47 I now turn to summarise the evidence. It is unnecessary and impractical to set it all out. However, in preparing this judgment and reaching my conclusions I have reread and considered all of the evidence.
48 I shall first refer to the evidence of Susie and then to the witnesses in the order in which they gave evidence. While in the course of doing so I may make a finding I defer until later dealing with matters of credit and findings. I do however make this observation, that by the time of the trial many years have passed since the making of the oral statements in the 1995 to 1997 period which the plaintiff and her witnesses attested to, and which she relies upon, and which the defendants deny. Nothing is in writing. It is all recollection. I note too that in the evidence Steven is generally referred to as Steve.
Susie
49 Susie's evidence in chief was largely contained in her witness statement[13]. This was supplemented by some oral evidence which mainly concerned her answer to statements in the witness statements of the defendants and Georgievski.
50 Susie said that she met Steven very early in 1995 at Melbourne Mushrooms where she had casual employment. He had previously worked there and, having just graduated from the Police Academy, visited the premises in his police uniform to see former colleagues. They spoke and Steven asked her out. Susie said, and this was disputed by Steven, that almost immediately after they started going out they formed a very close relationship. Steven introduced her to his parents at their fish and chip shop during 1995 and she met them at the Mernda property around the end of 1995. She got on extremely well with Steven's parents who made it clear that they liked her.
51 In her outline of evidence Susie recounted a number of occasions on which statements were made to her by Victor and Rosa, and Steven, as to her having or acquiring an interest in the Mernda land.
52 At the commencement of her statement, under the heading "The Agreement", Susie referred to a Sunday afternoon when Rosa came over to "our house", meaning the house at 1575 Plenty Road. This became known as the occasion of the snake incident. Although Susie could not recall the date when it occurred[14], her statement indicates that it was before the marriage. As to this occasion, Susie said that Rosa was upset saying she had nearly been bitten by a snake. Later that day Victor came over and Steven arrived home. In conversations about the state of the property Victor said words to the effect "Well, this house and half the land is yours, you can do whatever you like with it. We have no say in what you and Steve do. It's not our property". Victor said that Steven had been working since he was young and always wanted to save up for a property for when he got married. Susie said that she asked them "Whose name was on the title of our house", and that they "told me that Steve's name was on the title and that he [meaning Victor] specifically bought the house and 20 acres for Steve and I to live in and start our own family". Victor said "Once you and Steve are married, we'll make sure your name is on the title of the property. Plus when you're married, it belongs to both of you anyway". Victor said "There is no need to worry about these things since we all know it is your house and 20 acres belongs to you and Steve. We'll never go against our word". Rosa agreed with Victor and said "Trust me, we would never go against our word. We love you like a daughter and would do anything for you". She said "We're making sure you and Steve own your own property so you don't have to worry about financial matters. You can start your own family and give us grandchildren sooner". Rosa told her she should trust them. "They said that Steve paid money towards our property and that of course it was his, and now it was going to be mine too since we were getting married". Susie said that she believed and trusted them. Susie said that it made sense as Steve had no assets other than his Holden Calais (which he said was his but after the fall-out said was in his parents' name) and he told her he rarely went out and wasted money. He always said that he was saving for a large property on which to start his family.
53 Susie proceeded in her witness statement to statements made on other occasions. First, she referred to Steve having told her that "the house and 20 acres were his". He was "always telling me before we got married, how he was always saving, so that he could buy a house on a large property for his wife and children [and] ... now that he had me, he could concentrate on working hard and making money for our family. He would always say that we would save as much as we could and invest most of our money in our property, as that was the smartest and safest investment".
54 Susie then referred to the occasion of The Word when the two families got together to celebrate Susie having accepted Steve's proposal of marriage. Susie said that her father asked Victor and Rosa whose name was on the title "of Steve's and my property (since it is custom to ensure that the parents of the groom do whatever they could to ensure their son and wife own their own property)" and that Victor and Rosa said that Steve's name was on the title, and that when they married they would make sure Susie's name was on the title too, although it did not really matter because the house and land was for Steve and Susie. They said not to worry, there was no doubt the property belonged to Steve and Susie, regardless of who was on title, but they would make sure Susie was too. Further on in her witness statement, Susie said that at The Word the defendants kept telling her family and her that the 20 acres of land which the house was on belonged to Steve and Susie, that they had heaps of land to do whatever they wanted to.
55 Susie then referred to statements made at the after party in the living room at her parents' home following the formal engagement party at Gloria Reception. Victor and Rosa said in front of Susie and her parents and sisters that Susie would own the house and about 20 acres after the marriage. Rosa said that she and Victor would do anything they could and sacrifice whatever they had to ensure that Steve and Susie were financially set for life. Rosa said the newer of the two houses was for Steve and Susie since their happiness was more important than Victor's and hers. She also said that since they would own their own property there was no need to wait to have kids. Victor said that half of the total property was Steve's and Susie's without a doubt. He said that Rosa and he were working all their lives for their kids, to set them up when they got married, so they could start their own families in their own home. Further on in her statement Susie said she recalled Valentina saying "So the house and 20 acres of land belongs to Steve and Susie" and that Rosa said it did, that Susie was like a daughter to her, that she loved her like she was her own and would do anything for her kids.
56 Susie went on in her witness statement to give further evidence of statements made to the above effect under the headings "Before The Marriage", "Early Days After The Wedding", and "Later, After the Marriage". While I have regard to all of her evidence, I do not set it all out. What I have already set out records the substance of the statements that Susie relies upon. I therefore now refer as summarily as practicable to the balance of her evidence in chief.
57 Susie said it was custom in Macedonian culture for the wife to call her in-laws mum and dad and for her husband to call his in-laws grandmother and grandfather. That is what Steve and Susie did. A reason for the wife calling her in-laws mum and dad is because after the marriage she is considered to be a daughter to her husband's parents and they are responsible for taking care of and supporting the wife, in addition to their son.
58 I now refer to statements and events Susie referred to under the heading "Before The Marriage". On occasions prior to the marriage when they talked about their future and in particular about "our property", Steve made statements as to the property, or 20 acres, belonging to them. On one of these occasions he said that he had put all his savings towards the purchase of the 20 acres. Susie said that when she said to Steve that she did not want "to live in an old, filthy and worn-out house on a farm, isolated and a fair distance from my parents and sisters, even if it had 20 acres of land", Steve said it would take getting used to, and time and money to be properly fixed as they want it. He said it was the best investment they could make, bringing so much land, that the house may be old but they have 20 acres of land.
59 And before the engagement Victor and Rosa said on a number of occasions, especially when Susie discussed buying a new home, that the house on the property and half of the 40 acres was theirs and that she and Steve could renovate it and it would be like a new house. They said "You don't need a new house, you can renovate the one you own and if you buy a new house, you won't have anywhere near the 20 acres".
60 Susie said that she wanted to buy a new home for their family but because of the assurance that the house and 20 acres was theirs, they did not buy a new one and they decided to use their money on fixing up the property. Victor and Rosa also said they should stay together as a family, the house being close to them, all Susie had to worry about was starting her family and giving them grandchildren.
61 Susie gave other instances of Victor and Rosa telling her that the house and 20 acres is hers and Steven's, and as to starting a family right away because she would already own her own property and they will be living close by. Further, on many occasions while they were engaged Susie slept over at the house; on two such occasions Victor and Rosa came over to "our place" and said words to the effect of "why not move in since it was her house anyway". Susie said that she completely believed and trusted the defendants that the property was going to be under Steve's and her name.
62 Susie proceeded to refer to occasions following the marriage when Victor and Rosa, and Steven, repeated the substance of the statements as to she and Steven owning the house and 20 acres of the property. I mention one occasion because a deal of cross-examination was directed to Susie about it. It was an occasion shortly after the honeymoon when Victor and Rosa came over to the house after Susie had cleaned up the mess of a rat which Steven had killed. She told them she hated living in conditions where there were rats and she had to clean up their droppings, that they said in substance that that is what happens on a farm and that the upside was all the land you own. Susie said that in the discussions she asked Victor and Rosa if they had put her on the title of the house and 20 acres as they had promised, and that they said they had. In further comments Victor said they had taken care of everything for her, it was her property and she need not worry. She was not to worry about the mortgage, "that's Steve's job, Steve will take care of the financial side of things and you just worry about taking care of your family and your home". Rosa said she was their daughter and having their grandchild, she can trust them, they would never lie or do anything to hurt her. Susie said they were very traditional in thinking that Steve should handle financial matters and be the only one working and that she should concentrate on child-rearing and home duties.
63 Steven too assured her after the marriage that the property was in their joint names. She was convinced by the defendants that her name was on the title and that Steven and she owned the house and 20 acres.
64 Susie gave a deal of evidence about renovations to their house. She said that they did not ask Victor and Rosa's permission and that they complimented them on the work done.
65 At a time prior to the birth of Jamie and apropos of preparing the house for his arrival, Steven said he was putting in as much money from his pay as possible to pay off the mortgage so they could pay it off soon but at the same time their property needed major renovating. Steven often said the best thing about the property was the 20 acres and that was the main reason he bought the property, definitely not the house.
66 They worked out what needed to be done to the house and undertook works. Apart from those works, Susie spent a lot of time cleaning up the house and its surrounds. Susie said that if it were not for the reassurances and promises as to the property being hers and Steven's she would not have agreed to the extensive renovations which were financed from their savings, or put in the effort to clean up and transform the house. Nor would she have given up her career. She said that her parents assisted greatly in the improvement and renovation of the house and land.
67 Susie then proceeded to refer to statements made by Victor and Rosa after the birth of Jamie. On two of the occasions there was reference to the mortgage on the property, Rosa saying that the mortgage will be paid off soon. Rosa also referred to them (Steven and Susie) paying off the mortgage on their half of the property. Susie said she did not ask for details as they always brushed her off and told her not to concern herself with financial details.
68 Susie said that Steven's abusive behaviour towards her commenced shortly after they were married and increased over time. In August 1999 Steven left the home for about two weeks.
69 The final separation occurred on 18 January 2000 when Steven and Susie argued and he struck her to the face and Steven then left the home. When this happened Susie rang the Epping Police Station (where Steven was stationed) to report the incident and wanting police to come. She said she was scared and did not know what to do. I refer to and deal with this matter of contact with the police below in dealing with the evidence of Senior Sergeant Horton.
70 In the course of the argument on 18 January Steven told Susie "for the first time that the property was not ours". He told her that his parents owned the whole 40 acre property and only their names were on the title. He told her to suffer, she would not get anything, he had no assets, he arranged it that way so she would not get anything if she left him.
71 I note that in her evidence Susie referred more fully to things that Steven said, just as Steven did in his evidence. So also was there such evidence from Victor and Rosa. I have regard to the evidence but find it unnecessary to set it out. This case is not to be determined on the assessment of abusive and point scoring comments made in the stressful circumstance of the collapse of a marriage with an infant involved.
72 After Steven had left the house on 18 January, Susie and Jamie were in the car when Victor and Rosa came over to the house. They told her that she would be financially worse off than before she married, that they were gaining at her expense and that she was losing everything. She was not on the title and would get nothing from them or Steve.
73 On or about 1 February 2000 she received a letter from Victor and Rosa addressed to Steven and herself that requested the premises at 1575 Plenty Road be vacated, and their Holden sedan be left at the home, by 4.00 pm on 31 February 2000 failing which the locks would be changed. One night a few days later when Susie was driving home she noticed many people in front of Victor and Rosa's house and they were unloading from one of the cars. On arriving at her house she noticed that the house had been stripped bare[15]. On about 5 February, having no choice, she vacated the premises and with Jamie went to live with her parents at their home where her sisters also lived.
74 Susie later discovered that Steven had frozen their joint bank account which meant she could not access it for money to support Jamie and herself. Susie said that she and Steven had received approximately $8,000 in money at their engagement and approximately $20,000 in money at their wedding. The $8,000 was placed in an account which she had no control over; she said she did not know what happened to it. The latter amount of approximately $20,000 was placed on term deposit with the Commonwealth Bank where it remains, the account having been frozen by order of the Family Court. In fact, the amount and date of the deposit was $22,000 on 3 March 1997 for a term of seven months[16]. I interpolate that I find that the $22,000 placed on deposit was given to Susie and Steven at the wedding.
75 Susie then said that she had not wanted to give up her career as a teacher but Steve and his parents repeatedly told her that she and Steve owned half the land and the house and that there was no need for her to work, that her job was to take care of Jamie and the house and support Steve so he could succeed in his career. She reluctantly gave up her career so Steve could concentrate on his while she concentrated on Jamie, Steve and the home. She said that she relied on the defendants' statements that living on the farm would pay off because 20 acres of land would be worth a fortune and would make the sacrifice worthwhile.
76 Susie further said that she had said to the defendants that she did not want to marry unless she and Steve purchased a home together. She was happy to continue living with her family, unmarried. She was not in a rush to marry. She said that Steve and his parents assured her there was no reason to wait as the house and 20 acres where Steve lived belonged to him, his name was on the title, they loved each other and the property would be registered in their names after marriage. She would not have agreed to live at the property if she knew the 20 acres was not in Steve's or her name, would not have agreed to their money being spent on improvements to the property, or to paying off the mortgage, or given up her career to be left with no assets. The only asset she brought to the marriage was a motor car which Steven had crashed and not had properly repaired.
77 Susie's statement concluded with several pages dealing, item by item, with the improvements carried out to the house by Steven and herself and a description of her non-financial contributions. In respect of each item of improvement she provided a figure for the cost, often as an estimate, and gave a short description of the item, the work involved and by whom it was performed. In some but not all instances she referred to documentary material including Steven's Police Credit Co-operative account but documents were not tendered to establish the allegation. Essentially, the case in this respect rested on the oral evidence. The same is true of her case of non-financial contributions. Starting from the premise that Steven told her to do the cleaning as that was her job, and the house being filthy and there being rats, mice, spiders and occasionally snakes, she described the various respects in which she cleaned the house internally and externally and assistance provided by her parents. I note that with little exception the same approach of relying on oral evidence was taken in the defendants' case. For the moment I say no more about this aspect of the case; I will return to it later.
78 I now turn to Susie's cross-examination. In doing so I do not attempt to set it all out or even to summarise it all. The case was about credit and who is to be believed. I will deal with matters of credit later. For the moment I focus on her evidence as it relates to when something happened and what was said.
79 Early in the cross-examination Susie was asked when any of the defendants first told her she would have some ownership of the house. It was "many months before" The Word. They all told her, she could not recall if that was all of them together. She could not recall when it was first said, and by whom, but after she was married she would be a half owner or have an interest. They all said it, not all at once, the house and property was ours. Susie then recalled the snake incident. As to that, she could not remember what was said word for word but what was in her witness statement was many hours of work. On that occasion "they said the house and 20 acres of land", not just the two acres the house was on. She went on to give her recollection of what was said to her on the occasion of the snake incident; having regard to her earlier evidence it is unnecessary to set it out.
80 At an early point Susie was asked some questions about renovations. For the moment I note only that she referred to renovations being discussed, and carried out, prior to the marriage, as well as works being carried out after the marriage.
81 Susie said that when they were married the carpet was dirty and was cleaned. She denied that Victor and Rosa refused to replace the carpet.
82 Susie said that she was told before the marriage that there was a mortgage on the property but she was not told the amount owing. She was told that it was just about paid off. She was often told this. Steven and his parents told her that he (Steven) paid the mortgage. She was not told straight after the marriage that it was going to be paid off. As to when and what she was told, her answer to an interrogatory was put to her and tendered[17] in which she said that prior to and after the marriage she was told that the mortgage would be paid off soon, the property is yours, don't worry about the mortgage. Later she said that the defendants told her that they were paying off the mortgage. She believed that something was said about the mortgage nearly being paid off after the marriage. She believed that before or after the marriage she asked how much was owing but she was not told. They told her not to worry about financial matters. She did not know if she asked before The Word.
83 At The Word she, her parents and sisters were present, and the defendants. There were a few other people who she could not recall.
84 As to the party after the engagement, Jim Donis was present. She did not remember Jim being by Steven's side. Jim was not present when Victor and Rosa said the property was hers and that she would be on the title. She did not remember George or Mary Donis being present. It was a family gathering. She did not remember that everyone was in the one room. The statements were made in the presence of herself, her parents and sisters and the defendants.
85 Susie said she never said to Steven that she would not marry him unless his parents gave her property. She would have married Steven even if his parents had not said that she would have half the property. She married Steven regardless of the statements[18].
86 However, the promises affected the timing of the marriage. She left her comfortable parents' home to live on an isolated farm property. She could have been engaged for years until they saved enough to buy their own property. And children could have been up to 10 years later. And she could have been a teacher which she now found hard to get back into. The promises affected a lot of decisions at that time[19].
87 When she went overseas in 1995 [and Steven went also in that time] they were in a committed relationship. They had spoken about marriage. The relationship resumed when she returned. She could not remember anything being said about ownership of the property before she went overseas. She denied that she had refused to meet Steven while overseas. It was before the engagement that Victor and Rosa said she was to own half the property.
88 She met Steven's mother in 1995 but was not sure if it was before or after she went overseas.
89 Returning to the occasion of the snake incident, that was before the engagement[20], she could not remember if it was before The Word. Nor could she remember if Victor and Rosa had been told they were getting married, or whether on the occasion of the snake she discussed marriage. Then she was asked how long before The Word the occasion was and she said she could not remember. She insisted that it did happen. She could not remember if the occasion of the snake was the first time ownership of the property was mentioned; Victor or Rosa had mentioned it before The Word.
90 A little further on Susie said that the snake incident was in approximately September 1995 after she got back from overseas. I note that it was later ascertained from her passport that she arrived back in Australia on 13 October 1995.
91 Susie said that she first told her sisters or family of Victor and Rosa's statements before she became engaged.
92 She denied that Steven had told her what his financial position was; when she asked she was told not to worry.
93 Prior to The Word the respective parents were aware they were in a very committed relationship and had some idea of where the relationship was headed because the property was bought in preparation for the marriage. Shortly after Steven proposed the parents were told that they proposed to marry. She had previously told her parents that she would accept his proposal.
94 Susie denied that Victor and Rosa had offered Steven and herself the house at 1575 Plenty Road to live in rent free so that they could save money for a deposit on a house. She and Steven did not save money by not paying rent, their savings went on the renovations. That was what Steven said and there was no mention of reimbursement by Victor and Rosa. Then, to a further question, she said Steven may have said something about reimbursement but there was never any reimbursement by Victor or Rosa. She would have been told if there was.
95 A little further on, in relation to a question as to whether she considered the position of Michael, and how his parents could benefit him, Susie said that the Macedonian tradition was that the oldest son move out of home and the youngest son and his wife live with and look after his parents.
96 She denied that she and Steven discussed putting the $20,000 away to use as a deposit on a house when they were ready to buy one, rather Steve said to leave it as a nest egg in case of an emergency and they may use it on renovations. Susie said that she brought up buying their own house with Steven and told him that she would like to buy their own house, "but it all goes back to the timing"[21]. The defendants said there was no need to buy a new house and worry about a mortgage, and Steve said we have a home and can renovate it, and that was intended from the beginning between Rosa, Victor and Steven, that was their intention when they bought the property.
97 Susie was asked about the separation on 18 January 2000, about what happened and whom had said what. She obtained an interim intervention order in March 2000. She said that the arguing started shortly after they were married "that the abuse, sort of physical and emotional abuse, started more when I had Jamie". She said that Steven did not like her to have people over when he was not at home, and that she did not have friends during the marriage, the ties with her friends were cut off because that was Steven's wish.
98 She was questioned about the time when shortly after the honeymoon Victor and Rosa came to their house and she asked if she was on title. She said that this came up in conversation, she could not recall exactly how, that she wanted to know whether they had done what they had promised. She remembered the conversation, it was important. They convinced her they were telling the truth. She believed the property was in Steven's and her name.
99 In the latter part of the cross-examination Susie was asked about the after engagement party. Panovski, she said, did not hear the statements because he was not there at the time the promises were made. The statements were made after everyone had gone home except the defendants and her family. The promise of the house and 20 acres was repeated "throughout the night". It was said "many, many times to me and my family" and she recalled "Rosa saying something about a bed and she was happy, that's all she needed". To a further question about Panovski she could not recall if he was there at her parents' place but if he was he had left (meaning, when the statements were made). They were made "once people had left". She believed Jim Donis had left - it was not true that he was with Steven throughout the night. All she could recall was that when the promises were made it was the defendants, her family and herself who were present.
100 Susie was then questioned about improvements to the property. There was reference to a dam being constructed, a tree falling on the fence, the issue of whether the carpet in the house would be replaced, the garage and the related works, the state of the house, and the items of improvements in the plaintiff's claim. Counsel passed through these matters quickly, clearly wishing (as had counsel for the plaintiff) to minimise the time spent upon them. I will return to the matter of improvements later.
101 In re-examination Susie referred to her oral evidence in chief that before they went overseas in 1995 they were very committed, that Steven told her that she was the one, that they were going to be married, that they had talked about marriage, and said that that occurred a little while before going overseas. Further, prior to The Word Steven had told her what his entitlements were in relation to the Mernda property and that he was paying the mortgage "on the property, the 20 acres and the house". Further on she said that the engagement party commenced at about 5 to 6 pm and ceased after midnight followed by the second party at her parents' home. The guests left her parents' home at different times. Some only stayed a little while because they were tired and a lot of people left shortly after. At the house people circulated.
Valentina
102 Valentina wrote her witness statement and provided it to Susie's solicitor. Her statement, like that of Susie, her parents and Vesna, proceeds by giving evidence under headings such as The Word, the engagement and the wedding. The similarity gave rise to some questions in cross-examination and it is therefore convenient to note the evidence Valentina gave as to her role, if any, in the preparation of the statements of the other witnesses. Commencing with Susie, she did not type out Susie's statement or read it before preparing her own. Susie prepared her statement and gave her a disc with the statement on it and Valentina emailed it to Susie's solicitor in Melbourne. She did not discuss the evidence with Susie before she (Valentina) prepared her statement. Valentina spoke to her parents about their witness statement a few weeks ago, as she said, meaning a few weeks before the trial. At that time she had prepared the majority of her own statement. She typed up her parent's statements. The process was that she typed what they told her they had heard. It was not a question and answer process. At the outset she told them that they needed to tell her what they had heard and seen and done or whatever they felt they needed to tell her. No other lawyer was present; I note that by this time Valentina had qualified as a solicitor. Having typed the statements she then mailed them to Susie's solicitor. There was similarity in headings because they were the main events. Valentina did not prepare Vesna's witness statement.
103 As just mentioned, Valentina's witness statement set out her evidence under headings. The principal headings were "Statements made by the other party", "Comments made to me by Steve", "Comments made to me by Susie", "Other", "After separation" and "Non-financial contributions". Under the first heading of statements made by the other party the evidence was given under several sub-headings, namely "The Word", "Engagement", "Wedding", "After the wedding", and "After Jamie was born". In consequence the statement is not in the usual form of the recounting of a story in the chronological order of events. It is directed to recording the substance of Valentina's recollection as to what was said by the defendants on the relevant occasion. This is true of the other statements of witnesses for the plaintiff. They were prepared by the client and her witnesses, and late, doubtless for reasons of expense. For this purpose Valentina's role was not a substitute for that properly performed by an independent solicitor acting for a party.
104 With those references and findings I turn to Valentina's evidence in chief, commencing with the section dealing with statements made by the other party. Overall, what Valentina says here as to statements made by the defendants accords with the substance of Susie's evidence.
105 Hence, commencing with The Word, Victor and Rosa said, in summary, that they and Steve have made sure that Steve and Susie will own their own house and 20 acres of land so they will be set financially; that half of the 40 acres is Victor and Rosa's and the other half for Steve and Susie, why would they want two houses and 40 acres if their son and his wife owned nothing, they were working for this day when their son got married so they could give him and his wife everything they could to make their life easier; Victor said Susie would be put on title after she and Steve got married, he gave his word; Victor and Rosa said there was no doubt that the house and 20 acres belongs to Steve and Susie, their intention was they be set up financially, there wasn't anything she would not sacrifice; Rosa said that even though Steve and Susie will have to make a few sacrifices living on the farm and have to renovate and clean it up, they will know it is their property and it will be worth millions one day.
106 Then, on the night of the engagement Valentina recalled Rosa telling Susie in front of her family words to the effect "You and Steve own your own property with 20 acres of land in Mernda. This beautiful property is all yours and Steve's. You'll be happy living there next to us and there's no reason to put off starting your own family". Valentina asked Rosa by way of confirmation that the house and 20 acres of land belonged to Susie and Steve, to which Rosa said words to the effect "Yes darling, Susie is like a daughter to me, a daughter I never had". She would do anything for Susie and Steve. Rosa said Valentina should not worry about Susie, that Susie and Steve were set for life, they owned their own house and 20 acres and the 20 acres would be worth millions in the future. Rosa said that this is what Victor, Steve and herself had planned all along. Rosa said that she and Victor would do anything for Susie and Steve, to make sure they were financially set, and at the very least own their own property so they did not have to delay starting their family. There was nothing she would not sacrifice for Susie and Steve. Victor said to Susie, in front of the family, that Susie and Steve would both be on the title for the house and 20 acres of property, not just Steve, and that they could do what they wanted with it because it was theirs. Victor said that Rosa and he had no say in what Steve and Susie did with the property because it was theirs. Victor said half of the 40 acre property belonged to Susie and Steve and the other half to him and Rosa, that was their intention when they bought the property with Steve. Valentina recalled Victor saying that he was not going to take his money to the grave with him and that all that mattered was that Susie and Steve started off on the right foot. Victor and Rosa said they had been working all these years so they could give their son and new daughter a property of their own, he would make sure the house and 20 acres would be in Steve and Susie's name, but it was theirs anyway. Valentina said that she expressed her concerns that Susie wanted to live closer to her family and in a new house, and not on the farm, to which Rosa said that new houses, even those with the biggest blocks, would not have even a fraction of the land they had at Mernda. She said the 20 acres of land and the house was always intended for Steve and Susie and that she should be thrilled with it.
107 Valentina next commented that at the wedding she heard Victor tell Susie that he and Rosa would take care of her like she was their own, that Susie was now part of their family and they would do anything for her and Steve.
108 Valentina then turned to events after the wedding. In relation to this it will be noted that in the chronology there is a reference to a barbecue and the Prviche in March 1997. Valentina refers to these and other occasions. At the barbecue held on a Sunday shortly after the wedding, Valentina recalled Victor saying that half of the 40 acre property belonged to Steve and Susie. He said that Susie was added on the title for her and Steve's house and 20 acres of their land, and that Steve and Susie's land was going to be worth a fortune one day. She recalled Victor and her father going for a walk and showed her father the land that belonged to Steve and Susie and remembered her father commenting as to how much land Steve and Susie owned.
109 At the Prviche at Victor and Rosa's house, Valentina recalled Rosa saying words to the effect of "Steve and Susie's 20 acres are going to be worth a fortune one day. It's the best investment for the future" and "all the hard work and sacrifices will be worth it, you'll see, we wouldn't put them through this if we thought it wouldn't pay off for them later".
110 On another occasion at Susie and Steve's house Valentina said that she brought up the idea of Susie and Steve selling their property and buying a new one - she knew that Susie was unhappy living on the farm but felt she had no choice because it belonged to her and Steve. Victor said words to the effect that Steve and Susie did not need to buy a house, they already owned a house and had 20 acres of land on top of that, it was a great investment for their future. Rosa said words to the effect "We know Susie is sacrificing having a brand new house the way she wants it, but it will all be worth it one day. She'll thank us all for it when her and Steve's property is worth millions".
111 On another occasion at Susie and Steve's house when she brought up holidaying, Victor said that Steve and Susie needed to keep putting all their money towards their property not throw it away on holidays. Rosa said she wanted Steve and Susie to give her grandchildren before she and Victor got too old and there was no reason to wait because they owned their own property.
112 Finally, Valentina referred to comments of Victor and Rosa after Jamie was born. At Steve and Susie's house one night she recalled speaking to Susie about getting back into teaching, even on a casual basis. She recalled Rosa telling her not to worry about Susie, that she and Steve owned their own house, 20 acres of land which would be worth a fortune one day, their own cars and that they were financially set for life. Rosa said words to the effect of "Susie doesn't need to work, her role is to be a good mother and housewife, to take care of Steve, Jamie and the farm". Valentina remembered this as she knew that Susie always wanted to be a teacher and had spent five years studying for that vocation.
113 Valentina then turned to comments made to her by Steve. He had said not to worry about "your sister", that he and his parents will make sure she is taken care of financially, his parents would do anything for them, they even gave them the bigger house of the two plus we have the same amount of land as they do. Another statement was that together Susie and he owned 20 acres of land and our house which they will renovate like new. The land will be worth millions one day and he and Susie will be rich. Susie and I are on the title, it's our property and not my parents' property, they own half the land and Susie and I own the other half.
114 A further statement by Steve was that the plan was always for mum and dad to own half the property and Susie and I to own the other half with a house each. Plus that way he and Susie can live next door to his parents. Another comment of Steve was that even if they were not paying for their half in the property "we all know half is mine and Susie's anyway. What are my parents going to do with two houses and 40 acres of land?"
115 Valentina further said that "Steve was always bragging about how massive the land was, how he and Susie owned it themselves, and how they can build anything on it if they wanted to".
116 Valentina then turned to comments made to her by Susie.
117 While referring to these comments I note the general objection to which I referred earlier that counsel for the defendants took to the witness statements. I do not accept any of this material as going to proof of the fact. Accordingly, I pass over it.
118 Then, under the heading "Other" Valentina said that while Steve and Susie were married, Rosa and Victor continually referred to "Steve and Susie's house", "Steve and Susie's 20 acres", and "Steve and Susie's half of the land". She said that Rosa and Victor constantly complimented Susie and Steve on how well the renovations were going to their property and encouraged them to invest more time and money on their property because real estate was the best investment.
119 Then, under the heading "After separation" Valentina said that since the separation she had helped Susie financially in paying her legal bills and other expenses and paying for various other things when Susie had no money.
120 As to non-financial contributions, Valentina recalled her father painting the outside of Susie and Steve's house, helping construct a double garage and carport, and a colorbond fence. She recalled Susie, her mother and Vesna doing extensive cleaning to the house and property, in which Valentina also assisted. She also recalled her parents spending many weekends at Steve and Susie's place fixing it up. Her mother was attending to the backyard/gardening for most weekends for many months.
121 Turning then to her cross-examination, Valentina agreed that she had an extremely close relationship with Susie and that she was her best friend.
122 Valentina was asked as to the language spoken at the occasion of The Word and said that the matters referred to in her witness statement were spoken in English, that her parents did not speak very good English and that the conversation was translated "a lot of the time", sometimes it was in Macedonian and sometimes it was in English.
123 As with Susie, I do not refer to all matters in the cross-examination although I do not overlook them. At an early stage Valentina was asked about the letter of The Professionals[22] for the purpose of establishing any role she had in relation to that agent and in assisting Susie. The same was true of Exhibit 1. I accept Valentina's evidence as to these matters and in particular as to the limited role that she performed. It was no more than a facilitating role.
124 Valentina recalled first meeting Steve in early 1995 at the police station where he was working. She was then a first year law student. She met Steven again before Susie returned from overseas, also recalling that she met Steven's parents at their fish and chip shop before Susie went overseas. She met Steven on occasions when he came to her parents' house. They had also been out socially.
125 Valentina was asked a number of questions about The Word. It commenced at her parents' place and later they went to Steve and Susie's house at 1575 Plenty Road where it continued. It went for many hours. At home she was busy preparing for and assisting with guests. At her parents' home there were her "aunties and uncles" but they were not present at Susie and Steve's house. She gave evidence about persons who were present at her parents' home. They were at her parents' home for hours. Her family went to Steve and Susie's house, she did not recall other relatives going. At Steven and Susie's house she recalled Victor saying that the title of the property being Susie and Steve's house at 1575 Plenty Road and the 20 acres that the house was on was going to be put in Susie and Steve's name, that it was already in Steve's name, so that after the wedding it would be in both names. That was said towards the end. Her family, Victor, Rosa and Steven were present. She said Victor's statement was not news to her because Susie had told her previously that that was the plan. She told her that before she went overseas. She remembered Susie telling her that Steven's parents were looking to buy a property which had two houses, one to be for Mr and Mrs Donis and the other for Steve and Susie, they would be next door to each other and they would have half the land each, about 20 acres or so. Valentina believed that Susie had mentioned that that was what they were planning, what they were thinking about. She did not have a clear recollection. When Susie came back from overseas there was "this discussion of how there was a plan for Susie and Steve to live in one house on the farm and Victor and Rosa to live in the other house on the farm ... and that they'd both have half the property each and that's how it was planned once they got married, that's where they'd live". By the stage Susie went overseas "it was certain that they were planning to get married and they were in love, and they were discussing where they're going to be living". She had not said that in her witness statement. She did not know if Susie had told her parents that. She had discussions with Susie on many occasions about many things. She did not recall the exact circumstances around the time that Susie told her but it was clear that they were intending to be living on this property where there were two houses with Victor and Rosa in one and she and Steve in the other and that they would be neighbours; she remembered because she thought she did not want to be neighbours with her in-laws. Before Susie went overseas she did not recall any discussion about her name being put on the title. What she said was more in terms of planning, that this is what they have intended for us, we have this house, we have this and this property, she did not know whether it had been bought. Once Susie came back from overseas before The Word she remembered Susie saying that "this property had now been bought for Susie and Steve and for Victor and Rosa". Prior to Susie going overseas she did not think that Steven was present when any mention was made of his parents' plan in relation to the Mernda property. After Susie and Steven had come back from overseas but before The Word, Steven said at his parents' place that he and Susie were going to be living "in this great house. His parents had given him this house. It's for him and Susie, they're going to own it. There is so much land, you know, they can do anything. It's massive. It's going to be worth so much". She said that Steve and herself were quite close, she saw him on many occasions and on many occasions discussed the property. The comments attributed by her to Steven in her witness statement were made throughout the time that she knew him after he came back from overseas.
126 Valentina was then asked about the engagement party and as to persons who were present at her parents' house. She denied that Jim Donis was by Steve's side pretty well the whole evening. She very much doubted that he left with Steve as her recollection was that those present were Steve and his parents and her family so she presumed Jim had left. Jim Donis was not present during the discussions referred to in her witness statement. She would have been at her parents' place for hours. She described the occasion at her parents' home as sociable with people being in a good mood and getting along well. She acknowledged that she had not said in her witness statement that the statements she refers to were made after the others left. Jim Donis was not present, nor were George or Mary, because she could not recall them being there when the discussions took place. As to the discussions, she did not remember the first person that spoke, it went for a while, Victor, Rosa and Steve all spoke, Victor saying that Susie would be added to the title so that Susie and Steve would be on the title - not just Steve - of the house and the 20 acres that the house was on at 1575 Plenty Road, the bigger house, after they got married. They would both be on the title. She remembered Rosa saying that you own your own property, you're going to be so happy there, there's no point delaying I want you to give me grandchildren. She was very happy and bragging. Victor said he was not going to take his money to the grave and he would help out Steve and Susie wherever he could, he wanted them to start off on the right foot. And she remembered questioning Rosa to clarify whether it was the case that Susie and Steve owned their house and the 20 acres, and Rosa did so.
127 The cross-examination returned to the occasion of The Word and as to who was present at her parents' house where the occasion commenced. As to that she recalled, correctly, that Michael Donis was not present. She had no knowledge of Victor and Rosa making statements about the property at her parents' home. But, she said, she was walking in and out, helping, putting things on the table, pouring drinks, she did not know what was said.
128 Valentina was then asked about what Susie and Steve planned when they went overseas. She said she knew that they planned to meet overseas, did not believe it was true that Susie had said no to meeting Steve overseas and said it was "completely untrue" that when they went overseas they were not at the stage of a committed relationship. It was "Very much not" the situation that Susie said he was free to date other women while they were overseas. I interpolate as to this that the suggestion was not put to Susie in cross-examination and I reject the suggestion as false, made up by Steven for the purpose of the case.
129 Counsel then reverted to whether any of the statements made by Steven as referred to by Valentina in her witness statement, were made before The Word. She said that she had not put his statements under the headings relating to occasions because "these comments were made to me throughout the time that I knew Steve and I couldn't pinpoint certain comments. A lot of them had been repeated in so many words throughout the time that I knew him". As she could not pinpoint the comments she had not attempted to. It was not true that she had no recollection of Steve saying anything to her about Susie owning the property or any promises by his parents prior to the occasion of The Word. As to Steven, she did not know when he made these comments as they were made "throughout. He'd said them many, many times, in so many words. I don't know exactly what he said; these were the comments I remember him making. I don't know when, there were so many occasions that I spoke with Steve. Whereas, with his parents, it was the Word, the engagement, and they - I could say to you that I spoke to them - with Steve, it was - I constantly spoke to Steve". Prior to the occasion of The Word I was aware of commitment by Steve to marry Susie because they had told me. A little later Valentina said it was "completely untrue" to suggest that she had no basis of knowledge for saying that when Susie and Steve went overseas they had any expectation of marriage.
130 At this point the cross-examination reverted to the engagement party at Valentina's parents' home. Valentina recounted what was said by Victor and Rosa. It is unnecessary to set out again what she said on this topic. I note though that Valentina said she remembered saying at this time something like Susie always wanted a new house, a house of her own. Valentina said she thought she raised something about them buying their own house and remembered Rosa saying that new houses, even ones with bigger blocks, would not have a fraction of the land that Susie and Steve have, the 20 acres. Valentina was asked how long the discussion about these promises took and said that they were not just said all at once, it was part of the conversation. "I mean, this is a big deal for Susie and my parents and everyone. I mean, we're - so the conversation went on for quite a while". It occurred when "sort of everyone went home and it was winding down, we all sat down and we just started talking about it. How long after? It could have been hours, I don't know, I don't remember. It was a long day". Jim Donis was not there when "we" had this conversation. It was a private conversation. Jim Donis was not asked to leave the room while they talked, "everyone was tired, they left". She remembered all the guests going home other than our family and their family.
131 Valentina recalled that the engagement party commenced in the afternoon. As to Victor, Rosa, Steven and Jim tending to be "in a bunch together throughout", Valentina said "it was more so Susie and Steve together". It was suggested that Victor, Rosa, Steven and Jim all left together to which she said she did not believe that to be true. It was "completely untrue" to suggest that on no occasion up to and including the day of the engagement did Victor or Rosa ever say in her presence that they promised that Susie would own a part of the property.
132 Valentina was asked about the position of Michael Donis if her evidence as to Victor and Rosa's promises were correct. What would his position be? She was asked to point to anything in her experience that would indicate any culture or behaviour that would indicate it was taken by her as likely that Victor and Rosa would have given half their property away to Susie. She said "Yes, I've heard of friends all the time being given houses and blocks and brand new houses, relatives, my first cousin, his parents have given him and his wife a house, and they're not even married yet. A brand new one".
133 Valentina was then asked whether anything had been said in her presence about a mortgage. She believed so but as to the occasion of The Word she said she could not recall anything being said about a mortgage. Her written statement did not refer to a mortgage being mentioned at the engagement party, and Valentina said that the word "mortgage" was not said at The Word and the engagement, but she did have a recollection that there was a mortgage in existence. She did not remember Victor and Rosa saying that after they were married Steven and Susie would pay off the mortgage as part of their ownership of the property, but assumed that was the case because she was told that.
134 Valentina was asked some questions about the word "title". In the course of her evidence she said it was believed that it was at The Word that Victor or Rosa said that Steven was on the title because her father asked who was on the title and they then said that Steve was. She believed that was at The Word, she could not be sure. She had not included that in her witness statement because she could not guarantee that it was said at The Word. She was not going to put it in if she could not be sure that it was said at The Word. It had happened but she was not going to put something in if she did not know that it was said at a certain time. She remembered that Steve was on the title and so both Susie and Steve would be on the title after they were married. Victor and Rosa talked about ownership and title.
135 Valentina was asked if it was ever said to her by Victor or Rosa that Steven was "acquiring, purchasing, buying, half of the property at Mernda" and she said no. Nor was that said by Steven prior to the engagement. Valentina said that "they were always speaking in 'we', 'us'. It was as though the three of them were acting in unison".
136 Valentina was then asked about the house at 1575 Plenty Road which she saw for the first time on the day of The Word. She referred to her observation of work that was carried out. As to improvements, she knew they fixed the toilet because it was not working on the day of The Word. The bathroom she said "they must have fixed because it was revolting on the day of The Word". That was her first impression on going to the bathroom. She referred to the construction of a double or almost triple garage and carport, the placing of sun cloth around the back of the house, work on the driveway which had potholes and rocks to the extent she did not want to drive her car in at one stage, a large wooden fence at the front of the property, her father painting outside, an alarm system installed just before the wedding, sensor lights, air conditioning installed, they purchased furniture and put light fittings in, an oven and stove were installed and she further referred to the property. The carpet, she agreed, was "pretty revolting" to begin with and she did not know why it was not replaced. Susie did not say she had asked Victor and Rosa to replace the carpet and that they had said no. Susie said that she and Steve were paying to fix up the house. To Valentina's knowledge Steve and Susie started fixing up the house after The Word. She thought that Steven had said they would have to renovate the house, clean it and fix it before The Word.
137 At the barbecue following the wedding she remembered Victor saying that Susie's name had been put on the title because they had been married. He said that now, officially, half of the 40 acres belonged to Susie and Steve and the other half to Rosa and himself and he walked off with her father to show him around the property. She did not remember how it came up, she did not know what exactly started the whole conversation, she just heard that being spoken. Only the immediate family on each side were at the barbecue, they were all standing around, not in separate groups "it was a close family thing". She also remembered Victor saying that the property was going to be worth a fortune and her father's comment as to seeing how much land Susie and Steve own.
138 Finally, Valentina gave evidence as to what was said at the Prviche.
139 Then, Valentina was asked about the occasion referred to in her witness statement as an occasion at Susie and Steve's house when she brought up the idea of them selling their property and buying a new house. That was weeks or months after the honeymoon.
140 In re-examination Valentina said that Victor speaks both Macedonian and English and in conversation sometimes slips from one language into the other. He used the English word "title" but a lot of the times he would translate what was said and use a Macedonian equivalent, which Valentina said was spelt "Tapiata"[23]. As to the engagement party, she could not recall the time of the day or night when the "tail end" of it occurred. She could not recall the time, it was late. The last people to leave the house were Steve and Victor and Rosa.
Vesna
141 Vesna prepared her witness statement in point form under headings. The structure was to set out Victor's comments at The Word, the engagement, the wedding and the barbecue held shortly after the wedding, then to set out Rosa's comments made on the same occasions, then to set out comments made by Steve at The Word, the engagement party and during the marriage and then some other information. The convenient course in referring to Vesna's evidence is to incorporate the comments of Victor, Rosa and Steven as they were made on each occasion rather than set them out sequentially.
142 On the occasion of The Word, the various comments were made at Susie and Steven's property at Mernda. Victor said to Vesna in front of Susie, Valentina and their parents that they did not have to worry about Susie and that she would be well taken care of. Victor said that Steve and Susie were set for life and did not have to worry about money, that one day Steve and Susie's house and 20 acres would be worth a fortune, that Steve and Susie could do so much with the house and land - fix it up, build, as there is a lot of land, that he and Rosa had worked all their life to now see Steve and Susie financially set and happy and that one day they (Steven and Susie) will be millionaires because of the 20 acres they own.
143 As to Rosa, she said to Vesna in front of Susie, Valentina and their parents that Steve and Susie were set because they had a house and 20 acres of land, that even though the house and land needed a lot of work Steve and Susie could fix it up and live very happy, that one day the property would be worth a fortune and Steve and Susie would be millionaires. Rosa said that Steve and Susie would be happier on a farm of 20 acres of land rather than stuck on a small block in the suburbs, which Vesna remembered because Rosa lived in Mill Park and hated that all the neighbours could hear what they said.
144 As to Steven on this occasion, he said not to worry about Susie, he and his parents have made sure that she is financially taken care of for life, that Susie and he owned 20 acres of land and their own house, the land will be worth millions one day and they will be millionaires, Susie and I own 20 acres of land and my parents own the other half, Susie does not need to work, she can look after me and the house. We have our own home and one day this property will make us millionaires. My parents adore Susie, they are very happy for us.
145 The next occasion was the engagement party at Susie's parents' home. Victor said that Susie and Steve owned their own house and 20 acres of land, in front of Vesna's family. He said that he and Rosa were working all their lives for their kids so that they could ensure they could set them up financially when they got married. Victor said that Steve and Susie did not have to put off starting a family as they were financially set and that they own half the whole property at Mernda. As to Rosa, she said that Steve and Susie own their own house and 20 acres of land; she said she was happy that Steve and Susie were going to be living next door to her and Victor and that they could help each other out. Rosa said that Susie and Steve could focus on starting a family as they were financially set. Rosa said that she was very happy having Susie as her future daughter in law and that she would be well taken care of, and said that she and Victor worked all their life for their kids and would give them anything they wanted. Rosa commented that Steve and Susie's house was the better of the two as it was more important for them to have the newer house. Rosa said all she needed to be happy was a bed and that she does not need a big house. Rosa said they worked for their kids and would do anything for them. As to Steven, he said that he and Susie were set for life, he wanted to start a family straight away now that "we are set financially", it was great that they lived next door to his parents, they can help them out, and his parents would do anything for them, having worked all their life to see he and Susie set up financially and happy.
146 Vesna then referred to comments made on the evening of, but after, the wedding. Victor said that Steve and Susie are financially set for life as they own their own house and 20 acres of land, they were smart to put their money into their house and land, Victor and Rosa worked for "our kids, our money is for them", and that he and Rosa love Susie like a daughter. As to Rosa on this occasion, she said that Susie does not need to work as she and Steve already own their own home and 20 acres of land. She and Victor had told Steve the this was a great investment and that he and Susie would be millionaires one day. She says it had worked out perfectly, two houses, one for Steve and Susie and the other one for us with half the land each. She and Victor love Susie like a daughter.
147 The final occasion of comments was at the barbecue held after the wedding. Here, Victor was talking to Vesna's father when she and Valentina were in close vicinity about how big the property was. Victor said that half of the 40 acre property belonged to Steve and Susie and that one day their half would be worth a fortune. Her father and Victor went for a walk around the land. Victor said that Steve and Susie would never have this much land in the suburbs and that one day the sacrifice of living here would be worth it for them. Vesna did not refer to Rosa or Steven making any comments on this occasion.
148 Vesna then said that during the marriage Steven said that he and Susie were going to renovate "our house and land and fix it up" it will look great when it is finished. He was explaining that he was going to landscape the roundabout near the front of the house and put in a proper driveway. Vesna remembered this as she assisted Susie in cleaning Susie and Steve's house.
149 As to other information, Vesna said that after the honeymoon she assisted Susie with cleaning at her house. There was a lot to do. Vesna said that other than Susie, her mother and herself did the majority of cleaning as the house was in such a bad condition they felt it was not liveable. Valentina helped clean also even though she was studying at the time.
150 Finally, Vesna said that she has financially assisted Susie and Jamie after the separation with legal bills, living expenses, bills, and other expenses.
151 I turn then to cross-examination of Vesna. At the outset she said that she prepared her witness statement without any assistance and without having talked about it with her sisters.
152 Vesna said that she first met Steven in 1995 a little while before Susie went overseas. He came to her work place with Susie. They were overseas at approximately the same time and they planned to meet up. Her recollection was that they did not meet when overseas. Vesna had not met Steve's parents before they went overseas. At that time Susie had told Vesna that Steve's parents were planning to buy a farm property and that there were two houses on the property, one for Steve and one for Victor and Rosa and that half the land with one house was for Victor and Rosa and the other one for Steve and Susie to live in, and, she added to have, to own, to be theirs. Susie told her that a little while before she went away. That was something significant so Vesna remembered that.
153 Vesna was then asked about the occasion of The Word. She was present. Initially it was at her parents' place and then went to Steve and Susie's house. Nothing was said about the Mernda property at her parents' place. At Steve and Susie's house there were Victor, Rosa, Steve and her family. They were there for a couple of hours. It was a social gathering. There were drinks. She had not met Steve's parents so it was light-hearted but then, on the other hand, there were serious things discussed. Vesna's then husband came for a time. She remembered Victor saying that we did not have to worry about Susie, that she would be well taken care of, that they would be financially set because they would have their own house and the 20 acres the house was on. Rosa agreed to that and they were happy. It was a conversation. People were saying things and people were answering back to that. Also, we were at Susie and Steve's house so Rosa and Victor pointed out that the place needed a lot of work, the house and the land, but that Susie and Steve could fix it up and be happy there. When Victor said "we" don't have to worry about Susie he was referring to Vesna's family. He said, basically, that Susie and Steve were going to be millionaires one day and that the land they had - the 20 acres and the house that was on it - was going to be worth a fortune. He also said that there was so much land they could build or fix it up, that they could do whatever they liked with it, it was theirs. Victor was saying this as part of a conversation. Vesna could not remember if he specifically aimed it at people but we were there and he said in part of the conversation. These things stuck in her mind because you do not forget something like this. He may have mentioned the word "title", Vesna did not remember, saying that to her title, own your own home and house and land is the same thing. The word "title" might have come up in conversation. She might have substituted title for owning their own home or house so she could not tell for a fact but she thought the word might have come up. Victor and Rosa speak English really well but her parents do not. Her parents understand English but not as well as Victor and Rosa so the conversation went from Macedonian to English and sometimes they would say it in Macedonian for her parents purposes and then repeat it in English. Victor and Rosa feel comfortable with both. Victor would say something and then Rosa would back him up. It was like a conversation. She could not recall that the word mortgage was used, it may have been. She could not remember whether they owed money on the property. She made some assumptions that they would have and, as they were mentioning that Steve had worked hard to have his own house, that he would be making payment for that. Although she had not said so in her witness statement, it was said that Steve had worked hard to buy the property. What she included in her witness statement were "the major points that stick out to me about this".
154 Vesna did not recall discussing matters about the property with Steve prior to the occasion of The Word.
155 Moving to the engagement party, Vesna said nothing was said at the party at Gloria Reception about the promises. The statements were made at the after engagement party at her parents' home. Vesna referred to people outside the immediate family who she remembered being present. She was uncertain as to some. Being at her parents' place she helped her mother with the evening. The statements or promises referred to in her witness statement were made late in the party. Jim Donis was not then present, all the guests had left and it was just the families. We would not have discussed this in front of everybody. She disputed that Jim Donis left with Steve. She remembered that he left separately, they had separate cars, they were not together the whole time. She disputed that Jim was next to Steve pretty well the whole time. After everyone had left the families were having a conversation and then promises were made. Basically it was repetition. She remembered Victor saying and Rosa backing him up that the house and the 20 acres were Susie and Steve's and Rosa saying that she was happy that Susie and Steve would be living next door and they could help each other out, comments like that. Rosa was saying that she was really happy that Susie was going to be her future daughter-in-law and that they had been working hard all their lives. Rosa said that they would do anything for them and give them anything they wanted. It was said that their land would be worth a fortune, they would be millionaires one day and comments to that effect. This was said in the presence of everybody in the same way as happened at the occasion of The Word. Some remarks were probably addressed to Susie, some were addressed to the whole family. "I mean, it depends, like I said, there was a conversation. There was, you know, someone would say something, the other person would respond. It wasn't just like, you know, one statement was made and that was it. You know, we had a conversation". Steve also said that they were financially set with Susie, they own their own house and the 20 acres that it's on, he was saying that the land would be worth a fortune, that his parents had been working really hard to set their kids up financially. She remembered what she had written in her witness statement as to what Steven had said.
156 When it was suggested to Vesna that the word "ownership" was not mentioned at the after engagement party she said that there were promises of ownership especially by Victor and Rosa. As to what Steven said, the matters referred to in her witness statement was the general feeling of what he said.
157 A little further on counsel suggested that Susie and Steve had commenced going out in around May 1995 which Vesna said was not correct. She knew that when she met Steve it was closer to the middle of 1995 and that Susie was seeing him way before then. Prior to going overseas in July 1995 Susie had spoken about the property at Mernda.
158 Vesna was then referred to the allegation in the statement of claim that Susie was told that Steven had purchased half of the property including the house and was asked whether that had been said to her, to which Vesna said she did not recall it being said exactly that way, her recollection being that it was the three of them making plans to purchase the one property and that half would be for Victor and Rosa and the other half for Steve and Susie when they married.
159 Counsel then proceeded to ask further questions as to what was said at different occasions. Prior to the wedding there were lots of comments and promises that half of the property at Mernda was for Victor and Rosa and the other half for Susie and Steve, that Susie and Steve owned the 20 acres and the house that was situated on it, that there was a lot of work that needed to be done on the property, it was theirs and they could do with it what they wanted, they could fix it up, they could build, they would be financially set, they had been working all their lives to see their children financially set, they would do anything for them. This was a combination of what was said at The Word and the engagement because she had been asked to say what had been said prior to the wedding.
160 Counsel then asked as to what was said at the occasion of The Word. In the course of this, Vesna recalled that Rosa said that Steve and Susie owned the 20 acres and the house and it was her recollection that Victor did not say that in exactly those words, but he was saying that as well and backing her up. And, on this occasion Steve said that they owned the 20 acres and their own house. And he made a comment to Susie that she should stay at home and look after him and the house. Vesna thought that was an unusual sort of comment, because Susie's got two degrees and she really wanted to be a teacher so, I thought that was a bit odd, but, you know, I'm not the one who was in love with him, so, you know, that was for them to decide. She was not sure exactly what Susie said to that. It was in a conversation. She said that Susie had not even begun her teaching career properly. Vesna said that Susie had done a little bit of emergency teaching and some contract work. On the occasion of The Word at Susie and Steve's place she did not remember Victor "in those specific words" using the word "ownership" to describe that Steve and Susie owned the property. Her recollection is that she did not doubt from Victor that he meant that Susie and Steve owned their house and land. She did not know that Victor said it in exactly the words that "Steve owned the property", but that was what she recalled. She denied that she was going on an impression rather than particular words that she could remember and said that Victor also said that the property will be worth a fortune, that Susie and Steve would not have to worry about money. He did not say "in those words" that Steven had purchased half the property. Rosa said that Susie and Steve owned the 20 acres and the house that was on it. Vesna's best recollection was that neither Victor nor Rosa said that Steven had purchased half the property but Victor had said that half the whole property was Steve's and Susie's. Vesna could not specifically recall that on the occasion of The Word Steve, Rosa or Victor said anything about money owed on the property.
161 Vesna was then asked questions about the engagement after party. She said, as to her best recollection of what Victor said about the property, that he talked about the 20 acres and the house being Susie and Steve's, saying they had worked hard for their kids to set them up financially when they got married, that they did not have to worry, they could focus on having a family. There was a repeat of what he had said at The Word, he made the promises over and over again and at The Word he talked about the fact that they could fix it up and build and all the rest of it; she did not recall that at the engagement after party. At the engagement after party there was no specific reference to the word title or to any debt owing in relation to the Mernda property.
162 Vesna was then asked questions as to what was said following the wedding. This was in a shed at the Mernda property, she recalled her parents, herself and Victor and Rosa being present. She also referred to a few families from Victor and Rosa's side. She recalled Victor saying that Susie was like a daughter to him and that they owned their own property.
163 Vesna was asked if Victor or Rosa ever spelt out on what basis Susie was to be the half owner of the property and said she supposed being Steve's wife. As to Steven, Susie had told her that the purchase was a joint venture between Steve, Victor and Rosa. And at the after wedding party Victor said it was smart that Susie and Steve put their money into the property. Her recollection was that on the occasion of The Word nothing was said about Steve having spent money on buying the property, and that it was not said in those words at the engagement after party. She specifically remembered the comment from Victor after the wedding.
164 Vesna said a lot of renovations were done to the house after the wedding, and some things might have been done before the wedding as to which she referred to an alarm that Steve was going to put in for Susie. Being a police officer Steve wanted to make sure that when Susie moved in the farm, being isolated, had an alarm. Vesna said that besides Victor and Rosa's house and Steven's house there were just trees, bush, and at night it was quite scary, she remembered thinking to herself that she did not know she could live out there.
165 Further as to the matter of Steve putting money into the property, Vesna said that he did not tell her of the details with regard to their mortgage or the payments and who made exactly what payment. She assumed that Steve was contributing rather than that she was told. She thought it was not her business to know the exact payments that they were making.
166 Vesna's understanding before the wedding was that Susie was a half owner of the property at Mernda.
167 At the end of the cross-examination it was put to Vesna, and Vesna denied, that the only thing that Victor and Rosa said about the property was that Susie and Steve could live there for as long as they liked, rent free, to put themselves in a good position to buy their own house. She also denied a suggestion that they said they would do the same thing for their other son Michael, and that Michael was not mentioned in the discussions. Michael attended the official engagement reception but he was not present at The Word or the engagement after party.
168 In re-examination Vesna clarified that Jim and Mary Donis were not present on the occasion of The Word, either at her parents' place or at Steve and Susie's place.
169 As to the engagement after party, it started in the evening or later during the evening, she thought it was dark, and finished later on, she would say before midnight. She could not say exactly when Jim Donis left the after party because people were leaving at different times but she definitely knew that he did leave and that Victor, Rosa and Steve stayed on. Jim left with his wife and children. It was ridiculous to suggest that Jim Donis never left Steve's side at the after party. Further, Steve did not leave with Jim Donis. Finally, neither Victor or Rosa or Steve said nothing like Steve and Susie could live in the Mernda property rent free.
Nikola
170 Commencing with the occasion of The Word Susie's father gave his account of statements made by Victor and Rosa.
171 At Steve and Susie's house on the night of The Word, Victor said that the house and half of the 40 acre land was Steve and Susie's and the other half was for Victor and Rosa and that this was the plan all along with Steve. Nikola said that he asked Victor and Rosa whose names were on the title of Steve and Susie's property as he wanted to be sure his daughter was going to be taken care of by her new family as is Macedonian custom. They told him that Steve was on the title. Victor gave his word that they would make sure that the property title would be under both Steve and Susie's name after the wedding, but that it did not matter because the house and the land was for Susie and Steve. Victor told Nikola not to worry about that because it would be done. Victor and Rosa said they would take care of Steve and Susie and that they were working for them to give them everything they could to make their lives easier. Nikola said that he wanted to make sure that Susie and Steve had a property of their own to start their new life together; it was expected that the groom's side take on the bride as part of their family, she joins their family as their daughter and they take care of her. Nikola said it is also a tradition that the bride calls her parents-in-law mum and dad and that the groom calls his parents-in-law grandfather and grandmother, and that happened in this case. Nikola said that Victor and Rosa promised him that there was no doubt that Steve and Susie would own the house and half the land which they said was about 20 acres. They said to Susie in front of himself, his wife and other daughters that all they cared about was making sure that Susie and Steve were set up by owning their own house and 20 acres of land. Victor was bragging a fair bit about how much land Susie and Steve had. In his evidence Nikola observed that if he had had any doubt that the property would not belong to Steve and Susie after they were married, he would not have wanted Susie to get married without knowing that she and her husband had their own roof over their heads.
172 Turning then to the engagement, Victor and Rosa told Susie in front of him and his family that Susie's name would be on the title to the house and 20 acres of land as well, once she and Steve got married. They said that everyone knew the house and land belonged to Susie and Steve anyway, but both should be on the title. They said to Susie that she could trust them now that they were family. Nikola said that Victor and Rosa told Susie that the house and 20 acres of land in Mernda was Steve and Susie's, and that Rosa, Victor and Steve planned it that way all along. Rosa said she and Victor considered Susie a part of their family and would treat her like a daughter, and that she and Victor would do anything for Susie and Steve to make sure they did not have to worry about money and could start a family straight away. It was also said by Victor that Susie and Steve could do whatever they wanted with the land. Victor said that he and Rosa had been working all these years so they could make sure their son and new daughter had a property of their own. The farm with 20 acres of land would be in both Steve and Susie's name after the wedding, but it was theirs anyway.
173 Nikola then turned to the wedding and said that on this night Victor told "us" not to worry about Susie because he and Rosa would take care of her. Victor told Nikola and his wife "that Susie was going to be put on the title with Steve for their house and the 20 acres of land, just like he gave us his word". Victor said that Susie was part of the family now and that he and Rosa would make sure Susie and Steve owned their own property and that we did not have to worry about her.
174 Nikola then turned to the barbecue at Steve and Susie's place following the wedding in March 1997. Nikola remembered Victor saying in front of his family that Steve and Susie were now on the title for the house and the 20 acres, and Victor asking him if he wanted to go for a walk to see how much land Steve and Susie actually owned. They went for a walk and he was shown the land area which was "huge".
175 Then at the Prviche at Victor and Rosa's house, Rosa said that Steve and Susie's 20 acres would be worth a lot of money in the future, and that living on the farm would pay off for Steve and Susie. Nikola said that Susie wanted a new house in the suburbs closer to him and his family and that Rosa was trying to convince Susie that in the end it would be worth it and that Susie would be thankful later for making the sacrifice because their property would be worth millions of dollars.
176 Nikola then said that he assisted in constructing the double garage and carport and roller doors for the property. Steve and himself purchased the two roller doors plus a smaller roller door together which he (Nikola) paid for in cash. He was not reimbursed for this. Prior to them constructing the double garage and carport, they removed an existing old fern garden in its place. He also said that he painted the exterior of Steve and Susie's house, front and back, and helped in the construction of the new steel colorbond fence with Steve and a third person. Neither Michael nor Victor Donis helped construct the fence. Steve told him the fence cost he and Susie about $8,000 and did not mention anything about being reimbursed by Victor.
177 Nikola said that he and his wife gave Susie and Steve two cheques, one to the value of $5,000 and the other to the value of $2,000, plus $2,000 cash. They gave other amounts but these were the main amounts given to Susie and Steve.
178 Finally, Nikola said he would not have approved of Susie and Steve using their own money to improve another person's property if they did not have a property of their own.
179 Turning then to cross-examination, Nikola said at the outset that when Vesna married she lived with her husband's parents who gave the couple the vacant block of land next door. Nikola said that when he married his parents gave his wife vacant land and after they got married a house had been built for them. They lived with his parents until the house had been constructed. He said that the tradition in his culture is not to live in the groom's parents' house to try and save money but "there ought to be a house when somebody gets married". He then clarified that by saying that "In our tradition it is desirable that there is a house there for them".
180 Nikola said he met Steven prior to him going to Greece. Steven came to his house, Susie was present. They came over so that he could meet them and he referred to a bottle of whiskey Steven brought. Susie had told him months before that she had a boyfriend. He had not met Steve's parents before Susie went overseas and knew nothing about them.
181 After Susie returned from overseas Steve visited constantly, told them that he and Susie were in love and they said that they want to get married.
182 Nikola said that the first time Steven told him that he proposed to marry Susie was when he brought the bottle of whiskey.
183 Susie first told him that she proposed to marry Steven before she went on holidays. He then said that he was told they were going to marry when Steve came over with the bottle of whiskey, he said he wanted to marry Susie.
184 Nikola had not met Steven's parents before The Word. Susie had said that they were going to sell their house in Mill Park to buy a farm in Mernda which had two houses. That was before the time of the bottle of whiskey. Susie said that one of the houses would be for Steve and herself and the other for Victor and Rosa. And Victor told him that at The Word. By the occasion of The word he knew that Victor and Rosa had moved into the farm.
185 Nikola was then asked questions about the occasion of The Word. When they went to Steve and Susie's house the only people there were his family and Steve's family. It was the first time he had met Steven's parents. They were communicating in Macedonian, the major things were in English. As to English, Nikola said he was able to understand more than he is able to respond. Nikola said that Victor raised the issue of the farm and the houses, saying that the house and half of the property would go to Susie and Steve and the other half would be Victor and Rosa's. That would be included in the title and they would have the title to show that. That was volunteered by Victor and Rosa. Nikola said to them that he would like to know in whose name was the title for that half of the property. He used the word "title" and "Tapiata". He was told by them that Steve's name is "in the title, the title" to 20 acres including the house.
186 Following this Nikola was taken back to the time of the bottle of whiskey and it was suggested that happened in early 1996 which he denied. He then said it was possible that he first met Steven in early 1996. When he brought the bottle of whiskey he came to see that he could marry Susie. He then said that the occasion when Steven brought the whiskey was before he and Susie went overseas.
187 Counsel returned to the matter of Macedonian tradition as to the bride and groom living with the groom's parents, and said that sometimes they do but at other times they are given a house or a house is constructed. The father of the groom would give the house and the bride's parents would give the wedding and some money.
188 Nikola said that in response to his asking, Victor and Rosa said they follow the Macedonian tradition about looking after their daughter-in-law. He said they were Macedonian, and that he asked them as to the tradition at The Word. As far as he knew Victor and Rosa were Orthodox Macedonian. They told him they were Macedonian, "the same as us". He said he asked them if they went to and were married in the Macedonian church. He did not know that Steven was christened Greek Orthodox but knew that Victor came from Aegean Macedonia. Nikola came from the area close to that, where the border is. He did not know that Victor and Rosa were Greek Orthodox. Nikola said that he would never attend a church service in a Greek Orthodox church, nor would members of his family. Nikola said that he celebrated Christmas on 7 January, and denied that Victor and Rosa celebrated Christmas on 25 December. He believed that Victor and Rosa would follow the traditions that he was brought up with. Steven told him that he is Macedonian and that he goes to a Macedonian church. Nikola agreed that the great majority of Aegean Macedonians are Greek Orthodox but then he denied that an Aegean Macedonian is likely to be Greek Orthodox.
189 Nikola said that after The Word "we" met Victor and Rosa regularly. They were always close. Victor and Rosa did not say anything about giving Susie property in the farm between The Word and the engagement.
190 Nikola was then asked some questions about the engagement after party at his house following the reception. George and Jim came and left. He did not think that Jim Panovski came. After they left Victor and Rosa said "in front of me, Susie and my family, ... that the house in Mernda, the 20 acres, that after the wedding it would be - they said that Steve's name is in the title and that after the wedding, Susie's name will be included". He added that they said that everyone knew that the house and the 20 acres belongs to Steve and Susie. They gave Nikola a promise as to Susie's name being included after the wedding. They said that Susie is part of their family and they respect her as their daughter and would help her if it was necessary with whatever. They were the main things. They also referred to having worked for many years for Steve and Susie and would help with whatever was needed. They said they had given Susie and Steve a house and they can do what they like and they can start with a family. Nikola then said that they said that after the wedding, but that they had also talked about that before.
191 Then at the barbecue after the wedding they said that Susie and Steve are now on the title and Victor showed him the farm.
192 Then, in accordance with tradition they went to Victor and Rosa's place after the wedding and were at a shed on the property where Rosa said that Steve and Susie's farm is going to be worth millions one day.
193 Then, nothing was said at the Prviche at Smorgy's restaurant. The reference in Nikola's witness statement to the Prviche being held at Victor and Rosa's place was not correct.
194 The balance of the cross-examination was concerned with assistance Nikola provided to Susie and Steve in the matter of improvements to their house. This concerned in particular the garage and carport and what Nikola had done and paid for, Nikola painting the veranda at the front and back of the house for which Steve bought the paint, Nikola mostly working when he had a day off or on a Saturday and Sunday. The work was done after the wedding.
195 He had seen the house on the day of The Word. The house was cleaned before the wedding as it had not been cleaned before.
196 Nikola also referred to other items of improvement; he said that we made a colorbond fence, and vertical blinds and security doors at the front and the back were installed before the wedding.
197 In re-examination Nikola said that he gave $9,000 odd to Susie and Steve at the time of their wedding and, he added, perhaps a bit more than that. There was a cheque for $5,000 and for $2,000 and $2,000 in cash plus other monies.
198 Nikola said that he first met Steve before Susie went to Macedonia. The bottle of whiskey was produced after she returned. From then until The Word he saw Steve every day. After September or middle of October, Nikola was not sure, Steve told him that he wanted to marry Susie. At the ceremony of The Word he was one hundred per cent certain that Susie would accept the proposal because of what Susie had told him. She had said that they were very close and that when they came back from Macedonia they could commence marriage plans. When she returned she said that "we have to accept now".
199 Finally, it had not been suggested until today that Victor and Rosa were married, and Steve was christened, in a Greek Orthodox church.
Nadezda
200 Nadezda's written statement followed the same format as Nikola's. Although in substance her evidence was to the same effect it was with somewhat different expression and I should set it out.
201 On the occasion of The Word Victor said there was no doubt that the house and 20 acres belonged to Susie and Steve. He gave his word in front of Nadezda and her family that the house and half the land would be in Susie's name too when they were married. Nadezda remembered her husband specifically asking who was on the title of Susie and Steve's property. Victor and Rosa told Susie that all along the plan was that Susie and Steve would own their own house and half of all the land and that Victor and Rosa live next door in the other house. Nadezda said that she and Nikola had always told Susie they did not want her to get married unless she and her husband could live in their own property and start their own family knowing they were financially stable. Nadezda said that Victor and Rosa assured Susie and "my family" that they would definitely make sure that the title for the house and land would be in both Susie and Steve's name. They said they would give them everything they could. They said they would sacrifice their own happiness for Steve and Susie and that they even made sure Steve and Susie would have the bigger house of the two. Rosa said something like all she needed was a bed and she was happy. Rosa told Nadezda that she and Victor would treat Susie like their own daughter and that there was not anything she would not give or sacrifice for Steve and Susie.
202 On the occasion of the engagement Rosa told Susie that the house and the 20 acres of land was for her and Steve, and that she, Victor and Steve planned it like this all along. Rosa said that way Steve and Susie would own their own farm and still be next to them. Rosa kept telling Nadezda how much it meant to her having Steve and Susie live next door. Rosa said that Steve and Susie would not to have worry about buying a new house because they already had the farm and therefore there was no reason to put off starting their own family. Victor and Rosa told Susie and "the rest of us" that Susie's name would be on the title for her and Steve's house and the 20 acres of land surrounding, once Susie and Steve got married. They said Susie should not worry about it, that she was part of their family now and she could trust them. Victor and Rosa said they would do anything for Susie and Steve. Victor said that the farm with 20 acres of land would be in both Steve and Susie's name after the wedding, but that it was theirs so it did not really matter whether Susie was on title or not. Victor and Rosa said they were working for the kids, talking about Steve and Susie, and said they wanted to give them everything they possibly could.
203 On the wedding night, Victor told Nadezda and her husband that Susie would be on the title with Steve for the house and the 20 acres of land. Victor told us not to worry about Susie because he and Rosa would take care of her as she was part of their family.
204 At a barbecue after the wedding at Steve and Susie's house, Nadezda remembered Victor saying the house and the 20 acres was now Steve and Susie's legally because they were on the title. And, when they were at Victor and Rosa's house for the traditional after wedding lunch, Rosa said that she knew Susie did not like living on the farm but that Susie needed to put up with it because other than it being Steve's and Susie's, the 20 acres of land would be worth millions of dollars for them one day and it will all be worth it. Rosa and Victor told Susie that she and Steve could do whatever they wanted with the house and their land because it was theirs.
205 Nadezda remembered an occasion when Vesna and Valentina were looking into some apartments for investing and Susie spoke to Steve about it, that Steve told "us" he was not interested and said to us something like "Susie and I are finally out of debt with the farm".
206 Nadezda said that she and Nikola gave Susie and Steve two cheques to the value of $5,000 and $2,000 respectively plus $2,000. They had also given Susie and Steve other smaller amounts of money.
207 Nadezda then referred to having assisted Susie in "a large clean up" of her and Steve's property. She and Vesna did the majority of the cleaning of the house, along with Susie, and Valentina also helped. This included scrubbing and cleaning the entire kitchen including the insides of cupboards which was beyond normal cleaning required of a kitchen. In 1997 Nadezda dug up and prepared soil in the back yard and removed weeds from Susie and Steve's property and grass growing where it was not wanted. She also prepared the soil for the planting of a vegetable garden. She attended Susie and Steve's house on numerous occasions to work on the outside and inside of the property.
208 I turn then to Nadezda's evidence in cross-examination. Steve had asked Susie to marry him before the occasion of The Word, she did not remember exactly how long before, a few weeks, two or three weeks. For that reason the families agreed they should celebrate the occasion. She added that they were much in love before they went overseas. The occasion of The Word was the first time she met Victor and Rosa. They celebrated at Nadezda's house; there was no discussion there about anything. It was later at Steve and Susie's house that "we" were told that half the property of 20 acres and the house will be given to Steve and Susie. That had been said "prior", because Steven was telling Susie that "we are buying this lot of land with a house. The land was a big farm with two houses. He would specifically say that: in one of the houses we will live, myself and you and in the other house my parents will be living and we will share the lot we will be neighbours but we are buying that land". Susie told her that.
209 Nadezda was then asked some questions about the engagement after party at her home. In addition to her family Steve, Victor, Rosa and several other people attended. She thought Jim Donis was there but was not sure, she could not remember everything, she did not remember his wife being present, perhaps George Donis was. As to Panovski, there were several people but she did not remember all of them. Also, her sister and several other families were present but she did not remember which. It was in the evening. Victor and Rosa said they were going to give half the property to Susie and Steve, and Steven was listening. Steven did not say anything but Victor was speaking and at times Rosa would fill in and say something as well. Victor was speaking to my husband, to me, to my family. It happened after the others had left, the conversation was between my husband, myself and my daughters and Victor, Rosa and Steven. She did not remember if Michael Donis was there that night.
210 Nadezda was then asked when she first met Steven. The first time was when he came to her home to see Susie on Valentine's Day 1995 and he brought a bunch of roses. Nikola was not home. The next occasion was at her home prior to Susie and Steve going overseas; on that occasion Nikola, Susie and Valentina were home and Steven brought a bottle of whiskey bearing the flag of Macedonia and chocolates for Nadezda. Steven said that he loved Susie and wanted to marry her.
211 Returning to the occasion of The Word, Victor and Rosa did not mention anything about rent or mortgage repayments. They mentioned that Susie and Steve will be on the title for the house and the 20 acres of land. They said that Steve was already on the title. Nikola asked the question: I would like to know who is the title bearer of the house and the land. She did not remember that at that time Victor and Rosa said that Steven had bought the property with Victor and Rosa, only that they said that the land of 20 acres and the house will be theirs because that's been planned for some time.
212 Prior to Susie going overseas she told me, and Steve also told me, that "we're buying a farm with two houses on it". Susie told her that Steven had told her (Susie) that Victor and Rosa planned to sell their house in Mill Park and that half of the farm would be in Steven's name and half of the farm in the name of the parents.
213 Nadezda was asked about matters following the wedding. At a barbecue at Susie and Steve's house Victor said to Nadezda, her husband and their daughters not to worry about Susie now, she is on the title for the house and 20 acres, "Susie and Steve are on the title". Rosa was present and listening. Rosa said that that is what it will be because now Susie is part of their family and they are going to look after Susie.
214 Nadezda did not know that Victor and Rosa were married in a Greek Orthodox church or that Steven was christened in a Greek Orthodox church. Susie told them that Steven was Macedonian.
215 Before Susie married she told "us" that Steven was paying off the mortgage and once they were married she said that both of them were paying off the mortgage.
216 Susie did not mention that she and Steven were thinking about buying a house of their own, they said the house on the farm was her house and she treated it as her own house.
217 It is then necessary to mention some evidence in re-examination. Immediately Nadezda said that she first saw Steve at work at the mushroom company where she worked and he worked before he became a policeman. She did not see him regularly there as he worked in Mernda and she worked at the Bundoora premises. She had seen him twice at the factory. The first time that he came to her house was when he gave Susie roses on Valentine's Day. After that he came around to take Susie out and after some time he came with a bottle of whiskey. As to her evidence in cross-examination that she first met Steve when he brought the bottle of whiskey around, she said that was a more special occasion, a time "when we can exchange talk etc", prior to that it was like waving and just saying hello with not a great deal of interaction. She agreed that the whiskey occasion was the first formal meeting she had with Steve.
Defendants' Evidence - Introduction
218 I now turn to the evidence of the defendants and their witnesses. As to the defendants themselves, it is not necessary to set out their evidence in the way or to the extent that I have thought appropriate with the plaintiff and her witnesses. That is because the defendants' essential case is a denial of the making of any of the statements or promises alleged by the plaintiff and her witnesses and relied on by the plaintiff to establish her case. It is not a matter of the defendants' version of the discussions in which the statements and promises alleged by the plaintiff were made as the defendants say that they never were made. For this essential and fundamental reason the rival cases are like ships passing in the night. Thus it was that much of the cross-examination of the defendants, and their witnesses, was concerned with their credit and reliability as witnesses. Were they, or were the plaintiffs, to be believed? Of course, even if the defendants are not believed, or their evidence is not accepted, it does not follow that the plaintiff must succeed. That is because the question would be whether, assuming relevant evidence of the plaintiff and her witnesses was accepted, that evidence established an entitlement to the relief sought. For this reason, and because it was subjected to critical attack, I have set out the evidence in the plaintiff's case in the way that I have. I now refer to the evidence of the defendants and their witnesses. However, for the reason mentioned, the reference will be to their primary evidence, the evidence in chief. Of course I do not overlook their evidence overall, and I will deal with matters of credit later.
Steven
219 In his witness statement Steven said he had never been involved in any decisions that his parents had made in relation to their finances and neither had his brother. He had not been involved in making the decision to purchase any of the properties or businesses his parents have owned, he had not contributed financially towards the purchase of any of the properties or businesses, and he had not paid rent or board to live with his parents in their houses.
220 He met Susie in or about May 1995 when she worked as a casual mushroom picker at Campbells Mushroom Farm in Bundoora. They met for coffee and later saw each other briefly until Susie left Australia for a holiday in Europe. He too left Australia for a European vacation after Susie.
221 Steven said that on arriving home in September 1995 he received a postcard from Susie. He called her and found she had just arrived from her trip overseas. They made plans to meet again.
222 In November 1995 his parents, his brother Michael and himself moved to the Mernda property, at first into the newer house because it was larger and more comfortable, however after about one month his parents moved to the older house. His parents were planning to rent the newer house for extra income.
223 In late 1995 or early 1996 he was working different shifts at the Preston Police Station and found it difficult to sleep when his parents or Michael arrived home from work and went on their ways at home. His parents suggested he live in the newer house and in December 1995 or January 1996 he did so. The house was fully furnished.
224 In or about January or February 1996 Susie met his parents and he met her parents and sisters.
225 In March or April 1996 their relationship was becoming stronger and they decided to marry. They informed their parents and on 28 April 1996, in line with Macedonian custom, he and his parents went to Susie's parents' home where he announced his intention to marry Susie.
226 The first time he recollects his parents saying anything about Susie and him in respect of the Mernda property was one month before they married. On that occasion, at his parents' house in Mernda, his father said to him and Susie words to the effect that once Susie and he married they could live in the newer house on the farm rent free so they could save money to buy their own house. His father said that he and his mother were simply trying to help us out and that he offered no special favour, that they would do the same for Michael. When they left his parents, Susie and he said to each other words to the effect "this will give us a great head start".
227 Steven said that his parents never said to he or Susie in his presence that "we would own the house or I was the registered owner of the house or I was making mortgage payments". Susie never said to him that she thought what his father meant was that Susie and he own the house or had an interest in the property, or that she had a different understanding to what his father had said. Steven could not remember his parents raising the topic until one month prior to Susie and he marrying.
228 On return from the honeymoon, they began living in the newer house. Susie announced she was pregnant. Susie did not bring any furniture or other items with her apart from her clothing and her motor vehicle. She had and maintained her own bank account. He had about $2,000 in savings in his bank account, his clothes and some furniture, electrical items and a sound system and drove a 1992 Holden Calais belonging to his father.
229 They received about $25,000 in cash as wedding gifts. Susie's uncle said it was a good deposit to buy a home, and her father suggested buying a block of land and building a new home on it. The $25,000 was deposited into a term deposit bank account on the understanding the money would be used to purchase or build our home[24].
230 Steven said that his parents never said anything to Susie and he about the house after they were married. There were occasions when his parents visited them at their house when they would show them things they had bought, and he remembered his parents saying words to the effect "don't spend your money, save it because you are going to need it". Steven did not remember Susie ever querying whether she and Steven were owners of the property.
231 Steven said that following the birth of Jamie problems started to develop in the relationship. He referred to Susie beginning "to display irrational behaviour" and said she "would often be abusive at me and towards my parents" and that she "would withdraw herself from other people including my immediate family and spend more time with her parents and sisters". He went on to refer to arguments developing in which regard he made an allegation about Susie insisting to stay at a cousin's 21st birthday party to wait for a stripper to perform her act, and that despite his protest they stayed. I do not set out all that he has said as to this and other events, and criticisms of Susie which in my view, having observed him closely, are affected by bitterness if not perverseness and should be taken with a grain of salt. I specifically reject his evidence as to the stripper.
232 Steven referred to an argument which he said occurred in August 1999 following which he left and returned after two weeks when they reconciled in Jamie's best interest. He said that at Susie's request he agreed, for the sake of saving the marriage, that his parents not come to their home and that she not attend their home or they see Jamie. In summary, the marriage was coming to an end, Steven saying that he tried to reach a rational compromise but Susie continued to abuse his parents and himself. He decided to end the relationship and said that on or about 1 February he received a letter from his parents to vacate the house. He said that on the same day he moved out and took his clothing and personal effects. I interpolate that in fact cohabitation ceased on 18 January 2000 when Steven left the home.
233 Steven said that following the separation Susie would call him asking him to reconsider his decision to end their relationship. She would say that she would get a job, or for us to move into another house and rent for a while. He asked for Jamie but told her that the marriage was definitely over and she became very upset. I interpolate that in cross-examination Steven clarified that there were only two such calls made by Susie[25].
234 Steven said further, in summary, that he had never said to Susie or to any relative or friend of Susie's or his that he owned or was to own any part of the Mernda property. Nor had he ever told Susie he was registered on the title to the Mernda property or any other property, or that he had made mortgage payments on the Mernda property or any other property or assisted his parents with any mortgage payments. Nor had he ever discussed mortgage payments or title registrations or ownership of the Mernda property or other properties with his parents. He said he had no detailed knowledge of his parents' finances. And at no time did he ever say to anyone that he owned any part of the Mernda property or had any interest in the land or was to be given an interest in the land. He had never owned or had any interest in real estate in Victoria or elsewhere in Australia. Finally, as to money, at the time of the marriage he was earning approximately $35,000 per annum and his earnings were on average $42,000 per year. When Jamie was born he and Susie opened a Commonwealth bank saving account in Jamie's name to which his parents regularly contributed and any money that Jamie got for the christening and his birthdays also went into that account. Susie was the trustee of the account which had a balance of around $8,000 at the time of separation. Since separation Susie had withdrawn all funds in the account. I interpolate that that is correct, Susie having done so to pay living expenses for herself and Jamie.
235 Steven gave a deal of oral evidence in chief, to which I now refer.
236 Steven said he first met Susie in May 1995 and her parents in January 1996. He did not meet Susie's parents on Valentine's Day 1995.
237 Steven said that when Susie went overseas in 1995 they were boyfriend and girlfriend. He suggested that they meet when they were away, but Susie said she did not want to meet him while overseas. Steven said that he was only going to be a matter of kilometres away from her.
238 As to Susie's evidence of the occasion of the snake incident, Steven said there was never such an occasion.
239 As to Susie's evidence that at his house before the occasion of The Word his parents said words to the effect that half the land is yours and you can do whatever you like, that that was never said. Nor had Susie ever asked whose name was on the title. He had never been told that he was on the title and had never told anyone that he was.
240 Steven said he was baptised in the Greek Orthodox Church in Preston and that prior to their marriage he had no discussion with Susie or her parents about the traditions of Macedonian upbringing in relation to giving property. He was not aware from his upbringing of any tradition whereby the parents of the groom give property like a house to the bride and no such matter was ever asked of him by Susie or her parents or discussed with his parents. Further, at his house after The Word there was no reference made by his parents or by Susie or her parents to ownership of the property at Mernda. Nor was there reference to his name being on the title, to Susie being an owner, or to him paying off the mortgage.
241 Prior to the occasion of The Word Susie never said that she did not want to live in an old filthy worn down house on an isolated farm and he had never said to her that it was the best investment they could make. Nor did they discuss doing up the newer house at Mernda, he believed that it did not need things being done to it. Things were done to it before the wedding at the initiative of his father and himself, just a bit of cleaning up.
242 Steven said that prior to the wedding there was no discussion in which her parents tried to persuade Susie to move into the house. They never said move in, the house belongs to you and Steve.
243 Steven said that he never proposed to Susie prior to The Word.
244 At his parents' place after The Word nothing was said by his parents in his presence about ownership of the property at Mernda or the plaintiff having an interest in it. No such matter had been discussed before he went overseas.
245 Steven said that prior to going overseas he did not discuss marriage with Susie.
246 Steven went to the plaintiff's parents' house with a bottle of whiskey in January 1996, the first occasion he met her parents.
247 As to the engagement after party, Steven listed persons present and said that Jim Donis was near him during the night and that the Donis family all got there at the same time and left at the same time leaving Susie's relatives behind to clean up. His parents did not say anything about ownership of the property at Mernda, nothing was asked of them about it, and it was not said that he was on the title or an owner or that Susie was an owner or would be on the title or that he would be paying off the mortgage or that he and Susie would have 20 acres of land.
248 Steven said that prior to getting married he did not discuss the acquisition of a house with Susie.
249 Steven said that prior to getting married Susie never asked him questions about his financial position and he did not tell her what it was. In explanation, he said that "we all knew how much money we got out of the engagement and that was used to purchase things for the wedding". He further said that Susie did not tell him what her financial position was, adding that they were not in a position where they had lots of money, they were struggling. In further explanation as to neither of them telling the other what their respective financial position was, Steven said they were probably a bit naive at the time. He did not discuss his financial position with Susie in even general terms.
250 Steven said that the fenced off area of the newer property (at which he and Susie lived after they were married) had an area of around three quarters of an acre.
251 Steven said there was no occasion before the marriage when he and Susie's parents walked around the whole 40 acres and Susie did not do that with him. He could not recall if Susie asked him how much land there was. There was no discussion prior to getting married with his parents, himself and the plaintiff in which the amount of land was discussed.
252 The first time that Steven discussed with Susie living at the Mernda property was one month before they married on the occasion when Victor offered rent free accommodation. To the question where had it been intended that they would live, Steven said "I don't know", adding that they had not talked about it.
253 Steven said there were mice at the house but never any rats. Susie mentioned her concern about the rats and mice. He denied Susie's evidence that he had used a boot to kill a rat[26]. He denied that Susie had told his parents that she was sickened by living in a rat infested house and that his parents had said to her that if you live on a farm it is a different lifestyle and you've got to get used to it.
254 Steven said there was no discussion at or shortly after the wedding about he or Susie being on the title of the property.
255 As to Susie working after the marriage, Steven said that it was up to her and that she said that she wanted to stay home. She did not say she would like to be out working.
256 Susie never said she regretted being pregnant or having a child, never expressed opposition to staying in the house, and never said that a condition of doing so was that she would be given part of the ownership of the property. Nor did her parents ever say that to him and it was never discussed.
257 As to works that were done on the house, Steven said that Susie's lifestyle dictated what was to be done to the house, he was happy with the house as it was. Some of the "cosmetic" changes they did to the house were paid for by himself and Susie and they were not reimbursed but around half of the cosmetic changes were reimbursed by his parents. Steven denied saying to Susie that he was putting in as much money from his pay as possible so they could off the mortgage as soon as possible. He said that no more than $20,000 was spent on the house. He based that on his knowledge of what was spent and that he could not afford to spend any more. He paid half and his parents paid around half. He was reimbursed half. They discussed the work with his parents. He did not feel he had the right to do things without their permission. He said that significant work done after the marriage without consultation with his parents was the installation of roller shutters and air conditioning which Susie and he paid for. His parents refused permission to replace the carpet.
258 Steven said that to his knowledge the first time that Susie claimed to have been promised an interest in the property was made in the caveat lodged in late 2000. She had never raised with him the question of the promises allegedly made by his parents about her ownership of the property. I interpolate that in cross-examination Steven said that the first time he heard anything about a promise was on reading her answers to interrogatories[27].
259 Steven gave some evidence as to cleaning up and other work done at the property. The evidence involved some conflicts with evidence in the plaintiff's case. Included in this was evidence that he had not said that the mortgage would be paid off soon and that he would keep on adding to the list of renovations. He said Susie was a good housekeeper, that they were happy initially and that things progressively got worse. He said it would be untrue to suggest that Susie was kept at home, discouraged from working and forced to do the domestic work because of promises made by his parents that she owned the property.
260 Steven said that his parents did not encourage Susie to have more children by saying that the mortgage will be paid off soon, do not worry about money, have more kids.
261 He also denied that his behaviour towards Susie became abusive shortly after the marriage and that on 18 January he punched her on the face. He gave an account of what happened on that day, 18 January 2000. Steven ventured the view that he thought Susie had suffered from post natal depression for which he had asked her to get help and as to which she had said that he needed help. He said she became withdrawn from his family and basically that she did not like his parents. Steven went on to deny statements and actions of his that Susie described as having occurred on the day of their final separation.
262 Steven gave some evidence as to statements of Susie as to why she gave up teaching and stayed at home[28] which included denying that Susie said to him and his parents that she did not want to get married unless she and Steven purchased a home together and that she never said that she was happy to continue living with her family unmarried as she was in no rush to get married. He also denied that he and his parents assured her that the house and 20 acres belonged to her and Steven.
263 Steven denied Susie's evidence that since separation he had admitted to her that he and his parents had lied about ownership of the property.
264 As to payment for items of work done at the house, Steven said that items he paid for that were not reimbursed were paid from their general savings account, his pay. He paid for the air conditioner, the roller shutters, oven and hot plate and light fittings. He referred to other items for which he received reimbursement from his parents or for which his parents paid.
Victor
265 In his evidence in chief Victor outlined the history of himself and Rosa buying houses and businesses. For present purposes I pick the account up at the time when the Mernda property was purchased in 1995. Victor described one house on the property as being about 30 years old and the other about 10-15 years old, the plan being to lease the newer house to supplement their income. The proceeds from the sale of their house in Mill Park not being enough to settle the purchase of the Mernda property, he and his wife borrowed $311,500 from the NAB to finalise the purchase[29]. Around October or November 1995 he and his family moved to the newer of the houses on the property but, for reasons of convenience when working on the farm, moved to the older house. By 1996 Steven, due to his odd working hours and need for sleep, moved back to the newer house which was furnished.
266 Steven first introduced his parents to Susie in February or March 1996. Around April 1996 Steven told them that they were planning to get married and in accordance with custom arrangements were made for Steven, Victor and Rosa to attend Susie's parents' home for Steven to request Susie's father for her hand as a bride. Also present on this occasion were Susie's sisters.
267 About one month prior to the wedding Steven and Susie visited Rosa and himself on a Sunday afternoon. Victor said to them that "there's two houses on the property, after youse get married you are more than welcome to stay in the newer house rent free, until youse can save some money to put a deposit on your own house. I'd do the same thing for Michael if he got married first". Victor said that Steven and Susie seemed happy at his offer, that Steven said "thanks" and Susie said "that will be nice". Victor said that his wife and he never discussed with Steven or Michael who was on title to any of the properties and particularly in relation to the Mernda property, and that he and his wife never discussed their intentions regarding the Mernda property with Steven or Michael.
268 A short time after Steven and Susie returned from their honeymoon Steven asked Victor to replace the carpet in the new house because Susie did not like what was there. Victor said the carpet had just been steam cleaned and there was nothing wrong with it.
269 In about mid to late 1999 Rosa and Victor noticed that Steven and Susie were having problems in their marriage. Victor said that Susie would often accuse he and Rosa of trying to destroy their marriage and that Susie would tell Rosa and Victor that she "would destroy you all", that "you are nothing but uneducated and work in a stinking fish shop", that "you think we are scared of another divorce, please, my sister is a solicitor". Victor said that while Rosa and himself did not interfere with their marriage, at times they would disagree with some of the changes Susie wanted to be done to the house. He refused to change the carpet and they refused to pay for a new driveway which Susie repeatedly asked for. Victor said there were things done to the house that he had no knowledge of and that when he saw some items purchased for the house he would say that it was nice but not to waste their money because you may need money for your own place and who knows what was going to happen with the house. He said that Michael might move in one day or he might rent it out. Victor said that sometimes Steven and Susie "would do stuff on the house without asking me and it really upset me because I didn't want them to do that to my house". He said he argued with Steven about the window winder roller shutters when he put them in but Steven said that Susie was scared when he worked at night and that he would take them with him when he bought his own house. Victor said that he had the septic tank fixed for $2,000.
270 In late 1999 Steven and Susie separated for about two weeks but reunited for about four months. During that period Susie was becoming abusive towards Victor and Rosa and blaming them for destroying the marriage and she would not allow them to see Jamie. He said they became sick and tired of the situation and the continual disrespect Susie had shown them and wrote to Steven and Susie requesting them to vacate the house by the end of February 2000. When he inspected the house after Susie had left he discovered a cream had been poured onto the carpet, the electric hot plate left on, a cream spilt on the hot plate, and a glue like substance over the drainage holes in the kitchen, laundry and bathroom. I interpolate that Susie denied doing these things.
271 Victor supplemented his witness statement with some oral evidence in chief to which I now refer.
272 There was first tendered through him an incoming cash flow summary for Victor and Rosa which had been prepared by their lawyers[30], a bundle of NAB statements of account for the loan of $390,000 secured by the mortgage on the Mernda property[31], and the adjustment and settlement statement for the sale of 14 Queen Street, Lalor, dated 1 August 1997[32].
273 The NAB statements of account showed that on 4 August 1997 the loan was fully paid off with a payment of $89,105.15. Victor said that the sources of money used to repay the NAB loan were those set out in the incoming cash flow summary sheet. They were the proceeds of sale of the Mill Park, Epping and Lalor properties, and profit and drawings from the fish and chip shop.
274 Victor said that interest on the loan was paid from the fish and chip shop business. Steven did not pay the interest. Victor further said that he and Rosa paid their own living expenses.
275 Victor said that he carried about $30,000 cash "all the time because I used to go to the market and buy my fresh fish".
276 Victor said that when he bought the farm at Mernda he put cattle and sheep on it, saying that he "put 15 cows and I bought about 30 sheep"; he maintained that throughout the time. He made a profit. The money he received from the sale of cattle and sheep was received in cash and cheques. He said he sold them at Mernda Market and once at Pakenham Market, but he also referred to a butcher coming and picking them up from the property. He was not paid in cash for a sale at a market. Finally, he said he had 15 cows, "that's all". Victor said they let the property in Queen Street, Lalor at a rent of $150 a week.
277 Victor referred to a Westpac account in the name of Rosa as trustee for their son Michael and said that Michael's salary went to that account and that they made no gifts of money to Michael in the period 1999 to 2001.
278 Victor said that when they moved to the Mernda property he had neither met the plaintiff nor heard of her.
279 When they bought the Mernda property he did not discuss whether he should buy it with Steven. Nor was the property purchased so that Steven and his wife to be could live in one house and he and Rosa in the other.
280 He first met the plaintiff in early 1996, around January, February, he was not sure. It was a week before The Word, something like that, that he knew that Steven and Susie were planning to marry. He did not know exactly what "The Word" means, Steven never said anything about a word, "he said let's go and meet their parents".
281 Victor said that he had not heard of or met Susie before Steve went overseas in 1995, and had not met her parents before she went overseas in 1995. He had not promised Susie ownership of any property before Steven went overseas in 1995. And the purchase of the property at Mernda had nothing to do with Susie.
282 On the occasion of The Word ownership of the Mernda property was not discussed.
283 At the engagement after party he said nothing to the plaintiff or her parents about ownership of the Mernda property, did not say that Steven was on the title to the property, did not say that he was going to give half the property to the plaintiff, and Susie's father did not ask any question about the ownership of the property.
284 At the wedding he said nothing to the plaintiff or her parents about her having an interest in the Mernda property.
285 Prior to making the offer to Steven and Susie of living in the newer house rent free, Steven had said nothing as to where they were going to live and he had not asked Victor and Rosa. He could have rented the property out.
286 Victor was married in the Greek Orthodox Church, North Carlton. He was not brought up with any tradition about the making of financial provision to your son's wife. Prior to the plaintiff and Steven marrying, her parents did not ask any question about traditional gifts and he was not conscious of any tradition in relation to making gifts to his son's wife.
287 Victor denied that there was an occasion when Rosa was scared by a snake. There was never an occasion before the plaintiff and Steven married when he discussed making a gift of any part of the Mernda property to the plaintiff.
288 Victor gave evidence of some items of work done to the house that Steven and the plaintiff lived in, and as to payment for them. Among other things, Victor said that he told Steven that if anything was to be done to the house he was to ask him. He refused to replace the carpet. He denied saying to the plaintiff and Steven that they could do as they wanted to the house because it was their house.
289 Victor said that at both The Word and the engagement he and Rosa gave Steven and Susie $100 each. At the wedding he "paid for the band, I paid for half of the wedding, for my people. Steven paid half of it and I paid half of it. I paid for all his engagement. I paid for the cake and I also gave him $500 when he left for his honeymoon". After the marriage he provided money for bills or groceries, as to how often he said on a few occasions then referred to shopping constantly.
Rosa
290 Rosa's witness statement was very brief. She recounted her upbringing and earlier years to her marriage to Victor when they lived with his parents in Preston until they were able to buy their own home.
291 Rosa then recalled a conversation with her husband, Steven and Susie at the old house at the Mernda property at which she was present, about one month before Susie and Steven married. Victor said words to the effect "youse are more than welcome to stay in the new house when youse marry, youse can stay there rent free until youse save money to get your own home. I've got to do the same for Michael when he gets married".
292 Rosa referred to Susie's answer to an interrogatory[33], a copy of which was attached to her witness statement, in which Susie set out statements and promises made to her. Rosa said that no conversations to that effect ever took place. The only conversation between her husband, Susie and Steven about the house was that stated above referring to living there rent free.
293 Rosa said there were times that Victor and she would visit Steven and Susie but she (Rosa) would never speak to them about the house. Their visits were mainly to see Jamie.
294 Rosa said that she and Victor paid for the insurance, rates and most service charges for the entire property. She and Victor paid some of Steven's and Susie's bills because they wanted Susie and Steven to save their money so they could have a deposit for a house.
295 Finally, Rosa said that the mortgage on the property was paid off soon after Victor and she bought it. Steven and Susie made no payments on the mortgage. If any work had to be done on the house Susie and Steven were living in, Steven would ask Victor for permission and Victor would agree or not. Sometimes they did things around the house by putting up light fittings without permission. When they would visit Steven and Susie, Victor would say words to the effect "don't waste your money, maybe one day someone else will rent here, youse save your own money so youse can buy your own house".
296 Rosa gave some brief oral evidence in chief in which she denied the making of the promises and statements relied on by the plaintiff, and said that she and Victor paid the purchase price for the Mernda property and repaid the mortgage. She said that Steven made no payment on the loan.
Observations and findings on witnesses
297 As mentioned, counsel's final submissions were provided in written form[34]. The submissions dealt at length with reasons why the evidence on one side or the other should be accepted and the case decided accordingly. As I said at the outset, the case is one in which each side contends that the central evidence of the other is a lie. In seeking to make out their submissions counsel have subjected the evidence of the witnesses, particularly the plaintiff and her witnesses and the defendants, to critical analysis. I have regard to all that is put in the submissions whether or not I expressly refer to a matter in these reasons. I turn now to an overview of the witnesses.
298 The plaintiff is an educated, intelligent, well spoken and well presented person. In giving her evidence she was nervous, tense, and wary of the cross-examiner which in part was reflected in a concern to understand the question before answering, at times with confusion, and at times with error, and at times relying (or falling back) on her witness statement as containing her account. At the same time, to be fair to the plaintiff, she was under considerable pressure. As a single mother with limited means it would seem reasonable to infer that she financed the case with the assistance of her family. Indeed there is evidence that indicates her family has assisted her. (In the same way Steven's parents have financed him.) In addition to the financial pressure, there was a significant pressure to succeed in the case in order to be able to achieve a property settlement of some significance, thereby to ameliorate her financial position from her own point of view and as the primary carer for her son.
299 As to the overall context I note the following matters. At the request of the plaintiff made before evidence commenced I made an order for witnesses to be out of court. Notwithstanding, the three defendants, being parties, sat in court. That was their right but on my observation their continuing presence in a relatively small court room attending directly to the plaintiff in giving her evidence added to the tension and stress on the plaintiff. It was noticeable that throughout the trial the plaintiff on the one hand and the defendants on the other hand avoided looking in the direction of the other. The tension was palpable. The cavalcade of litigation which has engulfed Susie and Steven since they separated, and which has involved Victor and Rosa financially and emotionally, as well as those on the plaintiff's side, was, I find, a significant factor in producing this situation, together with the further factor of the distress and bitterness the overall circumstances have produced in the parties. Those circumstances include the intervention proceeding in the Magistrates' Court and proceedings in the Family Court each of which has required affidavits and appearances and been fought, although sometimes with agreement at the end. The costs, both personal and financial, must have been enormous. Save for family assisting her, I have no idea how Susie could have paid costs, being a single mother who had not worked for over two years prior to separation and had a limited financial resource. As to Steven, he said that more than $100,000 had been spent on the disputes; he had paid a few thousand out of his own money and his parents had paid the balance. One application that was not settled was Susie's application for spousal maintenance. Steven contested the application but on 21 September 2000 was ordered to pay Susie $150 per week, which was in addition to the existing child support payment. Then, having made three payments of spousal maintenance, on 15 October 2000 Steven voluntarily commenced a period of three months' leave without pay[35], and ceased paying spousal maintenance. Thereafter the spousal maintenance went into arrears of thousands of dollars. In consequence of taking unpaid leave, Steven's child support payments fell to $22 a month, hardly a princely sum for a young single mother to live on. There were also substantial disputes on child contact to Steven, as to which there were indications in the evidence that all has not yet settled down in that area. I mention these matters not in any sense to set out an accurate and complete chronology of the curial proceedings between Susie and Steven, but for the purpose of indicating the troubled and unhappy background to the present litigation and in the context of which the witnesses gave their evidence. And, of course, the litigation in the Family Court, or at least Susie's application for a property settlement, is held up pending the decision in this case. On it being stated in the Family Court proceeding by Steven and his parents that Susie and Steven had no interest in the Mernda property, and the title to the property being in the name of Victor and Rosa who were not parties to the marriage, Susie commenced the present application in this Court, indeed she had to as the Family Court did not have jurisdiction to deal with her claim. If and to the extent that Susie's claim is upheld she will have established a right to property and, that having been determined, the proceeding in the Family Court can resume. I mention this as, again, awareness of it aids understanding the situation of the parties at the trial including the pressures they were under. One of those pressures was financial and it was most evident in Susie's case and was reflected in she and her witnesses preparing their witness statements, as I have already remarked. It was also evident that the amount of past and ongoing costs is hurting the defendants. Nevertheless, the case came to trial and the plaintiff went into the witness box. She was cross-examined in a searching, hostile and argumentative manner, at times responding as stated above.
300 Valentina and Vesna were both evidently intelligent, well educated and articulate. They, like Susie, had been educated in English which they spoke and understood well. They are daughters in a close loving family. On my assessment Valentina is somewhat closer to Susie than Vesna, and that was reflected in the giving of their evidence. Valentina was an alert and honest witness. Vesna is an open, forthcoming type of person who impressed me as a frank witness, possessed of detachment, common sense and reasonableness who clearly gave her evidence as she recalled events. She and Valentina gave their evidence with an obvious sense of conviction and self assurance, Valentina perhaps with a stronger impression of emotional support or involvement. It was noticeable that their evidence, indeed the evidence of the plaintiff and all her witnesses, was not uniformly similar. There were differences in the accounts, here and there, as to what was said. The differences were such as to indicate a lack of rehearsal of the terms of the relevant statements.
301 Their parents Nikola and Nadezda, had nothing like their daughters' degree of education and had to give evidence by an interpreter. They had evidently been hard working people. Nikola was obviously confused in his evidence as to when Steven came with the bottle of whiskey. In my view that confusion reflected honest but imperfect recollection and not that he had set out with a made up or rehearsed story. He gave his evidence with a quiet dignity, humility and sincerity. Nadezda impressed me as an honest witness who gave her evidence simply and directly.
302 There is a similarity in background with Steven's parents, although Victor and Rosa have a good understanding of, and ability to express themselves in, the English language.
303 While both couples were direct and proud people, sensitive in relation to the other and to a loss of face as it seemed to me, and both possessing a natural interest to support their child, I observed a more evident earthiness in Victor and Rosa and more a degree of refinement and dignity in Nikola and Nadezda.
304 Rosa was affected by the most marked, and expressed bitterness and anger towards Susie and her family, and although not overtly apparent I find that Victor was of the same feeling.
305 The last of the defendants to mention is Steven. In giving evidence he had the considerable advantage of having often given evidence before in the course of his police duties. At the outset of his evidence in chief he adopted the tactic of staring directly at me, seemingly as though to add conviction to his evidence. He continued to do so until his counsel asked him how much was "spent on renovation, on fixing up the house ... whatever was done on the house" at which he looked down, paused and said "I'd say no more than $20,000"[36]. Thereafter, in giving his evidence, he did not revert to staring fixedly at me as he had before. Overall his demeanour in giving evidence did not impress me. He impressed me as an intense man, somewhat introspective, lacking imagination and inclined to authority and temper. He clearly holds strong feelings of bitterness towards Susie. His gratuitous statement that Susie suffered post natal depression was uninformed by expert opinion, he not having taken up the opportunity to ask the doctor about his wife's health in that respect. I reject that assertion. The fact that he had not sought medical opinion when he could have reflected on him as a person and husband, rather than on his wife as he intended it to in the sense of explaining the marriage breakdown.
306 Each witness was subjected to critical analysis in the submissions. Having considered the evidence in light of the submissions I conclude as follows. I find the plaintiff and her witnesses to be honest witnesses although I consider that some of the evidence suffered from a degree of reconstruction and resulting embellishment. I prefer the evidence of the plaintiff and her witnesses to that of the defendants who were not honest or reliable witnesses and whose evidence I do not accept where it conflicts with that of the plaintiff and her witnesses. I refer below to reasons for so concluding as to the defendants.
307 In so concluding I have borne in mind the long time elapsed between the making of the statements and promises relied on by the plaintiff and the trial of the present proceeding. The period in question was ten to eight years from 1995/1997 to the trial. That is a very long time over which to expect a person to have a reasonably accurate recall of statements made in a conversation, particularly when it was not called into question for some time. As to that, however, the fact of the property settlement claim commenced in August 2000 and the caveat lodged in November 2000 should not be overlooked, and the present proceeding was commenced as long ago as 11 September 2001. I do not overlook the changes in the statement of claim since the proceeding was commenced.
308 I also take into account in the resolution of the legal and factual issues in the case the seriousness of the claim in terms of seeking an entitlement to an interest in another person's property on the basis of oral promises made long ago. For this purpose, counsel for the defendants characterised the case as involving an allegation of fraud or the like, namely that the defendants made a promise or representation (that Steven was an owner and on title of 20 acres including the newer house and the plaintiff would be and after the marriage was an owner and on title to that land) knowing it to be false. It was submitted that to find such a serious allegation proved the plaintiff must provide clear cogent and strict proof of the allegation on the balance of probabilities, and counsel referred in that regard to Briginshaw v Briginshaw[37], Anderson v Blashki[38], Ghazal v Government Insurance Office of New South Wales[39], Neat Holdings Pty Ltd v Karajon Holdings Pty Ltd [40].
309 I turn now to deal more particularly with the defendants' submissions concerning the plaintiff commencing with the matters in para 9 of their submission. These matters concern the actions and statements of the plaintiff and are said to be inconsistent with the making of the representation as to Steven being an owner and on title to 20 acres and the promise that after the marriage the plaintiff will be an owner and on title of the 20 acres. I deal with each matter in turn.
(a) para 9(i)