The Bathroom Incident - Sequences 3, 5 & 6
- On another day between 7 July 2014 and 7 July 2015, the Victim (who was aged between 9 and 10 years) woke up before her parents and siblings. The Offender (who was aged between 16 and 17 years) was also at the house. The Victim went into the bathroom to wash up. The Offender entered the bathroom and closed and locked the door.
- He said, "we should do something" and then told the Victim to get down on her knees. The Offender asked the Victim to touch his penis.
- The Offender said, "get on your knees". The Victim was confused and unsure, but she did so because she was raised to respect her elders.
- The Offender was standing in front of the Victim. He pulled his pants and underwear down revealing his penis. The Offender told the Victim to rub his penis with her hands. He told her to hold it. The Victim used her hands to rub the Offender's penis in an up-and-down motion (sequence 5).
- As the Victim was rubbing the Offender's penis, the Offender told the Victim to lick his penis to "make it wet". The Victim did not want to do this. She said "why do I have to do that, it's disgusting." The Offender told her to be quiet.
- The Offender placed both his hands onto the back of the Victim's head and forced her head toward his penis. The Offender asked the Victim to open her mouth and lick the top of his penis, however the Victim licked the sides of the penis instead. The Offender again took hold of the Victim's head and forced it forwards with her mouth going onto his penis for around one minute (sequence 3).
- The Offender told the Victim to stand up and bend down. The Victim stood up, turned around, bent her back forwards and placed her hands on the nearby wall. The Offender pulled the Victim's pants and underwear down and told her to start "having sex." The Offender said that he would be putting his penis into her bottom. The Victim felt the Offender's penis in her bottom whilst the Offender moved backwards and forwards for several minutes causing a little bit of pain. It is agreed that the Offender attempted to penetrate the Victim's anus. The Victim felt uncomfortable and disgusted during this incident. (sequence 6)
- The Victim heard a noise outside the door and believed that some of her family were out of bed. The Offender stopped what he was doing, pulled his pants up and left the bathroom quickly.
- The Victim washed her face and hands before leaving the bathroom.
- Following this incident, the Victim avoided the Offender because she felt "uncomfortable and weird" near him.
- In 2018, the Victim disclosed to her aunt and two friends that the Offender had touched her in places she did not want to be touched.
- On 30 November 2018, a 'child at risk' report was received by Police.
- On 7 December 2018, Police conducted a recorded interview with the Victim (who was then 13 years old).
- On 22 January 2019, the Offender who was aged 20 years and 7 months, was arrested by Police. The Offender participated in a recorded interview. He told police that he was employed by a company making frames and trusses and he had been working with that company for a year and a half.
- Police informed him that they were investigating sexual allegations by the Victim. He said "stupid to be honest… shouldn't have gone there. Stupid little kid… I wasn't thinking at all." He made full admissions to Police in relation to the above incidents as they were described by the Victim.
- In relation to the bathroom incident, police asked him why he went into the bathroom. He replied, "stupid thoughts again." He was unable to recall what he was thinking at the time and said "I probably don't even want to think about it."
- The Offender told Police that he has never spoken with the Victim about these incidents since they occurred. He said, "no I think we were just both ashamed… she probably felt violated… if I could go back, I would… but that still doesn't explain what I did." He said, "we were a family but now… I've stuffed everything up."