The deceased's relationship with Julian and her testamentary intentions
- Julian completed his schooling at St Aloysius' College at the end of 1966. Subsequently, he trained as a nurse. After he left home and following his parents' separation, Julian lived in Sydney in shared accommodation with friends.
- After his separation from the deceased, Barnett Larkin lived with Julian for a time. He also maintained friendly relations with the deceased's brother, Ronald ("Ron") Leech. Julian also apparently did so. At one point Julian was living in the same apartment building as Ron. At some stage the deceased fell out with Ron.
- The affidavits filed in these proceedings raked over the breakdown of the marriage between the deceased and Barnett Larkin. Many of the unpleasant details which they contained were not pressed. There is still enough to show that the separation was an exceptionally bitter one. There is in evidence a will made by the deceased in December 1972. The will provided for the deceased's estate to be given in three equal shares to Lucien, Vincent and Adrian. There was no provision for Barnett Larkin or for Julian. The will stated:
3. I DECLARE that my husband BARNETT LARKIN who deserted me and his family and brutally ill-treated me should not benefit in my will in any way whatsoever.
4. I FURTHER DECLARE that my son JULIAN DEE LARKIN who has failed to stand by me should not benefit in my will in any way whatsoever. HOWEVER his brothers might assist him depending on their own financial circumstances.
- It is clear that Julian refused to sever contact with his father after such contact had been severed by his mother and, apparently, his brothers (I assume it was at this time that the deceased adopted the surname "Leech-Larkin" which Lucien, Vincent and Adrian also adopted, whereas Julian has maintained the "Larkin" surname). In Julian's affidavit, he defended his father and portrayed the deceased as neurotic and controlling. Although Lucien responded, the parties did not suggest that I could, or should, determine the accuracy of the accusations and counter-accusations which were made.
- There are in evidence four letters written by the deceased. The first is a letter addressed to Ron but posted to Julian in December 1998. The other three letters are to Julian, dated February 1999, April 2003 and June 2007 respectively.
- I bear in mind that the letters do not necessarily represent how the deceased thought throughout the period, and that the way some people write does not always convey what they are really like. Even so, the letters make for depressing reading. They are censorious and hectoring. They are full of criticism of Julian and of Ron. Fifteen to twenty years after his death, the deceased continued to blame Barnett Larkin for his conduct during the marriage and after the separation. The letters also suggest enmity between the deceased and two of Barnett Larkin's brothers, John Larkin (who had been the Vice Rector of St Aloysius') and McGregor Larkin (a Jesuit priest).
- An idea of the tone of the letters comes from the beginning of the February 1999 letter where the deceased wrote:
I am writing to attempt to help you gain a little more insight into your problems of many years standing.
I did tell you when you called that until you realise your need and desire to accept help from someone who cares about your body, mind and spiritual health you cannot recover.
- The letter included the following:
There is no way that you will be able to contest my will, so spare yourself those machinations. It is a Trust Will, drawn up by close lawyer friends, following a classic case.
In any case, it is my property, not a family property, if I chose to marry tomorrow, my husband would benefit.
- It is not clear from the evidence whether the "Trust Will" to which the deceased referred was her December 1972 will or some later will.
- The letter ended:
When you feel a flicker of genuine remorse for your ingratitude and callous treatment towards your mother, you can ring me and not before!
Hoping for some improvement.
Your Mother
- The deceased's letter to Julian of April 2003 was largely concerned with a police statement which Julian had apparently made in connection with Lucien's allegations of sexual assault while a student at St Aloysius' College. At this time, Lucien's civil claim against the College was still pending. A letter from Lucien to Julian dated October 2004, which was also in evidence, dealt with the same subject. It was also referred to in the deceased's letter to Julian of June 2007, by which time the civil proceedings had been settled. It is clear from the letters that the deceased believed that the hierarchy at the College had sought to cover up the activities of the priest who had perpetrated the abuse of Lucien and that Julian was assisting the hierarchy in this regard.
- The deceased suggested that Julian, in his statement, had deliberately concealed what he knew. The deceased saw this as spite towards Lucien, but went on to suggest that it might expose Julian himself to prosecution for perjury or conspiracy. It was put to Julian in cross-examination that his statement was false, but the allegation was put in a rolled-up way and was rejected at a similar level of generality.
- The evidence on this subject in the proceedings was not such as to enable me to resolve the conflict. There was no direct evidence to identify when the abuse occurred and what was done about it. Julian's statement itself is not in evidence; some material purporting to be an extract of the statement, together with Lucien's commentary on it, was initially included in the Court Book but was not ultimately pressed. I am left with the material in the letters, which is often difficult or impossible to understand without any context.
- Julian did not reply to the letters. He had little contact with his mother. He did not ring her; on occasion she would ring him but he said that the conversation would turn to the deceased criticising his father or his uncle and he would either hang up or leave the phone on the bench and do something else. Julian visited Francesca Park on a couple of occasions but they were awkward. In the deceased's letter of February 1999, written after Julian brought his children to visit, the deceased upbraided him for his conduct as a parent and asked him not to bring the children again. Julian appears to have had no contact with the deceased during her final illness or indeed for the last eight or so years of her life.
- It was put to Julian in cross-examination that on one occasion he left Francesca Park saying that those who lived there were all "in a rut". Julian denied saying this but I have no doubt that it reflects the way he felt. Something similar appears in one of the deceased's letters to him. It is clear that there was mutual disrespect between the deceased and Julian. The deceased sought to impose conditions on Julian if she was to communicate with him. For his part, he apparently did not share her interests and made little or no effort to communicate with her.
- There is in evidence a will made by the deceased in October 2003. The will gave a legacy of $5,000 to each of Julian, Vincent and Adrian and the residue of the deceased's estate to Lucien. In the event of Lucien not surviving the deceased, the residue of the estate was to be equally divided by such of her other sons who survived her (including Julian).
- As already mentioned, by her March 2013 will, the deceased left the whole of her estate to Lucien. In the event that he did not survive her, the estate was left to Vincent and Adrian in equal shares. There was a final gift over in the event that neither of them survived the deceased in favour of a cousin of the deceased "so that he may help his children as he wishes".
- Mr Peoples gave evidence that during the deceased's last illness he raised with her the question of one of her other sons making a claim against her estate. She responded with words to the effect:
[T]hey would not dare make a claim against my estate, they know what Lucien has done for me and that he is entitled to everything that I leave. Julian in particular has done absolutely nothing for me over the last 20 years. Lucien knows that I have left the property to him and he trusts me implicitly.