In considering whether to award exemplary damages, the first, if not the principal, focus of the inquiry is upon the wrong doer, not upon the party who was wronged. (The reaction of the party who was wronged to high-handed or deliberate conduct may well be a reason for awarding aggravated damages in further compensation for the wrong done. But it is not ordinarily relevant to whether exemplary damages should be allowed). The party wronged is entitled to whatever compensatory damages the law allows (including, if appropriate, aggravated damages). By hypothesis then, the party wronged will receive just compensation for the wrong that is suffered. If exemplary damages are awarded, they will be paid in addition to compensatory damages and, in that sense, will be a windfall in the hands of the party who was wronged. Nevertheless, they are awarded at the suit of that party and, although awarded to punish the wrong-doer and deter other from like conduct, they are not exacted by the State or paid to it.[9]