[4] Being able to telephone or text others in the expectation that the message you wish to convey will become known to them almost instantaneously is, no doubt, mostly very convenient. But the irretrievable text message, written in anger and sent with a hasty press of the send command, can have a distinct downside, as this case shows. Seeing text or e-mail messages in evidence in a variety of matters, as judges do, tends to confirm that the temptation, when angry, to say impersonally by text what might not be said in a person to person conversation is easy to succumb to. Since there is an accurate record of the contents of the message, the words alleged to contravene s 474.17(1) are easily provable. Therefore, writing in haste and regretting at leisure seems to be a by-product of the technology, unlike the situation, in times gone by, where communications were conducted in a more leisurely and deliberate way and there was necessarily time, before posting a letter, to reflect and tear it up once commonsense had reasserted control.