15 Mr de Silva, who had been living in London and in the USA in 2009 and January 2010, arrived in Australia on 20 February 2010 for a visit of about ten days in order to see his former partner, Mr Kanawati, and to realise a small amount standing to his credit in a local superannuation fund. On his arrival, he went to stay with Mr Kanawati. He said that soon afterwards he became emotionally distressed and, feeling guilt because of his HIV positive status, he harmed himself sexually as a form of punishment.
16 I accept that, because of difficulties with his personal relationship, Mr de Silva was highly emotional at the time that he was served with the Court's orders on 26 February. Nevertheless, he read and understood the Court's orders and he read the warning that he would be liable to imprisonment if he breached the orders. Even so, he decided to return to Malaysia immediately. He went to Sydney airport at about 7pm that day and attempted to buy a ticket to Kuala Lumpur. He says that he wanted a return ticket to Sydney for 1 March, so that he could attend Court on 2 March, but he was told that he could not purchase a return ticket until the following day. He then left the airport.
17 On the evening of 26 February, Mr de Silva, Mr Kanawati and a friend of Mr Mr Kanawati, Mr Dowdall, a solicitor, met for dinner in a restaurant. Mr de Silva showed Mr Dowdall the Court documents served on him earlier in the evening. Mr Dowdall said that he had no experience in such matters but could refer him to solicitors experienced in the area. He told Mr de Silva that, in the meantime, the orders meant that he had to stay in the country to appear in Court on 2 March and that he would be in breach of the orders if he tried to leave.
18 I have no doubt that by this time, if not earlier in the day when he read the documents served on him, Mr de Silva fully understood the grave consequences of attempting to leave the country.
19 During the evening of 26 February and the morning of 27 February, Mr de Silva spoke by telephone to his brother, Kevin, in Kuala Lumpur. He told Kevin that he was in trouble and needed help in finding a lawyer. According to Kevin's witness statement, Kevin decided to fly to Australia immediately to help find a lawyer. Kevin says, however, that prior to leaving for Australia he spoke to a friend who told him that "the best means of leaving Australia was to leave via Perth or Darwin". I infer that "the best means of leaving Australia" means "the best means of leaving in breach of the orders without being stopped by the authorities".
20 At 10.37am on 27 February, Mr Dowdall sent an e-mail to Mr Kanawati, which Mr Kanawati immediately sent on to Mr de Silva. In the e-mail Mr Dowdall recommended four solicitors who might assist, and he gave some information about them, their experience and their law firms. The recommendations included Mr Ashley Black of Mallesons Stephen Jaques and Mr John Atanaskovic of Atanaskovic Hartnell.
21 At about 1pm that day, Mr de Silva went to the house of a close friend, Mr Wouters. He says that he told Mr Wouters that he had to go home to Malaysia "as I have a medical emergency. I need to get back to my family. I can't cope on my own". Mr de Silva went with Mr Wouters to a local tourist office and booked and paid for a return ticket to Bangkok, arriving Bangkok on 28 February at 9.05am, departing Bangkok on 1 March at 7.30pm and arriving Sydney on 2 March at 8.45am. Mr de Silva says that he planned to fly from Bangkok to Kuala Lumpur and from Kuala Lumpur back to Bangkok in time to meet these connections. However, he did not book at the same time the connecting flights between Bangkok and Kuala Lumpur.
22 If I am to accept Mr de Silva's evidence that he truly intended to return to Sydney on 2 March, it means that, bearing in mind travelling to and from airports, time between connections and time in transit lounges before flights, Mr de Silva would have spent virtually the whole time between his departure from Sydney on 27 February and his return on the morning of 2 March in airports and planes. Mr de Silva has not explained how, during this time, he could receive medical treatment in Malaysia which he could not have received more conveniently and more cheaply in Sydney.
23 Mr de Silva says that late in the afternoon of 27 February he spoke to his brother, Kevin, who said that he was coming to Sydney and that they would find a lawyer. Mr de Silva then decided to cancel the tickets to and from Bangkok.
24 In the morning of Sunday, 28 February, Kevin de Silva arrived in Sydney and went to Mr Wouters' home. A lunch was arranged for that day at a restaurant, at which Mr Kevin de Silva, Mr Oswyn de Silva, Mr Wouters and Mr Dowdall attended. Mr Dowdall recommended Mr Ashley Black to represent Mr de Silva and Mr de Silva gave him copies of the Court documents to forward to Mr Black.
25 Mr Dowdall sent an e-mail to Mr Black at 2.30pm that day, with a copy to Mr de Silva, explaining the position and asking if Mr Black could represent Mr de Silva. Mr Black responded by e-mail at 4.08pm the same day, with a copy to Mr de Silva. He said that he could not accept the retainer because of another pressing case. Mr de Silva then e-mailed Mr Dowdall five minutes later, saying "Could you please forward your original e-mail to another lawyer since Mallesons can't". I infer that "another lawyer" meant one of the other lawyers recommended by Mr Dowdall in his e-mail to Mr de Silva of 27 February.
26 At 9.59 that night, Mr Dowdall sent an e-mail to Mr Hartnell in the same terms as that sent to Mr Black. Again, he sent a copy of the e-mail to Mr de Silva.
27 After the lunch meeting with Mr Dowdall on 28 February, according to Kevin, he suggested to his brother that they go to Canberra to seek help from the Malaysian High Commission. He said that if they could not get help they should leave Australia. He told his brother that it was easier to leave via Perth rather than Sydney and that he would make the bookings to leave from Perth in case they could not get help from the Malaysian High Commission or find a lawyer.
28 Kevin says that he then booked tickets on a flight from Perth to Kuala Lumpur on 1 March, tickets on a coach from Sydney to Canberra and tickets on a 6.30am flight from Canberra to Perth in order to connect with the Perth flight to Kuala Lumpur. He says that he made these bookings as a precaution in case they could not find a lawyer for Mr de Silva or get help from the Malaysian High Commission in Canberra.
29 The brothers travelled to Canberra by coach on the night of 28 February.
30 Early in the morning of 1 March, according to both Kevin and Oswyn de Silva, Oswyn panicked and decided that he did not want to see the Malaysian High Commission as he did not want to tell them that he was HIV positive. He decided that he wanted to leave Australia immediately. The brothers then caught the 6.30am flight from Canberra to Perth.
31 At 8.30 that morning Mr Hartnell sent an e-mail to Mr Dowdall with a copy to Mr de Silva, saying that he could accept instructions to appear for Mr de Silva. Mr de Silva obviously had means of receiving and sending e-mails. He does not say that he did not see that e-mail prior to checking in for his flight from Perth to Kuala Lumpur that day.
32 When Mr de Silva was detained by the Federal Police at Perth airport he was asked why he was leaving in breach of the Court's orders. Mr de Silva said: "I need urgent medical attention".
Mr de Silva's state of mind