41 There were some affidavits read on behalf of some of the grandchildren who take under the provisions of the will. I have already dealt with the situation of Lucie Day, the child of Jill Day, when discussing her mother's situation. Kristina O'Connor is presently 35 years of age. She is married to her husband who is 61 years of age and is employed as a journalist with the Australian Broadcasting Corporation. They have two children born in 1996 and March 2000. Kristina has tertiary qualifications and has previously worked as a part-time administrative assistant with the Australian Broadcasting Corporation. Mr and Mrs O'Connor own a cottage at 19 Moffit Street, Milton, Brisbane which is subject to a mortgage of some $8,000. They have a four year old car but otherwise no savings. Mr O'Connor's salary after tax and superannuation is about $1,466 per fortnight and from this has to be met payments on the mortgage of $153 per fortnight and maintenance in respect of her husband's children by an earlier marriage of $150 per week. Kristina was one of Judith's children and she was instrumental at one stage in trying to make contact with the deceased. She wrote to the deceased and received a letter back welcoming the contact. She did this without the knowledge of her mother and it is no doubt to her credit that she attempted to locate her grandmother.
42 Susan Pamela Lockyer is 46 years old. She is the daughter of Pamela Maguire. She is married to Gary Richard Lockyer who is the same age and who has a business making leather goods. The business is not profitable, his income being less than $5,000 per annum. Susan has a Bachelor of Nursing degree. She is employed as a clinical nurse specialist at Ballarat Base Hospital where she earns a salary of approximately $43,000 per annum gross. She and her husband live in a weather board cottage on an unproductive five acre block and they owe $69,000 to the Commonwealth Bank on that cottage. The monthly repayments are $1,080.
43 Judith Ann Kenny is 43 years of age and is the daughter of Pamela Maguire. She is married and her husband, who is a casual bus driver in Armidale, earns $20,000 per annum. They have one child who is aged eleven years. Although she is employed as a laboratory technician at the University of New England it is likely that she will be retrenched. They own their home at 105 The Avenue, Armidale which is subject to a mortgage of $95,000 and requires repayments of $1,200 per month. They have two old cars. Judith also owns an investment cottage in Armidale which is leased for $165 per week which provides an income of approximately $4,000 per annum.
44 Scott Andrew McLennan is 31 years of age and was educated at a good school but apparently left school after Year 11. He has no trade or tertiary qualifications. He is not married and does not have any dependents. The last job that he had was about five years ago and he has for many years been subsisting on the pension of $350 per fortnight. He has no savings or capital assets.
45 It is necessary to consider in more detail at this stage the relationship between the three children of the deceased and the deceased. I will first deal with the relationship of Jill Day with her mother.
46 In her affidavit Jill Day described the relationship which she had with her father and mother as a close and loving one up to her father's death in 1975. Thereafter she spent some time with her mother supporting her but about two years after her father's death she says that her mother developed a serious drinking problem. Apparently she started visiting a local RSL club probably as a result of her loneliness. As well as her drinking problem the deceased also had problems with her sight and she became reluctant to leave her home. This led to her daughter, Jill Day, visiting her mother from time to time rather than her mother coming to Jill Day's home. Jill Day used to clean the unit which was neglected by her mother. The deceased also neglected her own health. Jill Day spoke of a difficulty which occurred when she was pregnant with her daughter, Lucy. As a result of her drinking her mother would frequently become very demanding and this was upsetting for Jill Day. At that stage her husband forbade her to speak to her mother and she had little contact over the period of her pregnancy. Jill Day spoke of the last five to seven years of the deceased's life and their relationship at that time. She said that the deceased reduced her drinking and she became more accommodating. This led to an improvement in the relationship. As a result Jill Day spent more time with her mother and shopped for her. On those occasions Lucy would often also attend and she has given evidence to this effect. Jill Day spoke of attempts to help her mother by arranging paid help and obtaining a Vodafone alarm. However, her mother rejected these offers. There was a letter which was written not long before the death of the deceased from Jill Day to her niece, Kristina O'Connor, after there had been contact between Kristina and the deceased. The letter was in these terms:-
"My mother and I have always had a stormy relationship which worsened after the death of my Dad some 20 years ago (Frank Marshall died 26 January 1975). I adored him as did Mum and I guess that without his link we drifted apart. If I were to draw a graph of our relationship it would be a series of hills linked by long flat valleys, but as we both grow older the valleys are less deep and long. We are both fiery, stubborn women who are perhaps finally learning to accept each other for who we are rather than what we would both wish we were. Your grandmother is a very strong person and I believe, a very sad person. She never talked, with me at least, about those early years and the incredible pain and guilt she must have gone through. Tina, she is terrified of opening old wounds for your mother and her sister and for herself but a delight to get your first letter was palpable, still is, but I don't think she knows what to do, to say to you and that's why she hasn't written.... She must be 86 (she's always put her age back) and while she's had her fair share of poor health over her life she's pretty hale and hearty. Her biggest problems are her back (calcification of the spine) and her eye sight, but she still lives on her own, shopping for herself and playing the occasional game of cards. We see each other rarely but she has suggested that she comes to see us in a few weeks time. If this actually happens it will be the first time that she's been in our home in 7 years."
47 This letter was put to Jill Day and she accepted some of these matters. An example was the last sentence I have quoted. She says, however, that she exaggerated the poor relationship with her mother in the letter to assist Kristina's mother whom she expected to read the letter. I am prepared to accept Jill Day when she says that she exaggerated the poor relationship between them. However, I do not think that this letter causes a great problem. From the evidence it seems to me that there is some truth in what Jill Day has said in the letter about her and her mother both being stubborn. Apart from the occasion when her pregnancy interrupted the relationship there is nothing in the evidence about the relationship which would suggest to me that either party abandoned the other. In particular some of the difficulties were caused by the deceased's drinking problems. It is also apparent that towards the end of the deceased's life when her drink problem improved that Jill Day continued her contact with her mother and increased that contact in order to assist her mother. In my view there is nothing in the relationship between the deceased and Jill Day which would any way impinge upon the claim which Jill Day has for provision under the Act.
48 I turn to consider the relationship between Pamela Maguire and Judith McLennan and the deceased. Earlier in paragraphs 9 - 11 I have set out the basic chronology of the lives of the deceased and her two daughters. There has been tendered in evidence in these proceedings a large number of letters written between the deceased and her second husband Lt Col Marshall. They give a rare insight into the struggles the deceased was having in attempting to see her daughters. When she came back to Sydney in 1943 it is apparent that she was able to have access to her two children during that year and through early 1944. The girls were, of course, in boarding school and one sees from the other evidence that their father normally visited them on a Sunday and they spent most of their holidays with their father's relatives. There was thus fairly substantial contact between the two daughters and their father when they were young and growing up. Given what evidence there is this contact is likely to have been more frequent than the contact they had with their mother in 1943 and 1944.
49 A defining moment came in the relationship between the deceased and her daughter Pamela Maguire when there was the request by the deceased to Pamela to come and live with her instead of her father. This was most likely at the end of Pamela's schooling when Pamela was 15 years of age. Pamela Maguire declined the invitation to come and live with the deceased saying that she was happy with her father. She did not think she could leave him. Thereafter the deceased took no further steps to contact her and she never saw her daughter again.
50 It is too easy to label the circumstances of that parting with epithets that discredit one or other of the parties. As far as Pamela Maguire was concerned she was a young girl of 15 years of age who had more frequent contact with her father than with her mother. The contact she had with her mother was limited in its nature and consisted mainly of visits to and outings from school. Probably as a child the persons having the most influence upon her would have been her father and the teachers at her boarding school. It is extraordinarily difficult for a child to handle the separation of parents. In view of the extent of the contact with her father it is probably not surprising that she chose to remain with him and maintain the status quo. Such a decision did not necessarily involve no future contact with her mother.
51 From the deceased's point of view Pamela Maguire's decision must have been difficult for her. The deceased was in a situation where she had a two year old child from her second marriage and the prospect of a fresh life ahead of her with that new family. In making the decision not to have further contact with Pamela Maguire, there could have been be a number of factors which may have influenced her. They may have ranged from the desire to have a fresh start in life to the desire to protect her daughters from the trauma of claims of affection by their mother and father which could only be resolved by a court custody application. The deceased is not here to speak for herself although some of the material indicates that she regretted her later lack of contact. The deceased clearly decided not to have further contact but I cannot form a view as to why she made this decision.
52 So far as the younger daughter, Judith McLennan, is concerned she was only eleven at the time of the discussion between the deceased and Pamela. Her recollection of events is not as good as that of Pamela's and clearly this is a natural consequence of her young age. It seems that, given Pamela Maguire's decision, it was most likely that the deceased did not make any further approach to Judith at that time. The only contact was the one in the late 1950s when Judith McLennan was in her late twenties. There was a phone call from the deceased to which I have earlier referred. Although that was an opportunity to re-establish the relationship, Judith felt she could not respond. In cross-examination she agreed that she had rejected the request for a meeting. She said the reason was that she was nervous and frightened that her mother may have later rejected her again in the way she felt she had previously been rejected. In her evidence Judith McLennan said that she missed having a mother at times such as when she had young children of her own growing up. However, notwithstanding this, she did not feel she could do anything to make further contact with her mother. The affidavit evidence of Judith McLellan recounted three recollections of contact with her mother which included the telephone call I have referred to. In the circumstances of such a minimal recollection it is easy to understand how Judith McLennan may have felt she was abandoned by her mother and hence a concern which made her hesitate about re-establishing contact. However, at that stage she was a woman in her late twenties and able to make decisions as to whether she should reject such overtures.
53 At this stage it is useful to remind myself of what was said by Young J in Walker v Walker to which I have referred in paragraph 26 of this judgment. We have here a separation which occurred between the deceased and her two daughters in late 1944 or 1945. The reason for this should not be blamed on the older daughter, Pamela Maguire, because of the choice she made at that stage. Similarly there is nothing in what the younger daughter, Judith McLennan, had done which led to that cessation of the relationship. Accordingly, these daughters should not suffer consequences as a result of that cessation in terms of their application being considered as one where they have themselves rejected their mother. Although I have some difficulty with Judith McLennan's reaction to her mother's conversation in the late 1950s, the fact that her memory (and I accept her evidence as to what her recollection was then) was of a rejection by her mother makes her reaction not unreasonable. After all it had been 15 years without contact and only a vague recollection of that contact. Although in her late twenties she had not then married or started a family.
54 Effectively in this case we have of a relationship between a mother and her daughters, in their childhood years, which was affected by her own personal circumstances and the breakdown of her marriage. She was living in a country at war and did not have control over her own or her future husband's movements. There was probably a desire not to involve the children in a contested custody application. In the passage to which I have just referred Mr Justice Young refers to there being a full investigation into all the facts and circumstances of the matter to see whether the community would expect that a person, in the plight of the testator, ought to have made provision for the applicant. Frequently in family situations where children have unjustifiably turned against their parents and rejected them, it is easy enough to conclude, as a member of the community, that one would not expect a testator to make provision for the child. The testator is, of course, only human. On the other hand a testator cannot (as was pointed out by Bryson J in Gordon v Parkes at 11) reject the obligation to provide for a child simply by a steadfastly maintained repudiation or evasion.
55 In this case the contact maintained between the deceased and the children was for the early part of the marriage before 1940 and for a period of some two years in 1943 and 1944. It was until Pamela was 15 years and Judith was 11 years. It was the most contact the deceased could arrange at that time. In these circumstances I would have thought it would be appropriate for a testatrix to have made provision, if she could, for these two children.
56 I turn to the question whether the three plaintiffs have been left without adequate provision for their maintenance, education and advancement in life. There has been no provision for Pamela Maquire and Judith McLellan and the provision Jill Day, receives under the will would at this stage be the income for life of on a sum of $156,000. As appeared in the evidence this provision was probably predicated upon the deceased's then unexpressed concern as to the inappropriateness of a relationship which Jill Day had had at some stage. That relationship ceased well before the death of the deceased.
57 The plaintiff, Jill Day, puts a number of matters forward as areas where she has been left without proper provision. In particular she refers to her extensive borrowings which she would like to reduce. She also has referred to some medical problems which require attention. Some of these are likely to cost in the order of $4,000 and she has not been able to afford them because of her straightened financial circumstances. She has ongoing costs for treatment for glaucoma, eye strain, anxiety and depression. She also refers to the fact that the property needs a new bathroom, laundry, external painting and landscaping. There has not, however, been any quantification of the amounts which she would propose to spend on these items. In my view the plaintiff, Jil Day, has been left without adequate and proper provision. Proper provision for her should be by way of a lump sum so that at this stage in her life when she is approaching the end of her working career she can reduce her liabilities.
58 In submissions it was submitted that the whole of the estate should pass to Jill Day. Given the absence of quantification of some of the matters to which I have referred, it seems that this is inappropriate.
59 I turn to the position of the others who have been left without any provision.
60 Pamela Maguire's situation is fairly parlous in terms of her living expenses. She and her husband survive on an aged pension. She has a need to replace her car which will cost some $14,000 and there are repairs to the home which are estimated at some $9,500. In addition she has a need for some white goods and has little by way of reserve. Given her husband's ill health this becomes particularly important as a need of her own. She should receive an appropriate sum.
61 So far as Judith McLennan is concerned she and her husband survive on the aged pension. Her home unit is in need of a new kitchen and a new bathroom the cost of which has not appeared in evidence. There is also likely to be a liability towards $5,500 for repairs to the common property of their unit. They have virtually no reserves for their old age.
62 When considering these claims it has to be borne in mind that, merely because of the circumstances of family history, it was the plaintiff, Jill Day, who tendered to her mother's needs and had the contact she has referred to in her evidence. In Singer v Berghouse the High Court drew attention to the fact that both the first and second stage of the process must take into account "the totality of the relationship between the applicant and the deceased and the relationship between the deceased and other persons who have legitimate claims upon his or her bounty".
63 In contrast to Jill Day, Pamela Maguire and Judith McLennan had little contact with their mother. This difference is a factor to be taken into account when determining the amount of provision which is appropriate for each person. So too, for example, are their respective financial situations. The weight given to each will depend upon the circumstances of each individual case.
64 There is the evidence of the situation of some of the grandchildren. Such grandchildren are middle aged and have some needs. However, their needs in respect of an estate of the size of this estate are ones which really cannot be accommodated when their parents' needs are greater.
65 Accordingly, in lieu of the provision in clauses 4A, 4B and 4C of the will I order that the residue of the estate of the deceased be held as to three fifths for the Jill Day, one fifth for Pamela Maguire and one fifth for Judith Ann McLennan.
66 So far as costs are concerned, the evidence disclosed a somewhat unusual situation in that the retainer of the solicitors for Pamela Maguire and Judith McLennen contained provision for a 25 percent uplift factor if their actions were successful. This was because the matter was run on a "no win no charge" basis. I will hear submissions on orders for costs at a convenient time. Exhibits may be returned.