2) For the purposes of paragraph (1)(a), the court must consider the following matters:
(a) what arrangements would promote the safety (including safety from being subjected to, or exposed to, family violence, abuse, neglect, or other harm) of:
(i) the child; and
(ii) each person who has care of the child (whether or not a person has parental responsibility for the child);
(b) any views expressed by the child;
(c) the developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs of the child;
(d) the capacity of each person who has or is proposed to have parental responsibility for the child to provide for the child's developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs;
(e) the benefit to the child of being able to have a relationship with the child's parents, and other people who are significant to the child, where it is safe to do so;
(f) anything else that is relevant to the particular circumstances of the child.
(2A) In considering the matters set out in paragraph (2)(a), the court must include consideration of:
(a) any history of family violence, abuse or neglect involving the child or a person caring for the child (whether or not the person had parental responsibility for the child); and
(b) any family violence order that applies or has applied to the child or a member of the child's family.
(Emphasis in original)
(1) In considering what order to make, the court must, to the extent that it is possible to do so consistently with the child's best interests being the paramount consideration, ensure that the order:
(a) is consistent with any family violence order; and
(b) does not expose a person to an unacceptable risk of family violence.
(2) For the purposes of paragraph (1)(b), the court may include in the order any safeguards that it considers necessary for the safety of those affected by the order.
The family violence allegations and the impact on [the mother's]'s emotional and mental wellbeing suggests that her capacity to share joint decision-making responsibility with [Mr Dufour] is significantly impaired. Additionally, [the father]'s capacity to compromise when decisions are required and in dispute appears questionable. [The mother] being required to have direct communication with [the father] could further compromise her emotional wellbeing and mental health and, in turn, impact on her parenting".
If [the mother's] account is accepted, [the father]'s deliberate and pervasive actions to belittle, monitor, intimidate, threaten, harm and control [the mother] is not reflective of a safe or responsive caregiver. Any such behaviour would likely have had harmful emotional impacts on [the mother] and on [X's] emotional wellbeing and functioning should he have continued to be exposed to it. The information gathered in this assessment suggests a lack of responsibility or acknowledgement on [the father's] part that [the mother's] has been hindered in her parenting role and adversely impacted by his pattern of coercive controlling family violence behaviour toward her.
[The father] has described himself as traditional and as someone who prefers to maintain control within the family, including taking a dominant role in financial matters. He has indicated that this parenting approach aligns with his personal values and it does not appear that he has expressed an intention to change these behaviours. From [Mr Dufour's] perspective, he is a father who acts with good intention and he wants the best for his children. However, having a controlling and authoritarian style can have adverse impacts on children, who may feel fearful, anxious or constrained in expressing themselves freely. [Mr Dufour's] emphasis on asserting authority and presenting himself as a dominant figure would significantly affect the emotional climate of the home and shape how any of his children view and experience him as a father, as well as their sense of security, safety and autonomy.
There appears to be a significant risk of [X's] exposure to family violence in his care, should [X] start spending substantial time with [the father] or in fact transition into his primary care, according to [the father]'s parenting proposal. As outlined, it is not evident that [the father] views his behaviour and actions as constituting family violence or that he needs to change his behaviour which could place [X] directly and indirectly at risk...
I certify that the preceding seventy-two (72) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of the Honourable Justice Hartnett.
[1] Mother's affidavit filed 5 November 2025, paragraph 23.
[2] Mother's affidavit filed 5 November 2025, paragraph 27.
[3] Blinko & Blinko [2015] FamCAFC 146 at [83] referring to Russell & Close [1993] FamCA 62.
[4] Isles & Nelissen [2022] FedCFamC1A 97; (2022) 65 Fam LR 288 at [50].
(2022) 65 Fam LR 288