THE TRIBUNAL'S DECISION
6 It was common ground before the Tribunal that all but one of the conditions referred to in s 4(2)(b) were met in relation to a relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Michel Kuhl (Mr Kuhl). The issue before the Tribunal was whether or not the relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl was a marriage-like relationship. The opinion of the Tribunal, the relevant decision maker in relation to this appeal, was that their relationship was a marriage‑like relationship. Accordingly, it followed that, for the purposes of the Social Security Act, Ms Pelka was a member of a couple. In forming that opinion about the relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl, the Tribunal had regard to a number of circumstances of their relationship.
7 In its reasons, the Tribunal referred expressly to the matters and associated factors specified in s 4(3) of the Social Security Act. It dealt with the financial aspects of the relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl, the nature of their household and the social aspects of their relationship. No complaint is made about the treatment and findings in respect of those matters. Next, the Tribunal dealt with the question of whether there was any sexual relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl. Finally, the Tribunal addressed the nature of their commitment to each other. Ms Pelka complains about the way in which the Tribunal dealt with the last two matters.
8 The Tribunal found that Ms Pelka first met Mr Kuhl at a party in 1985. On 21 June 1988, Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl departed Australia together and returned to Australia together on 2 July 1988. They subsequently had twelve overseas holidays together between 1992 and 2001. In 1988, Ms Pelka purchased a two bedroom home unit where Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl both lived from 1988 until September 2004. On 7 July 1989, Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl opened a joint account with Home Building Society. On 24 September 2004, Mr Kuhl became the sole holder of that account and Ms Pelka was named as a third party signatory.
9 Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl gave evidence that there never had been a sexual relationship between them. Further, the Tribunal said that there was no evidence that contradicted that evidence or on the basis of which the Tribunal could find that there had ever been a sexual relationship between them. However, there were various aspects of the evidence of Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl that the Tribunal considered were unsatisfactory.
10 The most important unsatisfactory aspect of their evidence was the evidence in relation to the joint account with Home Building Society. There was also variation and inconsistency in Ms Pelka's evidence and Mr Kuhl's evidence concerning the circumstances in which Mr Kuhl moved into the home unit. Another aspect about which the Tribunal had serious reservations was the evidence regarding the interpersonal relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl.
11 The Tribunal considered that Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl appeared to be at pains to minimise their relationship as much as possible and to be evasive and not forthcoming in giving their evidence in cross-examination. The Tribunal considered that their evidence was, in important respects, inconsistent and lacking in candour. Accordingly, the Tribunal considered that it was appropriate, in forming an opinion about the nature of the relationship between them during the Relevant Period, to place greater reliance on the objective evidence than on the evidence given by Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl themselves.
12 The Tribunal considered that the financial aspects of the relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl did not point strongly either towards or against the existence of a marriage-like relationship. Although there was apparently a high degree of financial independence between them, there was also a substantial degree of financial cooperation between them.
13 In relation to the nature of their household, the Tribunal considered that the relevant factors, on balance, probably pointed against the existence of a marriage-like relationship, but not strongly. Those factors included their evidence that, while they shared the use of the lounge room, kitchen and bathroom and of the furniture in those rooms, they slept in separate bedrooms, did their own cooking and washing and cleaning of their own bedrooms.
14 In considering the social aspects of the relationship, the Tribunal referred first to objective evidence pointing towards the existence of a marriage-like relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl as follows:
· Information provided by various employers indicating that Mr Kuhl described his marital status to them as "de facto" and referred to Ms Pelka as his "de facto" or "partner".
· Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl departed Australia on the same flight on thirteen occasions between 1988 and 2001, including two occasions during the Relevant Period, and returned to Australia on the same flight on eleven occasions between 1988 and 2001, including one occasion during the Relevant Period.
15 The Tribunal then referred to evidence pointing away from a marriage-like relationship, being the evidence of Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl to the effect that they did not present as a couple to members of their respective families or engage in social or leisure activities together, apart from an occasional outing to the cinema and their overseas holidays. In particular, Ms Pelka said that she never introduced Mr Kuhl to her mother when they visited Singapore, where her mother lives, because he does not speak Chinese and her mother does not speak English. However, the Tribunal found it difficult to accept that Ms Pelka would not have introduced to her mother, during such a visit, a man with whom she said in her evidence she had formed a "god sister/god brother" relationship and developed a close "spiritual" bond. The Tribunal found Ms Pelka's reason for not introducing Mr Kuhl unconvincing.
16 The Tribunal concluded, in relation to the social aspects of the relationship, that the objective evidence pointing towards a marriage like-relationship was not outweighed by the oral evidence given by Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl. That evidence was not corroborated by any independent third party or supported by any other objective evidence.
17 The Tribunal then considered the question of any sexual relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl. The Tribunal observed that, if it be the fact that there never has been a sexual relationship between them, that would clearly militate against the existence of a marriage-like relationship between them. While there was no evidence before the Tribunal that disproved the assertion, the Tribunal was not prepared to accept unreservedly the evidence of Ms Pelka and of Mr Kuhl that they never had a sexual relationship. Rather, the Tribunal preferred not to make a finding in relation to that matter and treated it as neutral for the purpose of determining whether or not a marriage-like relationship existed during the Relevant Period.
18 Finally, the Tribunal had regard to the objective evidence as to whether during the Relevant Period there was a mutual commitment between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl of a nature indicative of the existence of a marriage-like relationship. In that regard, the Tribunal referred to the following:
· Their residing together in the home unit for approximately sixteen years from 1988 to 2004.
· Their travelling overseas together on thirteen occasions between 1988 and 2001.
· Mr Kuhl's nominating Ms Pelka as the beneficiary of his estate under his will and for the purposes of his superannuation and life insurance.
· Mr Kuhl's describing Ms Pelka as his "de facto" or "partner" in documents completed by him in relation to employment and superannuation during the Relevant Period.
19 The Tribunal found it difficult to accept the evidence of Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl that they never discussed with each other their personal lives or other personal matters, such as their employment, and that they never confided in each other. The Tribunal considered that that was inconsistent with the long standing relationship that existed between them, which the Tribunal was satisfied was characterised by mutual affection, trust and respect. The Tribunal found it very difficult to accept their evidence to the effect that they would not provide help and support to each other in time of need to any greater extent than they would to any other person in similar circumstances.
20 The Tribunal was satisfied that Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl would have provided to each other physical and emotional support commensurate with the close and special bond that, according to their own evidence, existed between them from 1988, at the latest. The Tribunal was satisfied that prior to and during the Relevant Period, Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl displayed a special commitment to each other, both physically and emotionally, that was qualitatively different from the commitment that each of them had to any other person. The Tribunal was also satisfied that, for the duration of the Relevant Period, Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl had no desire to change their existing living arrangements and that their commitment to each other militated strongly in favour of the existence of a marriage-like relationship during the Relevant Period.
21 Having had regard to the interpersonal relationship between Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl as a whole and after referring to the matters and factors specified in s 4(3) of the Social Security Act, the Tribunal was satisfied that the true nature and character of that interpersonal relationship during the Relevant Period was that of a marriage-like relationship. While some factors pointed against a marriage-like relationship and others pointed towards a marriage‑like relationship, the Tribunal considered that the nature and degree of the commitment of Ms Pelka and Mr Kuhl to each other prior to and during the Relevant Period tipped the balance in favour of the existence of a marriage-like relationship between them for the whole of the Relevant Period.