Homemaker contributions
36 Each party claims to have contributed in this regard. In this case there are a number of matters to be considered in respect of allegations of domestic violence which have been said to have been perpetrated by the plaintiff on the defendant during the course of the relationship. No claim for damages for assault is made but it is suggested that such violence can be taken into account in assessing these contributions.
37 Two cases under the Family Law Act, Doherty v Doherty (1996) FLC 92-652 and Marando v Marando (1997) FLC 92-754 are of note. In the first of these cases the Full Court said at page 82,683:-
"On page 26 the trial Judge made reference to the appellant's drinking habits and to domestic violence and aggression, which he exhibited towards the respondent and the children, particularly to S. Although the trial Judge did no more than record these events, it is clear from his findings that the wife's contribution as homemaker and parent may have been increased as a result thereof.
Although the domestic violence complained of related to a relatively small period of time at the end of the marriage, nevertheless, his Honour would, in my opinion, have been entitled to have found that because of the appellant's conduct, the respondent's contribution diminished as a consequence, leading to the overall weighting based upon contribution in favour of the wife being increased, albeit only slightly, having regard to the facts of this case."
38 Of interest is the reference to such conduct either increasing one party's contribution or diminishing the other party's contribution.
39 In Marando v Marando at 84,168-9 Gee J had the following to say about the issue of domestic violence.
"In my opinion however, the wife over the very long period of cohabitation made a much greater contribution than the husband to the welfare of the family, particularly as homemaker and parent. I am satisfied on the evidence that in her homemaker and parenting role the wife in that role and by way of general contribution to the family's welfare carried out responsibilities well beyond the norm. She had the responsibility of the home and the children almost entirely without the husband's assistance for a very long period of time. Amongst other things, she thereby enabled him to work and earn income over and above his full time work as well as his full time work. In this family she was the uniting force and the one who provided the support, love and affection necessary to maintain this particular family unit over a long time.
This was made especially hard by the husband's abuse and denigration of her and the children in the ways described by them in their evidence, which I largely accept on this issue, as well as by his attitude to `women's work' and by his drinking which necessitated the wife working especially hard and harder than would be usual in normal situations as homemaker, parent and as the prime navigator of the welfare of this family through the many seas of problems and difficulties which confronted them over the years.
These are special factors of the kind to which the Full Court drew attention in Ferraro v Ferraro 16 Fam LR 1, especially at pages 38, 39 and 47, that being a decision affirmed in McLay v McLay 20 Fam LR 239 at pages 248 to 249, and is no doubt what Baker J had in mind when speaking for the Full Court in Doherty v Doherty 20 Fam LR 137 at page 141. His Honour's remarks, although, in my respectful opinion, obiter and given in an extempore judgment, are entitled to great respect. They do not represent new law. It has been suggested in some quarters since that judgment was delivered that they have, but I disagree with that suggestion.
The remarks of Baker J in Doherty's case were simply an expression, in the context of domestic violence, of the passages in Ferraro's case cited above. Neither Ferraro's case nor Doherty's case purported to overrule Soblusky (1976) 2 Fam LR 1, nor Ferguson (1978) 4 Fam LR 312, where investigation of fault or misconduct per se was deprecated. Any intention to overrule Ferguson was deprecated in Ferraro's case at page 39, and I am, with respect, unable to accept that either Fogarty J or Baker J, who were members of the Full Court in both Ferraro and Doherty, would have intended such decisions to be overruled without expressly saying so."
40 In Green v Robinson (1995) 36 NSWLR 96 Cole J at 119 after discussing the dictionary definitions of "homemaker" adopted the definition as "one who creates and maintains a comfortable and welcoming ambience for the members of their household". He went on to say at page 119:-
"However, even such a second meaning is inadequate if it is intended to convey that only one person in a household may be responsible for the creation or maintenance of such a welcoming ambience for it is clear, in my view, that each party to a relationship, be it of marriage or of a de facto relationship, may contribute to the homemaking in which that relationship subsists. Parties to the relationship may, depending upon their various capacities, skills, inclinations, interests, available time and other factors, contribute significantly to the making of a home. The concept of " homemaker" or "making of a home" has a different and wider connotation than housekeeping or maintaining a house. It involves the creation of an emotional ambience of stability.
To take but three examples. A person, not infrequently the male in the relationship, may have skills related to home improvements which are exercised for the mutual advantage of the parties in the relationship. That is an aspect of homemaking for it permits the more pleasant enjoyment of the domestic relationship. To similar effect, a person, most frequently the female in the relationship, may practice cooking and decorating skills which also are aspects of homemaking for they similarly lead to a comfortable and welcoming ambience in the home in which the parties in the relationship live. And each, both the male and female partners, may bring to the relationship aspects of stability, and attitudes of tolerance and understanding critical to the creation of a home. It is important to recognise that contributions as a homemaker may be qualitative as well as quantitative, and that a lesser quantitative but higher qualitative contribution may be of equal or even greater importance and value to the relationship and the partners and children than a seemingly greater quantitative contribution.
The width of aspects of contribution, and in some instances the amorphous qualities which a party may bring as his or her contribution as a homemaker to a relationship, highlights the difficulty of trying to quantify in precise money terms the contribution of each party. It lends emphasis to the need for the Court in most instances to exercise a significant element of judicial assessment in determining whether it is just and equitable that a property adjustment be made."
41 Clearly his Honour includes the qualitative aspects as well as the quantitative. Accordingly in the adjustment process it is possible to take account of these actions of the plaintiff in assessing his homemaker contributions.
42 The first incident related by the defendant was one where she referred to an occasion when they were driving near Parramatta when the plaintiff lost his way. According to the defendant he got angry, stopped the car in James Ruse Drive, Parramatta, forced her out of the car and left her on the street. She had to walk to Parramatta and catch two buses to get home. The plaintiff's affidavit evidence was that he had stopped to read a map and that the defendant left the vehicle. He realised he was stationary, in a dangerous position and could not reverse so he decided to continue on. As demonstrated in cross-examination this was merely a contrived response. All he needed to do was to ask the defendant to get back in the car before moved off the first time and he could have safely got out of any dangerous situation. His explanation, particularly in cross-examination, was simply not believable. Accordingly, I accept the defendant on this matter.
43 The defendant gave evidence that there were occasions at their home when the plaintiff would shout and abuse her. According to the defendant he took care to ensure that the windows and doors of the residence were closed so that no one would hear. The plaintiff admitted to disagreements and increasing the tone of his voice in his affidavit evidence. He also admitted to having closed the sliding patio door and bathroom widow both of which were close to neighbours. In cross examination he admitted at times he would throw papers about as was alleged by the defendant. It seems to me having regard to the plaintiff's concessions that the defendant's version of abuse while windows and doors were closed to keep it from the neighbours is more likely to be correct. Accordingly, I accept the defendant on this matter.
44 In 1992 there was an incident recounted by the defendant when they were at East Corrimal working on the garage. According to the defendant the plaintiff became angry and violent over some water leaking in the garage and that he repeatedly hit and punched her in the upper body resulting in bruising. He demanded that she move out of the house but she first had to finish the garage and move out when the garage was finished. She was reluctant to do so and according to he defendant the plaintiff hit her across the mouth. The defendant produced a copy of the note that she was forced to write recording those matters. The plaintiff admitted that at East Corrimal he dropped something on the floor which then flicked up and, according to him, hit the defendant in the mouth. His recollection of this version in cross examination was non-existent and accordingly I was not satisfied that it was a genuine explanation. Accordingly, I am prepared to accept the defendant on this matter.
45 There was an incident in 1994 which the defendant recounts of having been abused by the plaintiff after which she went for a long walk to Pennant Hills. Ultimately her father drove her home at about 10 o'clock at night. The plaintiff became furious and, according to the defendant, refused thereafter to pick her up from the train station in the evenings when she was teaching as had been his custom. The plaintiff conceded that he no longer picked her up from the train station and he says it was simply because of his concern. However, quite clearly his reaction was one to punish her which he did.
46 During a holiday in Perth the defendant washed the plaintiff's shorts and the plaintiff noticed that a clip had come off. According to the defendant the plaintiff made her repeatedly search the laundry, the motel room and other areas and when she was unable to find it he made her take them back the next day to the store where it had been purchased to exchange it. The plaintiff gave an explanation of feeling unwell the next morning and having to sit down and that was the reason he let the defendant go back to the shop. Having regard to his cross-examination I think I would be prepared to accept the plaintiff on this matter.
47 In March 1998 the parties were on their boat on the Parramatta River when the engine broke down. According to the defendant the plaintiff repeatedly hit and punched her in the legs and upper body and abused her. The plaintiff said that he recalled the incident and that he was trying to repair the engine as quickly as possible because there was a radio tower transmitting nearby. He wanted to be away from any radiation levels. He admitted to having perhaps brushed the defendant on her legs while working with tools. In cross-examination he conceded he was stressed at the incident. This was in effect a slight further concession. It seems to me that it was more likely that the defendant's version is correct. With regard to these allegations of physical abuse, particularly in relation to the incident at Corrimal, it is useful to note that there was some evidence called from three friends of the defendant who gave evidence of having observed bruises on the defendant's arms and after their questioning of the plaintiff they were told by he defendant that she had been assaulted by the plaintiff. One friend recounted a conversation in which the defendant had reported being hit by the defendant. Another witness gave evidence of statements by the defendant that the slightest thing would set off the defendant who would fly into a rage without warning. The statements were made at a time before separation and, to my mind, support the nature of the relationship which has emerged in the more specific evidence before me.
48 The incident immediately prior to separation was one which, according to the defendant, was as a result having been hit and punched by the plaintiff. The night before she left, according to the defendant, the plaintiff was demanding that she fix up his paper work the next morning and take time off work to do so. She had already planned to go away next day for work. She did however start picking up the paper which the plaintiff had thrown off the dining room table. According to defendant, when she stood up the plaintiff started punching her on the shoulder and arms. It is apparent from a letter written by the plaintiff immediately after separation that he recognised the existence of his anger. He said that he was "in a downhill slide as far as his anger was concerned" and that he was going to attend counselling about his stress and anger. In these circumstances it seems that the defendant's account is more likely to be correct. Shortly after leaving the defendant obtained an Apprehended Violence Order against the plaintiff based upon the events to which I have referred.
49 It is hard to deal with all the minor incidents and whether in fact the plaintiff would call the defendant an idiot or a moron. What does appear over the course of this evidence is that the plaintiff does appear to be a person who was short tempered and angry. I am satisfied that there were a number of occasions some of which I have recounted when there was physical violence against the defendant. Clearly it reached the stage where ultimately the defendant did what she was advised to do by her friends, namely, leave the plaintiff because she could not take any more.
50 I have to consider the effect this behaviour. Clearly the defendant has conceded that after these episodes the parties would get back together and continue on with their relationship as before. However, it does seem to me that the concerns the plaintiff had about her safety made the relationship quite unpleasant. Certainly this aspect of the relationship must be taken into account when considering the extent of the homemaker contributions put forward by the plaintiff.
51 There was little evidence concerning homemaker contributions. The defendant appeared to do most of the cooking. The plaintiff said he did some cleaning on days' off but the majority would have been done by the defendant. She also did the majority of the laundry. These contributions were for a period of ten years. Given the violence I have referred to, no credit should be given to the plaintiff for his homemaker contributions which, in any event, were less than those of the defendant.
52 I need to take into account the other non-financial contributions to East Corrimel and Cherrybrook. Overall, these favour the defendant. The defendant's contributions of $14,520 for the occupation of the property by the plaintiff after separation has to be taken into account.
53 The sale of the house realised a fund of $420,000 of which the defendant has already received $210,000. The remaining $210,000 is held in a trust account pending this decision. On their contributions to this fund the plaintiff is entitled to $88,200 and the defendant $331.800. Deducting the rental value gives the plaintiff $73,680 and the defendant $348,320.
54 To these figures have to be applied an adjustment to take account of the plaintiff's homemaker contributions and parties' other non-financial contributions.
55 An appropriate order to take account of these would be for the remaining fund of $210,000 to be applied as to $60,000 to the plaintiff and $150,000 to the defendant together with any interest accrued in appropriate proportions.
56 I will hear argument on costs and direct the parties to bring in short minutes.