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[2020] FamCA 191
mixed. Final consent parenting and property orders made in the terms placed before the Court (Exhibit A as amended); requirements of r 10.15A(3) dispensed with under r 1.12(2); Independent Children's Lawyer...
The Family Court (Harper J) made final consent parenting and property orders agreed by the mother and father despite the Independent Children's Lawyer withholding consent and despite non‑compliance with the procedural Rule 10.15A(3). The Court called the mother, heard evidence and reviewed expert material; it found the mother had residual concerns but conceded she had no objective evidence showing the father posed an unacceptable risk to the children. Applying the 'best interests of the child' principle and considering the evidence (and the limits of the available expert material), the Court concluded there was insufficient basis to refuse the consent orders and exercised its discretion to dispense with the procedural requirement. The orders were made and the Independent Children's Lawyer discharged.
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This Family Court judgment, delivered by Harper J on 20 January 2020 in Sadek & Sadek [2020] FamCA 191, concerns an application to make final consent parenting and property orders in a long‑running family law matter (nearly four years) involving three young children: X (b.2010), Y (b.2012) and Z (b.2013) ([2]). The parents reached proposed final consent orders covering both parenting arrangements and property division and asked the Court to make those orders simultaneously; the Independent Children's Lawyer did not consent and left the decision to the Court ([3], [9], [22]).
Background facts material to the parenting issues are these. Until February 2018 the father had unsupervised care for five nights per fortnight. After the mother raised concerns about the father's sexual attitudes, interim orders were made requiring supervised time with the father; since February 2018 the father's time has been supervised by his parents (paternal grandparents), and no evidence of problematic conduct was observed during that supervised time ([4]-[5]). An IT expert, Mr F, produced a report (given 19 June 2019) identifying digital material said by the mother (and counsel) to be child‑exploitative or indicating problematic sexual interests; that material was brought to Police attention but the police had taken no action ([6], [14]). Dr C produced a report dated 31 October 2018 concluding the father posed no risk, but that conclusion was based on the information the father provided to Dr C and not on independent assessment ([15]). Dr E had been identified as another expert whose further updating report had been contemplated; his views were not before the Court at the January 2020 hearing ([8], [22]).
Crucially, when called to give evidence the mother acknowledged she retained some residual concerns about the father, but she conceded she had no objective evidence to prove the father had a predisposition to paraphilia or to accessing child‑exploitative material that would pose a risk to the children ([16]). The proposed final consent orders did not include ongoing supervision and did not comply with Family Law Rules r 10.15A(3), which requires specified certifications where allegations of abuse have been made; r 1.12(2) permits the Court to dispense with Rules requirements ([10]-[11], [13]). On balance, after hearing evidence and submissions, the Court concluded there was insufficient objective evidence to establish an unacceptable risk, exercised discretion to dispense with r 10.15A(3) under r 1.12(2), and made the consent orders, discharging the Independent Children's Lawyer ([2], [11]-[13], [21], [24]-[26]).
The Court's decision is driven by the governing principle that the children's best interests are paramount ([12]). The principal legal bar to placing children in a parent's care is that the placement must not expose them to an unacceptable risk of abuse; that principle comes from M v M and related authorities ([18]). Harper J identified the distinct evidentiary considerations applicable to findings of past abuse versus predictive findings of unacceptable risk, and noted the relevance of Briginshaw‑type principles and s 140 of the Evidence Act in shaping how evidence is weighed when serious allegations are involved ([19]).
On the facts, key elements led the Court to make the orders:
Procedurally, the draft consent orders did not satisfy r 10.15A(3) certifications addressing allegations of abuse. The Court invoked r 1.12(2) to dispense with those procedural requirements after considering the evidence and deciding the substantive question in the children's best interests ([10]-[13]).
Before this decision, the applicable legal framework comprised:
Harper J applied those principles to the particular mixture of evidence: an IT report, an older psychiatric report reliant on self‑report, police inaction, supervised grandparental care without adverse observations, and the mother's concession that she lacked objective evidence. The decision does not change the law; rather it illustrates the Court's application of existing principles:
Thus, the 'before' legal position remains binding; the 'after' is an application precedent emphasising the necessity of objective evidentiary support to sustain an argument that consent orders should be refused on safety grounds.
“In determining the best course ... the paramount consideration is the best interests of the children.” ([12])
“The proposed form of final consent orders ... did not comply with rule 10.15A(3) of the Rules.” ([11])
“She conceded that she has no objective evidence ... to support her concerns ... and that she could not prove ... the father ... had a predisposition ... to pose a risk to the children when in his care.” ([16])
“A Court will not make orders placing a child in the care of a parent if to do so would expose the child to an unacceptable risk of abuse: M v M.” ([18])
“Consequently, I am not satisfied that it is in the children's best interests to refuse to make orders ... where there is not sufficient evidence ... that they may be at unacceptable risk ...” ([21])
“Accordingly ... I am satisfied that, on balance, it is in the best interests of the children for the proposed final consent orders to be made.” ([24])
This decision is most relevant where:
In those fact patterns, a Court may be persuaded to exercise its discretion to make consent orders if the evidence on balance does not establish unacceptable risk and the orders can be said to advance the children's best interests.
This judgment is a clear application of existing authorities rather than a novel pronouncement. Harper J expressly relied on High Court authorities (M v M, Briginshaw, CDJ v VAJ) and Full Court family decisions (Fitzwater, Morse & Duarte, Amador) when describing evidentiary principles for unacceptable risk and predictive assessments ([18]-[20]). Later decisions would treat Sadek & Sadek as an example of:
Practitioners should watch for later citations that either adopt Harper J’s approach in similar factual contexts or emphasise that each case turns on its particular evidence, especially where more robust expert or police findings are present.
A number of practical and legal questions remain open or context‑dependent:
Conclusion: Sadek & Sadek illustrates the Court's careful balancing of parental consent, procedural rule compliance, evidentiary sufficiency, and the paramountcy of children's best interests. It is a practical example showing courts will not refuse consent orders solely because an IC‑Lawyer withholds consent or because of procedural technical non‑compliance, provided the substantive evidence does not establish an unacceptable risk to children.
FAMILY LAW - CHILDREN - Final Orders by Consent - Best interests of the children - Independent Children's Lawyer not prepared to accede to orders in the absence of certification under rule 10.15A of the Family Law Rules 2004 (Cth) - evidence from mother of concerns about the father - no evidence which demonstrates that the father is an unacceptable risk - orders made.
Evidence Act 1995 (Cth) s 140
Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) s 65DA
Family Law Rules 2004 (Cth) rr 1.12(2), 10.15A
Briginshaw v Briginshaw [1938] HCA 34; (1938) 60 CLR 336
Fitzwater & Fitzwater [2019] FamCAFC 251
In the Marriage of A [1998] FamCA 25; (1998) FLC 92-800
M v M (1988) 166 CLR 69
Morse & Duarte (2017) 58 Fam LR 131
SOLICITOR ADVOCATE FOR THE INDEPENDENT CHILDREN'S LAWYER:
SOLICITOR FOR THE INDEPENDENT CHILDREN'S LAWYER:
(1) The final hearing commencing on 20 April 2020, and the compliance check listed on 6 April 2020, be vacated.
(2) Pursuant to r 1.12(2) of the Family Law Rules 2004 (Cth) ("the Rules"), the requirements of r 10.15A(3) be dispensed with.
(3) By consent of the applicant and the respondent, but not the Independent Children's Lawyer, orders be made in accordance with Exhibit A, as amended, and initialled by me, dated today and placed with the papers.
(4) I DIRECT that the solicitor for the respondent file a clean certified typescript of the said document placed on the court file within 3 business days of the date of these orders in Microsoft Word format.
(5) Pursuant to s 65DA(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), the particulars of the obligations these orders create and the particulars of the consequences that may follow if a person contravenes these orders are included in these orders.
(6) The appointment of the Independent Children's Lawyer be discharged.
(7) That all prior Orders be discharged.
(8) That the Mother and the Father shall have equal shared parental responsibility for the children, namely:
(a) X born ... 2010 ("X"), currently aged 9 years.
(b) Y born ... 2012 ("Y"), currently aged 7 years.
(c) Z born ... 2013 ("Z"), currently aged 5 years.
(9) That from the date of these Orders until the conclusion of the 2019 school term, the children live with the Mother and spend time with the Father as follows:
(a) From the first Friday following the date of these Orders until the commencement of school on Monday and the same period each alternate weekend.
(b) Each Tuesday from the conclusion of school until 7pm.
(c) In respect of X, from the conclusion of school each Thursday until 5.30pm.
(10) That during Term 1 and 2, 2020, the children spend time with the Father during the school term as agreed in writing between the Mother and the Father and if there is no such agreement then as follows:
(a) Week One: From the conclusion of school on the first Thursday following the date of these Orders until the commencement of school on Monday.
(b) In Week Two: from the conclusion of school on Thursday until the commencement of school on Friday.
(11) That from Term 3 of 2020, the children shall live with the Mother and Father during school term on an equal shared care arrangement with changeover occurring at the conclusion of school each Friday.
(12) That from the date of these Orders, the children shall spend half of each school holiday period with each of the Mother and the Father as agreed between the parties in writing, and failing agreement:
(a) In respect of the April, June/July and September/October school holidays in even numbered years commencing in 2020, the children shall live with Mother for the first half of the school holiday period commencing at 3.00pm on the last day of term, and with the Father for the second half of the school holiday period, with changeover to occur at 5.00pm on the middle day of the school holidays, and if there are two middle days then at 5.00pm on the first of those two middle days, and the children's time with the Father to conclude at the commencement of school on the first day of the new school year.
(29) That subject to Orders 1 to 22 being made by this Honourable Court, Orders 24 to 30 be made.
(30) That simultaneously and within 28 days of the date of these orders:
(a) The Husband do all such acts and things and sign all such documents as may be required to transfer to the Wife all of his right, title and interest in the real property situate at and known as D Street, Suburb K, in the State of New South Wales (Folio identifier ...) ("the former matrimonial home")
(b) The parties do all acts and things and sign all documents and the Wife pay all sums of money to discharge and/or refinance the registered mortgage secured over the former matrimonial home.
(31) That subject to these Orders, the Husband be declared to have the sole right, title and interest in:
(a) All superannuation entitlements held by him;
(b) All monies in financial institutions in his name;
(c) His Motor vehicle 1 registration ...; and
(d) All other real and personal property now in his possession, custody or control.
(32) That subject to these Orders, the Wife be declared to have the sole right, title and interest in:
(a) All superannuation entitlements held by her;
(b) All monies in financial institutions in her name;
(c) All motor vehicles registered in her name; and
(d) All other real and personal property now in her possession, custody or control.
(33) The Wife indemnify and keep indemnified the Husband in relation to all liabilities and debts in her name, including but not limited to any credit card liabilities and income tax liabilities.
(34) The Husband indemnify and keep indemnified the Wife in relation to all liabilities and debts in his name, including but not limited to any credit card liabilities and income tax liabilities.
(35) That in the event that either party refuses or neglects to execute any deed, document or instrument necessary to give effect to these Orders, the Registrar of the Court be appointed pursuant to of the to execute such deed, document or instrument in the name of the said party and do all acts and things necessary to give validity and operation to the deed, document or instrument upon the Registrar being provided with verification of such refusal or failure by way of affidavit.
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry of the order in the Court's records.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under the pseudonym Sadek & Sadek has been approved by the Chief Justice pursuant to s 121(9)(g) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for Judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 17.02A(b) of the Family Law Rules 2004 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 17.02 Family Law Rules 2004 (Cth).
I certify that the preceding twenty-six (26) paragraphs are a true copy of the reasons for judgment of the Honourable Justice Harper delivered on 20 January 2020.
Briginshaw
Briginshaw
(2017) 58 Fam LR 131
(2009) 43 Fam LR 268
(1938) 60 CLR 336
(1998) 197 CLR 172
(1988) 166 CLR 69
Final consent parenting and property orders made in the terms placed before the Court (Exhibit A as amended); requirements of r 10.15A(3) dispensed with under r 1.12(2); Independent Children's Lawyer discharged; parties to file certified typographical clean copy; parties to bear their own costs (Orders (1)-(6), and detailed parenting/property orders).
(b) In respect of the April, June/July and September/October school holidays odd numbered years commencing in 2021, the children shall live with Father for the first half of the school holiday period commencing at 3.00pm on the last day of term, and with the Mother for the second half of the school holiday period, with changeover to occur at 5.00pm on the middle day of the school holidays, and if there are two middle days then at 5.00pm on the first of those two middle days, and the children's time with the Mother to conclude at the commencement of school on the first day of the new school year.
(c) In respect of the 2019/2020 Christmas school holiday period the children shall spend time with the children "week about" with changeover happening at 5pm after seven (7) nights with the Father to have the first week commencing from the last day of school term.
(d) In respect of the Christmas school holidays in 2020/2021 and each alternate year after, the children shall live with Mother for the first half of the school holiday period commencing and with the Father for the second half of the school holiday period, with changeover to occur at 5.00pm on the middle day of the school holidays, and if there are two middle days then at 5.00pm on the first of those two middle days, and the children's time with the Father to conclude at the commencement of school on the first day of the new school year.
(e) In respect of the Christmas school holidays in 2021/2022 and each alternate year thereafter, the children shall live with Father for the first half of the school holiday period and with the Mother for the second half of the school holiday period, with changeover to occur at 5.00pm on the middle day of the school holidays, and if there are two middle days then at 5.00pm on the first of those two middle days, and the children's time with the Mother to conclude at the commencement of school on the first day of the new school year.
(13) Notwithstanding any other Order the children shall be with the Mother (and the Father's time suspended) as follows:
(a) From 12pm Christmas Eve until 12pm on Christmas Day in 2019 and each alternate year thereafter.
(b) From 12pm on Christmas Day until 12pm on Boxing Day in 2020 and each alternate year thereafter.
(c) From 12pm on Good Friday until 9am on Easter Sunday in 2020 and each alternate year thereafter.
(d) From 9am on Easter Sunday until 5pm on Easter Monday in 2021 and each alternate year thereafter.
(e) From 5pm the day before Mother's Day until 5pm on Mother's Day.
(14) Notwithstanding any other Order the children shall be with the Father (and the Mother's time suspended) as follows:
(a) From 12pm on Christmas Day until 12pm on Boxing Day in 2019 and each alternate year thereafter.
(b) From 12pm Christmas Eve until 12pm on Christmas Day in 2020 and each alternate year thereafter.
(c) From 9am on Easter Sunday until 5pm on Easter Monday in 2020 and each alternate year thereafter.
(d) From 12pm on Good Friday until 9am on Easter Sunday in 2021 and each alternate year thereafter.
(e) From 5pm the day before Father's Day until 5pm on Father's Day.
(15) That on each of the days that either X or Y or Z receive a Holy sacrament (Reconciliation, Holy Communion and Confirmation) the children spend time with the parent that they would not otherwise be spending time with for 3 hours as agreed in writing and failing agreement, time to commence a the conclusion of the service.
(16) That unless otherwise agreed in writing, in the event that the children are not spending time with the Mother or Father on the respective parent's birthday, the children shall spend time with that parent as follows:
(a) With the Father on the Father's birthday from after school to the commencement of school the following day if it is a school day, or from 3.00pm until 9.00am the following day if it is a non-school day.
(b) With the Mother on the Mother's birthday from after school to the commencement of school the following day if it is a school day, or from 3.00pm until 9.00am the following day if it is a non-school day.
(17) That the parent who does not otherwise have the care of the children on X's birthday spend time with the children on X's birthday from after school to 6.00pm on a school day or from 11.00am to 3.00pm if it is a non-school day.
(18) That the parent who does not otherwise have the care of the children on Y's birthday spend time with the children on Y's birthday from after school to 6.00pm on a school day or from 11.00am to 3.00pm if it is a non-school day.
(19) That the parent who does not otherwise have the care of the children on Z's birthday spend time with the children on Z's birthday from after pre-school/school to 6.00pm on a school day or from 11.00am to 3.00pm if it is a non-school day.
(20) That unless otherwise agreed in writing between the Father and the Mother, changeover shall occur at pre-school/school, if applicable, and otherwise the person whose time with the children is to commence (or their nominee) shall collect the children from the other parent's residence.
(21) That each party shall:
(a) Inform the other party as soon as is reasonably practical of any medical issue, significant health issue or significant illness or injury suffered by any of the children, that is, if they have a fever or illness and need to see a doctor, or they require hospitalisation.
(b) Keep the other party informed at all times of his/her residential address and contact details, including mobile and landline telephone numbers and email address;
(c) Keep the other party informed of the names and addresses of any treating medical or other allied health practitioner who treats any of the children and authorise such practitioners to provide the other party with information that they (the applicable medical or other allied health practitioners) are lawfully able to provide about the children; and
(d) This order authorises any treating medical practitioner to release details of the children's medical condition and/or injury to the other parent.
(22) That each party agrees to communicate with each other in a polite and respectful manner, noting that conflict amongst parents will have a negative impact on the children.
(23) That the parties agree to communicate by telephone, text or email, and to ensure that the children are not used as a messenger.
(24) That each party be at liberty to communicate with the children by telephone and/or skype or other means at all reasonable times and each party will facilitate same and in the event that either party elects to supply a mobile phone to X (or Z or Y at a later time) the other parent shall not interfere with that child's reasonable use of the phone in communicating with the other parent.
(25) That each of the parties will be at liberty to attend and engage in any sporting, after school, recreation, educational or other activity in which the children are involved and shall use their best endeavours to keep the other parent informed of all such activities and provide reasonable notice thereof to facilitate their attendance.
(26) That both parties are restrained from denigrating the other party, the other party's family and friends, to, or in the presence or hearing of the children and shall use their best endeavours to ensure no other person does so.
(27) That pursuant to s 62B of the Family Law Act, information about the family counselling services, family dispute resolution services and other courses, programs and services available, is set out in the Fact Sheet attached hereto.
(28) That pursuant to s 65DA(2) of the Family Law Act, the particulars of the obligations these orders create and the particulars of the consequences that may follow if a person contravenes these orders are set out in the Fact Sheet, attached hereto and these particulars are included in these orders.
(36) The parties bear their own costs.