austlii:cth/FedCFamC1F/2025/603
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FedCFamC1F
2025-09-03
Anderson J
Original judgment source is linked above.
FEDERAL CIRCUIT AND FAMILY COURT OF AUSTRALIA (DIVISION 1)
Note: The form of the order is subject to the entry in the Court's records.
Note: This copy of the Court's Reasons for judgment may be subject to review to remedy minor typographical or grammatical errors (r 10.14(b) Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth)), or to record a variation to the order pursuant to r 10.13 Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law) Rules 2021 (Cth).
Part XIVB of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) makes it an offence, except in very limited circumstances, to publish an account of proceedings that identify persons, associated persons, or witnesses involved in family law proceedings.
IT IS NOTED that publication of this judgment by this Court under a pseudonym Holinski & Holinski (No 3) has been approved pursuant to subsection 114Q(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
(a) The children's parents have equal shared parental responsibility for them;
(b) The children live with the mother;
(c) During school term time, the children spend time with the father from the conclusion of school on Thursday to the commencement of school on Monday in each alternate week;[1] and
(d) The children spend half of each school holiday period with each of their parents.
(a) From the date of the delivery of my Judgment until the commencement of the Christmas school holiday period in 2025, the father have sole decision-making authority for major long-term issues in relation to the children's health;
(b) On the delivery of the children to the father on 8 August 2025, the children not spend any time with the mother until the commencement of the Christmas school holiday period in 2025 ("the moratorium period");
(c) On completion of the moratorium period, the children spend time with each of their parents for one half of the 2025/2026 Christmas school holiday period;
(d) On the commencement of the academic year in 2026, the children live with each of their parents as follows:
(i) With the father from the conclusion of school on Wednesday (or 3.00pm if school is not in session) to the commencement of school on Monday (or the commencement of school on Tuesday if school is not in session on the Monday) in each alternate week; and
(ii) With the mother at all other times.
Events subsequent to the delivery of my judgment
(a) New South Wales police assisted the father to recover the children from the mother on 9 August 2025;[6]
(b) Having made efforts to recover the children, New South Wales police and the New South Wales ambulance service facilitated the children's transfer to the Y Hospital;[7] and
(c) On 13 August 2025, the children were discharged into the care of the father.[8]
(a) An Application in a Proceeding filed on 11 August 2025; and
(b) An affidavit in the name of the mother filed on 11 August 2025.
(a) A Response to an Application in a Proceeding filed on 14 August 2025.
(b) An affidavit in the name of the father filed on 14 August 2025.
(a) Dr AA, senior clinical psychologist and psychologist at the Child and Adolescent Development Unit at Y Hospital; and
(b) Dr CC, head of the paediatrics department at Y Hospital.
At fifteen years of age, and if the Court grants the father's application, the elder child is likely to "self-place back with the mother and his brother will follow". The expert opined that this "happens frequently"; (d) The children will "need heavy therapeutic help if there is to be a change of residence";
Having specifically taken that evidence into account at Paragraph 164 of his judgement [sic].
His Honor's [sic] conclusion at 167, "that counsel for the ICL and the Mother did not address the court with any evidence which might cause me to conclude that the Mother will comply with orders" was factually incorrect, as counsel for the Mother did make submissions as to the likelihood of the Mother complying with court orders including a submissions [sic] that she complied with Her Honor [sic] Justice Hannam's orders until 2016 until 2022 and again complied with the Court's orders from 2023 until the making of His Honor's [sic] orders.
His Honor [sic] placed insufficient weight on the totally [sic] of recommendations made by the single expert such that orders made did not properly address the risk that the children may:
Put themselves or others at risk by attempting to self-place back with the Mother;
Suffer psychological harm as a result of not having adequate therapeutic support to assist with a change in residence.
His Honor [sic] placed insufficient weight on the Children's views.
The manner in which an appeal against an exercise of discretion should be determined is governed by established principles. It is not enough that the judges composing the appellate court consider that, if they had been in the position of the primary judge, they would have taken a different course. It must appear that some error has been made in exercising the discretion. If the judge acts upon a wrong principle, if he allows extraneous or irrelevant matters to guide or affect him, if he mistakes the facts, if he does not take into account some material consideration, then his determination should be reviewed and the appellate court may exercise its own discretion in substitution for his if it has the materials for doing so.
(emphasis added)
...an appellate court should be slow to overturn a primary judge's discretionary decision on grounds which only involve conflicting assessments of matters of weight.
...I consider that the risks presented by the mother's failure to support the children's relationship with their father is of such magnitude that I ought to give consideration to a change in the children's primary living arrangements. If I do not give consideration to such an outcome then I would be overlooking the harm identified by the single expert consequent to a severance of the children's relationship with their father. I make this comment in circumstances where by reason of her past conduct and the evidence, which the mother gave during the trial, I have no confidence that the mother will comply with any orders made by me or facilitate a relationship between the children and their father.
(a) The mother's decision in November 2022 to agree with the children that they would send her an emoji representing a swirl of brown faeces if they wished to be collected from their father's residence;[14]
(b) The secretive nature of messages sent by the mother to the children on 17 November 2022 and the mother's exhortation to the elder child to delete certain messages sent by her. The mother's behaviour demonstrated an intention to do whatever was necessary to undermine the children's relationship with their father;[15]
(c) The mother's failure to take the children to school on 16 December 2022 so that she might prevent the father from collecting the children. In turn, this behaviour meant that the children were deprived of an opportunity to spend time with their father pursuant to the 2016 Orders;[16]
(d) The mother's failure to persuade the children that their father does not present a risk to them;[17]
(e) The mother's encouragement of the children's views of their father so that she could reduce his involvement in the children's lives without impingement;[18]
(f) The mother's unnecessary attendance at the Suburb V Police Station in late 2023, which caused the elder child to be interviewed by police;[19]
(g) My finding that the mother was unable to shield the children from her negative views of the father;[20]
(h) The children's mapping "out [of] certain escape routes" with the knowledge and apparent consent of the mother in February 2023 to prepare for the possibility that they might be obliged to spend time with the father;[21] and
(i) The mother's failure to encourage the children to spend supervised time with their father on 24 June 2023 and 8 July 2023.[22]
[Patient] stated suicidal ideation with self harm [sic], plan to cut wrists. Pt appeared with depressed mood, described hopelessness and distress, +++tearful. [Patient] attempted to hit NSWPF with metal pipe, attempted to abscond in NSWPF presence. Social and home stressors...[24]
Attended children...after the morning multidisciplinary meeting between myself, NUM, Clin Psych, social worker and paed registrar.
Both boys were in bed together, calm, watching TV.
I introduced myself and asked an open-ended question ("How are things going for you?")
Without further prompting, both expressed feeling unsafe with father and stated in synchrony that would run away if placed in father's care.
Both children, provided general emotional statements when asked "what made them feel unsafe with their dad" without elaborating specific incidents. Both boys came with repetitive and strongly negative narratives about father and paternal family and fear about the contact with the father.
...
I noted strong alignment in views, repetitive rephrasing, and absence of positive recollections, which were consistent with psychologist's observation.
Interaction remained calm during my review; no behavioural escalation noted.[25]
(a) Arranged for a friend to attend on the children in breach of injunctive orders made by me on 8 August 2025.[27] This act required the intervention of hospital staff; and
(b) Caused two mobile phones to be delivered to the children in breach of injunctive orders made by me on 8 August 2025.[28] The mother's counsel on my enquiry submitted that the mother was confused about the operation of my orders. In any event, the letter from the Z Family Services identifies that the children disclosed that they had been texting their mother during their stay at the hospital. I consider that the mother's failure to comply with my orders contributed to the children's distress.
(a) On first meeting the children, Dr AA says that both children were saying "I'm scared, where is [...], you can't make us go somewhere we feel unsafe". She advised me that:
(i) Both children wanted to tell their stories;
(ii) Each child was odd in his presentation. She described each child as "heightened" and "just wanted to simply get all this information out that was repetitive and well-rehearsed";
(iii) Any attempts to test the children's narrative or request for them to elaborate "would be ignored" and the children's narrative would "circulate back to the beginning";
(b) The children "have fragmentary memories of events" and lacked any ability to "elaborate or give a defined incident or event", which caused them to reject their father;
(c) The elder child, despite being fifteen years of age, was "remarkably immature for his age".[29] Indeed, Dr AA said that the child's immaturity was such that she had to "keep reminding" herself that he was in fact fifteen years of age;
(d) The children would refer to always refer to themselves as "we" never "I" and it was impossible to obtain any narrative from each child individually because "one would start and the other would finish the sentence";
(e) The children presented as "enmeshed" with the mother "sharing one view"; and
(f) In her opinion, the children presented as children who had been "deeply emotionally and psychologically abused". Dr AA also described the children's presentation as consistent with having been alienated from their father at a "severe level". She said that the children's alienation from their father is such that the children's "sense of reality and what is real" has been lost but that it is "easy to cut through their fears because they do not have the memories to back it up".
(a) The children appeared "visibly fearful of their father but provided limited, scripted responses lacking detail". That information was provided to the Department by Dr AA and it was consistent with her oral evidence;
(b) Dr AA expressed an opinion that the children's presentation was caused by a "high level of parental alienation" and required "specialised therapeutic support" that was beyond the services, which could be afforded to the children by New South Wales Health;
(c) The children were aware that my Judgment was the subject of an appeal and asked when they would be returned to their mother; and
(d) The children "appeared very 'parrot like' in their responses with little information to collaborate [sic] the concerns", which they expressed in relation to their father.
(a) The children are safe, had settled into his care and were "slowly reconnecting and communicating" with him;[31]
(b) Steps had been taken by him to engage a parental alienation expert to begin therapy with the Children;[32]
(c) He had taken indefinite leave from his employment[33] so that he might care for the children; and
(d) He is working with the children's school principal and the Department of Education to facilitate their schooling.[34]
Recent developments indicate that the children have settled. In the event that the stay was to be granted, they would then be removed, placed back with the mother, and then at the appeal may again be returned to the father or stay with the mother, and I think that is a significant concern.
I certify that the preceding forty-six (46) numbered paragraphs are a true copy of the Reasons for Judgment of the Honourable Justice Anderson.
[1] Orders made 22 January 2016, paragraph 6(a)(i).
[2] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [17].
[3] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [21].
[4] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530.
[5] Orders made on 8 June 2023, paragraph 3.
[6] Father's affidavit filed 14 August 2025, paragraph 9.
[7] Father's affidavit filed 14 August 2025, paragraph 12.
[8] Father's affidavit flied 14 August 2025, paragraph 26.
[11] The eleven dot points have been described as 'the First XI' of stay principles.
[12] Cantrell & North & Anor (2019) FLC 93-921; [2019] Fam CAFC 127 at [33].
[13] Australian Coal and Shale Employees' Federation v The Commonwealth [1953] HCA 25; (1953) 94 CLR 621 at 627.
[14] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [96].
[15] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [101].
[16] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [107].
[17] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [120].
[18] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [121].
[19] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [122].
[20] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [135].
[21] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [136].
[22] Holinski & Holinski (No 2) [2025] FedCFamC1F 530 at [139] and [141].
[23] Exhibit ICL2 as that exhibit relates to the elder child.
[24] Exhibit ICL2 as that exhibit relates to the elder child at page 6 of 73.
[25] Exhibit ICL2 as that exhibit relates to the elder child at page 11 of 73.
[26] Exhibit ICL2 as that exhibit relates to the elder child at page 7 of 73.
[27] Orders made on 8 August 2025, paragraph 10.
[28] Father's affidavit filed 14 August 2025, paragraphs 18 and 20.
[29] Transcript dated 15 August 2025, page 8.
[30] Father's affidavit filed 14 August 2025, paragraph 28.
[31] Father's affidavit filed 14 August 2025, paragraph 39.
[32] Transcript dated 15 August 2025, page 30.
[33] Father's affidavit filed 14 August 2025, paragraph 36.
[34] Father's affidavit filed 14 August 2025, paragraph 33.
Australian Coal and Shale Employees' Federation
The Commonwealth
(1953) 94 CLR 621
(1979) 144 CLR 513
(1986) 161 CLR 681
(1936) 55 CLR 409
(1986) 160 CLR 220
(1998) 72 ALJR 1329