Submissions on behalf of the respondent re s 30(k)
1. It was submitted on behalf of the respondent that the respondent had concerns about the unreliability of the applicant as an historian (page 15 of Exhibit R1).
2. The applicant's actions and movements in the aftermath of the child's death were that she left her then husband about two months after the death and lived in a women's refuge with her two surviving daughters. Dr Olav Nielssen's report noted (page 20 of Exhibit R3) that the applicant had been unable to resume a normal family life in the refuge, a tense and crowded place, with most other residents living through their own crises. The applicant shared one room with her daughters and had little privacy. The applicant disclosed that since leaving her husband she had become increasingly aware of the extent of the abuse that she and her daughters had suffered, that she had suppressed her emotional responses and her own opinions in order to avoid causing conflict which often resulted in physical abuse. The applicant disclosed that she recognised that her relationship with her younger surviving daughter in particular had been affected by the abuse suffered by the applicant.
3. In his sentencing, Judge Garling noted the difference in the applicant's statements to police in her first interview and those made in her second interview with police after she had left her then-husband and after she had been charged with manslaughter. At her trial, the applicant conceded that her first statements to police were not true but that at the time she feared her husband who governed most of her actions and speech. Her evidence at trial was that there was extreme physical violence at times and severe psychological and emotional abuse and restriction of personal liberties and freedoms (page 42 of Exhibit R3). She asserted that it was fear of reprisal that prevented her from bringing her circumstances of domestic violence to the authorities. Her evidence at trial was that in the first interview she told police what she thought her then-husband would want her to say or because it was what he told her to say. The Tribunal accepts that the applicant suffered under the coercive control of her ex-partner as evidenced by the reports of Dr. Nielssen, Ms Howell and Mr de Bakker. Dr. Nielssen's evidence was that she suffered 'battered wife syndrome' and this was accepted by Judge Garling who took into account her fear of being under her partner's mental domination. Ms Howell accepted Dr Nielssen's diagnosis of 'battered wife syndrome'. Mr de Bakker also accepted Dr Nielssen's diagnosis and opined that she was steered by fear, incapable of logical rationale:
"I am of the opinion she was not capable of assessing in time what her first husband was doing as he slowly seems to have built up more control. With the constant threats made against the other children her first husband had full control in her mind. [She] was in my opinion in survival mode. She was steered by fear and a such was hardly capable of any logical thoughts or rationale."
1. During the hearing on 17 November 2020, the applicant was cross-examined on a number of apparent inconsistencies in her versions of facts and events given at different periods of time. Broadly, this included traversing in some detail the events leading to the death of her daughter including the applicant's discussions with a GP, Dr Webster, and a naturopath in Queensland about treatment for her daughter; the applicant's various interviews with the Police in the immediate aftermath of the death of her child and in connection with the criminal proceedings; her interview with Toni Single, Clinical Psychologist in connection with Care proceedings with respect to her surviving daughters; details about the dates and whereabouts of her tertiary education; details of the applicant's attendance on various psychologists over the years including Debra Stuart, Psychologist, to discuss her personal and emotional development; and details of her relationships with her surviving daughters which included an incident involving an alleged assault by the applicant on one of her surviving daughters.
2. Overall, the applicant gave calm and considered responses, answering that immediately following the death of her child, she was experiencing grief and was at that time recovering from having been in an abusive and controlling relationship with her then de facto husband. The applicant gave evidence that she didn't leave the abusive relationship because of fear and mental helplessness, that she lacked capacity to think outside the fearful situation. She described the events leading to the death of the child as a "catastrophic failure" on her part (lines 27-28, page 19 of the Transcript for 17 November 2020) and regretted "with every fibre of [her] being" not getting her child to hospital (lines 42-44, page 20 of the Transcript for 17 November 2020).
3. In accounting for inconsistencies in previous accounts, the applicant said that her mind was not working well because of "the stress, and the distress, and - and trying not to be emotional, and holding back a lot of grief and distress, and trying to respond to questions and remember things" (lines 3-7, page 22 of the Transcript for 17 November 2020). The applicant said that after the child's death she was living in hell and that it was all she could do to function every day at the time. When challenged that she had lied in her first interview with police, and had lied about various other accounts, the applicant said that she was doing her best to tell the whole truth to the Tribunal but that before she left her husband, she was used to saying what he had told her to say. Her evidence was that:
"When I left him, I - when I was able to escape I started wanting to tell things truthfully, but I was still in distress and post-trauma. I hadn't been able to grieve. It was some time before I was even able to grieve the death of my daughter. So you know, I think my - my mind was a bit of a mess from those traumas, and distress, and pressures, and her loss, and trying to find life as a single parent, and deal with all the trauma, and the legal situation. So, I'm sure there would be inconsistencies in what I said at those times." (lines 33-41, page 32 of the Transcript for 17 November 2020).
1. With respect to her consultations with Debra Stuart, Psychologist, the applicant explained those consultations as predominantly dealing with her personal and emotional development associated with her relationship in a new marriage and the impact of perimenopausal hormones on her emotional well-being. Her consultations also dealt with the legacies of her childhood, the years of abuse with a partner who exercised coercive control over her, and her grief over the loss of her child.
2. Overall, in these proceedings, the applicant presented as an open and honest witness when accounting for apparent inconsistencies over the period of time from the death of her child in early 2000 to current day. The Tribunal considers that the applicant's evidence was given truthfully. The Tribunal acknowledges the pressure she would have been under at the time of the offence from her then partner and the legal system, her grief over the loss of one daughter, her incarceration and her separation from the other two daughters.
- In closing submissions, Counsel for the respondent argued that it would not be possible to be satisfied that the applicant would report to relevant authorities in relation to an injury caused to a child witnessed by her if it cast doubt on her ability in some way. Mr de Bakker's opinion is clear and unequivocal on this critical issue, namely, that the applicant will definitely be able to assert herself where a child may be at risk.
- Counsel submitted that it would not be possible to be confident she would report sexual abuse since she did not report her own sexual abuse at the time. Counsel submitted that the Tribunal would be concerned that she would not report sexual or other abuse by a member of the Church that she is anxious to become a minister in, because all of those things would require her to put herself aside and to act solely for the benefit of a child and there is no evidence before the tribunal that that is what she would do. While an expert opinion is not in evidence on this particular issue as a risk factor, the Tribunal has taken into account the report of Ms Mary Ferrett, Psychologist, dated 18 March 2002 (page 26 of R3). The Tribunal acknowledges that this report is almost 20 years old, however, Ms Ferrett drew a correlation between the effects of child sexual abuse on the applicant's vulnerability to abusive relationships.
- The applicant attended sessions to gain insights in the effects of the sexual abuse she suffered as a child on her emotional development. Ms Ferrett referred to the correlation between child sexual abuse and impaired personal boundaries and thought that this made the applicant vulnerable to abusive relationships and a sense of powerlessness in the relationship. Ms Ferrett said that the applicant had made a concentrated and committed effort and had gained great insights and lessened her vulnerability to abusive relationships.
- The applicant's written evidence that "independence and confidence are important aspects of [her] life and that she is able "to 'hold [her] own' in friendships or dealings with strong/dominating people" (paragraph 42 of A3) is corroborated in the statement given by the Second Referee (Exhibit A7). The statement says that the applicant was observed to "have had the courage to confront an older man over his inappropriate behaviour towards her." The Second Referee also said "I have no doubt that she would act appropriately and courageously to protect children or other vulnerable people in her care."
- The Tribunal is persuaded by Mr de Bakker's opinion on the applicant's ability to assert herself where a child may be at risk, having addressed her grief and remorse over the death of her youngest daughter, being in a stable marriage and having immersed herself in a supportive community network and being part of the Church.