[2026] FedCFamC2F 90
General information, not legal advice.
Federal Circuit and Family Court (Div 2)
2026-01-28
Original judgment source is linked above.
(a) Inform the respondent ("father") in writing of the decision to be made;
(b) Invite the father's views in writing about the proposed decision;
(c) When making the decision, consider such views as may be provided by the father in writing within the timeframe requested by the mother, relevant to the decision to be made; and
(d) Inform the father in writing of the decision once made,
AND THE COURT NOTES this order does not permit the father to communicate with the mother other than for the purpose of providing his views in writing relevant to the decision to be made in relation to the children and does not permit him to engage in family violence when providing his views.
(a) By telephone or electronic means between 5.00 pm and 5.30 pm on:
(i) Each Sunday;
(ii) Each of their birthdays; and
(iii) Christmas Day;
with the father to initiate the call and the mother to ensure the children are made available for the call;
(b) By telephone or electronic means at other reasonable times as may be requested by the children and initiated by them; and
(c) As may otherwise be agreed by the parties in writing.
(a) Time occur on days and times nominated by the children's contact service in consultation with the parties (and in consultation with the children if the children's contact service considers that appropriate), to occur in each of December (proximate to Christmas), ... (proximate to X's birthday), ... (proximate to Y's birthday) and September, unless otherwise agreed in writing;
(b) The father is at liberty to have his mother (the children's paternal grandmother) accompany him when the children spend time with him;
(c) The father be responsible for the costs (if any) of supervised time, to be paid in advance of time occurring;
(d) The parties each forthwith do all things required by the children's contact service to facilitate the children spending time in accordance with these orders;
(e) The parties provide to the children's contact service a copy of these orders, the reasons accompanying these orders and the child impact report prepared by court child expert Ms C dated 9 October 2025 and any family violence order affecting the parties and/or the children; and
(f) If the father is observed to breach the injunctions in order 13 or any family violence order in place protecting the children while the children are spending time with him, the children's contact service is requested to cease time on that occasion and return the children to the mother's care.
(a) Denigrating, abusing, rebuking, belittling or demeaning the other parent in the presence or hearing of the children or permitting others to do so;
(b) Discussing their views or the children's views about the future parenting arrangements with or in the presence or hearing of the children; and
(c) Discussing matters raised in these proceedings, including allegations raised in court material by the other parent, with or in the presence or hearing of the children.
(a) School and provider of childcare;
(b) Provider of extra-curricular or other activities;
(c) Medical or allied health professional or service, including counsellor or support worker; and
(d) Government agency, community or other support service,
attended by or involved with the children and to the children's grandparents.
Obligations, consequences of contravention and assistance with orders
(a) To the respondent, the sum of $34,453; and
(b) To the applicant, the balance.
(a) Each party be solely entitled to the exclusion of the other to all other property (including choses-in-action) in the possession of each party as at the date of these orders;
(b) If Motor Vehicle 1 and camper trailer in the possession of the respondent are not already registered in his name, the parties forthwith do all such acts and things and sign all documents required to transfer the registration of those vehicles to the respondent at the expense of the respondent;
(c) The parties do all such acts and things and sign all documents as are required to close all joint bank accounts forthwith and monies standing to the credit of the parties therein be paid to the applicant;
(d) Each party forego any claims they may have to any superannuation benefits belonging to or earned by the other;
(e) Insurance policies remain the sole property of the owner named thereon;
(f) Each party be solely liable for and indemnify the other against any liability encumbering any item of property to which that party is entitled pursuant to these orders; and
(g) Any joint tenancy of the parties in any real or personal estate is hereby expressly severed.
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under a pseudonym has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
(a) Is it in the best interests of the children to live with the mother as sought by her or with the father as sought by him? In either case, what orders for the children to spend time and communicate with the other parent are in their best interests?
(b) How should parental responsibility for making decisions about major long-term issues in relation to the children be allocated?
(c) Should orders be made to facilitate the children travelling overseas with the mother, and for her to obtain and renew the children's Australian passports without the father's consent?
(d) Should orders be made requiring the parties to undertake education and counselling as recommended by the court child expert?
(e) Is it appropriate for the welfare of the children, for injunctions to be made as recommended by the independent children's lawyer?
(f) How should the monies expended by the mother on legal costs from joint savings be treated?
(g) How should monies received by each party by way of partial property settlement be treated?
(h) How should those assets retained by the father, including a vehicle, caravan and superannuation, be taken into account where there is no evidence of their value?
(i) How should the father's failure to disclose his financial circumstances, including by failing to file a financial statement, be taken into account?
(j) How should the parties' contributions be assessed over their relationship with 21 years of cohabitation and approximately 16 months of separation?
(k) What, if any, adjustment should be made to that contribution-based assessment by virtue of matters relevant pursuant to section 90SM(5) of the Act, relating to the parties' current and future circumstances, and pursuant to sub-section 90SM(5)(w) by virtue of those matters in (f) to (i) above if determined appropriate.
(a) File and serve documents in response to the mother's Initiating Application as required by the Rules and numerous orders made by the court;
(b) Make full and frank disclosure of his financial position as required by rules 6.01 and 6.06, including by his failure to file a financial statement; and
(c) Defend the mother's application with due diligence.
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(g) proceed on the non‑defaulting party's evidence together with:
(i) if considered appropriate by the court - such evidence as the defaulting party has filed; and
(ii) such evidence as tendered during cross‑examination by the defaulting party; and
(iii) submissions by either party limited to the matters that are the subject of evidence;
(a) in a way that ensures the safety of families and children; and
(b) in relation to proceedings under this Act in which the best interests of a child are the paramount consideration--in a way that promotes the best interests of the child; and
(c) according to law; and
(d) as quickly, inexpensively and efficiently as possible.
and the objectives of that overarching purpose in section 95(2), which includes:
(a) the just determination of all such proceedings;
(b)the efficient use of the judicial and administrative resources available for the purposes of courts exercising jurisdiction in such proceedings;
(c) the efficient disposal of the overall caseload of courts exercising jurisdiction in such proceedings;
(d) the disposal of all such proceedings in a timely manner;
(e) the resolution of disputes at a cost that is proportionate to the importance and complexity of the matters in dispute.
(a) Amended Initiating Application filed on 15 May 2025;
(b) Her affidavits filed on 20 December 2024, 28 February 2025, 15 May 2025, 12 December 2025;
(c) Her financial statement filed on 20 December 2024;
(d) Notice of child abuse, family violence or risk ("notice of risk") filed on 20 December 2024;
(e) Her outline of case document (interim hearing) ("case outline") filed on 14 December 2025, which set out the orders she sought on a final basis;
(f) Child impact report prepared by court child expert, Ms C ("court child expert"), dated 9 October 2025 ("child impact report");
(g) Updated costs notice filed 15 December 2025, as directed by the court;
(h) The final family violence order made in mid-2025, filed in mid-2026; and
(i) Tendered exhibits.
(a) Case outline, filed 10 December 2025, which set out the final orders recommended by the independent children's lawyer;
(b) The child impact report;
(c) Department of Fairness, Families and Housing (DFFH) response to a request for information made pursuant to section 67ZBD of the Act, dated 30 January 2025; and
(d) Victoria Police response to a request for information made pursuant to section 67ZBD of the Act, dated 3 February 2025.
(1) In a civil proceeding, the court must find the case of a party proved if it is satisfied that the case has been proved on the balance of probabilities.
(2) Without limiting the matters that the court may take into account in deciding whether it is so satisfied, it is to take into account:
(a) the nature of the cause of action or defence; and
(b) the nature of the subject‑matter of the proceeding; and
(c) the gravity of the matters alleged.
A judge's reasons are not required to mention every fact or argument relied on by the losing party as relevant to an issue. Judgments of trial judges would soon become longer than they already are if a judge's failure to mention such facts and arguments would be evidence that he or she had not properly considered the losing party's case.
The Child Impact Report provides preliminary expert advice about the needs and experiences of children, to support decision making through Dispute Resolution processes and/or Interim Hearings. Any views expressed, or professional recommendations made, by the Court Child Expert in a Child Impact Report need to be considered within the limited nature and focus of this type of assessment.
(a) to ensure that the best interests of children are met, including by ensuring their safety; and
(b) to give effect to the Convention on the Rights of the Child done at New York on 20 November 1989.
What arrangements would promote the safety (including safety from being subjected to, or exposed to, family violence, abuse, neglect, or other harm) of the children and each person who has care of the children (whether or not a person has parental responsibility for the children): section 60CC(2)(a)
The word "safety" is not defined in the Act. It is defined in the Oxford English Dictionary as "the state of being protected from or guarded against hurt or injury and freedom from danger."
In Oyama & Oyama,[1] Gill J held that safety in this context is a term that is wired in nature and bounded only by its object being to keep children and those who care for them from harm, and that should not be taken to have a fixed content or standard. The paragraph requires the court to consider the risk of harm that accompanies the relationship in whatever form it may take, and does not contemplate consideration of the benefits of a relationship where such relationship is not safe.
In Denton & Denton (No 3),[2] Altobelli J expressed the view that safety is a state in which hazards or conditions leading to physical, psychological or material harm are controlled in order to preserve the health and well-being of an individual and that it is not the complete elimination of risk of harm but rather making such orders affords the child the most optimal protection from harm.
In Melounis & Melounis (No 4),[3] Altobelli J again held that to promote safety for the purposes of subsection 60CC(2)(a) means "to advance the interests of and move to a stronger or more prominent position the safety (ie to be free from hurt, damage, harm or danger) of children and those who care for them" and that the statutory requirement to promote safety involves advancing a positive outcome which would necessarily include protection from harm but would not be limited to this.
(a) any history of family violence, abuse or neglect involving the child or a person caring for the child (whether or not the person had parental responsibility for the child); and
(b) any family violence order that applies or has applied to the child or a member of the child's family.
Any history of family violence, abuse or neglect involving the children or a person caring for the children (whether or not the person had parental responsibility for the children): section 60CC(2A)(a)
(1) For the purposes of this Act, family violence means violent, threatening or other behaviour by a person that coerces or controls a member of the person's family (the family member), or causes the family member to be fearful.
(a) Coercion or control essentially captures one family member's domination of another family member. That the victim may subjectively feel coerced or controlled is not enough. The coercion or control must be an objective actuality;[6]
(b) 'Coercion' will often involve a pattern of acts including, for example, assault, intimidation, humiliation and threats, designed to harm, punish or frighten the victim;[7]
(c) 'Controlling behaviour' involves a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and to corrode their sense of personal autonomy;[8]
(d) The focus is on the impact of the behaviour of the alleged perpetrator of family violence rather than the intention of that person. Whilst the intention of the alleged perpetrator will very often be a decisive factor, it is not an essential element for a finding that a party has been the subject of coercive or controlling behaviour; [9]
(e) McClelland DCJ emphasised, "the key to determining whether a person has been the subject of such behaviours is an appreciation of a pattern or a series of acts, the impact of which will usually be both intersecting and cumulative, rather than incident specific"[10] An evaluation of the alleged conduct and the context in which it occurred is required.[11] The assessment requires consideration of the totality of the evidence;[12]
(f) However, whilst patterns of behaviour may be particularly illuminative, they are not essential, and whilst a single act is unlikely to be coercive or controlling it may be.[13]
(a) Denigrated and demeaned her, including by referring to her as fat and calling her names, in or around 2013 while pregnant with X. I do so taking into account the court child expert's account in the child impact report that "[the father] provided evasive information about body shaming the mother, instead explaining they had mutual conversations about her increasing weight and leading an active and healthier lifestyle."
(b) Threatened to take the children and prevent her from seeing them;
(c) In August 2024, while they were travelling around Australia with the children, refused the mother access to their caravan, leaving her to sleep on the ground in a tent without bedding;
(d) In August 2024, drove away with the children, leaving the mother isolated at Town G alone and then retained the children in his care, implementing his earlier threats to take the children and prevent the mother from seeing them;
(e) Refused to provide the mother with keys for their home and car, meaning she was required to gain access to the home upon her return to Victoria using spare keys held by a neighbour;
(f) In August or September 2024, threatened she would be lucky to see the children in the next ten years;
(g) On 28 September 2024, sent the mother a series of harassing and threatening text messages, including messages reading[14] [as typed]:
Do you know I can be in Victoria so soon,
Do you know I've learnt how to get there with no cameras
Do you know that you have brought the courts into our family life
Do you know that the police and courts can't touch me
Do you know that I don't care about your wellbeing
I suggest you have a conversation with me.
Orrrr, poor you, got a headache
Bitch you are my headache.
Feel free to call the cops,
You have my location, that can change in an instant...
I can also fuck over every one you care about..
Screan shot this shit..
Because your never going to catch a gost...
Or am I in Victoria right now?????
(h) Harassed the mother with multiple voicemail messages on 1 October 2024;
(i) On 4 November 2024, wrote about the mother in a disparaging and demeaning manner, in a threatening email he sent to a real estate agent the mother had engaged with,[15] reading:
[...] I don't know what bullshit [the mother] has been feeding you.. there will be a caveat taken out on the property soon as it is not for sale.. and if it was, it will be sold by someone named [Mr K], or [Mr L], not [agent's name]...
Do you understand what you are being told. Perhaps you should not listen to and unstable, suicidal woman.. you touch anything on my property and there will be ramifcations..
Get the hint..
I find this email was sent to discourage the real estate agent from assisting the mother to sell the former family home, as part of his campaign of coercive and controlling conduct against the mother;
(j) On 13 December 2024, approached her and the children while they were walking home from school and asked X, "Do you want to go hunting and shoot a gun for the first time?". I find this comment was made to indicate he had access to guns, to frighten the mother. The interim family violence order that was in place at the time prevented the father from approaching the mother and the children;
(k) On 17 December 2024, again approached the mother and the children while they were walking home from school and spoke to them. Consistent with this evidence, the court child expert wrote in the child impact report that the father reported he received a fine of $200 without conviction for breaching the interim order, for approaching the children on two occasions in 2024;
(l) Harassed the mother by bombarding her with repetitive emails asking to see the children, including more than 85 emails sent between 11 January 2025 and 27 February 2025 and more than 85 emails sent between 10 April 2025 and 15 May 2025, reading over and over again, "What date and time I am speaking with my children?" and "What date and time am I seeing my children?" These messages were often sent multiple times a day and late at night. I find these messages were sent to coerce the mother to make the children available to speak and spend time with him and to harass her for not doing so;
(m) On 17 February 2025, shortly after service of orders made at a hearing on 13 February 2025, sent an email to the mother reading:
Call me in regards to my children. Are you aware of what you are doing to the kids? You have now put their future in the hands of a stranger. Are you trying to have them placed in the care of the state? Rather than the custody arrangements made by the mediation of their parents. Your (sic) a genius and it's going to be my children who suffer from your choices.
(n) On 18 February 2025, sent an email to the mother reading:
What date and time am I seeing my children? I would like to confirm that there (sic) welfare under your so called care is being attended to. I worry with your fragile mental state that you will do something to [X] like you have previously. So what date and time am I seeing my children?
(o) On 13 April 2025, sent a series of numerous emails to the mother sent late at night,[16] including emails reading (in part) [as typed]:
If you need me to pick the kids up, just let me know. I know how fragile you are.
If I was you and did what you did, I could not live with myself.
It will be a cold day in hell when I care about your problems. Return my children to me. You clearly can't look after them letterlone yourself. Are you still suicidal or are you just putting your shit on my children.
I find these and like messages were sent to make the mother (or others who may read them) doubt her mental health and capacity to care for the children, often referred to as "gaslighting", and to cause her to be fearful the father would act to seek to have the children removed from her care. I find he did so to coerce her to make the children available to him; and
(p) On 20 April 2025, sent her an email[17] reading [as typed]:
Just a heads up, I will be going to the bank on Tuesday and requesting that they forclose on [address of the former family home].
I find this constitutes economic abuse, threatening the mother's housing with the children and to diminish the value of assets available to the mother by way of property settlement. I make this finding noting the mother sought interim orders in her Initiating Application filed on 20 December 2024 seeking the sale of the home and the father had not engaged with the mother's application by filing documents in response to it.
(a) The tendered records of the father's communications to her and to third parties;
(b) The father's proprietorial attitude towards the children (as displayed by him repeatedly referring to them as "my children" in his communications to the mother, to his "rights" in respect of the children and to them being "stolen" from him in his submissions); and
(c) The father's attitude towards the mother (as evident from his communications to her, to third parties and his submissions to the court) and his conduct in this proceeding.
(a) In September 2019, punched her legs and threatened her with physical harm; and
(b) In June 2024, threw kitchen knives at her which landed on a blanket covering her, hit the wall beside the bed she was lying on, punched the wall, ripped the bedroom door off its hinges, and threw an ottoman. The mother deposed the children were in a neighbouring room and heard what occurred.
(a) The section 67ZBD response from Victoria Police records only that "In 2024, it was reported that [the parties] engaged in a verbal dispute. [The children] were present during the incident." Physical violence was not mentioned;
(b) The section 67ZBD response from DFFH reports, "[the mother] was noted to have disclosed vague assaults by [the father] over the years saying that he had previously hit her in the head and thrown knives at her (September 2024)". This was not consistent with her affidavit evidence;
(c) The mother's report provided in support of her application for an intervention order (as recorded by Victoria Police)[20] did not refer to these allegations or any other incident of physical family violence; and
(d) In the child impact report, the court child expert reported:
[...] [The mother] alleged that on four to five occasions [the father] was physically abusive to her by hitting the back of her head with an open palm as he walked past her and the children sitting on the couch, throwing a knife towards her and it hitting the wall approximately 30cms away, pushing her off the bed by lifting the mattress causing significant bruising to her leg, and strangling her causing scratches and bruises. [The mother] further alleged that [the father] damaged her mobile phone, deleted photos she had taken of the injuries from his abuse [...]
Aside from the allegation the father threw knives at her, one of which hit the wall, these allegations were not the subject of the mother's affidavit evidence. I would have expected this to be the case given the serious nature of these further allegations, including of strangulation. I am not prepared to make findings in respect of those allegations in those circumstances.
[The father] punched [X] in his upper back with a closed fist. Then [the father] hit [X] over the head with [Y]'s fishing net. [Y] said it was so hard it made a swishing sound. [The father] then pushed [X] up the stairs of the Camper trailer causing brusing on [X]'s legs. [X] was told to stay in the Camper trailer all night and that he had already got rid of one [whinging] bitch he didn't need another [whinging] bitch.
[X] and [Y] confidently reported that their parents have not used physical means to discipline them, however, there was one occasion in QLD in August/September 2025 when [the father] hit [X] with the handle of [Y]'s fishing net. Both children presented somewhat guarded about this incident, and the effects it had on them. [The mother's] version of that event was more detailed in comparison, reportedly based on the children's disclosure to her which is that [the father] hit [X] with the handle of a fishing net and kicked/pushed him up the stairs to the bedroom in the campervan.
Any family violence order that applies or has applied to the children or a member of the children's family: section 60CC(2A)(b)
Consideration of section 60CC(2)(a) - arrangements that would promote the safety of the children and each person who has care of the children
What, if any, risk does the father pose to the children's safety?
(a) The father's apparent repeated and persistent contravention of the intervention orders in place to protect the mother and the children;
(b) The father's denial of using family violence, insisting the mother has lied to the court;
(c) The court child expert's assessment the father "demonstrated no insight into the potential impact on the mother and children of his sudden appearances and not abiding by the conditions of the IVO";
(d) The court child expert's assessment the father "presented as dismissive of the IVO and allegations and suggested that police and the courts held a similar view as him about the relevance, or not, of the IVO and veracity of the allegations made by [the mother]";
(e) The father's negative view of and attitude towards the mother as evident from the child impact report, his communications to her and to others, and his submissions made to the court;
(f) The father's proprietorial attitude towards the children;
(g) An absence of evidence the father has undertaken any steps to address his use of family violence, including to attend a men's behaviour change program as recommended by the court child expert in the child impact report; and
(h) The father's lack of respect for police and the courts and his failure to properly engage in this proceeding and to comply with orders of this court and of the Magistrates Court.
(a) The risk of physical harm. Whilst I have not been persuaded of the mother's allegations of physical family violence against her and X, I find the father has made threats of harm against the mother. I accept the mother is genuinely fearful for her physical safety and that her fear is reasonably based;
(b) Whist the father denied access to firearms and Victoria Police reported in the section 67ZBD response he does not have a firearms licence, it was reported in the child impact report that the father informed the court child expert he suggested he can use crossbows and traps when hunting which he said he and X have enjoyed doing together for some time. I also accept he asked X on 13 December 2024 "do you want to go hunting and shoot a gun for the first time?", indicating he has access to guns. I find the father's experience with and access to weapons means there is a risk of serious injury and lethal harm to the mother and the children if the father continues to use family violence. Even a low risk of a harm of this magnitude is unacceptable; and
(c) Psychological and emotional harm. I accept the children would likely experience significant psychological and emotional harm if they were to be exposed to the father subjecting the mother to family violence.
(a) The father's ongoing use of coercion and control towards the mother;
(b) The threats made by him, to prevent the children from seeing her;
(c) The father's previous conduct, abandoning the mother at Town G, taking the children with him, enrolling them in school in Queensland and withholding them from the mother's care;
(d) The father's attitude towards the mother and his proprietary attitude towards the children, including his repeated assertion the mother has taken the children from him; and
(e) His non-compliance with court orders as already canvassed.
(a) The father's text messages sent to the mother expressly stating his location "can change in an instant" and "your never going to catch a gost" (sic);
(b) The absence of evidence before the court of the father's current circumstances, including a fixed address, employment and other ties to a particular location or community;
(c) The court child expert's assessment of the father's derogatory and critical views of authority, such as police and the courts, and his interest in learning bushcraft skills and hunting, and ability to live off grid with the campervan which is set up for this purpose; and
(d) My assessment of the father's attitude towards court orders and police.
(a) The absence of evidence from him about his alcohol use;
(b) The absence of evidence of hair follicle testing for alcohol use which was recommended by the court child expert;
(c) The court child expert's report that the children provided descriptions of his intoxicated state and angry and mean behaviour during their interview with her;
(d) The children's discussion with the independent children's lawyer in May 2025 referring to their recollection of the father's drinking; and
(e) The court child expert's report that the father presented as evasive about his alcohol consumption, saying to her that he consumes alcohol "no more than the next person" and that he minimised his 2016 conviction, claiming police harassed him.
There were some concerns raised about [the father's] derogatory and critical views of authority, such as police and the courts, and his interest in learning bushcraft skills and hunting, and his ability to live off grid with the campervan which is set up for this purpose. [The father] stated that he votes each year, claims government benefits, and holds a driver's license and birth certificate, although he reportedly held certain political views which he considered the norm for any individual. Combining this with [the father's] evasive presentation about his current and future living arrangements and use of firearms, his apparent disregard of the IVO conditions, and his limited participation in these Court proceedings, may raise concerns about [X] and [Y]'s safety and exposure to a potentially harmful lifestyle thus affecting their positive developmental trajectory.
The purpose of ameliorative conditions is to mitigate a risk of harm from unacceptable to acceptable, such that when the risk analysis is repeated with the ameliorative condition in place, the relevant risk is assessed as acceptable.
A consideration of risk, and factors which impact upon or ameliorate the risk, will in most cases be inextricably linked. That is because "[t]he object of safeguards is to convert an unacceptable situation to an acceptable one where that is feasible and is of 'benefit to the child'".
(a) Only professionally supervised time with [the father] can be supported at the current time; and
(b) The father engage in a behaviour change program in the state he is mostly resident in, being Queensland at the time the report was undertaken.
What, if any, risk of harm does the mother pose to the children?
Any views expressed by the children: section 60CC(2)(b)
[X] and [Y] presented as ambivalent about the relationships with their father, providing descriptions of his intoxicated state and associated angry and mean behaviour. [X] and [Y] provided sufficient information to indicate that they have been exposed to their father's behaviours on a regular and consistent basis. Both children seemed protective of their mother, and provided examples of [the father's] critical and derogatory comments to [the mother] which corroborated allegations she has made against him. [...] [X] and [Y] indicated that they had no choice about which parent they lived with at that time, and it seems from their statements that they preferred to live with their mother than with their father.
[X] and [Y] met with the ICL recently, and they mentioned the possibility of spending time with their father in a supervised setting. Each child seemed amenable to this possible arrangement, though they still expressed some trepidation about their father's behaviours and fear of him taking them away from their mother. They indicated reduced confidence in their father allowing them to see their mother if they were to live with him.
The developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs of the children: section 60CC(2)(c)
The capacity of each person who has or is proposed to have parental responsibility for the children to provide for the children's developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs: section 60CC(2)(d)
Neither child appeared to have confidence in their father's capacity to refrain from embroiling them in his views and the parental conflict, and this corresponds with comments made by [the father] that he has behaved in this way and views the children as being able to make decisions about their future parenting arrangements. For [X] and [Y] to have safe, trusting, and emotionally secure relationships with their father, he will need to make shifts in his attitudes about their mother and sharing such with the children, and be consistent and predictable in his positive behaviour around and towards them.
[The father's] critical and derogatory views about [the mother] could potentially undermine her parenting role, and she should be safeguarded in her parenting of [X] and [Y].
The benefit to the children of being able to have a relationship with their parents, and other people who are significant to them, where it is safe to do so: section 60CC(2)(e)
This consideration recognises the importance of parental relationships, and relationships with other people who are significant to the child (such as grandparents or members of a broader kinship group) to a child's wellbeing. Where appropriate and safe, parenting orders that ensure children benefit from a close and nurturing relationship with their parents should be made.
Children's care, time and communication arrangements
(a) My assessment of arrangements that will protect the children from an unacceptable risk of harm and promote their safety;
(b) The court child expert's recommendation that:
Only professionally supervised time with [the father] can be supported at the current time. However, without a fixed abode and uncertainty about his future living arrangements, it may be challenging for [the father] to commit to regular time with the children thus affecting the quality of those relationships moving forward.
(c) The children's expressed views; and
(d) It is likely the children spending time with the father on four occasions a year can be supported by a children's contact service on an ongoing basis pursuant to final orders and will be achievable for the father if he remains living interstate.
While orders for long-term or indefinite supervision are generally discouraged as being undesirable, such orders have never been prohibited when the only unpalatable alternative is the complete elimination of a parent from a child's life. Every case must be decided on its own facts.
(a) In the absence of a court order, each of the parents of a child has parental responsibility for the child.[37] This is the case despite any changes in the parents' relationship, including their separation;[38]
(b) Subject to any court orders, parents of a child are encouraged, where it is safe to do so, to consult each other about major long-term issues in relation to a child;[39]
(c) The power of the court to make parenting orders, includes the power to make an order that deals with the allocation of parental responsibility,[40] and specifically, the allocation of responsibility for making major long-term issues in relation to a child;[41]
(d) If a parenting order deals with the allocation of responsibility for making decisions about major long-term issues in relation to a child, that order may provide for joint or sole decision-making in relation to all or specified major long-term issues;[42] and
(e) If a parenting order provides for joint decision-making in relation to all or specified major long-term issues in relation to a child, then, except to the extent the order otherwise specifies, the order is taken to require each of the persons with decision-making responsibility to consult with one another in relation to each such decision and to make a genuine effort to come to a joint decision.[43]
(a) The father's use of family violence, including to coerce and control the mother;
(b) The evidence adduced by the mother of the father's communications sent to her;
(c) The importance of making orders that promote the safety of the mother and the children, including by protecting the mother from being subjected to further family violence by the father and the children being exposed to his use of violence;
(d) The father's failure to file court documents and properly participate in these proceedings, indicating an unwillingness or incapacity to undertake work required to address the children's best interests; and
(e) On the evidence before me, I am not persuaded the mother has made decisions about major long-term issues for the children which are contrary to their best interests.
[X] and [Y]'s home life and parental separation experiences seems to have exposed them to parental views, conflict, financial matters, and alleged family violence. They gave examples of such exposure. [X] and [Y] seem to have information shared to them by one or both parents, and they had considerable insight into family violence matters such as conditions of court orders, reporting breaches, outcomes of reported breaches, and their father's alleged criminal offending behaviour.
[The father] will need to refrain from discussing his views and seeking the children's views about the future parenting arrangements, otherwise he may find that the children are less likely to want to engage in conversation with him and this may distance the connections between them.
[The mother] should refrain from sharing her views with the children and exposing them to her experiences in the relationship with the father and police/court interventions regarding the family violence orders and allegations and breaches.
In my view, the considerations that should be given to an application which involves the custodial parent taking a child out of the jurisdiction, without being exhaustive, would be these:
(a) The length of the proposed stay out of the jurisdiction;
(b) The bona fides of the application;
(c) The effect on the child of any deprivation of access;
(d) Any threats to the welfare of the child by the circumstances of the proposed environment;
(e) The degree of satisfaction in which the Court based its assessment of the parties that a promise of a return to the jurisdiction would be honoured.
(a) is to identify:
(i) the existing legal and equitable rights and interests in any property of the parties to the de facto relationship or either of them; and
(ii) the existing liabilities of the parties to the de facto relationship or either of them; and
(b) is to take into account (except for the purpose of making an order with respect to the ownership of property that is a companion animal):
(i) the considerations set out in subsection (4) (considerations relating to contributions); and
(ii) the considerations set out in subsection (5) (considerations relating to current and future circumstances).
Existing legal and equitable interests in property
Balance of net proceeds from the sale of former family home, held by mother's lawyers in trust for the parties pursuant to orders made on 20 June 2025 ("net sale proceeds")
Monies from which the parties have benefited after separation
Other monies expended from the N Bank account
Neither the Family Law Act nor the case law require that parties go into a state of suspended economic animation once their marriage breaks down pending the resolution of their financial arrangements. Parties are entitled to provide for their own support. Whether any expenditure so incurred is reasonable or extravagant is a matter that can be determined by the trial judge.
(a) 20% of the net deposit, being $5,040; and
(b) 20% of the balance paid on settlement net of expenses, being $36,026.50.[64]
(a) the financial contribution made directly or indirectly by or on behalf of a party to the de facto relationship, or a child of the de facto relationship:
(i) to the acquisition, conservation or improvement of any of the property of the parties to the de facto relationship or either of them; or
(ii) otherwise in relation to any of that last‑mentioned property;
whether or not that last‑mentioned property has, since the making of the contribution, ceased to be the property of the parties to the de facto relationship or either of them;
(b) the contribution (other than a financial contribution) made directly or indirectly by or on behalf of a party to the de facto relationship, or a child of the de facto relationship:
(i) to the acquisition, conservation or improvement of any of the property of the parties to the de facto relationship or either of them; or
(ii) otherwise in relation to any of that last‑mentioned property;
whether or not that last‑mentioned property has, since the making of the contribution, ceased to be the property of the parties to the de facto relationship or either of them;
(c) the contribution made by a party to the de facto relationship to the welfare of the family constituted by the parties to the de facto relationship and any children of the de facto relationship, including any contribution made in the capacity of homemaker or parent;
(ca) the effect of any family violence, to which one party to the de facto relationship has subjected or exposed the other party, on the ability of a party to the de facto relationship to make the kind of contributions referred to in paragraphs (a), (b) and (c);
(d) the effect of any proposed order upon the earning capacity of either party to the de facto relationship;
(f) any other order made under this Act affecting a party to the de facto relationship or a child of the de facto relationship;
(g) any child support under the Child Support (Assessment) Act 1989 that a party to the de facto relationship has provided for a child of the de facto relationship.
CONSIDERATIONS RELATING TO CURRENT & FUTURE CIRCUMSTANCES
(a) The father's non-disclosure of his financial circumstances;
(b) That the father has retained Motor Vehicle 1 and camper van, which were (on the mother's evidence) acquired and improved spending approximately $65,000 or more in 2022 and 2024 respectively. These are assets to which the mother has made a direct contribution, via the gift from her mother applied to purchase the caravan and drawing down against the parties' home loan to fund the acquisition and improvement of Motor Vehicle 1. The current value of these assets are unknown but their acquisition and improvement costs were significant in the context of the parties' modest assets;
(c) The father has superannuation of an unknown value in respect of which the mother has made an indirect contribution to the extent it relates to his employment or contributions made during the parties' relationship and/or after separation; and
(d) The mother has had the benefit of $25,957.46 from joint funds from the N Bank account, applied to the payment of her legal fees.
$34,453 + assets and superannuation of unknown value
Section 106A order
I certify that the preceding two hundred and eighteen (218) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of Judge A Humphreys.
[1] Although he left court before a hearing concluded on 29 April 2025, as recorded in notation B to orders made that day.
[2] [2003] HCA 48; (2003) 77 ALJR 1598 at [62] per Gleeson CJ, McHugh and Gummow JJ.
[3] As expressed at paragraph 17 of the explanatory memorandum to the Family Law Amendment Bill 2023.
[4] [2025] FedCFamC1F 858, at [18]-[21].
[7] McClelland DCJ at [20]-[21] and [38] referring to the decision of Heyden J in F v M [2021] EWFC 4, adopted and applied by the England and Wales Court of Appeal in Re H-N [2021] EWCA Civ 448; [2022] 1 WLR 2681; [2022] 1 All ER 475].
[8] McClelland DCJ referring to the decision of Heyden J in F v M [2021] EWFC 4 ("F v M") at [4].
[9] McClelland DCJ at [2], Austin & Williams at [111], and Aldridge & Carew JJ at [46]-[47] and [51].
[11] McClelland DCJ, at [4] and [29] and [31] referring to the analysis of Gill J in Olivier & Olivier [2020] FamCA 639 at [51]-[52]; Aldridge & Carew at [48].
[12] McClelland DCJ, at 35, referring to GK v PR [2021] EWFC 106 at [40] and [45].
[14] Annexure MSB-5 to the mother's affidavit filed on 20 December 2024.
[15] Annexure MSB-2 to the mother's affidavit filed on 20 December 2024.
[16] Annexure MSB-4 to the mother's affidavit filed on 15 May 2025.
[17] Annexure MSB-4 to the mother's affidavit filed on 15 May 2025.
[18] Beckett & Wicks [2025] FedCFamC2F 857.
[19] Keating & Keating (2019) FLC 93-894at [42] referring to Amador & Amador [2009] FamCAFC 196; (2009) 43 Fam LR 268 at [79].
[20] In their section 67ZBD response dated 3 February 2025.
[21] Annexure MSB-1 to the mother's affidavit filed on 20 December 2024.
[22] Annexure MSB-1 to the mother's affidavit filed on 20 December 2024.
[24] Annexure MSB-1 to the mother's affidavit filed on 13 December 2025.
[25] (1988) 166 CLR 69 ("M v M").
[27] Isles & Nelissen (2022) FLC 94-092at [56], citing with approval A v A (1998) FLC 92-800 at [3.14]-[3.15] and [3.24].
[31] Annexure MSB-2 to the mother's affidavit filed on 20 December 2024.
[32] Pacotto & Galvin [2025] FedCFamC1A 27 ("Pacotto & Galvin") at [60], citing Bielen & Kozma [2022] FedCFamC1A 221; (2022) FLC 94-123 ("Bielen & Kozma") at [51]-[55].
[34] [2015] FamCAFC 146 at [27], cited by the Full Court very recently with approval in Pacotto & Galvin at [60].
[36] (2023) FLC 94-166 at [36] ("Lainhart & Ellinson").
[44] Notation C to the orders made on 20 March 2025.
[45] Hedlund & Hedlund [2021] FedCFamC1A 84; (2021) FLC 94-065 citing previous authorities with approval.
[46] (2022) FLC 94-123; [2022] at [30].
[48] Oberlin & Infeld [2021] FamCAFC 66
[49] [1978] FamCA 26; (1978) FLC 90-434 at [15] per Asche SJ with Gun and Yuill JJ concurring.
[50] (1997) FLC 92-729, including at [4.49]-[4.51].
[51] Lainhart & Ellinson at [28] to [29].
[52] Section 68 of Schedule 1, Amendment Act.
[53] Explanatory memorandum, Family Law Amendment Bill 2024 (Cth) ("explanatory memorandum"), as amended by the Addendum to the explanatory memorandum.
[54] Being essentially the same approach taken to the alteration of property interests for married couples pursuant to section 79 of the Act.
[55] Babett & Falconer [2015] FamCAFC 124; (2015) FLC 98-067 at [44]; cited with approval in Perrin & Perrin (No 2) [2018] FamCAFC 122 at [57]-[58] referring in turn to Dickons & Dickons [2012] FamCAFC 154; (2012) 50 Fam LR 244 regarding section 79.
F v M [2021] EWFC 4
GK v PR [2021] EWFC 106
M v M (1988) 166 CLR 69; [1998] HCA 68
Norbis v Norbis (1986) 161 CLR 513; [1986] HCA 17
Stanford v Stanford [2012] HCA 52; 247 CLR 108
Whisprun Pty Ltd v Dixon (2003) 77 ALJR 1598; [2003] HCA 48
(2009) 43 Fam LR 268
(2012) 50 Fam LR 244
(1988) 166 CLR 69
(2022) 64 Fam LR 633
(1986) 161 CLR 513
(2003) 77 ALJR 1598