Consistent with this state of affairs she had had the house at Mayfield transferred into her sole name on 25 February 1959.
16 On 16 September 1961, four days after the decree nisi became absolute, the deceased married Stanser Atkins the plaintiff's father.
17 In 1966 the plaintiff's mother died. In 1980 the plaintiff divorced her husband Henry Thirkell. Her ex-husband transferred the title of their property in Atkinson Street, Birmingham Gardens to the plaintiff in 1981.
18 In 1987 the plaintiff had a short relationship with Colon Phee.
19 In January 2003, Stanser Atkins died. The plaintiff would assist in taking the deceased to medical appointments before her father died. After her father's death she continued her frequent contact with the deceased, which still included taking her to medical appointments. As the deceased's health deteriorated the plaintiff prepared meals for the deceased's son, Graham Cox, who needed his evening meal prepared due to his disability. In 2006 Graham was placed in a community hostel when the deceased was unable to care for him.
Eligibility
20 The plaintiff claims to be an eligible person as she alleged she was a member of the household of the deceased and that she was partly dependent on her.
21 The relevant period in which the plaintiff says she was part of the household was the time she says she lived with the deceased before she married Henry Thirkell in 1959. There is no doubt that she lived in the same house as the deceased for the period from 1952 when she and her father, Stanser, lived at Stockton with the deceased.
22 Whether the plaintiff was part of the household at Stockton may also depend upon the way the plaintiff was treated in the home. I refer later to the fact that there is some evidence that Stanser paid board to the deceased. This raises the question of whether, as a boarder, he and his children were not part of the deceased's household.
23 The defendant points to the decision of Needham J in Maloney v Goodwin (Supreme Court of New South Wales, 1 August 1989, Needham J, unreported) as implicitly stating that a mere boarder would not be "of the household." His Honour's comments were summarised by Young J in Nagatomi v Hudson (Supreme Court of New South Wales, 18 September 1997, Young J, unreported):
"There have been judicial observations on the meaning of the word "household" over the last ten years. In Moloney v Goodwin Needham J - 1 August 1989, unreported, the case involved a man and woman who lived in the same house as companions though had no sexual relationship. The question was whether the deceased was a member of the household or a boarder. Needham, J said, "It was said that a family type unit is a necessary ingredient in the concept of a household. I think this is to some degree a borderline case, and I think the question of whether a household exists is perhaps a question of degree ... However, ... once the plaintiff commenced to look after the deceased in the manner in which he did, it could hardly be said that he was not a member of her household. He acted in supporting her at that time as a husband or brother, or son perhaps, would have done, and I think the care which he contributed to her well being certainly constituted him a member of her household."
24 Given that at least meals were provided by the deceased, I think it is appropriate to conclude that while the plaintiff was at Stockton she was part of the deceased's household.
25 There was debate as to whether she lived in the houses at Wickham and Mayfield from 1957 until she married in 1959.
26 The plaintiff and the defendant gave different accounts in their affidavit evidence. The plaintiff, who was born in May 1940, says she lived at Stockton, Wickham and Mayfield. She concedes that while she was living at Stockton she attended Wickham Girls High where she began having fainting spells. She says she then went to Maison Dieu for twelve months while she recuperated. She says she then returned from Maison Dieu to Wickham and then to Mayfield.
27 The deceased's son, Paul Cox, who was born in September 1947, gave evidence that the plaintiff did not come to reside at Wickham or Mayfield. There is no doubt that for the relevant period he lived at the homes at Wickham and Mayfield.
28 The plaintiff's brother, Brian Atkins, gave clear affidavit evidence that the plaintiff left Stockton to go to Maison Dieu and that after going to Maison Dieu, the plaintiff returned to live with her fiancée, Henry Thirkell, in a flat at Lambton. He said that he never saw the plaintiff or her possessions at Wickham which he described as a "dog box" and he visited Mayfield every two weeks where he saw no evidence of her possessions. He said the plaintiff was not living at that house. He was a year older than the plaintiff. It was demonstrated in cross-examination that his observations of Wickham were only in the daytime when the plaintiff may have been at school or at work. The title searches show that Stockton was sold on 17 January 1957 and Mayfield purchased on 23 August 1957. Therefore the family's occupation of Wickham would only have been seven months. This is less than the nine months the plaintiff spent at Maison Dieu. However, the precise time when the plaintiff left Stockton is not made clear in the evidence.
29 It became clear from cross-examination of the plaintiff that she had difficulty in putting dates to the events which happened many years ago. In respect of Wickham the plaintiff's memory was confused as to the hot water supply for the shower at the property. She thought it was a gas supply while Paul clearly recalled it was a wood chip heater which made "pop pop" sounds. The plaintiff does not remember it being a wood chip heater which is unusual.
30 Although this case does not depend solely on the plaintiff's evidence I bear in mind what was said by Bryson AJ in Zahra v Francica [2009] NSWSC 1206 for the need to carefully scrutinise the evidence where a plaintiff alleges facts that depend for proof very largely on the plaintiff's own evidence:
"[1] In these proceedings the plaintiff makes claims against the deceased's estate and the facts that he alleges depend for proof very largely upon his own evidence. In approaching his evidence and making findings on a matter he alleges, I bear in mind the need for careful scrutiny to which evidence in such a case should be subjected. This need is well established and was stated clearly by Isaacs J in Plunkett v Bull (1915) 19 CLR 544. Two more modern statements appear in the judgment of McLelland CJ in Eq in Eyota Pty Ltd v Hanave Pty Ltd (1994) 12 ACSR 785 at 789 in a passage which was cited with approval in the judgment of Sheller JA in Eggins v Robinson (2000) NSWCA 61 at [26]: