During the course of the night, you drank two thirds of a bottle of Bundaberg Rum and half a slab of beer. It is not disputed that you became significantly intoxicated. The victim only had one drink, as she was still breastfeeding.
Of importance, she said that before you and she went to bed together, at about 1.00 am, whilst you were drinking, you were talking about your mother. You told her that you had pneumonia on three occasions when you were young, about seven, and were hospitalised on one occasion. You said that both your legs were broken, just after you had learnt to walk and that, as a very young boy, you spent time in callipers. You were sent to your grandmother's home, as a teen, and raised by her, for some time. Your partner continued:
'The anger towards his mother was more in body language and looks - he seemed disgusted that his mother could allow things to happen to him and he felt she loved him less than his brothers and sisters. He doesn't know who his biological father was and insinuated that he was the product of an affair. There seemed to be some confusion as to whether a rape was involved.'
As I said, you then went to bed at about 1.00 am, while the other two children were in a bed in the same room. Consensual intercourse and other sexual activity commenced. Your partner was still recovering from the caesarean surgery and her stomach muscles were not fully healed. After about an hour, the intercourse started to hurt her and she asked you to stop and suggested that you try again in the morning. However, you continued to penetrate her vagina and on one occasion, her anus, with your penis. Although she was in a large amount of pain, she allowed you to do this, although she continually guided you away from her anus, as she found the penetration too painful.
When you tried to penetrate her anus with your penis on another occasion, the victim clearly said no. However, in spite of saying no to further anal intercourse, after a time, she allowed you to penetrate her anus again, with your penis. She was hoping, as she put it, that the pain would be over quickly. After a few thrusts, it became unbearable and she changed positions.
Consensual sexual activity of one kind or another, continued at various times between 1.00 am and 4.00 am. At about 4.00 am, your partner started crying, due to the pain in her vagina, and you stopped that penetration.
You then lay on your back and stroked your penis, whilst indicating to her that you would like to, again, penetrate her anus with your penis. She said, 'No, anal is painful, I don't want to ... you already did that', and, 'No, it hurts too much'. After then unsuccessfully trying vaginal penetration for a short time, you then kissed her goodnight and moved to your side of the bed.
It would have seemed all that activity was complete, but, shortly thereafter, and without warning, you rolled your partner onto her stomach and pinned her down with your body weight and held her arms above her head, preventing her from moving. You attempted to penetrate her anus with your penis, but she struggled and said, 'Adrian, no ... no, Adrian ... stop it ... no'.
She continued to struggle, by pushing her legs together and moving her bottom, but you grabbed her hips and pushed your penis into her anus. You commenced to thrust your penis in and out of her anus, whilst pushing her head down, into the pillow, telling her, 'It hurts, doesn't it? Say it. It hurts', and forcing her to admit that what you were doing to her was hurting her. She said as you demanded. You then withdrew your penis and ejaculated on the outside of her anus and fell asleep.