30 I turn to consider the situation of the widow. She is 80 years of age and lives in a nursing home at Bathurst. She needs a frame to walk and is unsteady in walking. She spends most of her time in a wheelchair. She suffers from ischaemic leuka encephalopathy, thyroid goitre, depression, glaucoma and it is possible she may have to have an operation to remove her thyroid gland.
31 She is, with the help of her son, able to travel to and stay at the holiday home at Copacabana several times a year. She will not be able to live outside the nursing home environment, or a place where she has a carer.
32 Her assets are as follows:-
She owns one half of the property
at Copacabana worth $260,000.
Cash $13,300
A savings account in Finland $170,000
Shares $253,000
Debentures $2,000
A bond which she paid for her
accommodation at Bathurst $96,500.
Total $794,800.
33 She has no debts.
34 The income from her annuities and superannuation amounts to $1,401 per fortnight and her expenses are $890 per fortnight. She, thus, has a margin of some $511 per fortnight being excess income.
35 It is necessary to look at the relationship between the plaintiff and the deceased. As I have indicated, they met in Europe in 1949. She came to Australia in 1952 at the deceased's request, he having migrated earlier. They married and their only child Matti was born in 1953.
36 The widow took some three years off work when she had Matti as a child but thereafter returned to the work force. Both of them worked hard for many years.
37 There were often disputes between the deceased and the plaintiff about how their son should be brought up.
38 The relationship between the plaintiff and the deceased was, to an extent, affected by their disputes over the bringing up of their son Matti. The majority of the work in bringing up the son fell to the plaintiff, the deceased's widow.
39 The son Matti moved out of home in 1977. This left the plaintiff widow in a somewhat difficult situation. Her husband continued to berate her for the soft way in which he alleged she had brought up their son. Effectively, she had to try and cope with the somewhat difficult time she had with the deceased. That is not to say that their life was not without its pleasures.
40 In 1979 the deceased retired from teaching and he continued in his spare time to work on book publishing, which is the way he made a substantial amount of his money.
41 They started to travel extensively and between 1965 and the year 2000 there were some 50 trips overseas and elsewhere which the deceased, quite often the plaintiff and occasionally the grandchildren would attend.
42 The birth of the grandchildren Emily in 1992 and Nicholas in 1995 added more difficulties to the relationship. It is apparent that the deceased became obsessed with the naming of the granddaughter Emily and the control which he thought he would be able to exercise over her family concerning her upbringing.
43 It was in 1987 that the plaintiff retired from work.
44 It is necessary also to look at how she has contributed to the estate. It is perfectly plain from her evidence that she contributed her wages and her earnings to their joint ventures. A typical example of her contribution to the family occurred in 1954. The plaintiff had earned some income from doing translations and her husband at this stage was travelling to work by public transport. She used the money that she earned to buy a Morris Minor car so that he could drive to work. He got his driving licence and thereafter he drove to work while the plaintiff herself continued to go to work by public transport.
45 The house and block of land at Hunters Hill was bought from joint savings and the mortgage finance was paid jointly by both the deceased's and widow's savings.
46 There is, thus, a substantial contribution by the widow to the major asset in the estate, which is the property at Hunters Hill.
47 In addition, after 1963 when the deceased left General Motors Holden and started teaching languages at Vaucluse Boys' High School, the plaintiff was able to help in the publishing business typing up articles and drafts.
48 There were more specific contributions which occurred later. In 1999 the deceased insisted that the plaintiff sell a house that she had in Finland, which had been passed down through many generations since the 1800s. Notwithstanding that she did not want to do it, the plaintiff agreed to the deceased's requirement and sold the house. She spent $80,000 to pay the bond for her husband's room at Lourdes next to her.
49 After the sale of some other investments in Finland, she received a number of sums in Australia. She spent some $40,000 of her funds towards the general welfare of the plaintiff and the deceased.
50 It is necessary to see how she says that she has been left without adequate and proper provision for her maintenance, education and advancement in life. There is no doubt that a discretionary trust of the type here employed is not proper provision. In Gregory v Hudson (No 2) 18 September 1997, Young J, in reference to such a trust, said:-
"It seems to me that where a wealthy man, with an estate of at least $11 million, leaves the bulk of the benefits to his widow under a discretionary trust over which she has no control, he has not made proper provision for his widow. The community would expect that the widow of such a man would at least have a home in her own name and some capital to which she could resort whenever she felt like it."
51 I have applied those principles before in McCullum v Permanent Trustee [1999] NSWSC 1219.
52 The widow seeks a payment of $1.2 million on the basis that she in some way should receive the proceeds of sale of the matrimonial home. However, that is not appropriate because she cannot live there and it has been sold at her insistence. At present her housing needs have been adequately taken care of as a result of her living in the nursing home at St Catherine's at Bathurst.
53 In her affidavit she particularised a number of different matters which she wanted to have from the estate. The first of these was the other half share of the Copacabana property. She says that over her lifetime she has made significant financial and domestic contributions to the development of that property. Because of her limited accommodation in the nursing home, she finds Copacabana a strong, positive, psychological and emotional alternative from the nursing home environment. She uses it to spend time with her son and his family, which is something that she is now only able to do after the death of the deceased.
54 She says that she needs some $40,000 to pay the rates and taxes for Copacabana over the next 10 years. I would think that given her surplus income, she has adequate funds to be able to meet those.
55 Because Copacabana is built on a sloping site, she wants to do some modifications to the house. There is some dispute about the need for modifications and there is an estimate of some $70,000. Obviously if the property can be modified so that she can enjoy it in a better way, that should happen.
56 She wants to go back to Finland one more time and she will need her son to travel with her to care for her on that trip. The costs associated with such a trip are in the order of $30,000.
57 She needs a special van now to transport her because she has a wheelchair, and the cost of such a van is $66,000. She also needs a wheelchair to be provided at a cost of some $15,000.
58 The total of these particular items is $181,000.
59 I think all the requests are reasonable ones but the only question is whether it is appropriate to make an award which might recognise them in their entirety. This is because she has substantial cash funds and investments available to her, being something in excess of $400,000.
60 Certainly she needs something for contingencies.
61 In my view it is appropriate that she receive a bequest of the estate's share in the Copacabana property and some additional sum by way of legacy but I will, firstly, consider the situation of others.
62 I turn to the situation of her son Matti. He is married, with two children, who are no longer living at home. He works as a high school teacher at Bathurst and earns a gross wage of $61,000. His wife also teaches, earning a wage between $50,000 and $55,000. Their income is less than their expenses at the moment and he obviously needs to reduce his mortgage repayments. In May 2001 their combined income was $2,543 per fortnight and their expenses estimated at $3,122 per fortnight.
63 So far as assets are concerned Matti, with his wife, has a house at Bathurst worth $250,000. They have three cars, one of which is used by their daughter at Newcastle. They have furniture, which is insured for $119,000 and is probably worth something less than that. They have shares worth $31,000 and an entitlement to the legacy which has not been paid of $40,000.
64 Their liabilities are:-
Home mortgage $117,000
Personal loan $26,000
Credit card debts $7,000
Total $150,000
65 He has substantial superannuation, having been a teacher, which will be accessible when he is 55 or 60. At 60, for instance, he would be entitled to $1,303 per fortnight, or a lump sum of $325,900. He can take either of these options. His wife has superannuation in the order of $40,000.
66 It is necessary to spend a little bit of time dealing with the relationship between the plaintiff Matti and his father. This is set out in detail in his affidavit, most of which has been admitted.
67 He recalls that in January 1962 they moved to Hunters Hill. He used to attend the local public school and would walk to school. He went to Sydney Grammar from 1964, and that entailed a lot of travelling to and from his home at Hunters Hill. His father took no interest in his Saturday sport and ultimately it was his mother who provided the help that he needed in his education.
68 In 1966 he was taken overseas with his parents when they went for the first trip to Finland. He was taken on a boat trip to Japan at the end of Year 8 and at the end of Year 10 he was taken to New Zealand.
69 He and his father started skiing when he was young and they sometimes played badminton together on Friday afternoons at Sydney University.
70 From the time the plaintiff was in Year 11, when he was aged 16, the deceased and his mother would often travel overseas in Christmas holidays for six weeks or so. He was left at home to look after the house at Hunters Hill and continue his father's publishing business. He would stay with a friend's family for the days over Christmas. Surprisingly, his parents never left him a Christmas present on those occasions.
71 From 1973 he studied at Macquarie University and at this stage he started helping his father with the publishing business. That publishing business took on a new dimension in 1976 when the printers Halstead Press were not able to process the orders and it was necessary to convert part of the Hunters Hill property to a situation where the publishing business could continue.
72 At the end of 1976, the plaintiff and his wife went to the United States of America with his father. He thereafter took up his position at Grenfell.
73 Contact continued between the plaintiff and the deceased, notwithstanding his absence in Grenfell, although the contact in some sense from the plaintiff's father was a bit distant.
74 The birth of their first child, Emily, had a substantial effect on the relationship because it brought out the strong feelings that the deceased had about his rights in such a matter.
75 Clearly, the relationship was strained between 1982 and 1988.
76 There is in evidence a number of letters that were written by the deceased to his son and his wife. In these the deceased made clear that: