"THE DEFENDANT: Can you see what I'm getting at? Now I can't say, we get married on the 16th of October, and then the 16th of November, Wendy gets itchy feet and off she goes, and then say within 30 days, I want my 60 grand. I can't do that. It's just not possible. But if we get married on the 16th of October, and Wendy gets itchy feet on the 16th of November, if the deal says that when I sell the house, I can give her back her 60,000, that's a still a deal.
THE PLAINTIFF: But you said - -
THE DEFENDANT: ...(indistinct)... no way - -
THE PLAINTIFF: That means then it's a gift.
THE DEFENDANT: It doesn't matter if it's a fucking gift or it's a fucking loan or whatever. If we write this document out and sign it both, it's a legal thing, right? And when the time comes, if we want to split, we have got this thing in your safe and we want to go by that. Now if I - - if in 1 year's time we split, I can't sell the house to get enough to pay you. If in 5 years time we split, it's time to sell the house, I will sell it and give you your money. Can you see what I'm coming from? Do you like that idea or not? Do you understand it?"