Dimos v Burndred
[2024] NSWSC 434
At a glance
Source factsCourt
Supreme Court of NSW
Decision date
2024-04-17
Before
Peden J, Powell J
Source
Original judgment source is linked above.
Judgment (13 paragraphs)
EX TEMPORE Judgment (revised)
- This is a dispute between two siblings over the distribution of the estate of their late mother, Stamatia Dimos (Mrs Dimos), who died on 18 February 2022, aged 92 years.
- As explained further below, by will dated 18 March 2008, Mrs Dimos left an estate, currently valued at approximately $1,018,580.45, in equal shares to her three children, Christine Burndred, the defendant and executrix of the estate, Anthony Dimos, the plaintiff, and Sylvia Caruso (Will). I refer to each of them using their first names, meaning no disrespect.
- The primary issue in dispute is whether Anthony owes Christine money, because their mother's bequest to Anthony is expressed with a proviso: …if at the date of my death my son ANTHONY DIMOS has not repaid to my daughter CHRISTINE KAARD all money that she loaned to him ("Loan Amount") then I DIRECT that ANTHONY DIMOS's share pursuant to this clause be reduced by the Loan Amount and my daughter CHRISTINE KAARD's share is increased by the Loan Amount to reflect the repayment of the debt.
- Christine claims that in 2004 she loaned Anthony $198,150. Anthony claims that money was a gift. Anthony also claims that there is inadequate provision in the Will for his proper maintenance, education or advancement in life. Christine denies Anthony is entitled to any further provision, including because of her relative financial position.
- Despite the voluminous evidence filed, I will not descend into the minutiae of the comparative relationships each of the siblings had with their late mother. I accept that each of the children had a loving and close relationship with their mother and did what they personally considered the best for her in their circumstances and hers as her mental and physical health declined.
- However, unfortunately, this is a case in which hostility between the parties appears entrenched. In Tarbes v Taleb [2023] NSWSC 565 (Tarbes v Taleb) at [75], Meek J recently stated (citations omitted): Whilst conduct and family relationships may, in some cases, have relevance to the outcome in family provision cases the Court disapproves of attempts by litigants in such cases to blacken each other's character. Allegations and counter-allegations about incidents that occurred years before the deceased's death are, generally, unlikely to advance either party's case, and when it is sought to support them by lengthy affidavits in chief, which prompt equally lengthy affidavits in reply, they may merely deepen rifts in the family, dishonour the memory of the deceased and unnecessarily prolong the litigation …