23 The applicant has already made applications to the Court to have the access order set aside. Lloyd J refused to set aside the access order and permanently stayed the tree removal order after the events of 22 November 2007. As noted, I sent the parties to a conciliation conference to give them an opportunity to make alternative access arrangements. Obviously, no such agreement could be reached. The present situation is highly unsatisfactory. The trees should undoubtedly be removed. Both parties should want that to happen and should be willing to accommodate the reasonable requirements of the other to ensure that removal occurs. I accept that removal through the respondents' land will be difficult, time consuming and expensive and using the applicant's land will be easy, relatively quick and less costly. Despite the fact that the applicant wants to the trees to be removed (and brought the proceedings to obtain an order for removal) he apparently will not or has not agreed to access in a manner acceptable to the respondents. Whatever procedural defect might have affected the Court's access order, it provided for reasonable notice, access only at a reasonable hour, and a full capacity for the applicant to supervise the works. Yet the applicant took active steps to ensure the trees could not be removed relying on that access order. Similarly, the conciliation conference gave the applicant every opportunity to reach agreement with the respondents on reasonable access arrangements yet no agreement was reached. Civilised urban life requires considerable give and take between neighbours. In this case, the applicant is the author of his current situation. He wants the benefit of the tree removal order yet is apparently unwilling to take steps to facilitate the easiest, most effective and least expensive mechanism for removal.