(4) Except as provided by section 6, a reference in this Act to a party to a de facto relationship includes a reference to a person who, whether before or after the commencement of this subsection, was a party to such a relationship."
16 This definition apart from the provisions of subclause (1) merely reflects the existing state of the law as it had been developed under the De Facto Relationships Act: see Light v Anderson (1992) DFC 95-120 applying Simonis v Perpetual Trustee Co Ltd (1987) 21 NSWLR 677.
17 In his application Mr Chippindale only presented his case as being based upon the existence of a de facto relationship and he did not suggest that there was a close personal relationship within the meaning of that expression in the Act.
18 It is convenient to deal with some of the evidence under the headings referred to in s 4 of the Act.
Duration of the relationship
19 It is to be appreciated in this case that Ms Wyatt denies there was ever a sexual relationship between her and Mr Chippindale. Certainly she asserts in these proceedings that there was no de facto relationship, however, she concedes she spent time with Mr Chippindale.
20 It appears from Mr Chippindale's evidence that he and Ms Wyatt met in 2000 when they were both working at the Birkenhead Point Marina. In his affidavit evidence Mr Chippindale suggested that a sexual relationship commenced in March 2001 and that in June 2001 he started to spend nights at Ms Wyatt's home. It should be appreciated that throughout the period in which Mr Chippindale says there was a de facto relationship between him and Ms Wyatt, Ms Wyatt was married and living with Mr Maddigan at their property at Baulkham Hills.
21 It is also to be appreciated that it is common ground that Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan employed Mr Chippindale to undertake renovations at their property in the years from 2001 to 2005.
22 On his version of events Mr Chippindale says that in 2008 his relationship with Ms Wyatt became difficult and that in February 2009, Ms Wyatt told him that she did not wish to see him again.
Nature and extent of the common residence
23 Mr Chippindale suggested that from March 2001 they commenced a sexual relationship and from June 2001, he and Ms Wyatt spent every night together either on his boat or at her house.
24 The renovations at the property seem to have commenced in late 2002 or early 2003 and they continued until 2004. Mr Chippindale, Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan were all involved in the renovation work and they all agree that they allowed Mr Chippindale to stay at the property from time to time in 2003 and 2004. This was because Mr Chippindale had difficulty driving as he did not have a driving licence and his marriage had ended. According to Ms Wyatt the longest period Mr Chippindale stayed at the property was two weeks and that Mr Maddigan was living at the home when Mr Chippindale stayed there. Mr Chippindale slept in the third bedroom or on the lounge while Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan occupied the main bedroom.
25 A number of witnesses gave evidence as to the extent of the common residence and I will deal with some witnesses which are of assistance in resolving this problem.
26 A witness Julie Constable, was a friend of Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan. She became acquainted with Ms Wyatt in February 2006 and at one stage stayed at the house for 6 months. She gave evidence that Mr Chippindale stayed over night at the home on ten occasions. He did not reside there in this period. This was plainly after the building work was completed. She observed Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan sleeping in the same bedroom and showing each other affection. On occasions she attended special events with Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan when they were present as a couple. She says she did not see anything that would suggest that Mr Chippindale and defendant were in sexual or romantic relationship. Her observations of Mr Chippindale at the house on these ten occasions was that he stayed in a separate room. I accept her evidence.
27 A neighbour, Linda Walton, who had lived next to Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan since August 1999 gave evidence that they had all spent time together socialising. She observed Mr Chippindale working on the property and she was aware that he stayed overnight at Ms Wyatt's home from time to time. When the renovations were completed she observed Mr Chippindale calling in at Ms Wyatt's home. Mr Chippindale did some work on her own house and at one stage in 2007 she let him stay in her house for a week to mind it while she was away. Her evidence was acceptable.
28 Ms Wyatt's aunt, Judith Sinclair, gave evidence that in 2001 she was in frequent contact with Ms Wyatt. She recalled an event in October 2005 when Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt, together with other friends, were at a jazz festival at Pearl Beach on the Central Coast. She recalled Mr Chippindale saying that the renovations were nearly finished and once they were completed he would be sailing his boat up the coast. This was in fact what happened.
29 In cross-examination it transpired that she first met Mr Chippindale in 2005 at Birkenhead Point when he told her he was living on his yacht. She was criticised about the length of her conversation with Mr Chippindale but I do not accept that criticism given the nature of the occasion.
30 The mother of Ms Wyatt, Robyn Anstee, also gave evidence. She met Mr Chippindale at Ms Wyatt's home at Baulkham Hills in 2002. She lived about an hour's drive away from her daughter' home and she used to visit her daughter once or twice every six to eight weeks. On one occasion when Mrs Anstee spent about three weeks living at the Baulkham Hills home she noticed that Mr Chippindale was also living there. She was told that Mr Chippindale was a friend who was undertaking renovations and that he had financial problems. She gave evidence that Mr Chippindale would vacate the spare room for her when she stayed at the home and on those occasions he would sleep on a mattress in the living room. Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan would sleep in the main bedroom. Mrs Anstee observed that by 2005 when she moved to Alice Springs most of the renovations had been completed and Mr Chippindale was no longer spending nights at the home. After 2005, she used to return on holidays and she would spend up to a month each year with her daughter. She saw nothing to suggest there was any relationship between Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt other than that they were friends. The only domestic chores she saw Mr Chippindale undertake was when he fed the cat and cleared the table after a meal. Although she was Ms Wyatt's mother and at times became heated during cross-examination, I am satisfied that she gave an accurate account of what she observed.
31 A friend of Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan, Barbara Jackson, also gave evidence for Ms Wyatt. She first met Mr Chippindale when Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan took Mr Chippindale to a jazz festival in 2004. Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan told them that Mr Chippindale had nowhere else to go due to the breakup with his former partner and Mr Chippindale asked if he could stay with Barbara Jackson. She gave evidence that Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan stayed in a room at her home and Mr Chippindale was in a separate guest bedroom. The same thing happened on another occasion. She gave many other instances of Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan being with her and her husband at different locations. There is no reason not to accept her evidence and I do so.
32 It is to be remembered that Mr Maddigan rejoined the Air Force in April 2001. Mr Maddigan was based at an airbase near Sydney, Sydney, up until December 2006. The nature of his work with the Air Force required him to travel extensively and be away from home. The details of Mr Maddigan's posting with the Air Force are set out in exhibit E4 which is compiled from his log books and other documents. I accept that exhibit E4 accurately sets out his movements as they are based upon his service records. There is no basis to suggest that they are not accurate.
33 In June 2002, Mr Maddigan was overseas until the end of July 2002. He was overseas again for a short time in September 2002. He remained at the RAAF Base near Sydney until he was posted to an RAAF Base in Queensland on 1 January 2007. Because he was based in Queensland he qualified for extended leave and he was able to obtain weekend leave to return home.
34 It will be recalled that Mr Chippindale conceded that in 2005 he moved his yacht to the Gold Coast. There is evidence from Mr John Bennett that he had dinner and drinks with Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt at a boat show at the Gold Coast in 2003 and again in late 2004.
35 In 2005 after he moved with his yacht to the Gold Coast, Mr Chippindale agrees that he returned with his yacht to live at Lemon Tree Passage, which is near Port Stephens north of Newcastle.
36 There was evidence given by Shelly Clinton and her partner, Darren Hendrie, who saw Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt at the Lemon Tree Marina. Shelly Clinton recalls meeting Ms Wyatt when she came to Lemon Tree Passage and stayed on Mr Chippindale's yacht for the weekend. She says Mr Chippindale introduced her as his girlfriend. Shelly Clinton observed Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt occasionally over the next two years and saw them on the yacht on weekends. She puts it at mostly every second weekend. Her observations of Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt were such that there was plainly some relationship between them and that they were staying together. Shelly Clinton gave evidence that one evening after they had been drinking everyone went skinny dipping. After that was finished she saw Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt head off for the cubicle where the showers were located.
37 Darren Hendrie confirmed his partner's evidence that Ms Wyatt arrived at Lemon Tree Passage on the weekends in her burgundy Toyota motorcar when she stayed with Mr Chippindale on his yacht.
38 Although Ms Wyatt made some concessions that she did visit Lemon Tree Passage at some time, she suggested that she worked a twelve day roster and she did not visit as frequently as Shelly Clinton and Darren Hendrie alleged. She said that either or both of the skinny dipping episodes and having a shower with Mr Chippindale were not correct. However, she did not deny their allegations that she would stay with Mr Chippindale on his yacht when she visited.
39 Shelly Clinton and Darren Hendrie were believable and they had no reason to favour any particular party. There was a good explanation of how the incident happened and their evidence was wholly believable. Ms Wyatt in this case has a problem not only with the case but presumably with Mr Maddigan about these years. I prefer the evidence of Shelly Clinton and Darren Hendrie to that of Ms Wyatt.
40 Dr Johannes Els gave evidence that from January 2007 to March 2008 when he was at Lemon Tree Passage he saw Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt spend four weekends together on the yacht. Dr Els and his wife had dinner with Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt on two occasions. Ms Wyatt concedes that she met them and was at the same pizza restaurant. Dr Els recalled one occasion when they arrived together. His observation of Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt in the yacht were only of them being on the boat together.
41 It is interesting to note that in his first affidavit Mr Chippindale deals with the commencement of the relationship and living arrangements but does not provide any details thereafter of where they lived. It was left to inference, and later affidavits did not address this absence. The suggestion of how the relationship started gives no detail of the living arrangements.
42 There was evidence from Anne Brammage, the Strata Secretary, that Mr Chippindale had worked on units at Northcote Road, Hornsby in 2006 and 2007. Anne Brammage gave evidence that she held a function following the work on the building at which Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt were present.
43 A consideration of all the evidence does not substantiate Mr Chippindale's claim that he and Ms Wyatt lived together full-time on Mr Chippindale's yacht or at her home at the commencement of the relationship. The independent evidence and observations of the parties and Mr Maddigan at the time the renovations were carried out all point to Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan being together in the main bedroom and Mr Chippindale sleeping in a separate room on the occasions he stayed at the property. Given the intermittent nature of the renovations, which continued for some years, it is likely that Mr Chippindale only spent part of his time at the property and certainly the extent of the renovations would not have meant that he was living at the property on a full-time basis or for any extended period of time - such as one year or two years. Other than various assertions by Mr Chippindale, it is plain that there is no evidence to suggest that he spent time at Ms Wyatt and Mr Maddigan's house when Mr Maddigan was away.
44 It is also plain that after Mr Chippindale moved his yacht, which was in effect his residence, to the Gold Coast in 2005, he was occasionally visited by Ms Wyatt. He moved to Lemon Tree Passage to live on his boat in 2006 and 2007. It is also plain from the evidence that from time to time on weekends Ms Wyatt would drive to Lemon Tree Passage to stay with Mr Chippindale over a weekend.
Whether or not a sexual relationship existed
45 Ms Wyatt denies a sexual relationship existed. However, given the clear evidence that she spent time with Mr Chippindale on his yacht at Lemon Tree Passage such a relationship would in the ordinary course have existed. There are several hundred photos in evidence taken at different times. A large number of them were taken on the same day at the same location at a photo shoot at Bantry Bay from which the Court is asked to infer that Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt had a sexual relationship. There are 108 photos that are said by Mr Chippindale to have been taken by him. According to Ms Wyatt these photos were taken by a photographer, Mark Tabone, who was present with his wife, Jane. The photographs depict Ms Wyatt naked or in various stages of undress in the bush and in an abandoned building at Bantry Bay. Mr Chippindale is not present in any of the photos. According to Ms Wyatt the photos were taken for private purposes for Mr Maddigan's benefit. Although Mr Maddigan said he was aware of the occasion and that the photos were taken for his benefit he did not ever receive them or see them.
46 Ms Wyatt suggested that she had kept these photos at home and that at some stage they went missing from her home. The inference was that at some stage Mr Chippindale, who had access to her home, had taken the photos.
47 Neither Mr Mark Tabone or his wife were called as witnesses by Ms Wyatt. According to her, Mr Tabone did not want to get involved and she did not subpoena him to attend to give evidence, a course which was available to her. Other than saying he took the photos at the photo shoot, Mr Chippindale gives no evidence of the circumstances surrounding it or the purpose of the photo shoot. I am prepared to accept the plaintiff's explanations of the photo shoot at Bantry Bay.
48 There were 21 photos of Ms Wyatt in a spa bath in which she appeared to be naked and inebriated. Ms Wyatt had no recollection of this event. Mr Chippindale claims that he took these photos when they were away together.
49 There were another 10 photos of Ms Wyatt all taken at the same location and depicting Ms Wyatt on a bed naked in various poses. Ms Wyatt cannot recall the occasion.
50 There were 10 photos showing Ms Wyatt playing golf. There are other photographs depicting a concert in a vineyard, some whales, Floriade in Canberra, photos of a boat and one photo of Ms Wyatt holding some flowers. These photos were taken at events where Ms Wyatt concedes that Mr Chippindale and she were present together.
51 There are a number of photos of Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt taken on Mr Chippindale's yacht. Some photos depict Ms Wyatt wrapped in a towel and another of her cooking a meal on the yacht. See for example, photos 65, 67, 224. These domestic scenes appear to indicate more than just a photo shoot at Bantry Bay early in their relationship.
52 There was also cross examination of Ms Wyatt concerning clothes which were alleged to have been left by her on Mr Chippindale's Yacht. She denied this and Mr Chippindale did not give evidence of them having been left on the boat.
53 Plainly, in my view, there was a casual sexual relationship between Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt.
The degree of financial interdependence and any arrangements for support between the parties
54 There is no suggestion that the parties supported each other apart from the arrangement for the building work, which was one which involved payment for work done by Mr Chippindale. I will return to this aspect when considering the claims for building work. Plainly, at Mr Chippindale's request, many payments were made at Mr Chippindale's direction no doubt to suit his own purposes.
The ownership, use and acquisition of property
55 There is no evidence to suggest the ownership, use and acquisition of property together. Mr Chippindale assisted Ms Wyatt's business of Boatique at one stage by building a stand for it at a boat show. There is little evidence of any real involvement in that business.
The degree of mutual commitment to a shared life
56 This aspect is denied by Ms Wyatt but it obviously played an important part in Mr Chippindale's life. However, it is also plain that Ms Wyatt had a firm commitment to Mr Maddigan which has continued to this day and they plan in the future to have children together.
The care and support of children
57 Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt have no children. Mr Chippindale suggested that Ms Wyatt had two miscarriages during the course of their relationship. There is no independent evidence on this aspect and Ms Wyatt denies Mr Chippindale's suggestion. The only occasion when she had a miscarriage was when she and Mr Maddigan tried to have a child by IVF. Ms Wyatt's evidence was that she was infertile and unable to conceive without the assistance of IVF. She tendered a report from a doctor concerned with the treatment. She had received IVF treatment which unfortunately resulted in a miscarriage.
58 Having regard to this history, I do not accept Mr Chippindale's uncorroborated assertions in respect of the two miscarriages.
The performance of household duties
59 Given the minimal evidence of the actual time the parties might have spent in a household together there is no relevant evidence on this aspect.
Reputation and public aspects of the relationship
60 The evidence of the witnesses at Lemon Tree Passage that they observed Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt in public as a couple was obviously correct. A number of other witness were called by Mr Chippindale, who reported what had been told to them by Mr Chippindale, and suggested that Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt were a couple. Surprisingly there are no photos of Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt as a couple on family occasions or out with friends. Apart from the evidence of the witnesses at Lemon Tree Passage, there is no evidence of substance on this aspect.
Discussion
61 In this matter it seems clear that throughout the period of the relationship between Mr Chippindale and Ms Wyatt, Ms Wyatt was married. The marriage was important to her and it is plain it continues to this day. In my view the evidence indicates that Mr Chippindale had an affair with Ms Wyatt which was short lived and involved no permanent residence or household together.
62 Having regard to this aspect and the other matters I have mentioned I am of the view that there was no de facto relationship between the parties.
63 However, in case someone else may take a different view, I record the parties' assets at the commencement and conclusion of the alleged relationship.
64 During June 2001, Ms Wyatt's financial circumstances were as follows:
Assets Estimate
Property at Baulkham Hills $141,500
Savings $1,000
Self Managed Superannuation Fund $11,500