Q. It's something that medical practitioners are very aware of because sexual relationships with patients can give rise to very great difficulties. A. Yes.
69 Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai disputed that this elementary requirement of professional ethics applied to him, but did not give any clear reason for disputing it. Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence showed that he also engaged in sexual intercourse with Ms Viola Yakovleva at a time when she was a patient. His unethical behaviour is adverse to his credibility. It also has a part in the interpretation of the nature of his relationship with Mrs Eveline Hillston, as it shows that he did not treat her with the respect appropriate in a sincere relationship by observing ethical standards. In a sincere relationship based on respect it would be expected that a medical practitioner would, if he engaged in a sexual relationship with a patient at all, cease to act as her medical advisor, and would give his former patient the advantage of objective medical advice and treatment from some other source not complicated by emotional involvement.
70 In my evaluation, Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai exhibited extremely unsatisfactory demeanour as a witness. As a witness he was markedly an opportunist. It was extremely difficult, on occasions, to bring him to address directly questions which were important; however he did not have corresponding difficulty in bringing his mind and expression to bear on matters which he perceived to be of assistance to his case. He often gave what were nominally answers which in fact were unresponsive, or instead of answering a question launched into what would perhaps, if the question had been answered, have been an excuse or explanation for an answer adverse to him. He often obtruded references to grievances, including altogether improbable grievances, into answers when the grievances had little or no relation to the matter in hand.
71 I do not believe that Mr Bar-Mordecai is in truth a person whom fate and malignity have exposed to an astonishing number of improbable circumstances, lies and hostilities. When he has given unsupported evidence of something which is improbable my view is that I should not accept his evidence. In addressing allegations the evidence for which is solely or substantially evidence of Mr Bar-Mordecai alone I am unable to find facts on the basis that his evidence is in any way reliable. Written records made by him are also unreliable. It is no use attempting to weigh up degrees of probability and improbability and attempting to assess how much improbability is too much; his evidence is simply unreliable. I do not see any relevant limits to what he would be prepared to say, or to what he would be prepared to accuse somebody else of doing. He would say anything. Some things he has asserted seem like fantasies from the travels of Baron Munchausen. Perhaps some of these are true, but there is no way of concluding that they probably are true. I do not regard any of his evidence as reliable. It is not even appropriate to treat his evidence as reliable when it was or seemed to be adverse to his own interest, as he had no real perception of what his interest was, and sometimes strongly maintained positions adverse to his apparent interest. Except where his evidence accords with something which is otherwise well established, for example by admissions in pleadings or by contemporaneous records which can be regarded as having an objective source or by witnesses who can be treated as reliable, little of what he has himself stated in evidence can be acted on.
72 Eveline Hillston's Ability and Property. Mrs Eveline Hillston was a person of intelligence and extensive life experience, including business experience. She was born and educated in Romania. She studied medicine for one year, then studied law for three years and qualified as a lawyer in Romania. On 28 June 1933 she married Mr Jack Hillston, who was some years her senior and was an engineer or senior executive in the oil industry. They migrated to Australia in 1939; he served in the Australian Armed Forces in the Second World War and suffered some injury as a result of which he received a service pension; and after his death Mrs Eveline Hillston received a War Widow's Pension, which was not subject to taxation. After 1945 Mr Jack Hillston engaged in various business ventures and activities. At some time Mrs Eveline Hillston established a beauty salon and conducted that business with success for many years; she sold the business in 1982 to a person who had been associated with her in that business, with whom she remained on good terms. Her many years of business success attest to her capacity and understanding of affairs.
73 Mr Bar-Mordecai frequently referred, in evidence and submissions, to Mrs Eveline Hillston's having been a lawyer. The reference is to her having studied law in Romania and having qualified as a lawyer at some time about 1932. This is not a basis for the view that she had any knowledge of the law in Australia, or any understanding of its workings. Her history of successful studies confirms many other indications that she was a person of intelligence and ability.
74 By 1983 Mrs Eveline Hillston had accumulated significant property of her own, as well as property which she inherited from her husband. In the view of Mrs Connell, who had the opportunity to know her well, particularly from 1988 onwards, Mrs Eveline Hillston was quite an astute businesswoman, successful and intelligent and clear thinking. Mr Selinger who was her accountant for some years regarded her as an astute businesswoman and intelligent, with definite ideas. In the appraisal of Mr Freeman, a solicitor who acted for her in several matters, she was a very proper, regal and attractive woman, well groomed, cultured, of strong intellect and strong personality, and she appeared to understand her own financial position very well and to discuss Mr Freeman's advice in a way which suggested full comprehension. A number of other witnesses speak of her as an intelligent person. Mrs Hillston travelled overseas without Mr Bar-Mordecai, to Israel in or about 1984, and to Greece and perhaps elsewhere in 1989.
75 So far as the evidence shows, Mrs Eveline Hillston's resources in August 1983 were these. She inherited all her late husband's property, the value of which for the probate application was said to be $288,584.00. She owned the home unit at 1/6 Mount Street Randwick in which she and her husband lived for many years; it seems that she inherited half of the private company shares which represented title to this unit from her husband, their probate valuation being $40,000, and that she already owned the other half. She inherited some shares in listed companies and Savings Bonds from her husband. She had small sums in bank accounts. She owned a residential property at 5 Tingara Place Forestville from which she received rent; the value of the property and the amount of rent do not appear. Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence is that it was subject to a mortgage for $30,000 to $40,000 which was discharged about 1984. She sold her beauty salon in 1982, Mr Bar-Mordecai says for $120,000; it does not appear in what form proceeds of this sale were represented in August 1983. Mr Bar-Mordecai gave evidence that Mrs Eveline Hillston held bearer bonds; the amount of the bonds, their value and interest on them do not appear. Mr Bar-Mordecai gave evidence that she had over $130,000 in cash in her home unit. She received a Veterans Affairs Pension as a War Widow and it was free of income tax. There is a suggestion that she may have had some cash or valuables in a safe deposit box in the ANZ Bank at the corner of Pitt and Hunter Streets Sydney, but this is no more than a suggestion and the amount involved, if there was any, is not known.
76 At the end of 1988 and about the time of the contract to purchase the house at Eastbourne Avenue, Mrs Eveline Hillston's property appears to have been the following. She owned the unit at 1/6 Mount Street and the investment property at Forestville and they were not encumbered. She held bonds, the value of which is said by Mr Bar-Mordecai in evidence to be about $400,000, which she sold for the purposes of the purchase (t.1199). She had money on deposit in one or more banks, which included $114,742.76 in the Australian New Zealand Savings Bank Limited at Pitt and Hunter Streets - Exhibit CJ. She no longer had any shares. She continued to receive a Veterans Affairs pension. She was owed most of the principal of $250,000 on the mortgage over the surgery and the unsecured balance of $110,000 by Mr Bar-Mordecai, and she received instalments under the mortgage. Her then sources of income appear to have been the investment property at Forestville, interest on money on deposit, mortgage interest and the Veterans Affairs pension.
77 The purchase of the Eastbourne Avenue property used up the capital resources which until then had been Mrs Eveline Hillston's main sources of income. The Eastbourne Avenue property was itself a source of rental income for her for part of the time until she went to live in it on 1 February 1991, when the Mount Street apartment became a source of income. By that time she was no longer effectively receiving mortgage interest. The whole series of transactions very greatly reduced the income available in money to her, and greatly reduced the possibility of her acting in economic independence of Mr Bar-Mordecai.
78 The impact of the donations on Mrs Eveline Hillston's income is illustrated by comparison of Exhibit CG which contains her income tax return for the year ended 30 June 1987 with Exhibit AS the income tax return for the year ending 30 June 1994 taken with Exhibit AR Mr Bentwich's notes. Her income for 1987 was returned at $60826 and her income for the year to date of death 25 June 1994 was returned (by Mr Bar-Mordecai) at $8,764. Large recognisable elements in the comparison include loss of rent on Forestville and on the surgery and gain of rent on the Mount Street apartment; net rental income in the 1987 return was $20,109 but in the 1994 return $8,977. Interest income mainly on savings bonds and bank deposits was $40,713 in 1987 and the negligible sum of $137 in 1994.
79 Some Details of Events. Mrs Eveline Hillston met Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai in or about 1979 when he was practising medicine in Clovelly Road, Clovelly and she asked him to attend on her husband. He then became her husband's usual general practitioner and medical attendant; Mr Jack Hillston also had specialist treatment and for long periods had hospital treatment. During these periods Mr Bar-Mordecai sometimes treated Mrs Eveline Hillston, but was not her only medical attendant. In the last months of Mr Jack Hillston's life, when he suffered from a stroke and was unable to communicate, Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai assisted Mrs Eveline Hillston in a number of ways, particularly in assisting her to visit her husband who was at times in hospital at Turramurra many miles from her usual dwelling. Mr Jack Hillston died on 4 August 1983.
80 In and possibly before 1982 and 1983 Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai was engaged in litigation in the Family Court against his wife, from whom he was divorced on 11 March 1983. There were disputes about custody of and access to their two daughters. This litigation was largely resolved by August 1983, although there were some later applications to the Family Court.
81 Mr Bar-Mordecai moved in to Mrs Eveline Hillston's flat at 1/6 Mount Street Clovelly and lived there as his residence until 1 February 1991, when he and Mrs Eveline Hillston took up residence at 30 Eastbourne Ave Clovelly. Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence on the events in which he took up residence and moved his personal belongings to the apartment was challenged. In a statement recorded on videotape Mrs Hillston put the time of his moving in as the end of 1983 or the beginning of 1984, and described a gradual process leading to his living in the Mount Street unit a few months after Mr Jack Hillston's death. I regard it as clear from the evidence of his mother and of his brother that this process took place over several months and was not completed in August 1983. Mr Bar-Mordecai overstated the position by claiming in evidence that he lived there from 23 August 1983. The exact time when the apartment became his residence is not very important in the issues overall.
82 On 9 September 1983 Mrs Eveline Hillston entered into a contract to purchase the land and dwelling at 212 Clovelly Road Clovelly, referred to as the surgery, from Lendala Pty Ltd for $245,000. Mr Hume, a solicitor who had earlier conducted some legal business for Mr Bar-Mordecai, acted for Mrs Hillston: Mr Bar-Mordecai suggested to her that Mr Hume act for her. The purchase was completed on 4 November 1983. Mrs Eveline Hillston paid all the purchase money for the purchase of the surgery. She raised part of the price by mortgaging the surgery to Westpac. It seems rather strange that if Mrs Hillston had $130,000 in cash in her apartment, she would decide, on whatever persuasion, to borrow money from a bank to buy the surgery, and act at least partly on Mr Bar-Mordecai's advice to give the $130,000 away, at least to the extent of giving some of it to him. It is very unlikely that what I have been told is a complete narration. She paid out the mortgage in or by November 1985, using proceeds of sale of shares. Mr Bar-Mordecai did not bear any part of the purchase price.
83 The surgery was close to the Mount Street unit and to the building in which Mr Bar-Mordecai theretofore conducted his medical practice. For some time, perhaps some years, he had wished to purchase 212 Clovelly Road himself but he had been unable to do so; his wish had been defeated by rises in the price quoted by the then owners. On 9 September 1983, the same day as she agreed to buy it, Mrs Eveline Hillston let the surgery to Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai for use as a surgery in a commercial lease which granted him a 16-year term and an option for a further 3 years. The lease was very advantageous to him, in that there was no provision for revision of the amount of the rent and no provision for him to make any contribution to increases in outgoings. The lease was not in registrable form and was not registered, but operated as an equitable lease, and Mr Bar-Mordecai's occupation under the lease was never challenged. He actually took possession on 15 September 1983; that is, before Mrs Eveline Hillston had completed the purchase and paid the purchase price. The unguarded speed with which she entered into legal obligations to him before she had completed the purchase would have complicated her difficulties if for any reason she had been unable to complete the purchase. As well as paying the purchase price from her own resources and borrowings she paid $6000 for a desk, air-conditioning and carpets. Mr Bar-Mordecai was liable to her for rent but at times large arrears built up; his affidavit of 27 February 1984 in his Family Court proceedings (Exhibit AH confidential) shows that he then owed Mrs Hillston $6219.18 for arrears of rent from 15 September 1983 to 28 February 1984. The building was formerly a dwelling house. Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence was that it was not equipped for convenient occupation as a dwelling. He in fact conducted his medical practice there until his name was removed from the Register in the year 2000.
84 On 4 April 1986 Mr Bar-Mordecai made a videotape, about 20 minutes long, part of Exhibit 22, in which Mrs Eveline Hillston made a number of statements and musings about the nature of their relationship, its history and her feelings. This takes the form of a question-and-answer interview, although Mr Bar-Mordecai's questions are not always distinctly audible. The 1986 videotape and statements made by Mrs Eveline Hillston in it make it clear and it should be found that there was a sexual element in their relationship and that, at least at the time when the videotape was made, it was quite intense. I deal further with the videotapes later in these reasons.
85 The evidence shows a conflict about what bedroom accommodation Mr Bar-Mordecai usually used in the apartment at Mount Street. In my finding Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai sometimes slept with Mrs Eveline Hillston in the main bedroom, and had sexual intercourse with her there. It is however disputed whether, as Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence would show, he usually shared the main bedroom with her as his sleeping accommodation, or whether he usually used the second bedroom in that apartment. Evidence dealt with the sleeping accommodation used by relatives when staying in flat on visits, the sleeping accommodation used by Mr Bar-Mordecai's two daughters while staying there on access visits, and the sleeping accommodation used by Mr Bar-Mordecai when there were other persons in the apartment.
86 Late in 1985 Mr Bar-Mordecai left the apartment and lived, for a period of about a month, with Dr Lucy Ballin, Medical Practitioner whom he had known for some years. After about one month he left Dr Ballin and returned to live in Mrs Eveline Hillston's apartment. These events would have brought an end to any previous de facto relationship between Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Eveline Hillston; however they are not inconsistent with another de facto relationship later existing between them.
87 On 21 October 1987 Mrs Eveline Hillston agreed in writing to sell the surgery to Mr Bar-Mordecai for $360,000. The transfer was completed on the same day as the contract.
88 On 30 November 1988 Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Eveline Hillston agreed to purchase the house property at 30 Eastbourne Avenue at Clovelly from Mr A.P. Maurici for $665,000. The purchase was completed on 5 December 1988, an unusually short period of time. The approach to the ANZ Bank for finance to purchase the property was made on 24 November 1988 and the bank's approval, on 7 December 1988 (curiously later than the date of the mortgage of 2 December and of settlement of the property on 5 December) approved a facility of $600,000 to be cleared by 30 January 1989. In fact however moneys remained owing under the mortgage to ANZ Bank, under later arrangements, until discharge on 18 November 1989 with payment of $325,068 proceeds of the advance from Citibank out of a credit facility of $350,000. What happened in the interim cannot be seen in all detail but broadly the debt was reduced from Mrs Eveline Hillston's resources, including the proceeds of the sale of the Forestville investment property in the first half of 1989.
89 The ANZ Banking Group Ltd mortgage was discharged in November 1989 contemporaneously with the grant by Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Eveline Hillston of the mortgage to Citibank Savings Ltd over the property at Eastbourne Avenue to secure a credit line facility; it seems that settlement took place on 23 November 1989 when the credit limit was $350,000.
90 Mr Bar-Mordecai said, in his first affidavit of 9 January 1997 paragraph 19 "I say very seldom in her life had Eveline been in debt - and therefore she was unaccustomed to paying interest to a Bank. When I instructed the Citibank clerk: 'not to bother Eveline with the rate cap interest rate, you will only muddle her' or words to that than effect, I knew that it would upset Eveline to find out we were paying 23-26% interest per year on our loan at the time." When taken to this passage in cross-examination t.1223 he said to the effect that she had been told that they were to pay 23-26% interest per year earlier. His oral evidence is plainly entirely inconsistent with the passage in the affidavit which I have set out, and I disbelieve his oral evidence on this subject because it was plainly an invention in response to advertence to disadvantages of the evidence he had earlier given on affidavit. I find that he took steps to conceal from Mrs Eveline Hillston the rate of interest for which she made herself liable when she with him entered into the Citibank mortgage.
91 Some renovations were carried out to the Eastbourne Avenue property. It was leased to two tenants successively. On 17 September 1990 Mrs Eveline Hillston received from Messrs Blessington Judd Solicitors, who had acted for her on the sale of the surgery property, the certificate of title and the original mortgage, and also her will, and gave a receipt. On the same receipt Mr Bar-Mordecai acknowledged that he had received his own will. On 1 February 1991 Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Eveline Hillston moved into the house at 30 Eastbourne Avenue. On 8 July 1993 Mrs Eveline Hillston signed a discharge of her mortgage over the surgery. The mortgage was later registered and the mortgage debt was thereby released. Mrs Eveline Hillston died on 25 June 1994.
92 At times while living in the Eastbourne Avenue house Mrs Hillston expressed a preference for living in the home unit at Mount Street, or a wish to return to live there; this was particularly clearly expressed in the course of the videotape interviews, and also appears elsewhere. However she did not ever, in a concrete way, take measures to return there. By this time rental income from Mount Street was a large part of her income. It is difficult to understand why Mrs Hillston joined in the project of purchasing a very large, and in relation to her circumstances a very expensive house near the waterfront at Clovelly at the age of 78, and committed a large part of her capital resources to acquiring it thereby greatly reducing her potential income, particularly as she sometimes later expressed discontent and a wish to live back in her home unit. Mr Bar-Mordecai said on affidavit that she moved home for his sake. (As he did so often, he attempted to retreat from this when taken to it under cross examination, but his retreat did not, in my view, diminish the force of his affidavit evidence on this subject). There were recognisable advantages for her, as the Eastbourne Avenue house was a very pleasant place in which to live, although far too large for her needs; it facilitated her entertaining house guests and providing accommodation for Mr Bar-Mordecai's staff. She cannot have had or thought she had any need for a long-term real estate investment or prospects of capital gain, having regard to her age. Her decision to purchase the Eastbourne Avenue house and to confer a valuable interest in it on Mr Bar-Mordecai should on the probabilities be attributed to prompting by him. Mrs Hillston joined with him in entering into financing commitments with ANZ Banking Group relating to the purchase. Except for bridging finance pending realisation of the proceeds of sale of her house at Forestville she had no need for finance. She spoke of the finance as a personal loan to Mr Bar-Mordecai, and once the bridging finance became unnecessary this, I find, was its true character.
93 Mr Bar-Mordecai gave a mortgage over the surgery to the Commonwealth Bank on 4 July 1991 to secure borrowings of Michael Bar-Mordecai Pty Ltd. Mrs Eveline Hillston was not a party to this transaction. The mortgage to the Commonwealth Bank over the surgery was discharged on 21 April 1995; this discharge was probably associated with the security which he gave to Citibank on 15 June 1995 over the surgery when the Eastbourne Avenue property was discharged from the Citibank mortgage.
94 The mortgage over the surgery granted in July 1991 to the Commonwealth Bank of Australia was subject to the priority of the mortgage for $250,000 to Mrs Hillston. The discharge of her mortgage enhanced Mr Bar-Mordecai's opportunity to use the surgery as security for bank finance. Mr Bar Mordecai obtained approval from the Commonwealth Bank dated 30 July 1993 (Exhibit DK) for an advance of $250,000 to him. The purpose stated was "To assist re-finance loan to Eveline Hillston" which cannot be literally correct and probably refers to a proposal to re-finance the loan by Mrs Hillston. In the account given in evidence by Mr Bar-Mordecai the project of discharging the mortgage was originated by Mrs Hillston and there was never any proposal to pay her out, or any proposal which could be thought of as re-financing the loan by her. The discharge of her mortgage in 1993 was lodged for registration by the Commonwealth Bank. The evidence did not explain in any clear way what part the Commonwealth Bank had in arrangements to obtain and later to register the discharge of mortgage.
95 I disbelieve Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence about the proposal for discharge originating from Mrs Hillston; this leaves the origin of the proposal simply without explanation. Certainly there was no evidence that she had any independent advice about discharging her mortgage. In one of his accounts of a conversation in which he said that she proposed to discharge the mortgage, it is his evidence that she said "I will also transfer the unit and my share of the house to you". I do not believe that Mrs Hillston said anything to this effect; if she had intended to do so she would have intended to part with her last substantial assets. If it really had been true that Mrs Hillston had, unprompted, decided to discharge the mortgage and to transfer her last remaining substantial assets to him, that would demonstrate a degree of abject subjection far beyond the usual range of reported cases of undue influence. In Mr Bar-Mordecai's account, the intended gift was dealt with further by looking into transferring those assets to him and discovering that there would be stamp duty, and following upon that discovery Mrs Hillston told him that she would leave a will instead. Then there was a theme in which Mr Bar-Mordecai maintained that Mrs Hillston must have made a will very late in her life, though he did not know when or where, or whether a solicitor helped her to do it or where the document may be; and he referred to the possibility that such a will has been deliberately suppressed. He claimed that Mrs Eveline Hillston gave him assurances, in 1993 (and possibly in 1994) that she had made or intended to make a new will conferring further benefits on him, or that she intended to transfer the home unit in Mount Street and her share in the Clovelly house to him. I disbelieve his evidence to these effects. This string of fables takes its place among the more fantastic of Mr Bar-Mordecai's fantastic stories, like most of them highly improbable but difficult to prove to be impossible.
96 I do not believe Mr Bar-Mordecai when he speaks of statements by Mrs Eveline Hillston to the effect that she intended or was considering giving him even further benefits or gifts, by will or in any other manner. Mrs Eveline Hillston had almost five years after she made her last will, which itself conferred quite significant benefits on Mr Bar-Mordecai, to think out and act on any intention to do even more for him, and if she had intended to do so there was no obstacle to her doing so and she would probably have acted on her intentions. Suggestions made in various ways by Mr Bar-Mordecai that even greater expectations were held out to him and that he has somehow been disappointed are in my finding untrue.
97 Evidence of Hillston Family Members. I do not understand clearly why Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence included hostile stories and invective directed against Mr Allan Hillston, Mr Alex Hillston and their mother Mrs Jane Hillston, of whom he spoke particularly severely, although the only evidence of hers in the hearing before me was affidavits which he himself tendered. It seems that he sought to paint a picture of adverse feelings of Mrs Eveline Hillston against her relatives on the view that to do so would somehow assist a conclusion that her intention to confer benefits on him was the product of her own will and not of his influence.
98 Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai attempted to show that the plaintiff Mr Allan Hillston and his brother Mr Alexander Hillston, usually called Alex and sometimes Alexi, had serious financial problems relating to the business which they conducted in Greece, and that a few months before her death Mr Allan Hillston made a demand on Mrs Eveline Hillston for a payment in the order of $600,000 as a gift or loan, which she refused. According to Mr Bar-Mordecai, Mrs Hillston told Mr Bar-Mordecai she washed Mr Allan Hillston's hair for him, an expression Mr Bar-Mordecai was unable to explain, although it seems to mean that she responded dismissively.
99 The whole subject of Mrs Eveline Hillston's disposition towards her nephews appears to me to have only a small connection with any issue of importance, but a great deal of time was given to it. Letters in Exhibit B passing between Mrs Hillston and her relatives clearly show her strong affection and high regard for her nephews and her readiness to give them financial assistance. There was nothing wrong or improper about approaches by Mr Alexander Hillston to Mrs Eveline Hillston for advances of money, whether by way of loan or gift, and in my finding these approaches were not unwelcome to Mrs Eveline Hillston, nor were they resented or rejected. The only way in which an adverse view might be taken of these approaches would depend on acceptance of the view that it was inappropriate for her money to be placed out of the reach of Mr Bar-Mordecai. In truth Mr Alexander Hillston's approaches to Mrs Eveline Hillston for money have little or nothing to do with anything really in issue in the case.
100 Mrs Eveline Hillston was well disposed towards both her nephews, and she corresponded and otherwise communicated with them in a manner appropriate for a loving aunt. Her good disposition towards them was borne out by correspondence in evidence and many expressions in the correspondence, by the dispositions in her will in their favour, and by their evidence of their communications with her, and I accept their evidence. As men of business they did have needs for capital, and money difficulties from time to time. I do not accept Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence to the effect that Mrs Eveline Hillston received a request or demand for a loan of an enormous sum of money, or that she refused it out of hand, or that she resented the request or spoke to Mr Bar-Mordecai about the application for funds in a slighting way; events like those would be quite inconsistent with the general state of her relationship with her nephews, and Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence on that subject, which was not corroborated at all, is in my finding untrue.
101 Mrs Jane Hillston was not called as a witness nor was her affidavit read in the hearing before me by Mr Allan Hillston. She was a witness in the Probate proceedings, and affidavits she made in those proceedings were tendered in evidence by Mr Bar-Mordecai - Exhibits 25 and 62. She was in a position to give relevant evidence as she lived in the house at 30 Eastbourne Avenue for some months in 1991 and 1992, including the period when Mr Bar-Mordecai was convalescent after being badly injured in a motor accident. Mr Allan Hillston when cross-examined explained not having called her evidence in terms of her being unwell and living in Greece. Comments Mr Bar-Mordecai made seemed to show that he put her affidavits in evidence himself with the object of attacking them, and of attacking the conduct of Mr Allan Hillston in relying on her evidence in the Probate proceedings. If the attack on Mr Allan Hillston's conduct in relying on his mother's evidence had any force at all (and I cannot see that it has) its force would be neutralised by the fact that he did not tender her evidence in the present proceedings.
102 Mrs Jane Hillston's evidence was to the effect that she arrived from Greece about 10 December 1991, lived with Mrs Eveline Hillston at her home at 30 Eastbourne Ave Clovelly for about seven months, and "during the 7 months of my stay with the deceased I observed that the deceased and Dr Bar-Mordecai retired for the night to separate bedrooms which were both located on the middle floor of the house at 30 Eastbourne Street Clovelly." She also said "At no time since her husband died did I ever hear the deceased or the plaintiff say anything to suggest they were de facto partners or lovers." Mr Bar-Mordecai made many adverse assertions against Mrs Jane Hillston, including a claim that her visit ended when Mrs Eveline Hillston required her to leave after Mrs Jane Hillston had demanded to see Mrs Eveline Hillston's will and this had been refused; there is no reliable evidence in support of this story, and no understandable reason why it was put forward, and in my finding it is untrue. However that may be, Mrs Jane Hillston's affidavit in the probate proceedings went into evidence in circumstances where cross-examination was not available. I see no good reason for not accepting the passages in her evidence which I have set out, and I accept them.
103 Mr Allan Hillston gave evidence about, among other things, the bedroom accommodation used by Mr Bar-Mordecai on occasions when Mr Allan Hillston visited the apartment at Mount Street, and also the house at 30 Eastbourne Avenue. Mr Allan Hillston gave evidence that he stayed in the Mount Street apartment on his first return visit to Australia in 1985, after leaving to live in Greece in 1983. In his affidavit Exhibit 60 Mr Allan Hillston said to the effect that on his return visits between 1983 and 1990 he would stay at the Mount Street apartment and "I observed that the unit had only two bedrooms, one which was occupied by my aunt and during my stay with my aunt, I occupied the second bedroom of the unit. During my visits with my aunt … I observed that neither of the two bedrooms in the unit showed any signs of being used by Dr Bar-Mordecai. I never observed Dr Bar-Mordecai to stay with my aunt overnight." Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence was that Mr Allan Hillston's parents (Mr Simon Hillston and Mrs Jane Hillston) lived in Australia until July or August 1988, when they went to live in Greece, and that before 1989 Mr Allan Hillston during his Australian visits stayed at his parents' home in Bondi; so that he did not stay in the Mount Street unit in 1985. To the contrary, in her affidavit Exhibit 62 Mrs Jane Hillston said "In 1984 my husband and I left Australia to live in Greece. Since that time I have lived in and intermittently in Greece and Australia. During my visits to Australia, I always stayed with the deceased." Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai contended that Mr Allan Hillston is an unreliable witness, and that he gave false evidence about having stayed in the Mount Street apartment in 1985. He commented that Mr Allan Hillston had failed to produce his passport to show when he had come to Australia. The comment is groundless; an entry in a passport could show nothing about where Mr Allan Hillston stayed while he was in Australia. In my finding it is clear that Mr Allan Hillston did stay in the Mount Street apartment in 1985 as he says, and that Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence that he did not is quite wrong.
104 I accept Mr Allan Hillston's evidence. I infer from this and other evidence of visitors to the Mount Street apartment that, although Mr Bar-Mordecai did spend much time at the apartment, and often slept there, sometimes sleeping with Mrs Eveline Hillston there, he did not do so when her relatives were present and might observe his behaviour.
105 Mr Bar-Mordecai also contended that Mr Allan Hillston gave knowingly false evidence to the effect that Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Eveline Hillston occupied different bedrooms in the house at Eastbourne Avenue on occasions when Mr Allan Hillston was in Australia in 1991 and 1992 and visited for several days at a time. In his affidavit Exhibit 60 Mr Allan Hillston said to the effect that he observed that Mr Bar-Mordecai's bedroom was on the first floor of the house. When cross-examined he explained how he observed this: "That observation was at that time when I was looking through the house, at my aunty's request. I observed at the time there was some gentleman's clothing on the bed in that particular room and, of course, I made the assumption, knowing very well that my aunty did not have the house available to any other gentleman, I can only presume that of course, I assumed that is your bedroom." In evidence in probate (Exhibit 69) he said to the effect that he was not sure which bedroom Mr Bar-Mordecai slept in. This evidence also showed that he did not stay overnight or sleep at the Eastbourne Avenue house but visited her every day during his visits. He rejected wholly a suggestion that he had intended to mislead the court. In my finding there was no basis for any such suggestion; his observation that Mr Bar-Mordecai's bedroom was on the first floor of the house was reasonably based on what he observed when he was looking through the house; and it was probably true that Mr Bar-Mordecai had a bedroom of his own; this is no less true because he may well have occupied Mrs Eveline Hillston's bedroom and shared her bed on occasions.
106 Mr Allan Hillston also gave evidence that in 1992 Mrs Eveline Hillston was not freely mobile, had a knee problem, could not put too much weight on her knee and had difficulty in walking any distance; she suggested to him that her swimming days were over because of the steep steps she had to climb up and down to get to the seaside at Clovelly Beach. It is altogether clear that Mrs Eveline Hillston in fact did have difficulty with her knee, and had difficulty in walking and particularly in using steps and reaching the water to swim at Clovelly Beach, in the last two or three years of her life. She speaks of her difficulty in walking and her unsteadiness in the Euthanasia letter Exhibit X which I set out earlier. A number of witnesses gave evidence of observations about whether Mrs Eveline Hillston walked freely, and whether she needed assistance; their observations vary, probably because of variations in the times at which they observed her and the degree of effort which she made. Something depends too on the capacity of the witness for observation, and on the witness's objectivity and degree of sensitivity to Mrs Eveline Hillston's feelings and behaviour. Mr Allan Hillston's evidence about Mrs Eveline Hillston's mobility does nothing to injure confidence in his credibility.
107 It was also contended that there were anomalies in Mr Allan Hillston's evidence about his financial problems, and in about whether he had watched the 1992 video, in details about steps he had taken in relation to preparation of affidavits in the probate proceedings; and a number of other matters which I regard as trivial or inconsequential. The attempt to discredit Mr Allan Hillston and his evidence was quite unsuccessful. I regard him as a sincere witness and generally reliable, subject to some difficulties of completeness and precision about events from some years ago. Where he and Mr Bar-Mordecai are directly in conflict I unhesitatingly rely on Mr Allan Hillston's evidence, as it is far more likely to be true.
108 Mr Bar-Mordecai contended that it reflected adversely on the credit of Mr Allan Hillston that he complained or caused a complaint to be made to the New South Wales Police that Mrs Eveline Hillston had died in suspicious circumstances. In my view there were reasonable grounds for such a complaint to be made, and for police investigation to be undertaken; reasonable grounds for suspicion were raised by Mr Bar-Mordecai's having been Mrs Eveline Hillston's usual medical attendant while living in a close personal association with her, and by his having administered morphine to her shortly before her death. There was an extensive investigation by New South Wales Police, some papers from which appear in Exhibit 17, and the investigation led to a decision by the Coroner not to conduct an inquest. It should not be found that Mr Allan Hillston's complaint was not reasonably based, or was wrongly motivated, or was in any other way adverse to his credit. The same conclusion should be made of Mr Alex Hillston's limited involvement in the complaint.
109 Mr Alexander Hillston gave evidence on affidavit and orally, and Mr Bar-Mordecai tendered in evidence (Exhibits 23 and 24) two affidavits which Mr Alexander Hillston made in the probate proceedings. His evidence was to the effect that he stayed with Mrs Eveline Hillston and Mr Jack Hillston in the apartment at times during his high school and university years. He studied law at the University of New South Wales but was not admitted as a solicitor. In 1983 he left Australia to live in Greece; he returned for visits approximately every 18 months and normally stayed at Mrs Eveline Hillston's home, the Mount Street apartment or the Eastbourne Avenue house. He communicated regularly with his aunt by telephone or by letter. He produced in evidence (Exhibit B) copies of a number of letters he received from Mrs Eveline Hillston. Good feelings of Mrs Eveline Hillston towards him are shown by her having lent him her car, hosted parties for friends, taken him into confidence about making a will and asking him to be her executor, and actually making provision for him in her will, by her preparedness to lend him money and generally by her hospitality to him and by her maintaining a good disposition towards him, evidenced by the terms of letters and messages she sent him. In February 1993 and in February 1994 Mr Alexander Hillston stayed with Mrs Eveline Hillston in the house at Eastbourne Avenue, for about 10 days on each occasion. In May and in June 1994 he spoke to her by telephone from Greece and asked her to lend him between $200,000 and $300,000 because his company in Greece had the official distributorship contract from Fuji. There was discussion about this and in early June she said to the effect that she would probably have to get a loan on a mortgage over the flat with Citibank and that she would do this. However she had not done so when she died. In his oral evidence he said that he did not ever observe Mr Bar-Mordecai living in the Mount Street unit and was unaware that he was living there other than periodically spending some time there. He was aware that Mr Bar-Mordecai's daughters visited there on access visits, and vaguely remembered one daughter, Tammy, staying in the unit on occasions.
110 Mr Alexander Hillston's interpretation of the relationship (t.348 l14) was to the effect that they had a normal friendly relationship as good friends would have. When asked "Were you aware of any physical intimacy?" He answered "Not really" and went on to say to the effect that Mr Bar-Mordecai put his arm around Eveline Hillston in order to assist her to get up and down, and that he noticed on one or two occasion that he ruffled her hair and "From what I remember it, it was done humorously". Mr Alexander Hillston also said in evidence "She regarded you as a dear friend. She was very, very fond of you, and I think she was obviously very, very interested in anything you were doing." (t388 ll8-10). This is far short of an indication that he interpreted the relationship as a de facto relationship, or that he had reason to.
111 Mr Alexander Hillston's evidence was challenged and it was submitted that I should regard his evidence as unreliable because of some circumstances, for example his recollections about the dates of his parents' international movements in the 1980s, and about who paid for dinners he attended between 1986 and 1994, the circumstances in which he took part in his mother's return to Greece from Australia in 1992, and other minor circumstances. One contention was that it was adverse to his credit that he gave evidence that Mrs Eveline Hillston told him that she lent money to Mr Bar-Mordecai for software. Evidence does not establish and the plaintiff does not allege that there were loans for that purpose, but that does nothing to show that Mr Alexander Hillston's evidence does not say accurately what Mrs Eveline Hillston told him. It does seem fairly clear that she gave Mr Bar-Mordecai money for software. Mr Bar-Mordecai made many observations adverse to Mr Alexander Hillston's credit, turning for the most part on small circumstances or completely unimportant circumstances and supposed anomalies in his evidence. There is no substantial basis for these criticisms.
112 In cross-examination Mr Alexander Hillston was taken to evidence he had given in the probate proceedings to the effect that he observed that Mrs Eveline Hillston and Mr Bar-Mordecai retired to separate bedrooms in the Eastbourne Avenue house at night, bedrooms located on the same floor of the house. He gave an explanation for this observation; he presumed that Mr Bar-Mordecai was going into a separate bedroom as he was walking down the hallway, and he did not identify any particular bedroom and was unclear where Mr Bar-Mordecai slept. It was contended that his treatment of this matter was adverse to his credit. I do not regard it as adverse to his credit, particularly as it was not established that he made or had an opportunity to make any observations to the effect that Mr Bar-Mordecai shared Mrs Eveline Hillston's bedroom while he was in the house. He gave evidence in his affidavit that he went into her bedroom from time to time: "On most occasions she was lying down and I sat on the edge of the bed and talked to her. On some occasions Mr Bar-Mordecai joined us and also sat on the edge of the bed and talked to my aunt. These were the only occasions when I saw Mr Bar-Mordecai in my aunt's bedroom and I never saw them in bed together." This was in complete conflict with Mr Bar-Mordecai's claim that Mr Alexander Hillston had on a number of occasions seen Mrs Eveline Hillston and Mr Bar-Mordecai in bed together, and that they were cuddling. It was a considerable difficulty for accepting Mr Bar-Mordecai's account that it did not include any circumstances which would make it probable or explain that an adult person would remain and observe such a scene; with no great delicacy but only ordinary adult feelings of respect for privacy very few adults would remain and watch such a scene, let alone repeat the experience.
113 With the benefit of observing Mr Alex Hillston giving evidence, including cross-examination, I have confidence in his evidence that no such event ever happened. I do not accept Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence that Mrs Eveline Hillston's relatives (and he said much the same of Mrs Jane Hillston) observed him and Mrs Eveline Hillston in bed together cuddling. A conclusion I base on this part of Mr Bar-Mordecai's case is that he is quite capable of maintaining in evidence that complete fantasies are true. I have confidence in Mr Alexander Hillston and his evidence; there was no open display of a sexual relationship or of a de facto relationship to him, and there was no overt display of signs of affection, kissing, touching or otherwise, in his presence.
114 Witnesses called by Allan Hillston. Professor Carlos Kraemer made an affidavit and gave evidence in the plaintiff's case. Professor Kraemer is a Professor of Engineering at Valencia in Spain; he is a nephew of the late Mr Jack Hillston, whose sister was Professor Kraemer's mother, and he regarded Mrs Hillston as his aunt and spoke of her as his Aunty Eveline. He met Mrs Hillston a few times in Spain and France over some decades before Mr Jack Hillston's death. In October 1983 he came to Sydney for a World Road Congress and during the Congress stayed in Mrs Hillston's apartment at Mount Street. To his observation Mr Bar-Mordecai was not then living at that apartment. Mrs Hillston introduced Mr Bar-Mordecai to him and said "He is the family doctor and a friend." He met Mrs Hillston again about 1986 when he spent a week with her at her invitation in Israel, and again met her for one or two hours at Athens Airport during her visit to Greece in 1989. He maintained contact with Mrs Hillston by letters and telephone, and after the Israel trip had a much closer relationship with Mrs Hillston. In 1994, when he held a professorship at Madrid, he accepted an invitation from the Queensland University of Technology in Brisbane to spend two months as an Invited Professor lecturing in that university and elsewhere in Queensland, Sydney and Melbourne. He was to be in Brisbane for a welcoming ceremony on Monday 27 June 1994. He arranged to travel to Sydney, to arrive on Saturday 25 June 1994 and stay with Mrs Hillston before moving to Brisbane. He left Madrid on 24 June and at some time immediately before or during the journey learnt that she had died. He had spoken to her by telephone a few days before his departure when it seemed to him that she was in good health.
115 Professor Kraemer arrived in Sydney on Saturday 25 June and was met by Mr Bar-Mordecai, and stayed with Mr Bar-Mordecai at the Eastbourne Avenue house that weekend until he left for Brisbane on the morning of Monday 27 June. On Sunday 26 June Professor Kraemer spent the day with Mr Bar-Mordecai except for some hours when Mr Bar-Mordecai worked at the surgery. Professor Kraemer was taken to the surgery. While he was in Mr Bar-Mordecai's company Mr Bar-Mordecai at time seemed to be in excellent humour and good spirits, but at other times appeared extremely sorrowful for short periods. They visited Centennial Park; Professor Kraemer says they went jogging, Mr Bar-Mordecai says that they went on several speed walks there. Professor Kraemer returned to Sydney on Friday 8 July. By this time Viola was living in the house; Mr Bar-Mordecai introduced him to Viola and appeared to be in the best possible spirits. Professor Kraemer visited again on 31 July when Viola was installed in the house with her family. He visited again, it would seem on or soon after 22 August, when he was accompanied by the lady who is now his wife, who had come from Spain.
116 I do not regard Professor Kraemer's observations of Mr Bar-Mordecai's moods on 25 and 26 June as of any real significance adverse to Mr Bar-Mordecai. It is understandable in his circumstances as he puts them forward that, although affected by grief and at times showing signs of it, at other times he would summon up good spirits to present to a guest. Much attention was given to Mr Bar-Mordecai's challenge to Professor Kraemer's evidence that he arrived early in the day on Saturday; Mr Bar-Mordecai suggested that he arrived at 9 pm. In my finding it is probable that Professor Kraemer spent a significant part of that day in Mr Bar-Mordecai's company.
117 Professor Kraemer's observation of the relationship that Mrs Hillston had with Mr Bar-Mordecai was that it was a friendship relationship; "… When I met her and you in '83, it was from then on clear that you have a close friendship." He also said that it was a respectful relationship but not intimate. He discussed the relationship with Mrs Hillston, not deeply. He encouraged the friendly relationship with Mr Bar-Mordecai because he thought for her it was positive. "I was very happy about this relationship because I was interested in her happiness so I see it was a positive thing." In his understanding it was a mother/son relationship. To his observation it was a friendly relationship with mutual respect. He did not ever observe any physical intimacies between them.
118 The plaintiff called the evidence of Mrs Betty May Connell. Mrs Connell, who is a retired pharmacist, became acquainted with Mrs Eveline Hillston in the late 1970s; she was introduced by Mrs Jane Hillston and her husband. They met on several occasions. When Mrs Connell retired in August 1988 she began to see Mrs Eveline Hillston more often, they became closer friends and she began visiting her home at least once a month for lunch or outings. Mrs Connell gave evidence of a conversation with Mrs Eveline Hillston in which Mrs Eveline Hillston represented moving to Eastbourne Avenue as something Mr Bar-Mordecai wanted to do and that she did not really want to do. During visits at Eastbourne Avenue Mrs Eveline Hillston sometimes said things which showed ambivalence about her feelings for living at Eastbourne Avenue and living in the same house as Mr Bar-Mordecai; she said that she would feel happier back in her little unit. She spoke very warmly of Mr Alex Hillston saying "Alexi is my son." Mrs Connell was present about October 1993 on an occasion when Mrs Eveline Hillston said to Mr Bar-Mordecai "When are you going to pay back to me the money that you owe me" and received an answer that fobbed her off; she appeared agitated and concerned. Mrs Connell did not recall seeing them kiss each other, hold hands, place their arms around each other or exhibit any signs of physical affection to each other or maintain physical contact, and no suggestion was ever made by Mrs Eveline Hillston that they were living as husband and wife or were lovers. On the other hand Mr Bar-Mordecai beset Mrs Connell with assurances that he loved Mrs Eveline Hillston; but he chose to do so on occasions when Mrs Eveline Hillston was out of the room, there were no corresponding statements by Mrs Eveline Hillston, and no such statements while she was present and in a position to debate the matter.
119 Mrs Connell was cross-examined in a severe manner and her evidence was attacked forcefully. In cross-examination it was established that on an occasion when Mr Bar-Mordecai was in hospital after suffering severe injuries, she observed that Mrs Eveline Hillston held Mr Bar-Mordecai's arm for a minute or so, not very long. It was contended that this falsified her evidence that she had not observed behaviour which indicated physical affection or maintaining any physical contact. The event in the hospital of which she spoke has no force, in my view, to show that her evidence generally about there being no outward signs of affection is unreliable. It is quite unremarkable that a close friend making a hospital visit should give moral support to a severely injured person by briefly holding his arm; that is not a sign of physical affection, and the suggestion that it is trivial.
120 A number of other matters offered supposedly as criticism of Mrs Connell's recollection and reliability had no real force. She said to the effect that she saw it as a possibility that Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Eveline Hillston were sexually involved. She said "I saw it as a possibility. As I said before, I thought she couldn't." This was not based on any particular observation of their behaviour; and the possibility was not difficult to discern, nor was the conclusion that it was no more than a possibility because Mrs Eveline Hillston could not behave in that way. This passage of evidence does nothing to diminish confidence in Mrs Connell's evidence. She was a confident, clear-headed witness, firm under extended attack, with no trace of any interest or wrong motivation. In my view she was a sincere and reliable witness. Her evidence is particularly important as she was a woman friend, old enough to retire in 1988, she had known to Mrs Eveline Hillston for many years, and from 1988 on she saw her frequently, and was the recipient of confidences; yet she was not told and was not shown any behaviour which indicated that there was a sexual relationship or a de facto relationship between them.
121 Clearly there in fact was a sexual aspect of the relationship between Mrs Eveline Hillston and Mr Bar-Mordecai. It is however important for interpreting the social context that it was not made known to a longstanding woman friend who, although not Mrs Eveline Hillston's age, was within one or two decades of her age so that, if Mrs Eveline Hillston was to confide in anybody, she might well have confided in Mrs Connell; but did not.
122 Mr Allan Hillston tendered in evidence (Exhibit CA) and later read the affidavit of Lorna Cossar in the probate proceedings of 4 November 1995. Mrs Cossar was not able to attend from Canberra to be cross-examined, and I gave leave for her affidavit to be read notwithstanding that she is not available. The fact that she is not available for cross-examination and cannot be challenged has to be borne in mind when appraising the weight of her evidence, especially her evidence on matters otherwise known to be contentious on which the opportunity to cross-examine and the opportunity for the court to observe her response would be important. She knew Mrs Eveline Hillston for many years from 1940, and from 1981 onwards frequently visited her and went on outings with her. She said "During my visits at the deceased's home at 30 Eastbourne Street Clovelly, I observed that the deceased and Dr Bar-Mordecai, the plaintiff in these proceedings, had separate bedrooms on different floors of the house". She does not give in her affidavit any information on which the basis of this observation can be understood, or the bedrooms can be identified. Her evidence could at most have little weight.
123 Mr Charles Monty, who was formerly a patient of Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai, made an affidavit and was called to give evidence by the plaintiff. Mr Monty gave his occupation as Consultant; he works in some way in the real estate industry, but does little work now because of his state of health. He spoke in evidence of a number of health problems. He met Mr Bar-Mordecai about 1964 or 1965, before Mr Bar-Mordecai began to study medicine. He next met him in 1992 when Mr Monty was suffering from extreme depression and needed medical attention, which Mr Bar-Mordecai gave him. Then in 1993 he had further treatment for pain relating to a crushed vertebra, back pain, neck pain and headaches, with Endone. Somewhat to his surprise, Mr Bar-Mordecai asked to borrow Mr Monty's Mercedes motorcar when Mr Monty was going overseas; Mr Monty agreed. Mr Bar-Mordecai spoke to him very freely about highly confidential subjects, including Mr Monty's sexual behaviour, and also Mr Bar-Mordecai's sexual behaviour.
124 Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai spoke to Mr Monty of his sexual relationships in great detail, and asked Mr Monty about his at almost every visit to the surgery. Mr Bar-Mordecai said to the effect "I have been having sex with a number of female patients of mine". He also took Mr Monty into his confidence in drafting a letter in response to a letter of complaint from Health Care Complaints Commission, and in discussing settlement of Mr Bar-Mordecai's motor car accident claim. Mr Bar-Mordecai spoke to Mr Monty about Mrs Eveline Hillston; he spoke in glowing terms, saying "I met this old lady years ago and she is exceptionally kind to me "and spoke about her generosity, his association with her, her assistance with computer software and the practice and said "Whatever I need she will give it to me." Notwithstanding that Mr Bar-Mordecai spoke very freely about his own sexual activities, he did not suggest to Mr Monty that his relationship with Mrs Eveline Hillston included any sexual activity.
125 During late 1993 Mr Bar-Mordecai spoke to Mr Monty of having sex with numerous female patients, and spoke in those terms during virtually every visit, sometimes with names, or nationality, age or other physical attributes. In about late 1993 or early 1994 Mr Bar-Mordecai began to speak during almost every visit about a woman with whom he was having a relationship whose name was Viola. He spoke with enthusiasm and tasteless details.
126 Mr Monty did not meet Mrs Eveline Hillston except on one occasion about three weeks before her death, and he did not ever see any social interaction involving both Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Eveline Hillston. Mr Monty gave evidence of his interpretation of the nature of their relationship; however his interpretation is based almost entirely on statements by Mr Bar-Mordecai, and does not have the significance of the interpretation of a person who was acquainted with both and was able to make an interpretation of their relationship in a social context. On the basis of what he was told it was Mr Monty's belief, or I would say his interpretation that the relationship was a friendly platonic one, a relationship in which Mr Bar-Mordecai aided Mrs Hillston to take walks and in return she was extremely kind to him and assisted him; that they had a relationship where she was a benefactor to Mr Bar-Mordecai. Mr Monty's interpretation cannot have any weight for my overall conclusion about the nature of the relationship; he was at the periphery of their social interaction.
127 Mr Monty attended Mrs Eveline Hillston's funeral and observed that Mr Michael Bar-Mordecai was crying and appeared to be extremely upset. However within two or three days after the funeral he saw Mr Bar-Mordecai at the surgery; in evidence he said "I have never seen him as happy as he appeared on this occasion. He was showing emotions that he was 'over the moon'. He constantly talked to me about the 'money' he had 'inherited from Mrs Eveline Hillston'. I recall him shouting words to the effect 'I am a millionaire, I'm a millionaire, everything now goes to me'. During that visit Mr Bar-Mordecai said to me words to the effect 'Viola moved in virtually right after the funeral, the next day'."
128 Mr Monty was cross-examined with great severity by Mr Bar-Mordecai; the cross-examination was a whole-hearted attack on Mr Monty's credibility, sincerity and accuracy. Mr Monty has had a previous hostile passage with Mr Bar-Mordecai in that Mr Monty was associated with a common law damages claim by his wife against Mr Bar-Mordecai arising out of medical treatment of his wife; this claim was abandoned; Mr Monty says it was abandoned because there was no insurance, and Mr Bar-Mordecai says it was abandoned because it was groundless. Mr Monty is a man who has had real pain and illness and has suffered, and had a real need for medical treatment. My impression of him is that he is a man of feeling, not of cold rationality. I see no difficulty in accepting evidence of Mr Monty in which he claims that Mr Bar-Mordecai discussed with him freely, and indeed excessively, confidential matters including matters relating to Mr Bar-Mordecai's sexual life, his sexual relations with female patients and in particular his relations with Viola. This is consistent with evidence elsewhere that Mr Bar-Mordecai has spoken to patients with remarkable openness about sexual matters including Mr Bar-Mordecai's own sexual experiences; indeed Mr Bar-Mordecai's own evidence includes passages to similar effect. Mr Monty adhered very clearly and firmly to his evidence under severe challenge. I regard him as a reliable witness, and reliable in his accounts of Mr Bar-Mordecai's speaking with astonishingly unguarded openness about his own sexual behaviour, his behaviour with Viola, his feelings after Mrs Eveline Hillston's death, and his relationship with Mrs Eveline Hillston during her lifetime. On the subjects with which his evidence deals I regard Mr Monty as far more reliable a witness than Mr Bar-Mordecai.
129 Ms Tatyana Daych, whose evidence was called by Mr Bar-Mordecai and who at one time after Mrs Hillston's death lived with Mr Bar-Mordecai, it would seem in a de facto relationship after a religious marriage ceremony, gave evidence that in a conversation with Mr Monty, Mr Monty said, about Mr Bar-Mordecai "His last wife, Mrs Eveline Hillston left him enough". It was contended that this was inconsistent with Mr Monty's evidence about his interpretation of the relationship in its reference to Mrs Hillston as a wife. Mr Monty did not remember having said such a thing, but gave evidence quite emphatically that he did not believe he would have said it because he did not regard Mrs Eveline Hillston as Mrs Bar-Mordecai's wife. Miss Tanya Daytch's evidence was not given with any context which would enable a real appraisal to be made of the likelihood of Mr Monty's having spoken in that way. Nor is there any circumstance which really explains why Mrs Daytch would have regarded the statement as significant or would have remembered it. It could not have much significance if it were true that Mr Monty had, on some occasion when a full exposition of his interpretation of the relationship was not significant, referred to Mrs Eveline Hillston as having been Mr Bar-Mordecai's wife. As a matter of probability however I do not find that he made any such statement, while if he had made it, it would have little force to diminish the force of his evidence about what he says Mr Bar-Mordecai told him.
130 Mr Bar-Mordecai submitted that Mr Allan Hillston had failed to call witnesses who may have assisted his case and that the court should infer that those witnesses would not have assisted his case. The persons referred to in this submission were Eva Dery, Elena Siloglou-Hillston, Fred Davies, Viola Yakovleva and Jane Hillston. It was Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence that a draft affidavit of Eva Dery was served on him at some time. A copy of the draft is Exhibit Y (t.1506). The document was not signed or sworn and gives no indication whether Eva Dery was a witness of any material facts. There is no evidence which could show that Eva Dery is so closely associated with Allan Hillston or should be treated as in his camp as to support the suggestion that he had failed to call her.
131 Elena Siloglou-Hillston married Alex Hillston in July 1993 and visited Australia with him in February 1994; with her then husband she stayed in the Eastbourne Avenue house for about 10 days. She made an affidavit in the probate proceedings on 6 November 1995 and a copy was put in evidence by Mr Bar-Mordecai - Exhibit 50 (t928). She and Mr Alex Hillston have since been divorced and she lives in Greece. Mr Bar-Mordecai put a copy of her affidavit in evidence and it plainly supports Mr Allan Hillston's case. There is no substance in his criticism that Mr Allan Hillston should have brought her from Greece to give evidence.
132 Mr Fred Davies (sometimes Davis) was referred to in evidence in cross-examination of Mr Bar-Mordecai - t.1019-1020. Mr Bar-Mordecai said that he proposed to subpoena Mr Fred Davies and call him as a witness. Mr Davies had been a patient of his as had his wife Margo Davies. Mrs Davies had been a very old friend of Mrs Hillston and was a regular luncheon partner with Mrs Hillston and Mr Bar-Mordecai. Mr Davies appears in a photograph in evidence (or at least, Mr Davies' hand can be seen in the photograph). No evidence showed any reason why Mr Davies would be in a position to give evidence of any importance, or why any evidence of his would relate to something which it was incumbent on Mr Allan Hillston to prove, or why Mr Davies was in Mr Allan Hillston's camp so that any adverse conclusion could be based on Mr Allan Hillston not having called him. The same should be said for Margo Davies. There is no substance in the criticism that Mr Allan Hillston should have called them and failed to. In any event Mr Bar-Mordecai's evidence was that he proposed to subpoena them.
133 There is no evidence establishing that Ms Viola Yakovleva has any connection with Mr Allan Hillston which would justify the comment that he should have called her evidence. Nor is there any evidence establishing what evidence she would give. Mr Bar-Mordecai could well have called her evidence if it would corroborate evidence he has given himself about his relationship with her, although according to his evidence that relationship ended badly and she cannot be seen as associated with him or in his camp. In my view neither party is open to adverse inference based on Jones v. Dunkell for not having called her.
134 Mrs Jane Hillston's affidavits were tendered by Mr Bar-Mordecai. Mr Allan Hillston was asked in cross-examination why he had not called her in these proceedings and explained "First off, she resides overseas. Secondly, her health is in such a state that she is unable to travel." Generally her affidavits contain material strongly favourable to Mr Allan Hillston's case and denying various adverse suggestions Mr Bar-Mordecai sought to make in evidence, largely superfluously, about Mrs Jane Hillston and her late husband. Mr Bar-Mordecai put copies of the affidavits in evidence. There is a reasonable explanation for not bringing her from Greece, if further evidence of hers was required. (I cannot see that it is.) There is no substance in this criticism.
135 Witnesses called by Mr Bar-Mordecai. Mr Bar-Mordecai called many witnesses. Most of them dealt with his claim that there was a de facto relationship; indeed few of them dealt with anything else. Most of those who dealt with that claim were persons who had been patients, to whom Mr Bar-Mordecai had made statements about facts in his personal life and Mrs Eveline Hillston's personal life which it is difficult to understand a doctor would reveal, particularly bearing in mind that Mrs Eveline Hillston was a patient and entitled to respect and confidence. There were other witnesses in such positions as neighbours, domestic staff and acquaintances, who do not all fall fully into this category of patients. Some had knowledge of the nature of the relationship based largely or even entirely on statements by Mr Bar-Mordecai which he had no business to be telling them and which should fairly be described as sexual boasting. He gave evidence (t989) to the effect that he regarded the sexual aspect of their life as a very private matter, not to be discussed with outsiders and certainly not to be discussed in terms of any details concerning her sexual history; yet it is clear from other parts of his evidence that he did discuss such matters with other persons and that he claimed that he would not regard it as proper to do so because, as he alleged, there was a husband and wife relationship. (t989-990). He also put the view to the effect that he had spoken to patients in terms of his own sexual history and not of hers; however this is altogether inconsistent with evidence of Paul Carew which he tendered in evidence.
136 Dr Isaac Mordecai, who is Mr Bar-Mordecai's younger brother, gave evidence on affidavit and orally. He is a medical practitioner and graduated with medical degrees from the University of Sydney in 1987. He also has degrees in Arts and religious studies and is a Rabbi, although without pastoral responsibilities. For about 8 months in 1989 he worked in Dr Bar-Mordecai's practice; this period included the period when Mr Bar-Mordecai made a claim against his relatives. Dr Isaac Bar-Mordecai left the practice at the end of 1989 and has since conducted his own practice. He gave an account, generally similar those given by his parents, of meeting Mrs Eveline Hillston towards the end of 1982 and thereafter of her and Mr Bar-Mordecai becoming inseparable and participating in family social events, religious festivals, and attendances in Synagogue on high holy days. At some early point in the relationship Mr Bar-Mordecai told him he was living with Eveline at Mount Street, and thereafter slept at the home at Chaleyer Street, Rose Bay only on alternate weekends and parts of school holidays during access visits. He described their showing signs of affection, holding hands, his ruffling her hair in public, indicating that they shared an intimate relationship. From September 1985 onwards the access visits took place at the Mount Street unit. His visits to their residence included occasional visits to the Eastbourne Avenue house as a doctor to treat Mr Bar-Mordecai when he was ill. He says that on each occasion he would see Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Hillston in bed in the master bedroom on the middle floor of the house. She wore a night dress and he lay adjacent to her wearing only his underpants. His clothes, medical journal and reading lamp were near the bed. He saw Mrs Hillston giving signs of affection to Mr Bar-Mordecai while he was in hospital, caressing his hand and saying "my darling, I love you", in tears on leaving and kissing him goodbye. Mr Bar-Mordecai's behaviour in relation to Mrs Hillston was altogether different from his behaviour in relation to his mother. Dr Isaac Mordecai regarded Mrs Hillston as the person who filled Mr Bar-Mordecai's life. Dr Isaac Mordecai conducted her funeral service as Rabbi, and also a reburial service. He has observed Mr Bar-Mordecai crying at the recollection of Mrs Hillston on several occasions over the years, including an occasion on a visit to her grave site.
137 Dr Isaac Mordecai realised that Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Hillston had a sexual relationship when in 1991 he attended Mr Bar-Mordecai who was ill at their home, and went into the bedroom to attend to Mr Bar-Mordecai who was lying in bed with Mrs Hillston; she had a blue nightgown on and he had his underwear on; he then realised that they had a sexual relationship, and was shocked, but told himself that he should have realised it. He had known earlier that they resided together, and had known for two or three years that Mr Bar-Mordecai was her treating doctor, but had not formed the view that such a sexual relationship was possible. He did not confide his realisation to his parents. Until he had this realisation he assumed that any relationship was entirely platonic. He visited the Eastbourne Avenue house many times, at lunch times or after dinner at night, sometimes on weekends; he would have long conversations with her on the Saturday night after Sabbath.
138 Mrs Ruby Mordecai is Mr Bar-Mordecai's mother. She was born about 12 years later than Mrs Hillston. Her affidavit evidence included evidence to the effect that she first met Mrs Hillston at the end of 1982 when she accompanied Mr Bar-Mordecai to a Friday evening Sabbath dinner at Mrs Ruby Mordecai's house and was introduced as a very close friend. She met her several times at the surgery. Between 1983 and 1994 Mrs Hillston joined her family for festival meals. (One of these occasions is shown on the videotape.) Mr and Mrs Mordecai were introduced to relatives of Mrs Hillston including Mrs Jane Hillston and her husband and son, who in turn visited Mr and Mrs Mordecai for dinner at the Festival of Tabernacles in 1984. She also met Professor Kraemer. Mrs Hillston spoke to Mrs Mordecai about the purchase of the surgery, saying that she wanted Mr Bar-Mordecai to have space to practice medicine. Mrs Ruby Mordecai said that Mr Bar-Mordecai moved out of her home in August or September 1983, and she did not know where he was living, but that he returned to the home for access to his children every alternate weekend and other access occasions, when he would stay at the Mordecais' home with the children. This arrangement changed from August 1985. She regarded him as having finally moved out of her home at Chaleyer Street Rose Bay in 1985 when the access arrangements with the children changed. Thereafter Mrs Mordecai saw the children on visits to Mount Street or to Eastbourne Avenue, and on holidays. Her friendship with Mrs Hillston grew and as well as meeting at Friday evening dinners and festival days and holy days they would visit the Art Gallery and attend the theatre and concerts together. She observed Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Hillston often picking food off each other's plates; that he would offer her his hand, assist her in getting from the car or walking around the house and they often sat holding hands. She said "Mrs Hillston was a very 'proper' lady and observed all the proprieties when in my presence." Mrs Hillston would occasionally telephone to discuss Mr Bar-Mordecai's diet.
139 Mrs Mordecai occasionally visited the unit at Mount Street; she saw that there was a small bedroom containing a single bed and cupboards which contained some of her son's clothes, and that the main bedroom contained a double bed. She also gave evidence of visiting the house at Eastbourne Avenue frequently, especially at weekends when the grandchildren were there. She observed a bedroom containing a double bed in which there were clothes belonging to both Mrs Hillston and Mr Bar-Mordecai. At the time of Mr Bar-Mordecai's injury in January 1992 Mrs Hillston was at hospital every time she visited her son, and would sit beside his bed fondling his head or holding his hand. When she visited Eastbourne Avenue during Mr Bar-Mordecai's convalescence she would frequently see Mrs Hillston lying on top of the covers next to Mr Bar-Mordecai while he was under the covers in bed. Her view was that all times they behaved in a loving and supporting fashion towards each other both in public and in private. In oral evidence she gave an account of her feelings towards Mrs Hillston in which she did not like Mrs Hillston very much at the beginning but her feelings gradually changed as she observed their loving relationship.
140 Mrs Ruby Mordecai's evidence showed that there was never any mention to her by either Mr Bar-Mordecai or Mrs Hillston of a sexual relationship between them. During Mr Bar-Mordecai's convalescence Mrs Mordecai had the opportunity of going into the bedroom and saw that Mrs Hillston's clothes as well as his clothes were lying around in the bedroom. She said to the effect that this was the first time she realised that there may have been an intimate relationship between them. "I think I realised it before but this was like, being confronted with the fact." (t1951/24). She agreed that she had told the Medical Tribunal that she was shocked when she first saw that.
141 Mr Elias Mordecai, Mr Bar-Mordecai's father gave evidence on affidavit to the effect that he first met Mrs Hillston about the end of 1982, met her later mostly at his own home when she would accompany Mr Bar-Mordecai for dinner on Friday nights, festival days and holy days; he would also sometimes see her at the surgery or speak to her when she answered the telephone when he rang Mr Bar-Mordecai. He also visited them at 30 Eastbourne Avenue mostly for evening meals. He described their behaviour in which Mr Bar-Mordecai always offered her assistance, listened to every word she had to say, waited on her at times, they would pick food from each other's plates and sit holding hands. It was his view from their behaviour that they felt very close to each other, were always supportive of each other and showed affection and closeness. He described signs of affection which she displayed while Mr Bar-Mordecai was in hospital after his motor accident. He visited his son at Eastbourne Avenue during his convalescence many times, and on some of these occasions went into the bedroom where Mr Bar-Mordecai would be on one side of a double bed. Mr Bar-Mordecai told him "Mrs Hillston sleeps on the other side of the bed next to me."
142 Mr Elias Mordecai's affidavit presented a serene portrayal of the relationship which was very far from being complete statement of his views. In oral evidence Mr Elias Mordecai spoke somewhat wildly and there were inconsistencies in his evidence both internally and with evidence which he acknowledged giving on another occasion. He expressed hostility towards Mrs Hillston saying that his son was under her thumb, that she influenced him fully, that she consumed him, and adopted earlier evidence in which had said "For a woman of her age to be with a person who is 30 years her junior, obviously there's something wrong in her as much as one would say there is wrong in him in having fallen for it." He also said that initially his view of Mrs Hillston was like that "… but we changed over completely because we saw her attitude towards him and his attitude towards her was a relationship far better than many relationships between married people." (t1966/48). He also confirmed evidence he had given elsewhere that she got her shackles around him, and said that she seduced him. Some of his evidence was quite wild and strange. He said that she was absolutely materialistic, a very odd view having regard to the subject matter of this suit and her large gifts. He expressed an interpretation that Mrs Hillston was jealous of the Mordecai family. He gave evidence to the effect that there was no public commitment between Mr Bar-Mordecai and Mrs Hillston as husband and wife and attributed this to her being ashamed of herself in a way. He agreed that she would never introduce Mr Bar-Mordecai as her husband. He said that at the end she manifested her love towards him in a most open way, and that everyone who saw them together could say that they were very intimate. His evidence does not include any evidence that there was ever an open avowal by Mr Bar-Mordecai, or by Mrs Hillston to his parents that they were living together as husband and wife, or that they were in a de facto relationship, or any evidence that Mr Bar-Mordecai interpreted their relationship in that way. The closest approach to that subject is his evidence of what Mr Bar-Mordecai told him about the sleeping arrangements when he visited during his convalescence in 1992.
143 Mr Elias Mordecai's appraisals of Mrs Eveline Hillston and of her relationship with Mr Bar-Mordecai are not at all objective and should not be relied on by me in evaluating the relationship.
144 There was some conflict between Mr Bar-Mordecai and his parents and brother in 1989 when, for the first time, he claimed that he should be paid money in respect of a payment he had made in 1979, it seems of $80,000 or perhaps more, to pay off a mortgage on the house in Chaleyer Street, Rose Bay which had been purchased in the name of his brother Isaac Mordecai, with money provided by Mr and Mrs Mordecai as well as money raised on the mortgage. In the view and in the evidence of other members of the family Mr Bar-Mordecai's payment was a gift to his brother, as also purchasing the house in his brother's name with their parents' money was a gift. However in 1989 Mr Bar-Mordecai contended that money ought to be paid to him in respect of what he had paid towards the Chaleyer Street house, or the mortgage. He chose an unfortunate time to bring forward this claim, which included a threat of legal proceedings, as his mother was receiving hospital treatment for cancer at the time, and his brother was employed by Mr Bar-Mordecai in his medical practice. His claim was disputed, he did not press on with it and there was no litigation.
145 Mr Bar-Mordecai said in his affidavit of 24 May 1998 in the Probate proceedings para 40 "My parents and brother considered that they had God on their side. They had swindled me of a third of the property. They said: 'God had realised that - and brought Eveline Hillston to your rescue to buy you the surgery and thereby compensate you for the swindle'." His parents denied that they said to this effect, both as to there being a swindle and as to the interpretation of Mrs Hillston's place in the Divine purpose, while Dr Isaac Mordecai denied that the statement which I have quoted had been made, and gave a very different account of what had been said (t1655/35) "I agree that the term God would have been used and it would have been used in the sense of Michael, you have always been a generous person, and God would have rewarded your generosity in another way" and "God was invoked, but it was in terms of God reciprocating to Michael his generosity towards us."
Q. And was it suggested that Mrs Hillston was the vehicle of that reciprocation of that generosity?