Subjective factors
12Mr Vahl for the offender placed great emphasis on the co-existence of the offender's problems with drugs and alcohol. It is conceded by counsel for the offender that during the period when the assaults were occurring the offender was in the grip of an addiction to alcohol, cocaine and possibly other drugs. Whilst one course of unwise behaviour in relation to alcohol is a legal course of conduct, the acquisition of an addiction to prohibited drugs involves participation in unlawful conduct on an ongoing basis. Such behaviour may put the offender's conduct in context inasmuch as the inference arises that but for his problem with drugs, and perhaps alcohol, the offending would not have taken place but it is not the view of the court that this mitigates the objective seriousness of the conduct within the commission of the offence.
13To the contrary the acknowledged involvement in drug taking reflects poorly on his character, as does the conviction for a criminal offence in 2013. The addictive nature of the circumstances surrounding these offences requires the court to be cautious about the prospects of rehabilitation. It is to be noted the victim in the course of her evidence despite her admirable desire to help the offender in his rehabilitation expressed reservations about his commitment given that he continued to associate with a person she believed to also be involved in the abuse of prohibited drugs.
14The Court can place little weight on an unproven assertion but it remains a matter of common sense that the temptation for the offender to continue to associate with those who seek to justify their illicit drug taking by tempting him into re-joining them is a real concern, for his ex-wife and for the Court. This is not to say the victim was entirely negative towards the offender.
15Ms Falvo was called by counsel for the offender to give evidence. She stated that before the offender began his association with drugs their relationship had not been one that had a violent or intimidatory component. Ms Falvo was fair and open in her evidence that the relationship between the offender and her had been a good one for some 9 years. Contrary to the suggestion of the Crown I did not find her a witness who tailored her evidence to favour the offender. Ms Falvo was a confident and strong woman who had endured an ongoing relationship mired by almost 18 months by physical violence, manipulation, threat and the potential for harm to the successful completion of her pregnancy and the early period of her son's life. She continues to endure the consequences of the destruction of a once successful marriage.
16Despite what was clearly a manifestation of her personal commitment to her marriage and with declining commitment to her husband she experienced what too many women in society experience - the vexed question of whether to stay or to go in circumstances where that decision is made all the harder by pregnancy and subsequent birth. As she said in her evidence, "I thought having a baby would shock him but in my heart I knew he hadn't stopped taking drugs".
17Hope expressed in this form reflects the natural aspiration of a mother that her child should have two parents not one and the belief that bringing a new life into the world would be the most powerful emotional tool she could use to bring the offender to his senses through the realisation that parenthood is a shared responsibility. Sadly the extent of the offender's addiction to drugs meant it was not to be. That which Ms Falvo already knew within her heart of hearts came to pass. The offender sacrificed his marriage and the opportunity to carry out his proper role as a parent to its full extent in exchange for drug addiction, violence, menace and the loss of his reputation.
18The question that remains to be answered is whether he has, by reason of the nature and extent of his conduct, also sacrificed his freedom. His former wife gave evidence orally and in writing that she did not wish to see the offender sent to gaol, was conscious of the need for him to be involved in the life of their son and had observed demonstrable change in the offender since his engagement with counselling and the MERIT programme. Whilst it is always important to recognise the view of a victim this is but one of the considerations and is not of itself determinative.
19There is support for Ms Falvo's observations. Mr Vahl for the offender outlined in great detail the efforts undertaken by the offender to address the aspects of causation - his abuse of alcohol and drugs. The MERIT report, Pre-Sentence Report and the report of the offender's treating clinical psychologist, Dr Yourell detail the lengthy and to date positive efforts by the offender to react to the environment created by his lengthy period of offending, abuse and the breakdown of his domestic life. Importantly he has taken part in cognitive therapy to provide him with strategies to help him cope if confronted with situations that cause him to respond with anger.
20Dr Yourell's report also notes a history of a major depressive disorder for which treatment is managed by a psychiatrist. To his credit the offender does not seek to mitigate his conduct by reason of his underlying issues with mental health. Those reports separately and in combination support the observations of Ms Falvo. It cannot be said he is "cured" to use a common perception.
21It can be said the extent of his pre-sentence efforts to embark on a path towards rehabilitation are impressive. Courts are acutely aware of course that some offenders, facing the prospect of gaol, take steps to engage in the types of activities outlined at length by Dr Yourell as a means of achieving a lesser sentence. Against that caution however the weight of achievement weighs in the offender's favour, but not as a substitute for an appropriate sentence. Addressing the criminal is not the same as addressing the crime.