"... She was 13 years of age and you were in a position of her stepfather. There is some suggestion in the reports that you believe yourself to be in love with this child and that you also believe that she was in love with you.
That in itself is an indication that you need help given that you're 48 and she's 13. Even if we put that aside for the moment and we say, 'All right' - the fact is, she's only 13 years of age. Even if we put that aside for the moment and we say, 'All right'. The fact is she's only 13 years of age and she was entitled to your protection, your complete and utter protection.
Even if it were the case - and I'm not suggesting that it was but even if it were the case that this child had a crush on you, when a teenage girl gets a crush on a man of 48 he doesn't take advantage of it. But I'm not saying, and I stress, I'm not for one minute saying that she did have a crush on you, I'm simply saying that this is beyond the bounds, and the reports are extremely disturbing and really there's nothing much that anybody needs to say about it.
You know that what you have done is wrong and that's why you have pleaded guilty on the fast-track system and the indication of remorse that flows from that does entitle you to a discount in your sentence and the reason for that is, as I have already expressed this morning, it's not a matter of saying, 'Well, I'm sorry' and we then say, 'Well, that's good, he's remorseful and he can have a reduction in his sentence.' It's when you do something concrete about your remorse and what you have done here is that you have pleaded guilty and so that the child is saved the trouble of going through, and the trauma of going through a trial.
You have also pleaded guilty on the fast-track system. Again, the community don't understand the significance of that, but we have a very high rate of acquittals in sexual offences and the reason that we have such a high rate of acquittals in sexual offences is because it's usually just one person's word against another, in that, and the juries just, in the end, don't know who to believe, so there is a high rate of acquittal.
People who have a fast-track plea of guilty from their - from the perpetrator often become angry that these things are taken into account but what they should do is compare notes with the people who don't have fast-track pleas of guilty or any pleas of guilty and they would see the difference between what you have done and what has been done by people who don't plead guilty.
This was the situation where - and I don't want to criticise the mother. I just don't know what she was trying to do; whether she thought she could deal with this in some other way. But the whole situation is designed to make this - even though it's not intentional, but children are not small adults. They don't think like adults and she would be taking a lot of the blame for this on herself and it's obvious from this letter that that's what she is doing. That's what makes this little letter so sad, really. It really is a very sad little letter.
Anyway, we can't do any more about that. We have got to take into account your plea of guilty, your fast-track plea, your remorse, but at the same time the seriousness of what you have done, ..." (Emphasis added).