The evidence relied upon by the plaintiffs
32The evidence relied upon by the plaintiffs in relation to their claim of dependency upon the deceased comes from the following:
(e) The documents contained in Exhibit A;
(f)The evidence of the first plaintiff and her husband Thomas Kuenze;
(g)Documents contained in representations made by and to the deceased.
33It is convenient to start with a history of the family structure of this very close knit family.
34The deceased, who was born in Prague, Czechoslovakia of Germany background worked in Czechoslovakia as an apprentice mechanic/mechanist between 1949 and 1951, following which he migrated to Australia. After migrating to Australia, he worked as a general labourer on contract to the Federal Government between 1952 to 1954, and for W.D. & H.O. Wills between 1954 and 1967. From 1967 to 1993 he worked for the Electricity Commission of New South Wales. As an assistant fireman, he was often in the presence of asbestosis insulation, which was used extensively throughout Bunnerong Power Station. He was then transferred to Pyrmont Power Station, where he continued to be exposed to asbestosis from walking around plant and machinery insulated with asbestosis material, and around workers handling asbestosis products (Exhibit A, page 22).
35The deceased married and started a family. For a long period of time, the deceased's mother-in-law, Ida Nemett (T 11), lived with them. Mrs Nemett is still alive and is currently 101 years of age, but she now lives in a nursing home by reason of her increasing frailty. The relationship that the deceased had with his mother-in-law, which included having her live in his house, was repeated in his relationship with the first plaintiff, and has much to do with the strong cultural links and background of both the first plaintiff and the deceased.
36The first plaintiff said at T 12:
"Q. How would you compare your relationship with your father to say your sister's relationship with your father?
A. Quite put simply, I lived at home all my life and I had no intention, bar from marrying, although a year later I still didn't move out, I've always been with my mum and dad, I just wanted to be with them and they wanted to be with me, we enjoyed each other's company, there was no reason for us to be apart.
Q. When you were, after your marriage, what were the living arrangements, directly after you got married?
A. Thomas moved in to my bedroom with me, with mum and dad, and we stayed living as a family unit, extended family with now Thomas, my grandmother, my mum and dad, and myself.
Q. Did you pay board or rent?
A. No, I've never paid board to my parents.
Q. Who looked after the buying of the food, the groceries, all of that, all those types of, at that time?
A. My mum and dad.
Q. Did you make a contribution towards that?
A. Not usually, every now and then I'd buy mum flowers or something like that, just to show my appreciation but no, no financial."
37As this evidence shows, the relationship the first plaintiff had with her father was not only culturally based, but based upon the strong filial bond between them.
38At the time the first plaintiff came to know her future husband, she was living at home. She continued to live in the same home as the deceased and her mother, following her marriage. The first plaintiff said at T 12:
"Q. That arrangement where you and Thomas were living with your parents, how long did that go on for?
A. So from the time Thomas arrived, 4 August 2002, up until the time he was offered a position in Brisbane which would have been April, May 03."
39However, the first plaintiff did not go with him. She remained living at home with her mother and father (T 13):
"Q. How long was he living in Brisbane and you were living in Sydney?
A. In November 03 we purchased our first house together at Keperra and even at that time, I still lived with mum and dad so it wasn't until 8 October 2004 when I moved up, when I secured a position in Brisbane and moved to Brisbane."
40The house at Keperra, which was purchased by the first plaintiff and her husband for their own occupancy was as follows:
"Q. The house at Keperra, can you just describe to her Honour what the house was like?
A. Sure, it was on about 700 metre squared, it was an old 1950s worker's cottage, probably about 100 metres squared in size, had three bedrooms, one bathroom, one living area and an eat in kitchen.
Q. Before you moved into that house, was any work done to it?
A. No, no, not before we moved in. Before I moved in, yes, sorry, Thomas was trying to paint the inside and doing whatever I, I advised him to do during my fortnightly visits.
Q. When did you move into the Keperra house permanently?
A. On 8 October 2004."
41The first plaintiff's relationship with the deceased and her mother after she and her husband had purchased their first home was as follows:
"Q. Then did things change, a certain time after that in terms of your living arrangements?
A. Yes they did. So obviously Thomas and I were living in Brisbane, we'd kept in close contact with my mum and dad, sending videotapes, mum continued doing for me what she always had which was tape Days Of Our Lives, and send me up the tapes, so we just kept that same uniqueness without the physical contact that we had, all the telephone conversations, and I'd go back and visit.
Q. Would your father and mother ever come up to Brisbane to visit in that period?
A. Unfortunately not, they didn't have the opportunity; they were caring for my grandmother, as I said about that time she was about 97 years old, her husband had passed away 15 years prior, so she was very dependent on my parents to be there to assist her.
Q. When was Christian born?
A. He was born on 18 June 2006.
Q. Did you work right up until shortly before Christian was born or what was the position?
A. Yes I did. I worked up to the last week before Christian was born and he came a little early.
Q. Did you have some time off work after Christian was born?
A. Yes I did, because I didn't have any support I was at home with Christian on maternity leave for about 11 and a half months.
Q. In that period did you go back to Sydney with Christian?
A. Yes I did.
Q. Did your father have any contact with Christian in that period?
A. Yes he did.
Q. What was that contact?
A. Well I drove back to Sydney when Christian was about four months old and we organised his baptism during that time, I also flew down with Christian a few times. Dad would just take him and go which was a godsend for me, so he would just always nurse him and walk him and give him his bottles and take care of him for me.
Q. Do you have any, at that time, did you have any family in Brisbane?
A. No I don't have any or nor did I then.
Q. When you went back to work, did you go back to work fulltime or part time or what was the arrangement?
A. I went back to work fulltime.
Q. What does that mean, were you at work every day?
A. Yep, five days a week, a 40 hour week.
Q. What time did you start?
A. I tried to start somewhere in the vicinity of 7.30 to 8 o'clock which meant Christian would have to be dropped off about 7 o'clock in the morning to daycare and I finished work somewhere in the vicinity of 4.30 to five which meant that Christian would be picked up somewhere in the vicinity of 5.30 to 6pm of an evening.
Q. So when you went back to work fulltime, is it the case that Christian was in childcare five days a week?
A. Correct.
Q. Would you always do the drop off and the pick up or would Thomas do that sometimes?
A. Because Thomas's new role now entailed with an amount of travelling, going away for different shows and what not, it was predominantly, the caring responsibility on me, that Thomas would assist, so we would just flag who was available at the time but predominantly it was me." (T 13-15)
42Prior to the second plaintiff's birth, the first plaintiff had discussions with her parents about their living arrangements as follows:
"Q. In this period prior to Christian's birth, did you ever have any discussions with your parents about their living arrangements?
A. Absolutely, as is the case, I guess, we expect the oldest person to die first or that was the expectation in our family. My grandmother had lived good long years being 97 and it was always the estimation that she would be the first to pass at which point mum and dad felt somewhat free and able to come and live with us. Our aim was to live together as a family under one house, under one roof, and we would share a life together just as we had done for 37 years of my life prior." (T 15)
43An important part of this discussion was the German/Czechoslovakian background of the first plaintiff, her parents and her husband, who was also German:
"Q. Did that have any influence on the way you behaved as a family and the way you structured your family?
A. Obviously I was born and raised here. Obviously a lot of, I believe, European values were instilled into us in terms of respect and support of one another. My dad would very often say, and all of us would hear, that his family was his treasure and he was there to provide the support and the comfort for us. That was a pivotal part of my growing up. I knew that it wasn't so much posing a question to my parents, if I wanted anything, but asking for help and it was there for me." (T 15)
44On 13 July 2008 the first plaintiff's mother died suddenly. The first plaintiff described what happened as follows:
"A. Yep. I went to Sydney straight away, Christian was just turned 2, I left Thomas at home with Christian to go and be with my dad, went to the family home, I lived there for over two weeks, I arranged all the funeral and the autopsy and everything else that had to be required so my dad didn't have to go through that and my grandmother, meanwhile, I realised that she wasn't well and I organised for an ambulance because it was deemed that she had vascular dementia and she could no longer live in the house unsupervised so I took care of all of the affairs and then unfortunately, after about two and a half week mark, I had to return to my job.
Q. When you returned to your job in Brisbane, was your grandmother, did you leave your grandmother living in the house or had you already made the arrangements?
A. No, no, probably within a day or two of me arriving in Sydney I realised that there was something seriously wrong with my grandmother and it would have been midnight on one day that I called the ambulance and they took her to Liverpool for an ACAT assessment and at that ACAT assessment it was deemed that she had vascular dementia and she wouldn't be able to return home so then I or dad and I organised interviews with various retirement housing retirement village places until we found the optimum one, which was St Hedwig because it's got a German heritage and my grandmother is German." (T 15-16)
45The first plaintiff told the court that her grandmother had some difficulties in speaking English and tended to speak a combination of English and German. Following the sudden death of the deceased's wife and the new living arrangements for his mother-in-law, he had discussions with the first plaintiff as follows:
"A. It was obviously a very tense, unexpected time. Practically is one thing that dad and I always have in common, it's get the job done. We have a saying, honour the dead and respect the living so we had to organise things for my grandmother. It wasn't really a time for us to be able to show emotion or talk about emotion or what plans. We have to organise a funeral, wait for the results of the autopsy and see that my grandmother was taken care of.
Q. You said you went back to Brisbane?
A. Yes.
Q. You went back to your job?
A. Yes.
Q. What was the position in relation to your contact with your father after that?
A. Numerous phone calls a day, five to ten on some occasions. Ring up, make sure he is okay, what is happening, how he is going, anything I can do for him.
Q. Did you have at that point or any later point any discussions with your father about his living arrangements?
A. Yes, we did.
Q. What were they?
A. Dad was living at home with two dogs that he had raised with mum and dad decided that he wanted to live the dream that we had all spoken of, which was that he would come up and live in Brisbane, we would buy one house together, live under the same roof and dad will come and help us and provide care and support.
Q. When you say care and support what do you mean by care and support?
A. Looking after Christian. Dad knew that he was a handful. Dad knew that Thomas and I worked fulltime jobs and he wanted to be a provider for Christian, just as he was when we were children.
Q. Did you come to some kind of agreement in relation to those issues?
A. Yeah, absolutely. He knew of the situation that Christian was in day care for five days a week so we wanted to reduce that. Dad believed he would be able to teach him the woodworking and the other life skills more so than what a day care could provide so we were going to reduce day care down to two to three days maximum so Christian could get some social skills.
Q. Who was to look after Christian?
A. My dad.
Q. This agreement or arrangement that you just described what steps were taken after that in order to put that in place?
A. Very shortly after that it because a pivotal point. Dad received a real estate care in his letterbox which he saw as a omen. He contacted the real estate agent
Q. When was that?
A. August, September.
Q. 2008?
A. Yes. Yes.
Q. Sorry, continue.
A. So he received a real estate card. He had a bond with the real estate agent and felt comfortable selling his family home with this gentleman. They then determined a strategy and timing of when the auction would occur and dad set about just decluttering and neatening up the home before that took place.
Q. Did he eventually sell his home?
A. Yes, he did. Dad sold at auction. I flew down to Sydney to be at the auction with him for support and that occurred some time in I think it was kind of February, March of 2009 and the house sold at that time.
Q. When his house was on the market did he and you have any contact in relation to finding properties in Brisbane?
A. Yes, we did. Initially Thomas, Christian and I would go around and videotape properties and the drive and the local area so dad could a feel because he had not been to Brisbane before and we would send him those videotapes and talk on the phone about what we found and what we thought of the property, if it was suitable for our family. Then in about August sorry, December 08 dad came up to Sydney for a week and we drove around together. We had the real estate book about ten or so properties to look and we went around as a family and just looked at these properties for suitability.
Q. I think you said, ":Sydney" in your answer, you meant Brisbane?
A. Sorry. I am sorry, Brisbane, yes.
Q. Did you select a property in that period when he was in Brisbane in December?
A. There were a couple that he and I were mostly interested in. Unfortunately they sold prior to the time that we required.
Q. Did you eventually find a property?
A. Yes, I did. I found 8 Housewood Court, Highvale. When I found it I went and looked at it by myself and I said this is the one. I took photos for my dad and quickly shipped them up to him. He had a look, said it was gorgeous. It had the mountain views which he desired. He'd grown up in Czechoslovakia in mountain area and he said it felt like coming home to him.
Q. When was that house purchased?
A. It settled in about 21 to 26 April 2009.
Q. Prior to that had you made any arrangements with your father in relation to securing the funds to purchase the house?
A. Yes, the house that we were looking at because of the size and nature of my house at Keperra was not going to be suitable for all of us to live in so we had to secure a house where it was large enough for us to function and it was in the vicinity of approximately 800,000. My dad's house was due to sell somewhere in the $400,000 mark and then myself, my father and Thomas secured a loan with ING for 360,000 for the remainder of the house." (T 16-18)
46The first plaintiff described her father's contribution as follows:
"Q. In relation to the purchase of the property what contribution did your father make?
A. The property.
Q. The property at Highvale?
A. The Highvale, yep. Sorry, are you talking about the cost of the house?
Q. Yes, the cost of the house?
A. Yep, so when my dad's house sold he put in $400,000 for that house and he paid for stamp duty which was in the vicinity of $20,000." (T 18)
47The first plaintiff and her husband had the following discussion with the deceased about household expenditure:
"A. My dad, being the provider as he always had, we had agreed that any of the utilities such as phone, electricity, rates, anything to support the home would be 50/50 and also in terms of anything maintenance or goes wrong with the house. During dad's lifetime he bought the lawnmower, whipper snipper, we had to declog the biolytic system so dad had his hand in the pocket for those expenses.
Q. Was your father a handyman type person?
A. He liked to be.
Q. Who was to do the lawn mowing and all of those things that were necessary?
A. That would be my dad. As soon as he moved up I think he grabbed the hand mower to mow an acre even though we had a ride on but my dad liked mowing and keeping a neat garden, pottering in the garden. He was very proud of his Dyson vacuum cleaner which he brought up with him and he was vacuuming and cleaning he house whilst Thomas and I were at work fulltime." (T 19)
48The deceased moved to Brisbane in April 2009. The sale of his house has settled, so he moved to live with the first plaintiff, her husband and the second plaintiff for several weeks until the sale of their home settled. During this time, the first plaintiff described her routine as "hectic":
"A. It was very hectic for Thomas and I. We were due to move out of that home. As I said it was a very old worker's cottage. It had flaky paint and little bits and pieces falling off so Thomas and I spent intense hours working and renovating on that house, doing things such as painting inside and out, doing the landscaping. During that time I did not think it was good and nor did my dad of having Christian running around
SHELLER: I object, your Honour.
TZOUGANATOS
Q. Who looked after Christian in that two week period when you and Thomas
A. My father.
Q. What type of things did he do for Christian in that period?
A. Took him to the park, fed him, took him to McDonalds, took him in the car, just generally kept him away from us during that time.
Q. Who bathed Christian in that period?
A. My father.
Q. Who changed his clothes and dressed him in that period?
A. My father.
Q. Who prepared his meals and fed him in that period?
A. My father.
Q. Could you just estimate for us, if you could, in that two week period how many hours per week your father spent looking after Christian?
A. If you say the waking hours of a child that age are probably 10 and 14 sleeping, eight of the ten daily.
Q. Are you saying eight hours a day?
A. Yep." (T 19-20)
49The sale of the house settled on 21 April. The first plaintiff "moved dad and the dogs" to the new premises and days later she, her husband and the second plaintiff moved into the new property. She described the arrangements made for the second plaintiff's care at this time as follows:
"A. We had just moved to Highvale. Obviously it was a big move and change for all of us. I was trying to get Christian into another day care during that time, something closer to home for him. We were discussing about changing the arrangements to two to three days a week and for dad to look after Christian for the rest. So obviously we were moving, unpacking boxes, a whole tonne of stuff happening and then we were making those arrangements.
Q. Were you working fulltime in that period?
A. Yes, I always worked fulltime.
Q. What about Thomas?
A. The same, always works fulltime.
Q. Where was Christian during the weekdays?
A. In day care.
Q. Who dropped him off in the morning and who picked him up in the afternoon?
A. I believe at that stage it probably would have been a combination of Thomas and myself. I know there were occasions that I took dad to the day care just so he could learn the ropes, it's a little bit special when you have to sign in and out a child and what the basis is and what they need to do.
Q. Did you arrange for your father to get authorisation of the child care to pick him up and drop him off?
A. We were in the throws of that, yes.
Q. From when you moved into Highvale did your father continue to provide care to Christian?
A. Yes.
Q. What type of things did he do?
A. It's usually quite hectic in our house in the morning, getting two adults out and ready, so dad would take care of Christina, feed him breakfast, get him dressed so I could get him into the car and take him to day care so I would be on time for work.
Q. Could you estimate for her Honour how many hours a day of care that your father provided from when you moved into the property at Highvale to Christian?
A. He was an early riser, say approximately two in the morning, two at night.
Q. What about on weekends, did your father provide Christian with any care or supervision on the weekends?
A. Yeah, absolutely. During that time I was studying for a diploma and I think also during that time Thomas had some caravan and camping shows so he was away from the house so dad would take care of Christian which enabled me to get on with my diploma and Thomas was absent from home because he was at the caravan shows.
Q. Could you estimate for us, on the weekends, on an average, how many hours of care had your father provided for Christian?
A. Again, we'll go waking hours, so about ten for a child that age probably seven to eight." (T 20-21)
50The first indication that the deceased had the disease, which would soon kill him, occurred on 14 July 2009. The first plaintiff wanted her father to accompany her to the Samford Show, which had many activities for children but the deceased said he did not feel well enough. She said he was holding his chest and when she said, "What's wrong" he replied, "It feels like my lung has collapsed" (T 22).
51She described what occurred next as follows:
"A. Sure. Interestingly enough we had I believe they were Xrays, or ultrasounds one or the other, performed. The first result came back and said, you know, "Not sure what this is due to. Further examination is required." Then organised for further testing; I was at work; dad received a phone call, and said, "Have you ever worked with asbestos?" and my dad said, "Yeah" and then he phoned me, and I cried, and I went home straight away. And we made provisions to visit, I think it was called, Dr Hunlow(?) in Redcliffe; he was a specialist in those matters.
Q. He's a lung specialist, isn't he?
A. Yeah, that's correct and I went with dad to Mr Hunlow, and he said that we'd need to get a biopsy in order to confirm it, but his belief was that dad would have mesothelioma and that it was a death sentence.
Q. Did your father have surgery in September 2009 by way of a biopsy and a thoracotomy?
A. If that means they put a talcum powder type substance into the lung to seal it and drain it, yes, that's correct." (T 22)
52The first plaintiff described the situation from that moment until her father died on 27 February 2010 as follows:
"Q. From 14 July 2009 until your father passes away in January 2010 was he able to look after Christian in the way that he had before that time?
A. No, the interactions lessened, although my dad did take Christian for rides on his walking frame, which Christian appreciated. My Dad did the best he could with what he was coping with.
Q. I just want to change topics, Mrs Kuenzel. You told us earlier that the arrangements in relation to the upkeep of the house, and the purchase of household items the cost was split 50/50 between yourself and your father?
A. Huh hum.
Q. Did your father make any financial, or cash, contribution to you, or Christian?
A. Yes, he did. My dad started paying us $500 a fortnight which was always welcome.
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Q. What did you understand was the purpose of your father giving you that money?
A. It had no strings attached. It was "Here ya go little mumma; he's $500". My dad had the same methodology with my mum; it was ingrained; my dad would go to the bank every fortnight; withdraw $1,000; give my mum $500; when he came to live with me he gave me $500. I could do with it as I pleased, and what I did with it was occasionally put some money on the mortgage; paid for Christian's daycare; bought shoes whatever I needed to do with the funds.
Q. Did you father, over and about that money that you just spoke about, buy other things for the household?
A. Always. He bought the lawnmower which was $1,000 when our lawnmower died; a blower obviously being a bigger property and a bigger house we needed more stuff that we didn't have, or bring into the house when we moved, so my dad happily, willingly, purchased those items.
Q. What about food? Did he buy food?
A. Yeah, dad and I didn't tend to eat the same, so dad would find himself down at the Woolies, and he'd purchase veal snitzels or whatever he wanted to buy. I'm not a meat eater. So dad would often go shopping; purchase extra items that he wanted.
Q. When your father was still alive was there any renovation work done to the Highvale property?
A. Yeah. We had big plans for that. Obviously when you move into a house that isn't new, you want to tailor it to your likes, and what you agreed. When we moved in we knew that there were some things absent from the house that as a family we wanted, so we made arrangements for those to be done, and we had a schedule for those to occur. The first we kicked off with was a shed which went in a couple of months after settlement. Up in the pool area it was a grassed area and we wanted to change that to paving so we organised for someone to come in and that was conducted in about November 09. And we had some other plans for some airconditioning because it was limited in the house and it got very hot." (T 23-24)
53The first plaintiff was unsure who paid for council approval of the shed but said that to the best of her knowledge it was paid 50/50. As is set out in more detail below, this was incorrect.
54Modification was also made to the home in relation to the deceased's comfort. At T 25-26 the first plaintiff gave evidence as follows:
"Q. You were about to say something about the airconditioning?
A. Yeah. As said we had progressive things that we wanted to get done. The airconditioning dad was concerned it was only in the lounge room; Christian's bedroom, and his. He was concerned for Thomas and I and the other parts of the area, so he wanted it air conditioned so that we'd all feel comfort. The flooring was carpeted; we had dogs four dogs, so dad wanted that changed over from carpeting which was hard to keep clean to a wooden floor.
Q. Who paid for the air conditioning, and the carpeting?
A. Thomas and I did, because it was post dad's life.
Q. But for your father's death, what did you expect would happen in relation to payment for those?
A. That dad would have paid half.
Q. What was the cost of the air conditioning installation?
A. To the best of my knowledge around the $25,000 mark.
Q. What was the cost of the carpeting?
A. To the best of my knowledge around $12,000 mark.
Q. Did you have some work done in relation to the bathroom?
A. Yes, that's correct. On the when a builder comes out and gives you building acknowledgement before you purchase a house, it was deemed that our bathrooms had a leak in the wall so we had to get somebody in to seal that area, and that was done at a cost of approximately $1,000.
Q. When was that done?
A. Post my dad's death due to the fact that I didn't want builders or people coming through while dad was sick.
Q. Who did you expect to pay for that but for your father's death?
A. My dad would have paid either the whole thing, or half.
Q. Did you have some work done in relation to the garden area?
A. Yeah, we were required to put some mulch in as that it's an acre. It does get quite weedy area, so we purchased some mulch and laid that down.
Q. How much did that cost?
A. Approximately $1,000.
Q. Who paid that?
A. I did. It was post my father's death.
Q. What was your expectation in relation to who would pay for that if your father was still alive?
A. Based on past experience and what occurred during our life, dad would have either paid for all, or half.
Q. Are there any other improvements that you had planned for the Highvale property?
A. Yes, dad was very much for being environmentally friendly, so we were looking at getting some kind of solar device we have currently got electric hot water; dad was always very much into solar, and in actual fact on the day that my dad made the determination it was time to go to hospital, I had already arranged for a solar gentleman to come out and give us a quote.
Q. Have you installed that?
A. No, I haven't.
Q. Have you got a quote for it?
A. I probably had that quote that may have been done on that day still, yeah.
Q. Can you remember what the amount was?
A. $3,500 $5,000 somewhere in that vicinity."
55The position in relation to the care of the second plaintiff is as follows:
"Q. Since your father's death, what has been the position in relation to Christian's care?
A. Christian commenced school at four and a half, so that would have been January 11, so he commenced school in a private school Prince of Peace in Queensland. Because of our working arrangement, Christian goes to before and after school care five days a week, and has a permanent booking.
Q. How much do you pay for before and after school care?
A. It's $127.50 per week.
Q. But for your father's death, would Christian have been in before and after school care?
A. No, he would not.
Q. Why not?
A. Because dad wanted to, and was going to, drive Christian to school and pick him up in the afternoon.
Q. Are you still working fulltime?
A. Yes, I am.
Q. After your father's death, did you change your working arrangements in any way?
A. Yes, I did.
Q. What was the change, and why?
A. I changed from a ten day fortnight to a nine day fortnight as I needed to be there for Christian some of those days were used to accumulate to have off with him such as holidays. At school they get a lot of holidays, and we didn't want to leave him in a vacation care, so Thomas and I take separate holidays in order to look after Christian during his breaks.
Q. Have those arrangements affected your earnings?
A. Yes they have.
Q. How?
A. The ten day fortnight down to a nine day fortnight costs about 12 or $13,000. Additionally, we have this thing called purchase leave so I also purchased an additional month of leave which is approximately $7,000. The purpose of that again is to Christian gets breaks every term at about two weeks and then a long eight to ten week one so we wanted to cover as much of Christian's holidays as possible so he didn't have to go to vacation care.
Q. But for your father's death, what did you expect would be the arrangement in relation to school holiday periods for Christian's care?
A. Dad would be at home with him, they would be enjoying the Highvale property, swimming in the pool, playing on the swings." (T 26-27)
56The first plaintiff was extensively cross-examined about these matters and made a number of concessions as to who had paid for items. This is discussed in more detail in the section below where I deal with all the evidence adduced on behalf of the plaintiff.