77 I consider that Dr Myers deliberately ignored or refused to consider the wishes or concerns of other family members or to acknowledge their relevance or importance in making decisions in relation to Mr A and Mrs A. I consider that his conduct was destructive of family relationships in that he interposed himself between Mr A and Mrs A as the sole conduit of their wishes and the sole arbiter of their best interests to the exclusion of family members concerned with their wellbeing who had been, prior to Dr Myers' intervention, the constellation which provided the necessary support to them at home. Dr Myers took a position that the only family he needed to consider were the patients he was treating, and then acted in relation to those patients as though he were their advocate, agent, friend, or devoted family member. He treated the other family members, particularly Mrs B, as though they did not have the best interests of Mr A and Mrs A at heart, but as adversaries. This was also destructive of the family relationships involved in that it introduced tension, contention and disagreement into many aspects of their treatment and care which might have been avoided through a more insightful, respectful and collaborative approach from Dr Myers. On the material before me, I consider Dr Myers' approach to the family of Mrs A and Mr A was dismissive, hostile, and arrogant. He portrayed himself as the agent, protector, friend, family substitute, and doctor of Mr A and Mrs A to the complete exclusion of the family. His evidence was to the effect that the only "family" he was concerned with were his two patients, and he had no need to consider anybody else in taking the actions he took in his various roles to do what he felt was necessary.