5550/2004 DENISE ROSALIE JOY v JOHN RUSSELL COX
JUDGMENT
1 The defendant, John Russell Cox, admits that he and the plaintiff, Denise Rosalie Joy, were in a de facto relationship as that term is defined in the Property (Relationships) Act 1984, s 4 from June 2000 until they separated in September 2003. Mrs Joy asserts that the relationship commenced in September 1989. Mrs Joy seeks an adjustment of interests with respect to the property of the parties under s 20(1).
Jurisdiction
2 The Property (Relationships) Act 1984, s 15(1)(a) prohibits the court from making an order adjusting the interests with respect to the property of the parties to a relationship unless satisfied that the parties to the application, or either of them, was resident within New South Wales on the day on which the application was made. The application was made on 12 October 2004 when both parties resided in New South Wales.
3 The Property (Relationships) Act 1984, s 15(1)(b)(i) prohibits the court from making such an order unless satisfied that both parties were residents of New South Wales for a substantial period of their domestic relationship which, pursuant to s 15(2), is satisfied if the parties lived together in the State for a period equivalent to at least one third of the duration of their relationship. For at least one third of the period from June 2000 to September 2003 or from September 1989 to September 2003 the parties were resident in New South Wales.
4 The Property (Relationships) Act 1984, s 17(1) provides that, with an exception irrelevant for present purposes, the court shall not make an order of the sort claimed in these proceedings unless satisfied that the parties have lived together in a domestic relationship for a period of not less than two years. A domestic relationship is defined to include a de facto relationship in s 5(1)(a). That requirement is satisfied whether the cohabitation was for the longer or shorter period alleged by the respective parties.
5 The Property (Relationships) Act 1984, s 18(1) provides that if a domestic relationship has ceased, an application for an order of the kind here sought can only be made within the period of two years after the date on which the relationship ceased, except as otherwise specified in that section. The application before the court was made within that time limit.
6 Each of the parties owned property with respect to which an adjustment of interests might be made.
7 In my view, it is within the jurisdiction of the court to make an order adjusting interests in the property of the parties if that course is appropriate.
The relationship
8 Mrs Joy said that she and Mr Cox commenced a full sexual relationship in September 1989. It was not a matter of a gradual relationship, but one that was "full on from day one". Mr Cox said it was a gradual relationship. He stayed with Mrs Joy in her house about once per week until it built up to three or four nights per week after Rachel left for Canada. Mr Cox was a chemical engineer. He lived in China from September 1998 to June 2000. Apart from that period, he lived in New South Wales. Mrs Joy visited Mr Cox in China on three occasions. They slept in the same bed both in China and in New South Wales.
9 Mr Cox had three children but they did not live with Mrs Joy or Mr Cox during their relationship. Mrs Joy had four children, Derrick who was 19½ in September 1989, Mitchell who was 18½, Rachel who was a little over 15 and Nikolas who was 5 ½. Nikolas was diagnosed with attention deficit disorder and hyperactivity. His condition got worse as he grew older, or if he did not take his medication, or maintain his milk-free diet.
10 Mr Cox lived alone in his house at Whitebridge. Mrs Joy lived in her house in Wallsend with her four children. Mrs Joy said that she and Mr Cox slept in her bed at Wallsend from Monday to Friday and in Mr Cox's bed in Whitebridge over the weekends. Mr Cox admitted that they slept in the same bed when at his house or at hers.
11 When Derrick went to University, he ceased to live with his mother except during the mid-year break and at the end of the year. When he finished university he returned to live with his mother for about two years. Later Mitchell attended university and subsequently TAFE in Wollongong and he returned to live with his mother during university breaks. When he concluded his tertiary education he returned to live with his mother for approximately two years. Derrick left his mother's house in 1995, Mitchell left in 1998. Rachel lived in Canada from May 1994 to July 1995 and from December 1995 to December 1997. She returned to live with her mother after her second period in Canada and finally left her mother in 2001.
12 Mr Cox returned to his house on each working day. He brought his toiletries and clothes for the next day when he came to the Wallsend house and he took his used clothes and toiletries away with him when he went to work the next morning. He left none of his things in the Wallsend house. Mr Cox did all his own washing and ironing. He said he never had breakfast at Wallsend, but Mrs Joy and Rachel said he did.
13 In about 1997, Mr Cox said it was 1996, Nikolas threatened him with a kitchen knife saying that he was going to kill him. Mr Cox reported the incident to the police. There followed a six-month period during which Mr Cox did not sleep at Wallsend and Mrs Joy did not sleep at Whitebridge. She said they continued a sexual relationship during this period. Mr Cox denied it. When the relationship resumed, Mr Cox said he would not have Nikolas in his house.
14 Mrs Joy said that Mr Cox told her he did not want to live in her house. He did not want to be anybody's father. He said he did not want to live with Nikolas. He did not like having meals with Nikolas, but Mrs Joy said he still did so. Because of his concern over Nikolas, Mr Cox said he usually arrived after Mrs Joy and the children had finished their evening meal. Mrs Joy accepted that Mr Cox said he did not want Nikolas as part of his family, and at times he said he did not want Nikolas anywhere near his house. Mr Cox did not financially support any of Mrs Joy's children, nor did he give them any gifts.
15 Rachel supported her mother's evidence that from September 1989 her mother and Mr Cox shared her bedroom during the week at Wallsend and Mr Cox's bedroom at Whitebridge during weekends. Both she and Mrs Joy had said that Mr Cox ate with them at Wallsend every night. In cross-examination it transpired that Mr Cox ate at a rugby league club once a week and took Mrs Joy to the league club on another night during the week.
16 When they went out together, Mr Cox paid. He attended social functions with Mrs Joy. He took her on holidays for which he paid. He attended Christmas functions and other family picnics in which Mrs Joy's relatives were involved. He gave her gifts of jewellery.
17 Early in the relationship Mr Cox paid for skiing trip with Mrs Joy and Nikolas. Subsequently he took Mrs Joy, Rachel and Nikolas on a camping holiday in the Snowy Mountains after which he said he would not take Nikolas on another holiday because of his behaviour. In 1992 he paid for Mrs Joy to accompany him on a one to two week holiday in Singapore. He paid for a holiday in New Zealand in 1998. He paid for annual skiing trips with Mrs Joy. After he returned to Australia from China in June 2000, Mr Cox paid for a driving holiday with Mrs Joy in North Queensland, a skiing holiday in Perisher and a skiing holiday with Mrs Joy and Rachel in 2002. He did not pay for Rachel. Mrs Joy did.
18 When Mrs Joy visited Mr Cox in China, he paid for trips to Hong Kong, Beijing and Xian as well as local excursions to Shanghai and adjacent cities. In 2002 Mr Cox paid for Mrs Joy to accompany him on a holiday to the United States of America.
19 Mrs Joy said she regarded Mr Cox as her partner during this period but she made no mention of a de facto relationship in her income tax returns or in her applications to the Department of Social Security for a child disability allowance and she referred to Mr Cox as her boyfriend in a statement to police following an accident.
20 Of the statement to the police, Mrs Joy said that in consequence of the accident she did not know what she was saying. Of the income tax returns, she said Mr Cox prepared them for her. Mr Cox did not include an acknowledgement of himself as a de facto partner in the income tax returns he prepared for Mrs Joy in the period in which he admitted that a de facto relationship existed.
21 Mrs Joy paid the mortgage, rates and outgoings on her Wallsend property and Mr Cox paid the outgoings on his Whitebridge property.
22 At no time did Mrs Joy and Mr Cox conduct a joint bank account. Mr Cox made Mrs Joy a signatory on his Visa card. He said this was because Mrs Joy complained that Nikolas was stealing money from her purse. Mrs Joy gave Mr Cox authority to operate on her accounts. Mr Cox maintained a ledger indicating the nature of each Visa transaction and the Visa card charges were paid by transfers of money from his account and from Mrs Joy's account under his authority to operate upon her accounts so that each of them paid for their respective charges to the card.
23 At no time did the parties acquire property, real or personal together nor did they borrow moneys together, nor give security for one another.
24 In 2003, Mrs Joy and Mr Cox each purchased in their own names, off-plan, adjoining units in Newcastle West.
25 There was one occasion when Mr Cox said Mrs Joy requested a loan from him of $2,590 to pay for kitchen cupboards at the Wallsend house. The builder did not take visa cards. Mr Cox says the amount has not been repaid.
26 When Mr Cox went to China, Mrs Joy, Rachel and Nikolas moved into Mr Cox's house and the Wallsend property was leased out. Mrs Joy did not share the rent with Mr Cox but kept it for herself. She did not pay Mr Cox any rent for living in the Whitebridge property but looked after the upkeep of the premises. Mr Cox objected to Nikolas being in his house but he had nowhere else to live. When Mrs Joy visited Mr Cox in China, Rachel looked after Nikolas.
27 Mr Cox returned from China on a couple of occasions when he lived in his house with Mrs Joy and Rachel. He was concerned that Nikolas was also living there. Nikolas was again aggressive towards Mr Cox and he again said he did not want Nikolas living in his house. On his return from China in December 1999 for a Christmas break, he told Nikolas to get out. Centrelink allowance and accommodation was found for Nikolas in Hamilton.
28 When Mr Cox finally returned from China he lived with Mrs Joy in his home at Whitebridge in a de facto relationship. Rachel was then the only child of Mrs Joy who lived in Mr Cox's house. Mr Cox and Mrs Joy shared the outgoings on the house, shared the cost of food and utilities and shared the cost of some house purchases. They shared household tasks such as cleaning, washing and ironing and shared cleaning of the house. They also shared the one motor vehicle, the expenses of which were shared.
29 In the period from 1989 to 2003 Mr Cox assisted in painting or repairing the Wallsend property and Mrs Joy assisted in cleaning, repairing or painting rental properties owned by Mr Cox.
30 During the relationship Mrs Joy did not work, except for a period when she worked at the office where Mr Cox worked. She was in receipt of a pension as a result of her husband's death.
31 A friend, Julie Ann Harvey gave evidence of observing affectionate behaviour between Mrs Joy and Mr Cox and observing Mr Cox striking Nikolas on a number of occasions.
32 Mr Cox's son, Jason Oliver Cox, gave evidence that when he visited his father's house at Whitebridge the internal furnishings and carpet had not changed. They were the same as when his parents parted. He was never aware of any furniture of Mrs Joy being in the house. He returned to Newcastle in 1996 and visited his father at his Whitebridge home. He said he rarely saw Mrs Joy at the property during his visits. His visits were usually at the weekend. After his father's return from China, he saw Mrs Joy and, sometimes, Rachel at his father's house. He did, however, attend a picnic at which his father and Mrs Joy were present.
33 Mr Cox's daughter, Lisa Michelle Cox, gave evidence. She lived overseas from 1996 to 2000. She, too, said that when she visited the Whitebridge home, furniture and fittings were largely the same as they had been when she left in 1984. In 1993, Ms Cox graduated from Newcastle University and stayed in her father's house after the ceremony. She said she did not observe anything that suggested that anyone other than her father lived there. When her father returned from China and she visited the house, she saw Mrs Joy. In cross-examination, she agreed that in the period from 1993 to 1996 when she visited the Whitebridge property Mrs Joy was present on some occasions.