85 I made reference to the authorities on this aspect in Jackson v Jackson [1999] NSWSC 229 in these terms:
"49 I turn to the question of what effect the assaults may have in the adjustment process. The defendant relied on two cases under the Family Law Act, Doherty v Doherty (1996) FLC 92-652 and Marando v Marando (1997) FLC 92-754. In the first of these cases the Full Court said at page 82,683:-
"On page 26 the trial judge made reference to the appellant's drinking habits and to domestic violence and aggression, which he exhibited towards the respondent and the children, particularly to S. Although the trial Judge did no more than record these events, it is clear from his findings that the wife's contribution as homemaker and parent may have been increased as a result thereof.
Although the domestic violence complained of related to a relatively small period of time at the end of the marriage, nevertheless, his Honour would, in my opinion, have been entitled to have found that because of the appellant's conduct, the respondent's contribution diminished as a consequence, leading to the overall weighting based upon contribution in favour of the wife being increased, albeit only slightly, having regard to the facts of this case."
50 Of interest is the reference to such conduct either increasing one party's contribution or diminishing the other party's contribution.
51 In Marando v Marando at 84,168-9 Gee J had the following to say about the issue of domestic violence.
In my opinion however, the wife over the very long period of cohabitation made a much greater contribution than the husband to the welfare of the family, particularly as homemaker and parent. I am satisfied on the evidence that in her homemaker and parenting role the wife in that role and by way of general contribution to the family's welfare carried out responsibilities well beyond the norm. She had the responsibility of the home and the children almost entirely without the husband's assistance for a very long period of time. Amongst other things, she thereby enabled him to work and earn income over and above his full time work as well as his full time work. In this family she was the uniting force and the one who provided the support, love and affection necessary to maintain this particular family unit over a long time.
This was made especially hard by the husband's abuse and denigration of her and the children in the ways described by them in their evidence, which I largely accept on this issue, as well as by his attitude to 'women's work' and by his drinking which necessitated the wife working especially hard and harder than would be usual in normal situations as homemaker, parent and as the prime navigator of the welfare of this family through the many seas of problems and difficulties which confronted them over the years
These are special factors of the kind to which the Full Court drew attention in Ferraro v Ferraro 16 Fam LR 1, especially at pages 38, 39 and 47, that being a decision affirmed in McLay v McLay 20 Fam LIZ 239 at pages 248 to 249, and is no doubt what Baker J had in mind when speaking for the Full Court in Doherty v Doherty 20 Fam LR 137 at page 141. His Honour's remarks, although, in my respectful opinion, obiter and given in an extempore judgment, are entitled to great respect. They do not represent new law. It has been suggested in some quarters since that judgment was delivered that they have, but I disagree with that suggestion.
The remarks of Baker J in Doherty's case were simply an expression, in the context of domestic violence, of the passages in Ferraro's case cited above. Neither Ferraro's case nor Doherty's case purported to overrule Soblusky (1976) 2 Fam LR 1, nor Ferguson (1978) 4 Fam LR 312, where investigation of fault or misconduct per se was deprecated. Any intention to overrule Ferguson was deprecated in Ferraro's case at page 39, and I am, with respect, unable to accept that either Fogarty J or Baker J, who were members of the Full Court in both Ferraro and Doherty, would have intended such decisions to be overruled without expressly saying so.
52 In Green v Robinson (1995) 36 NSWLR 96 Cole J at 119 after discussing the dictionary definitions of "homemaker" adopted the definition as "one who creates and maintains a comfortable and welcoming ambience for the members of their household". He went on to say at page 119:-
"However, even such a second meaning is inadequate if it is intended to convey that only one person in a household may be responsible for the creation or maintenance of such a welcoming ambience for it is clear, in my view, that each party to a relationship, be it of marriage or of a de facto relationship, may contribute to the homemaking in which that relationship subsists. Parties to the relationship may, depending upon their various capacities, skills, inclinations, interests, available time and other factors, contribute significantly to the making of a home. The concept of " homemaker" or "making of a home" has a different and wider connotation than housekeeping or maintaining a house. It involves the creation of an emotional ambience of stability .
To take but three examples. A person, not infrequently the male in the relationship, may have skills related to home improvements which are exercised for the mutual advantage of the parties in the relationship. That is an aspect of homemaking for it permits the more pleasant enjoyment of the domestic relationship. To similar effect, a person, most frequently the female in the relationship, may practice cooking and decorating skills which also are aspects of homemaking for they similarly lead to a comfortable and welcoming ambience in the home in which the parties in the relationship live. And each, both the male and female partners, may bring to the relationship aspects of stability, and attitudes of tolerance and understanding critical to the creation of a home. It is important to recognise that contributions as a homemaker may be qualitative as well as quantitative, and that a lesser quantitative but higher qualitative contribution may be of equal or even greater importance and value to the relationship and the partners and children than a seemingly greater quantitative contribution.
The width of aspects of contribution, and in some instances the amorphous qualities which a party may bring as his or her contribution as a homemaker to a relationship, highlights the difficulty of trying to quantify in precise money terms the contribution of each party. It lends emphasis to the need for the Court in most instances to exercise a significant element of judicial assessment in determining whether it is just and equitable that a property adjustment be made.
53 Clearly his Honour includes the qualitative aspects as well as the quantitative. Accordingly in the adjustment process it is possible to take account of these actions of the plaintiff in assessing his homemaker contributions. Whether it is appropriate to do so rather than give a judgment for assault is the next question.
86 There were three incidents of violence alleged by the plaintiff during the course of the relationship. One was at a Christmas party in 1995 in the Newcastle Hotel with the Brentworth staff and BHP staff. The defendant says an argument developed between her and the plaintiff and he demanded they leave which they did. When they arrived home she says the plaintiff accused her of flirting with gentlemen at the party which she denied. An argument developed, at which stage the defendant was naked, and according to her she was pushed outside onto the front patio and the door locked behind her. She knocked and the plaintiff came out and pushed her to the ground. She started to run down the driveway and she slipped and fell onto her back, which resulted in skin off her shoulder blades. She says that the plaintiff kicked her and told her to get up. He then grabbed her by the hair and dragged her up the driveway. He got her back into the house and she stayed there the night. The next morning she called her sister-in-law and attended her doctor. She also complained to the police.
87 The second incident occurred in February 1996 when the parties were at work and the defendant was printing out a workers' compensation document. The defendant says that she disagreed with what was to be in the document and refused to sign it. The defendant says that the plaintiff then hit her and threw her against the wall and he kicked her between the back of her shoulder blades.
88 The third incident was in June 1996 when the parties were again going through some documents. The defendant says she asked the plaintiff how they could explain cash cheques to the accountant. The plaintiff insisted on proceeding that way and he lent across and slapped her across the face and picked her up and threw her down.
89 The plaintiff denied these incidents. In the first incident he painted a picture of the defendant being drunk and amorous and of her own volition running out into the street naked and yelling. He says he had to bring her back into the house and while she struggled they both sustained minor injuries.
90 The plaintiff's account of the first incident is inherently unlikely and I accept the defendant's evidence on this.
91 The other incidents are harder to resolve and it should be noted that there was no particular evidence given of difficulties caused by the two alleged assaults in 1996. They seem to be isolated incidents with no on-going repercussions. Given the circumstances, namely the improper treatment of accounting records, I favour the defendant's version of these incidents. In respect of the 1995 incident there would be difficulties which the defendant suffered as she recovered from her injuries which would have had an effect on her ability to carry out her homemaker and parenting roles.
92 However, in the context of the entire relationship these incidents, although serious, did not detract in any substantial way from the homemaker contributions. As I have said earlier, there was no claim for damages for assault and, accordingly, the Court does not need to indicate its disapproval of domestic violence by awarding such damages.
Claims by the parties
93 The plaintiff's claim was that the defendant had received sufficient recompense during the period of the de facto relationship and afterwards and accordingly sought the following orders:
1. That within 14 days the Defendant delivers up to the plaintiff, with vacant possession and in good order and repair, the property situated at and known as I Nautilus Close, Elermore Vale, New South Wales.
2. That within 28 days the defendant pay into the PLG Superannuation Account the sum of $25,000.00.
3. That within 28 days the defendant pay to the plaintiff the sum of $13,700.00 being the amount advanced by the plaintiff to the defendant per loan agreements executed by the parties between 26 February 2001 and 3 August 2001.
4. That the defendant's cross claim be dismissed.
5. That within 28 days the defendant pay to the plaintiff costs incurred by the plaintiff in these proceedings.
6. That the caveats lodged by the defendant be withdrawn.