"If so, for example, she said to you at that time - the next day: Mum, he hit me because I didn't want to put my mouth on his penis. You would say that that was an outrageous thing to be saying, wouldn't you?---Yes. You would believe your daughter, wouldn't you?---Yes. Because you had a close and trusting relationship with her?---Yes. You would have acted instantly, wouldn't you?---Yes. You would have gone straight to the authorities?---No. You wouldn't have?---No, I would have confronted [the applicant] about it first. It's not the case with the nature of that allegation, if that was the sort of thing that she said to you, that you would have immediately said: `You are not stepping foot back into this house until this whole matter is clarified'; would that not have been your reaction?---No. So you would have been happy if that ... ?---Not happy, no. You would have been prepared, if that allegation had been made to you, by [your daughter] the next day, after you saw what you saw ... ?---M'mm. To just let him continue in the house?---No, I did not just let him continue. You see when you made your statement to the police in August of last year you said - this is the second page of the statement, Your Honour - `I spoke to [my daughter] the next day, I asked her if [the applicant] hurt her and if [the applicant] put his penis in her tickle - which was the pet name for vagina ... `?---That's correct. [My daughter] said, no she can't remember ... ?---M'mm. `I asked her if he put his penis in her bottom, she said that she couldn't remember ... `?---Yes. I asked her if [the applicant] hit her and she said yes, and I asked her why and she said because she didn't want to put her mouth on his penis'?---Yes. That's what you said in your statement?---That's right. I suggest to you if that is what [your daughter] had said to you, at that time, the first thing that you would have done is not only just confronted him you would have banned him from that house; do you agree with that? ---No, I don't agree with that. You were prepared to let him stay in the house with an allegation that ...?---No, we were going to go to counselling about it, he promised he would go to counselling and seek help. Once again, that is just nowhere in your statement?---No. Is it?---No, it is not. No, it isn't. I suggest that you are just making this up?---I'm not. That just did not happen at all?---Yes, it did. I know what I saw and I know what happened."