Crown Case
20 The complainant gave evidence about her unhappy relationship with the appellant, including incidents prior to July 23 2001 in which he had been violent to her. Some of that evidence had been objected to, and it is the subject of the grounds of appeal.
21 The complainant said that in March 1998 the appellant saw an entry in her diary which suggested that she might have been in love with another man. He became angry, slapped her and pushed her onto a bed. She protested that she did not have a lover and that he should not treat her like that. He slapped her with his open hands, such that one side of her face became swollen. He prevented her from calling the police to report the matter.
22 She described another incident, said to have occurred on the night of 3 June 1998. They were in bed and she rejected his sexual advances. He became angry, telling her to leave and to go to her office. At the time she had an office at Sydney University, where she was studying. She dressed and went there.
23 At about midnight the appellant arrived at her office and asked her to return home with him. She refused and he hit her on the face. She fell to the floor, and he covered her mouth with his hand and said, "Don't let today be your death day." She was frightened and she told him that she needed to go to the toilet, because she wanted to get away from him. She went to communal toilets in the building and locked herself in a cubicle.
24 The appellant came into the toilets and asked her to come out, demanding money from her, saying that she would not see Jerry anymore and threatening to put hot water on her face. She called for help, but no one came because there was nobody in the building at that time. The appellant came into the cubicle next to her and seized her, putting his arm around her throat and telling her not to try to get help as nobody would help her. He then left. She waited for a lengthy period, possibly two hours, before she emerged from the toilets. She reported this matter to the police.
25 During the last two years of their marriage, the complainant received information from various sources that the appellant was having affairs with other women. In the first half of 2001 he sometimes told her that he wanted a divorce, or that he wanted to find happiness with someone else.
26 In July 2000 the family moved into the unit at Summer Hill where the offences occurred. After the relationship broke down in the following year, the appellant retained a key to the unit and kept some of his clothes there. On occasions he would have a meal there and even sleep there (although not in the bedroom occupied by the complainant and Jerry). In June 2001 he gave her $5,000 towards the upkeep of Jerry.
27 In mid-July 2001, at the time of the divorce, the complainant and the appellant were in Queensland with Jerry, celebrating the boy's birthday. During the car trip to Queensland the appellant had asked the complainant to remarry him, but she had said that that would be impossible. He became angry and told her to get out of the car, but she did not.
28 They arrived at the Gold Coast and booked into a hotel. He again asked her to remarry him, but she said that it was not possible after he had had affairs with other women. He did not deny having done so but challenged her with having communicated with a man on the Internet, calling her "shameless". She said that she needed someone to talk to because she had been upset about his affairs. He became very angry and slapped her on the face. She went to the bathroom and, when she emerged, he told her that if she did not remarry him she would not see Jerry again. He said that she had one month to think about it. She told him that she did not intend to have another man in her life and that she wanted to stay with her son.
29 This brings me to her account of what occurred on the night in question, 23 July 2001. She was in bed in her room, with Jerry asleep beside her, making a phone call to a man whom she had met on the Internet. Unknown to her, the appellant had come to the unit and he entered her bedroom. He looked at her angrily and she hung up the phone. He called her "shameless", and seized a belt from the back of the bedroom door and hit her on the head with it. It was this which gave rise to the count of common assault. He then pulled the phone from the bedroom wall and went out of the room. She heard the phone from the lounge room also being pulled from the wall and smashed on the balcony.
30 She remained in the bedroom and locked the door. Jerry was still asleep. The appellant tried to open the door from the outside and demanded that she come out. She told him not to hit her anymore. He told her that the door was not strong enough to hold him and again told her to come out. She knew that he might be able to break the door down and, as she did not want Jerry awoken, she opened the door and left the room.
31 He was sitting on a sofa in the living-room and he told her to sit down next to him. She took a Swiss Army knife from the drawer of the table next to the sofa, opened the blades, held it in front of her chest and said, "Don't hit me any more". He went to the kitchen and returned with what appears to have been a carving knife. He pointed it at her and said, "Don't try to scare me with that, you put that back." She put the Swiss Army knife on the table and asked him to put down the knife he had. He said, "No, this is for killing pigs."
32 He told her to sit down beside him on the sofa, which she did in the hope that she might calm him down and resolve things by talking. He put the kitchen knife on the coffee table in front of the sofa. He demanded that she return the money he had given her for the maintenance of Jerry, and that she leave the unit and not return. He added, "You give me back your key, you will never see Jerry again." She said that it was too late to get the money as the bank was closed, but that she would get it the next day.
33 He abused her, again calling her "shameless". She said that they were divorced and he did not have the right to treat her in this way. He slapped her on the face. She told him not to hit her any more, but he said that he hated her and hit her again. He seized the kitchen knife and pointed it at her chest, demanding that she make him a cup of tea. She went to the kitchen, filled the kettle with water, returned to the living room and said, "You're not going to hurt me with that knife, are you?" He stood in front of her, holding the knife to her chest, and she feared from his angry expression that he would hurt her.
34 She walked to her bedroom because she felt that he was "getting crazy". She changed into street clothes and put on her backpack, containing her purse and keys. She returned to the living-room, saying that she was going to leave. He said to her, "I won't make things easy for you. The night is still long, you just stay here." At this stage he was not holding the knife but it was on the table within his reach. She would have had to pass him to leave the unit by the external door, and she felt that he would not allow her to do so. This incident was directly relevant to the detaining for advantage charge but, as I understand it, the Crown relied upon the whole of the appellant's behaviour in the unit in support of that charge.
35 She walked to the balcony and he followed her. She told him that she was simply trying to relax and calm herself down. He went back to the living-room and she followed a few minutes later. She went to her bedroom, thinking about how she could get out of the unit. She had not seen anyone when she was out on the balcony, and she realised that she couldn't call for help, as he would hear her. She feared that he would stop her calling for help, just as he had done during the incident at Sydney University in June 1998. She also knew that she could not contact anyone by phone.
36 She decided to get away by climbing over the balcony down to the level below, where she hoped she could get help. Tragically, she slipped and fell two storeys onto a concrete driveway. She suffered severe injuries, resulting in quadriplegia.
37 For the purpose of the first count, it was the Crown case that the advantage sought by the appellant was the return of the money he had paid her or his psychological domination of her (perhaps to have her agree to remarry him), or both. There was other evidence in the Crown case but, apart from brief reference to the appellant's interview by the police, it is unnecessary to refer to it to deal with the grounds of appeal.