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[2009] FamCAFC 106
respondent. Appeal against the refusal to stay Order 1 of the Chief Federal Magistrate's orders of 9 February 2009 dismissed; respondent's costs reserved to be dealt with when the Full Court deals with costs...
The Full Court dismissed the mother's appeal against the Chief Federal Magistrate's refusal to stay parenting orders that gave the mother's former partner regular and increasing contact with their child. The Court held the trial judge properly exercised his discretion, having regard to the child's best interests, the risk of disrupting a warm attachment with the respondent, and the customary stay principles. There was no error of law or principle that would justify overturning the refusal to grant a stay.
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This is an interlocutory stay appeal arising from parenting proceedings. The mother, Ms Aldridge, appealed to the Full Court against the Chief Federal Magistrate's (CFM) refusal to grant a stay of parenting orders made after a contested trial on 9 February 2009. The orders required that the child, A (aged about 3 years 4 months), spend progressively increasing time with the respondent, Ms Keaton, including overnight contact every third weekend (Reasons: Introduction [1]–[7]; Background History [6]).
The mother filed notice of appeal against the substantive parenting orders (20 February 2009) and then, on 11 March 2009 (amended 13 March), sought a stay of the contact provisions pending that appeal. The CFM refused the stay on 9 April 2009. The mother appealed that refusal (EA 37 of 2009). The Full Court heard the stay appeal together with the substantive appeal and, after reserving judgment, dismissed the stay appeal on 19 June 2009 (Orders; Reasons: Introduction [6]–[8]; Orders).
Key factual features that informed the CFM's and Full Court's decisions were: the parties' prior same‑sex relationship and joint involvement in artificial conception procedures (Background History [2]–[3]); the child's prior contact history with the respondent including periods of overnight care before the reduction of visits by the mother (Background History [5]); and the existence of interim orders (August 2008) that had the child spending three hours each Saturday with the respondent (Background History [6]). After the trial orders (9 February 2009) the child began spending increased time with the respondent from 11 April 2009, moving to two full days and then to an every third weekend overnight arrangement (Background History [7]).
The CFM refused the stay principally because he concluded that continuation and gradual increase of contact was in the child's best interests and that stopping or curtailing contact risked disrupting an existing warm relationship between the child and the respondent (CFM's 'Best interests' reasons quoted in Full Court Reasons, reproduced at Reasons: paragraphs 51–56). The Full Court reviewed that exercise of discretion and found no appealable error (Reasons: Discussion and Conclusion).
Two streams of reasoning underpinned the Full Court's decision.
First, the standard of appellate review: the Full Court emphasised that this was an appeal from a discretionary judgment and that appellate intervention is limited. Where the dispute is essentially about weight and evaluation of evidence about relationships, an appellate court is reluctant to overturn a trial judge's assessment unless an error of law or other appealable error is established (see Reasons: "This is an appeal from a discretionary judgment" and the authorities cited).
Second, the substance of the stay analysis: the Full Court accepted the CFM's fact findings and his evaluative conclusion that stopping or significantly reducing the respondent's contact pending appeal would be potentially more harmful to the child because it risked another break in a 'warm and significant attachment' (CFM's reasons at quoted paragraphs [51]–[56], reproduced and relied on by the Full Court; see Reasons: Chief Federal Magistrate's Stay Reasons and Discussion). The Full Court noted the stay factors to be weighed (the applicant's onus, balance of convenience, risk of appeal being rendered nugatory, preliminary assessment of the strength of the appeal, and, importantly, the child's best interests) and concluded that the CFM had appropriately considered those factors and reached a defensible conclusion.
The Full Court also rejected arguments that the CFM had given inappropriate weight to the family consultant's observations or had misapplied s 60CC or s 65C(c) when dealing with a non‑parent person concerned with the child's care. The Court found the CFM had applied relevant statutory considerations and recent authority on how to approach best interests in cases where one party is not a legal parent (Reasons: Chief Federal Magistrate's Stay Reasons [8]; Discussion).
Because no appealable error was demonstrated in the CFM's exercise of discretion, the Full Court dismissed the stay appeal (Reasons: concluding sentence).
Before this decision, the law governing stays in family law and the limits of appellate interference with discretionary decisions were settled: the High Court and appellate courts had repeatedly emphasised restraint in upsetting discretionary findings (House v The King; Gronow v Gronow), and principles for granting stays (Myer Emporium, Alexander v Cambridge Credit, Jennings, Clemett, JRN & KEN) were established and routinely applied in parenting contexts.
This Full Court decision applies those settled principles to the particular tensions that arise in parenting‑order stay applications: it reaffirms that the best interests of the child may, in some cases, require refusal of a stay even where the stay would maintain a pre‑order status quo (the Court expressly cites and follows the reasoning in K & B [2006] FamCA 848 that status quo is not an absolute presumption in stay applications involving children). The decision therefore reinforces a practical rule: where continued contact is likely to protect a child's existing attachment, courts may properly refuse a stay to avoid the potentially greater harm of disrupting that attachment.
After this decision, practitioners should expect that stay applications in parenting matters will be assessed with a clear emphasis on the child's welfare and the potential disruptive effects of altering arrangements already found to be in the child's best interests. The ruling sits comfortably with pre‑existing authorities and does not create new law so much as apply established stay and discretionary‑review principles in the family law context.
Passage (Full Court): "This is an appeal from a discretionary judgment. There are well established principles on the limits on interference by an appellate court..." (Reasons: Applicable principles).
Passage (Full Court) listing stay principles: including the onus on the applicant, entitlement to rely on a judgment, risk of making an appeal nugatory, best interests of the child.
Passage (CFM quoted and adopted by Full Court): "In all the circumstances I believe it is in the child's best interests to continue spending time with the Respondent periodically on the basis set out in the orders... it would seem to be potentially much more harmful to the child for there to be another break in her relationship with the Respondent..." (CFM Reasons [51]–[56], reproduced in Full Court Reasons).
Passage (Conclusion): "There being no appealable error the appeal against the refusal of the stay should be dismissed."
This decision is directly applicable where:
Practically, lawyers should expect that stay applications in such factual matrices will face a high hurdle because courts will prioritise avoiding disruption to established child attachments.
The Full Court explicitly relied upon and cited existing authorities (House v The King; Myer Emporium; K & B and others). The decision itself reiterates and applies those precedents rather than purporting to depart from them. Subsequent family law stay applications will treat this decision as follows:
(Practitioners should search post‑2009 authorities for direct citing of this Full Court decision to trace subsequent judicial treatment; this decision itself contains the core statements upon which later courts will rely.)
Quantification of "disruption": The judgment affirms that interruption of contact can be more harmful, but does not supply a precise threshold for when disruption outweighs other stay factors. How to quantify disruption on particular facts remains a matter for trial judgment.
Interim escalation schedules: The case involved planned graduated increases in contact. The Court accepted that stopping escalation could be problematic. But the decision leaves open exactly how granular courts should be when tailoring limited stays (for example, partial stays that permit minimal continuing contact while halting further escalation).
Weight to expert observations: The Full Court accepted the CFM's use of the court‑appointed family consultant's observations. But the precise demarcation between permissible fact‑finding from a consultant's report and overreliance on non‑clinical "attachment" descriptions remains fact‑sensitive and open to argument.
Interaction with appeals that may result in remission or re‑hearing: The mother argued that prolongation of proceedings and possible remittal could entrench relationships such that an eventual successful appeal would be nugatory. The Full Court recognised the risk of nugatory appeal as a factor but found it outweighed by child welfare considerations on the facts. How courts should weigh long delay/remission risk in different factual matrices could remain contested.
Non‑parent status and s 60CC scope: The Full Court accepted application of s 60CC considerations to a non‑parent under s 65C(c) but did not exhaustively analyse the limits of that approach. Future cases may further delineate the statutory boundaries in complex family structures.
In practice, this Full Court decision mandates careful, factually detailed submissions on the child's best interests when pressuring for stays in parenting matters, and it confirms that appellate courts will demand demonstration of appealable error before disturbing discretionary stay decisions made to protect established child attachments.
GROUNDS OF APPEAL AGAINST THE REFUSAL OF THE STAY
(a) That if a Stay, or partial Stay, were granted then it would be far more likely to render an appeal nugatory because of the difficulties in re-establishing a relationship between the child and the Respondent { 16}.
(b) that, by implication, the stress on the Applicant caused by not granting a Stay would be lessened { 21}.
(c) that by not granting a Stay the Applicant will have less interaction with the Respondent than had been the case to the date of the hearing of the Stay application { 21}.
(d) that there was no danger to the child arising out [sic] an incident on 7 March 2009 or, by implication, that the mother's anxiety arising therefrom was unreasonable { 22}.
(e) that it is potentially more harmful to the child for there to be another break in her relationship with the Respondent { 54}.
(a) there was no consideration of the long term impact on the child of a relationship with the Respondent being continued and potentially entrenched in circumstances where the arrangements provided in the Orders of 9 February 2009 may be reversed on Appeal.
(b) there was no consideration of one of the consequences of a successful appeal, that being the potential of a remission of re-hearing, leading to a much longer period before the matter might be resolved { 47, 48}.
(a) that the parties may or may not at a particular time have been in a de facto relationship for the purposes of the Act { 44}.
(b) that the Orders made on 9 February 2009 solved the conflict between the parties { 31}.
(b) the stress and potential hardship to the Applicant of not granting a Stay, or a limited Stay { 20, 21, 50, 54, 55} and the consequent detriment to the best interests of the child.
APPLICABLE PRINCIPLES RELATING TO THE STAY APPLICATION
The granting or refusal of a stay involves an exercise of discretion by a trial Judge. Whilst such discretion must be exercised judicially, in cases involving children, we accept that from time to time circumstances in existence at the date of the orders, or which occur from the date of orders until the hearing of a stay application, may be very relevant matters to be considered in the exercise of discretion in determining whether or not to grant a stay. The interests of children would not be promoted by an inflexible requirement or presumption in every case to maintain the status quo prior to the making of orders the subject of the stay application, and to ignore unsatisfactory arrangements at the time of the orders, or significant events which have occurred after the making of those orders.
I certify that the preceding thirty nine (39) paragraphs are a true copy of the reasons for judgment of the Honourable Full Court.
Alexander
Cambridge Credit Corporation
Commissioner of Taxation of the Commonwealth of Australia v Myer Emporium Limited [No.1] [1986] HCA 13; (1986) 160 CLR 220
Gronow v Gronow [1979] HCA 63; (1979) 144 CLR 513; (1979) FLC 90-716
House v The King [1936] HCA 40; (1936) 55 CLR 499
Jennings Construction Limited v Burgundy Royale Investments Pty Limited [1986] HCA 84; (1986) 161 CLR 681
(1979) 144 CLR 513
(1936) 55 CLR 499
(1986) 161 CLR 681
(1998) 72 ALJR 1329
(1985) 2 NSW LR 685
(1986) 160 CLR 220
Appeal against the refusal to stay Order 1 of the Chief Federal Magistrate's orders of 9 February 2009 dismissed; respondent's costs reserved to be dealt with when the Full Court deals with costs of the substantive appeal.